Or Whatever They Have When I Die

To the Loved One accessing this in the immediate fallout of my death, I love you, please change the icon to the obituary pic of me Tag list is based on what part of my target audience the post is for Goths: This is for the goths Historians: Historians take note My grieving friends and family: For the bereaved General things I felt were worth saving: Remember me this way

[colubrina]

[nevereverbird]

[tankie-transfeminist]

Today I wanted to talk about Marlow Trottie. Marlow was a 35 year old Black woman living in Louisiana, whose friends and family described as always having "a smile on her face" and as being "literally the sweetest person I’ve ever met!”, according to Them news' Quispe López.

Marlow Trottie was killed on June 8th 2026. She was found dead, alone, in the streets of Alexandria, Louisiana. It was a homicide.

Marlow Trottie was a woman. Her family has contested this, and publicly misgendered her, and many news sites have already deadnamed and misgendered her as well. I fear what her obituary will say. I fear what her gravestone will say even more.

She joins a growing list of other trans women who have been killed simply for existing. Again from Them news, that list now numbers 11 women from the past 3 months alone.

[the-world-go-crazy2025]

in an official document released by trump.

[slitxbagzz]

yo so this is terrifying! let this be a reminder that if yall know me irl, I was never trans. I have always been a dude.

[strawberry-offical]

im not trans but im spreading this everywhere

this is fucking insane.

[jesus-vegetable-offical]

Hey so tbjs is not getting enough reblogs

Trans people please stay safe I love you

[castironwaffleiron]

what the actual fuck

@isuggestrevolution

[holy-roman-empire-official]

Una matina mi sono alzato

E ho trovato l'invasor.

Woke up one morning, and there were soldiers

The invasion had begun.

[laciffo-natas]

I'm sorry wait what the FUCK

[mmmmmmmmicrowave]

OKAY if anyone wants the source i found it: US counterterrorism strategy 2026. From the whitehouse gov page. Im extremely fucking dissapointed. They even classed anti-fascists as a terrorist group. So fucking terrifying i thought this was another tiktok conspiracy theory..

[tankie-transfeminist]

Today I wanted to talk about Kyle Bassinga. Kyle was a 21 year old man from Georgia, whose family described him as "a kind, thoughtful, and smart young man who loved nature, music, and the people around him". Kyle Bassinga was killed on February 18th 2026, just ten days after his birthday. He was found hanging from a tree in a park.

The police ruled it a suicide. The family and local community demanded an investigation. The police refused to change their ruling.

I know this website it too white for this to really go anywhere, but an understanding of the present reality of white supremacy in the United States is just so important to transfeminism here. Lynchings never stopped, white supremacy never went away, you just stopped looking.

[dyllpiccle]

Don’t let them bury me as someone I’m not.

[rogha]

Hey, I reblogged this yesterday and at the time  Ithought the work was really important to just let be on it’s own as a piece of art... But since then some of the notes I saw were bleak and I just want to say that I’m not an expert by any means, I’m just a person whose watched a youtube video or two but as a trans person you don’t have no options when you die. 

What you need is something called an advanced directive - a will is not going to cut it because that won’t some into play until after you’re buried. The youtuber and mortician Caitlin Doughty has a video about it, specifically as it relates to trans people: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PVgumSUZQRI

You need to make sure the right people look after you after death. 

[herewithinthevoid]

every so often something nice happens on the other hellsite 𖹭

[dorbu]

[uncannyannieg]

moon joy !!!

[ms-demeanor]

Hey you know how I said I was going to make a workbook on the kind of bullshit you need to do when someone you love dies? I actually did that.

HERE IS THE VERSION WITH LOTS OF SWEARING AT THE USELESS, SHITTY SITUATION YOU’RE IN.

HERE IS THE VERSION WITH A FAIR AMOUNT OF BLACK HUMOR BUT NO CURSEWORDS.

Featuring Helpful Sections such as:

Death Certificates – What you need, why you need them, and how to get them

Prepare to spend a long and miserable time on the phone

What the Everloving Fuck is Probate

Some Simple Dos and Don’ts

Shitty Mad Libs – Templates for writing Obituaries and Memorials

How to plan a non-religious death party

So you suddenly have to become some sort of hacker or some shit

This is an eighteen page book that you can print out, download, share, and give away; it is meant to be used to collect information about funeral planning and account management after a death OR you can use it BEFORE you die and give people information so they’re not stuck playing Nancy Fucking Drew while trying to keep seventeen cousins who crawled out of the woodwork from gutting each other in front of the fucking casket as they argue about who’s inheriting grandma’s favorite dentures.

It’s not exactly cheerful and it’s full of things that are probably going to feel really fucking raw if you’re processing a fresh death.

I’m sorry! I love you! Death is shitty! I’m trying to laugh about it a little and I hope you can laugh a little too because otherwise we’re all just going to cry together.

Good luck!

(in memory of my weirdo mother and her weirdo siblings who all died too fucking young and left me holding this flaming bag of dogshit)

[ryan-sometimes]

If you're at my funeral and you think it's a little boring, just spice it up. Drink a little too much. Flirt with a few people here and there. Start a fight. It's what I would've wanted

[pinkertoast]

i will Never deactivate. if i die this blog shall remain eternal as a museum of my greatness. a monument of my legacy.

[exuberantocean]

Please call this recession the Trump Slump.

We need to put Trump's name on this.

[exuberantocean]

if ever anything I wrote were to ever go viral, let it be this. Let everyone talk about the Trump Slump. I want to hear this term in the news.

[sporkfan14]

i have developed a much more viceral understanding of why bank robbers were widely regarded as popular heroes in the 1930s

[switchkick]

[thememedaddy]

[gardenxkisses]

[inflagrante-delicatessen]

Halloween isn't even cool and buried yet and I'm already getting "festive" emails

it is no longer enough to advance the arrival of Halloween, thus, despite historical war sense, we must fight on two fronts

extend the holiday

[inflagrante-delicatessen]

Halloween continues until the goat dies.

[wootwona]

since the old version of this post was flagged for 'adult content'...

reblog this post if your account is a trans safe space or owned by a trans person!

along with that, reblog if your account is a trans non-binary spectrum safe space or owned by someone on the trans enby spectrum!