I'd rather be in outer space 🛸
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Monterey Bay Aquarium
Love Begins
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he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
we're not kids anymore.
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@queeerbutch
just a reminder since we never rly stated this before but now it feels relevant.
we are not comfortable with anybody tagging our queer posts as 'q slur' or trigger tagging our queer posts
we are queer. it is a core part of our identity. if you can't rb proudly queer content without censoring it or trigger tagging it, than our queer content isn't for you.
it makes us deeply uncomfortable to see people trigger tagging our core identity.
I am so proud.
My mother, in her mid-50s, just came out as aromantic. She never knew there was a word for what she felt. She asked if this means she's "part of the LGBT now", and I got to happily inform her that there are more letters now, and Aces and Aros are absolutely a part of our community.
It's so important to remember that there are people in generations before us who still don't know themselves, and self-discovery is for any age. They should know they have a community. I am so proud of new, older queers!
it feels like a lot of "progressive" online spaces have really latched onto this ooo boykisser pastel stockings kitty femboy image of GNC men and i have to admit i have concerns about how those spaces would respond to GNC men who either can't or simply don't want to look like that
are these spaces kind and considerate to fat men in skirts? black men with nail polish and lipstick? GNC men with muscles and body hair? gay guys with long hair and beards? GNC trans men who don't want to be "cute"?
this is taking off a little so i'd like to note i deliberately picked these examples so they're not mutually exclusive - there are plenty of GNC black trans bears out there, and for a group of people so influential to gay culture through the drag and ballroom scenes, they feel very underrepresented in these online spaces
"we need more freaky queers!!!" "I'm a freak" crowd when they can barely handle furries and pupmasks
I kinda find it annoying when people openly call themselves a "freak" but put down others for being too weird...it's like an accessory to them that they can take off. some people and critters cannot take that off.
"proud freak" after reblogging a callout post on a transfem for having a puppy mommy kink or whatever tf
-_-
anyway ily kinksters and actual freaks, outcasts... ilyyyy
celebrating my 5 year top surgery anniversary today, so I wanted to draw something that reflects the bliss of feeling your chest for the first time. happy pride 🏳️⚧️⚧️💙🩷🤍
Made in his Image
Available now
Sketch Cleaned up design
dear lord...
me, as I’m rubbing my t gel into my leg: hmm. what if I was cis this whole time
the transsexual angel sitting on my shoulder: who fucking cares. you’re having a good time being on t. either take t as a tranny or take it as a cis dyke. who cares!
me: thanks transsexual angel. are you allowed to reclaim those slurs btw
like in the kindest way possible you don’t have to like the word queer that is 100% up to you but people are going to continue using it
if someone uses the word to refer to you and you say “don’t fucking call me that” you should definitely be listened to and you should not have to identify with a word you strongly dislike. but if you look at a queer group of people that say “hell yeah we’re queer and we love it!” with nothing but disgust in your heart for them, that is. a you problem
Photography by Vasilis Vilaras
TOP BOYS by @QUEERGARDEN
[Begin image description: comic with 4 panels. Panel 1- Title: “Progress Report.” A transfeminine person named Riri undressing in a dressing rooms looks in the mirror in surprise, saying “I have boobs now!”
Caption: coming up on 6 months on HRT, I’ve already noticed some big changes.
Panel 2: 2 people are shown wearing backpacks. The first is a male presenting person looking worried, Riri pre-transition. Dark tentacles spill out of their small backpack, representing anxiety and depression. The second figure is Riri post-transition, femme- presenting and looking calm. They have a bigger backpack with the dark tentacles contained.
Caption: I cry a lot more, but I can handle my emotions so much better, instead of letting them crush me.
Panel 3: post-transition Riri, teary eyed, is in a pose implying they just stopped clutching the sides of their head. Stormclouds roll away in the background. Behind Riri is a line of test tubes, with a new sparkling pink chemical just added to the lineup. Riri says “Oh” in relief.
Caption: It feels like I finally got that one missing chemical my brain chemistry has always needed… my noisy, restless brain can finally calm down.
Panel 4: Riri smiles and hugs themself in blissful euphoria. A bandaid is on their tummy.
Caption: I was so nervous to start HRT, but I feel so much more connected to my body and my emotions now. I love the me I’m becoming. End image description]
most people actively hate trans men more than they hate cis men and it’s 100% bc they can project all of the things they project onto cis men onto trans men and punish us for those projections without any consequence or pushback
And a lot of trans men both accept this treatment and encourage other transmascs + men to bc “if you were a good guy / real feminist you would understand that no level of mistreatment you can suffer is the same as how devastating misogyny and patriarchy is for women”
Being a Real Man™️ means accepting you can Never be hurt Like a Woman Can and somehow this is not Toxic Masculinity but instead True Feminism
it's even worse because a good portion of the transphobia that trans men experience is very deeply rooted in misogyny. but no, we can't experience misogyny or have our oppression based in it because we don't ~identify~ as women. as if oppressors care what we identify as. they can and will weaponize our bodies and their perceptions of them in any way they want.
👏👏👏
part that got cut off ⬇️
Give Us Roses While We’re Still Here Transgender Day of Remembrance // Nov. 20th
This is just a poster I made the other day. I love all of my trans family, and I hope you take the day for remembrance & self care.
