Hello! I'm redoing the intro post because we know more about ourselves now and it would be nice to organise this better (:
We are a very newly discovered system (Have been suspicious for a few months, but only really like, yesterday as of writing this, did we accept it...)
We don't really know our origin as of right now, probably some combination of endogenic-adaptive system-neurogenic-spontaneous system?
We're probably a median system, we're looking into willomancy (is that the correct term? I'm sorry if it isn't!) to create more alters, and we're monoconscious. We don't really have much internal communication, but a little does get through.
Other info under cut. (DNI, alter info, etc.)
DNI : No DNI, just no hate on anyone/thing.
No syscourse or shipcourse please, that isn't what this blog is for.
Other: Hi I'm here... Still sort of nervous about this... incredibly anxious but i think im beginning to accept it (the others being so nice tho does help <3)
All of Xeva's posts will be marked as - Xeva πββ¬
reminder than all system origins are valid, and endogenic, traumagenic, mixed origin, and willogenic systems are not any less plural than one another! π
tips on forming headmates if you're bad at visualization
id : tips on forming headmates if you're bad at visualization
most tulpamancy or willomancy guides tell you to visualize your headmate, and this is a very useful base for forming them!
however, for a lot of people, including myself, visualizing is very difficult. so i've written up some tips for people who struggle with this very thing!
don't visualize your headmate's form, instead visualize something that appears easily in your head, such as your name, or a color!
associate your headmate with a sound instead of an image
do a sound that's easy for you. i personally used a chair squeaking because it draws attention and i can hear it accurately, but anything works!
associate your headmate with a scent instead of an image
these are all ways to avoid visualizing a form for your headmate.
i love that we're not alone that we get to experience this <3 that we get to be here and be happy for onceee <3 AHHHH I LOVE I LOVE BEING PLURALLLLL <3
so today i was fronting as usual, and was talking with one of my friends
they mentioned something that made me very excited, i cant remember exactly what, im pretty sure it was related to one of our special interests
and then guess who showed up
Venus.
in front of one of our friends. just. all of a sudden.
i was just like: VENUS WHY
so. you know.
Phoenix also decided to make an appearence today when one of our friends was talking about something, and something must have brought Phoenix to the front /: somehow
