gabrielle | 35 | virginia quidnunc (n): a person who is eager to know the latest news and gossip. I like a lot of stuff and about 75% of it is marvel. I probably like you, too.
I think what I love most about mythology is that the “Trickster God/Spirit” is an archetypical character found in almost every body of folklore. It’s like “Oh, here’s our God of the Sun, our God of the Sea, our God of Fertility, and our God of Being A Wretched Little Gremlin Who Causes Problems On Purpose”
And that’s a wrap on our first ever be_compromised community con! If you have any feedback, please send to paperairplanesopenwindows at [email protected]
Special thank you to our panelists @alphaflyer , @clintnatasha, @cloud--atlas, @delektorskichick , @quidnunc-life, Jess, and Lazyfish; thanks to @aurorashard for their behind the scenes help; and a HUGE thank you to @paperairplanesopenwindows for organising, modding, panelling, and running this whole thing, you’re a star!
We have the BIG PROMPTATHON coming towards the end of this month over on Dreamwidth, with more writing sprints and writing sessions as requested from con feedback to tie in with this event on the comm discord, and an ongoing ATTF (All The Things Fridays - weekly fandom chats and discussions) on the comm discord, and lots of other plans on the horizon, including for our 15th Annibirthday next year. See you around!
We’ve collected links, recs, mentions, resources, and such from the con (and con chat) below for your entertainment and perusal behind the cut:
Mods Panel:
Hawkeye: My Life as a Weapon (Hawkeye #1-#22) comic series by Matt Fraction and David Aja
the shorter story by CloudAtlas (Marvel, Clint/Natasha)
this soft-lit city series by gsparkle (Marvel, Steve Rogers/Scott Lang)
Anthology by inkvoices (Marvel, Clint/Natasha)
The Thing That Happens To Other People by inkvoices (Sherlock Holmes, Gen)
Bridgerton:
author Mary Balogh - fiction that considers the consequences of the Napoleonic Wars
Author Sarah MacLean’s Bombshells series - fiction described as ‘like Leverage in the Regency time period
Author Georgette Heyer
The Guilded Age by NyxEtoile and OlivesAwl (Marvel, Clint/Natasha)
Hockey Seminar:
Indian Horse by Richard Wagamese - fiction, indigenous hockey player
des plus brillants exploits by daughterofrohan (Heated Rivalry, Shane/Ilya)
let it shatter the walls (for a new sun) by daughterofrohan (Heated Rivalry, Shane/Ilya)
Due to hockey superstition Kyle was exiled to Taiwan - if you’re writing fic, help make "Kyle's Exile to Taiwan" a canonical AO3 tag
Fanfic Queer Joy:
father to son by icoulddothisallday (Marvel, trans T’Challa)
don't go yet (i was finally happy) by lazyfish (Marvel, Clint/Natasha
Writing an Identity Not Your Own: A Guide for Creative Writers by Alex Temblador - book mentioned
https://fanlore.org/wiki/Fanlore and https://fanlore.org/wiki/Slash
Garden in the Mountain series by Lumeleo (The Hobbit)
This Is How You Lose the Time War by Amal El-Mohtar and Max Gladstone
The River Has Roots by Amal El-Mohtar
A Taste of Gold and Iron by Alexandra Rowland
the words i never knew by fenwick (Marvel, Loki & Thor)
Rainbow Crate does special editions of some great queer books; looking at what they published can give you ideas
Barton House:
https://www.tumblr.com/the-barton-farm
https://the-barton-farm.tumblr.com/
https://solrosan.tumblr.com/search/aou-details
After The Rain by AuroraShard (Marvel, Clint/Natasha/Laura)
MCU & Real World:
The Futurist by AlphaFlyer (Marvel, Gen, Tony Stark, Sokovia Accords)
Veni, Vidi, Vici and For the Record by AlphaFlyer (Marvel, on paperwork)
OPCW russian hack - BBC article
Permit A38 by old_chatterhand (Marvel, Gen, on paperwork)
Keeping Tabs by AlphaFlyer (Marvel, Clint)
Mental Health in Fanfic:
Waiting for First Light: My Ongoing Battle with PTSD by Romeo Dallaire - memoir about PTSD
Hollow Your Bones Like a Bird's by scifigrl47 (Marvel, Clint/Coulson)
Disney film Inside Out
Hawkeye: My Life as a Weapon (Hawkeye 1-22) comic series by Matt Fraction and David Aja
MCU film Thunderbolts
Poetry Workshop:
Poet Wendy Cope - The Orange and Other Poems is a lovely little collection
The Orange by Wendy Cope
He tells her by Wendy Cope
Poet Mary Oliver - the Devotions collection was mentioned
Wild Geese by Mary Oliver
Meditations in an Emergency by Cameron Awkward-Rich
One Art by Elizabeth Bishop
The Answer by Carrie Fountain
Fanfic Workshop:
Steering the Craft by Ursula Le Guin
Writing Exercises slides by paperairplanesopenwindows for the workshop
YouTube timers
Now Write book series for more writing exercises
Laura Barton Matters:
love was here (love still is) by DelektorskiChick (Marvel, Clint/Natasha, Clint/Natasha/Laura) - fic and art!
Fragments by samalander (Marvel, Clint/Laura & Natasha)
Hearth by AlphaFlyer (Marvel, Clint/Laura & Natasha)
Tell Me On A Sunday by AlphaFlyer (Marvel, Clint/Laura)
New York Skyline Burning Bright by AuroraShard (Marvel, Clint/Natasha/Laura)
Fire In The Blackberry Fields AuroraShard (Marvel, Clint/Natasha/Laura)
Barton Kids’ Ages thanks to delektorskichick
Writing & Shipping OT3:
X has two hands meme
How to Exclude Specific Relationship Tags on AO3
She Who Must Be Obeyed (And Other Stuff) series by Not_You (Marvel)
A Safety In The End series by CloudAtlas (Marvel, Clint/Natasha/Bucky)
RedStar series by CloudAtlas (Marvel, Clint/Natasha/Bucky)
The Threesome Handbook by Victoria Vantoch
Kimchi Cuddles online comic
polyamory on reddit and FAQ
The Family You Choose by TunaFishChris (Avatar: The Last Airbender)
Wild and What It Seems by Cluegirl (Marvel, Steve/Natasha, Steve/Clint)
Half of the History (We Shall Never Know) by Speranza (Marvel, Steve/Bucky/Peggy, Steve/Bucky/Natasha)
i am on a lonely road and i am travelling (looking for the key to set me free) by iran (Marvel, Steve/Bucky/Natasha)
The zeroh law of thermodynamics by shirilily (Marvel, Fitz/Simmons/Daisy)
all this devotion (i never knew at all) by brightlyburning (Marvel, OT6)
Geometry of the Impossible by Aria (Harry Potter, Remus, Sirius, James, and Lily combinations)
In Your Likeness by Anonymous (Marvel, Clint/Natasha/Sam)
other things i'll never be by limerental (The Witcher)
hold you as the water rushes in by smallblueandloud (Marvel, Clint/Natasha/Laura & Tony)
an introduction of sorts by shatteredhourglass (Marvel, Clint/Natasha/Sam/Steve/Bucky)
The Violet Hour by CloudAtlas (Marvel, Clint/Natasha/Sam)
Heartbeat Lullabies by DopeyTheDwarf (Marvel, Clint/Natasha/Laura)
Misc:
love was here (love still is) by DelektorskiChick (Marvel, Clint/Natasha, Clint/Natasha/Laura) - fic and art!
Viet-Thai 2 Ways: Panang Summer Rolls & Salad recipe
Hollow of Your Hand song by Jeff Black
Soulmate AU series by untune_the_sky (Marvel)
Slow Growth Investmentby arsenicarcher (Arsenic) (Marvel, Clint/Natasha/Coulson)
fanfics by limned
Vantage Point Universe series by Aggie2011 and Arlothia (Marvel, Clint/Natasha)
Sweat by SidheRa (Marvel, Clint/Natasha)
runaways are running the night by anothercover (Marvel, Clint/Natasha/Bucky)
if ever two were one by shellybelle (Marvel, Clint/Natasha)
Can You Hear the Sound of My Heart Exploding? by paperairplanesopenwindows (Leverage)
And My Heart Beats (so that i can hardly speak) by DelektorskiChick (Marvel, Steve/Peggy)
The Three-Body Problem by CloudAtlas (Marvel, Steve/Bucky/Peggy)
The Con ball pit by AuroraShard
Talent is a pursued interest. Anything you're will to work on, you can become good at" - Bob Ross (paraphrased)
Black Jeopardy with Chadwick Boseman - SNL
Dealing with Con Crash article
There were also lots of offers in various panels for sensitivity reads, beta reads, expertise reads and help - your best option is probably to ask in the ‘writing-help’ or ‘beta-wanted’ channels on the comm discord as the easiest way to find out who’s free when!
honestly i think the selling point of romance for me (and where it usually fails to land) is 'can i imagine these people sharing an in-joke'
like, are they in cahoots. can they laugh together. do they have a similar enough or at least complementary enough outlook that they can connect over something being funny (even if it's funny in a fucked up way! sometimes those are the best in-jokes!)
that's not necessarily true love in and of itself, but it does feel like an essential component to me
Lego's Q3 2025 earnings announcement, October 2025
So Lego just posted another monster quarter and everyone's doing the usual "timeless appeal of analog play in the digital age" garbage and like, no, the actual story is that Lego is a privately-held Danish family company that spent the 2000s nearly going bankrupt and came out of it having figured something out that almost nobody in consumer products has figured out, which is that your core IP is the manufacturing tolerance.
Here's what I mean. A Lego brick made in 1958 still clicks perfectly onto a Lego brick made last week. That is not a marketing claim, it's a manufacturing fact, and it's enforced by tolerances measured in like two thousandths of a millimeter — the stud diameter variance on a standard 2x4 brick is famously smaller than most medical device manufacturers hit on parts going inside human bodies. Which sounds like trivia until you realize it's the entire business model: every brick ever made is compatible with every brick that will ever be made, which means the installed base isn't a depreciating asset, it's an appreciating one, because every new set expands what you can do with the bricks already in your kid's bin (and your bin, and your dad's bin in the attic).
Now compare this to basically every other toy category. Hot Wheels from 1972 don't interface with Hot Wheels from 2024 in any meaningful way — they're both little cars, sure, but the track systems have changed, the scales have drifted, the accessories are incompatible. Barbie has gone through probably a dozen body molds. American Girl dolls from the 90s have different proportions than the current ones. The entire video game industry is structured around planned incompatibility — your Switch games don't work on Switch 2, your Xbox 360 discs mostly don't work on Series X. Incompatibility is the business model, it's how you get people to rebuy.
Lego said no. Lego said the brick from 1958 will fit the brick from 2058. And this is insane, if you think about it, because it means they have voluntarily foreclosed on the single most powerful lever in consumer products, which is forcing obsolescence. Every company that sells a durable good spends enormous amounts of R&D figuring out how to make this year's product not work with last year's product without pissing the customer off too much. Apple is a master at this, Microsoft is slightly worse at it, car companies have built entire industries on it (proprietary charging connectors, OBD-II access, right-to-repair fights). Lego just... doesn't do it.
What they get in return — and this is the thing the "timeless analog charm" people miss — is that the brick becomes infrastructure. A Lego brick is not really a toy. It's a piece of durable manufacturing infrastructure that gets distributed into hundreds of millions of homes worldwide, and every new set is basically an expansion pack for an operating system that already has universal install. Which means the network effects are doing most of the work. When a grandparent buys a Lego set for a kid, they're not buying "a toy" in the sense that a Mattel product is a toy — they're depositing compatible substrate into an accumulating household stockpile, and every deposit raises the marginal utility of the next deposit.
This is also why the IP licensing deals (Star Wars, Harry Potter, the recent Nintendo stuff) work for them in a way they work for basically nobody else. When Hasbro does a Star Wars license, they're making Star Wars figures that sit on a shelf. When Lego does a Star Wars license, they're making bricks in Star Wars configurations, which means even if the kid loses interest in Star Wars in six months, the bricks get absorbed into the general pool and keep producing value. The license is temporary, the substrate is permanent, and the substrate was already the valuable part.
The near-death experience in the early 2000s is the instructive piece here, because Lego almost lost this. They went on a diversification binge — theme parks, video games, clothing, Galidor (look it up, it's hilarious) — and they started loosening the tolerances on the actual bricks because the bricks were seen as a commodity and the "brand" was seen as the valuable part. Which is exactly backwards. Jørgen Vig Knudstorp comes in in 2004, basically says the bricks are the company, tightens tolerances back up, narrows the product line, and the company starts printing money again. The takeaway the business press drew was "focus on your core competency" which is such a domesticated reading of what actually happened — the actual lesson is "the boring manufacturing discipline IS the moat, and when you think the brand is the moat, you are about to destroy the company."
Which is interesting because right now there's a huge knockoff market — Mega Bloks, Chinese brands like Lepin (which got sued into oblivion), various others — and they make bricks that are almost compatible with Lego. Almost. And it turns out almost-compatible is actually worse than incompatible, because when a kid tries to fit a knockoff into a real Lego build and the stud is 0.03mm off, the whole structure gets wobbly, and the kid learns not to mix them. The tolerance is a credential. You can counterfeit the shape but you can't counterfeit sub-thousandth precision at scale without becoming, essentially, Lego.
Anyway, the Q3 number is like 13% up year-over-year in a consumer products environment where basically nothing is growing, and the analyst takes are all about "emotional connection" and "intergenerational brand equity" which — sure, fine, those are downstream effects. The upstream cause is that a Danish family spent fifty years obsessing over whether their plastic rectangles were within two thousandths of a millimeter of spec, and it turned out that was the whole game.