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Cool thing posted on Instagram by lawyer Dr Charlotte Proudman
Men think it’s ruder for a woman to say “don’t interrupt me” than it is for them to interrupt her in the first place
hmmm, almost like there’s a theme here
lesbian: i don’t like dick
queers: uhhhhh there’s no way that’s an actual thing, no one could ever not like dick this is obviously just a dumb flimsy excuse to be transphobic, there’s literally no reason a woman in this world could ever get angry about being expected and forced to like dick this is all very reactionary
No one is forcing you to like dick. You just can’t invalidate other people based on having a dick or dating ppl with dicks
I’m so sick of people gaslighting lesbians in this way. Yes, actually, A FUCKTON OF PEOPLE are now saying that lesbians who do not want to have sex with/date (because why would I date someone I wouldn’t have sex with?) trans women are TERFs and/or transphobic. Lesbian sexuality is currently being picked apart on the daily by people who are not lesbians because, duh, lesbians are women so obviously everyone but lesbians should be allowed to define us and our boundaries.
And guess what? It’s horribly awkward and scary for cis lesbians to have to defend and defend and defend something we are born with and can’t help within our own community. It’s horribly awkward and not fun for trans lesbians (most of whom do understand boundaries and are happy with their dating pool) to have to hear lesbians, cis or trans, explain why they don’t want to date them again and again. And when you just blurt out some shit like “some lesbians love dick!!” without context or qualifications - it’s DANGEROUS for all lesbians, cis or trans, because straight dudes are also listening, you homophobic fuckwits. But since I guess it’s fun for everyone else to pick on a group who likely will not and cannot fight back violently and win, the discourse continues.
Anyway, here is what your response should be in this situation:
Lesbian: I would not want to date a trans woman because she has certain primary and secondary sex characteristics that aren’t my jam, but I respect her identity and her right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness and, as a member of the LGBT community, will continue to fight for those things for her so long as she continues to fight for my rights as well
You: Cool. I will never bring this topic up again because I am not a homophobic shitstain.
Lesbian: Cool
Because you know what - this is currently how y'all treat straight people. I see no one going up to straight women enjoying a good dick joke and asking them why they can’t get excited about diving into a muff for trans rights! Or better yet, asking straight dudes why they can’t get excited about sexless relationships with pre-op trans women for trans rights! And if your answer here is “ but straight people aren’t violently transphobic the way that TE- I mean, cis lesbians are”, then boy do I have some news for you…
I think cotton ceiling pushers should be fucking locked up and that is a kindness
agreed! terfs should be locked up for inciting fear and creating a hostile environment for lesbian trans women. distorting the cotton ceiling to make us look like sexual predators. that’s hate speech. go directly to jail before you get any more blood on your hands.
Lmao “make us look like predators” the creator of the cotton ceiling (trans porn star drew deveraux) literally said she “started a movement to get us laid” the name is taken from the same analogy of the glass ceiling, something that women are unfairly kept from and must “break through” to achieve equality. In this case, the “cotton” that would be being broken through is our underwear, the thing you’re being “unfairly kept from” is our vulvas. This will sound like the rapey bullshit it is no matter how you spin it, and even if you wholeheartedly believe that lesbians only reject trans women because we’re actually into you we just don’t realize it because of societal transphobia (which is not the case, many lesbians willingly partner with trans people, just not the ones with dicks unless they’ve been coerced into it, try again) the rethoric would STILL be rapey because “people I want to fuck won’t fuck me because I’m oppressed” still has the goal in mind of getting people who DON’T want to fuck you to do, aka still rapey as fuck.
And blood of our hands? Lmao you just added this for dramatic flavour, women not being into you doesn’t lead to any physical violence that would cover anyone’s hands in blood, shut the hell up.
Delusional drama queens.
How dare lesbians think trans-identified males who appropriate a feminist phrase to refer to their underwear as a barrier to break through are predators.
@rosalesbeausderholle hi Rosa do you have a source on “started a movement to get us laid” quote not that I am doubting you but it would be helpful for my blog, thanks!
@herstoria someone else put it in the comments but there you go
hate when you see women getting excited and passionate about something and watching their men completely blank them and look through them with total disinterest. meanwhile if women stop nurturing and celebrating everything men do for five mins then their men go off and fuck a 22 yr old bc they feelin lonely:((((. wasters.
if you think people are more empathetic to women than men you are straight up fucking delusional. men have proved themself almost INCAPABLE of empathy for women, and this is statistically and empirically supported. they are incapable of understanding that women have an internal life, do not see us as humans with emotions who exist external to them. look at the comments on a post of a man talking about self harm vs a woman. "men's mental health matters too🥺" "I'm proud of you" vs "attention whore" "sideways for attention downwards for results" "ugly bitch trying to get sympathy"
this is what happens for ANYTHING regarding sexual assault, mental health, suffering, trauma.
or an overweight man vs woman "keep your head up king👑" "you got this bro, I believe in you" "these women don't deserve you." (like totally unprompted not discussing relationships) Or often no comments on his weight at all if he's not talking about it. For a woman, no matter WHAT she is posting about "landwhale" "starve yourself" "put down the burger" "kys fat b*tch" and the most vile and insanely cruel comments The amount of threads and forums dedicated to eviscerating degrading and insulting overweight women on places like lolcow and kiwi farms and just social media in general and I genuinely have never seen one for a man. Same thing with things like facial deformities, the comments are unbelievably cruel to these women.
the level of vitriol is not even remotely comparable, and I don't even think it's mostly a double standard. I think they just lack the capacity to feel empathy towards women and perceive them as human and capable of feeling pain. Things are solely perceived in how they relate to them and thought to be performances for men. Women exist to serve them and if they don't give them a boner they don't deserve to be alive. If something, no matter how innocuous, pisses them off in the slightest they don't have a single qualm because they just don't view them as real people and full human beings with internal lives. women having emotions is inherently manipulative, anything they say or do is a performance for men. And like look at things such as the gender credibility gap https://www.tedxmilehigh.com/gender-credibility-gap/ Women are systematically less believed as witnesses in a courtroom, reporters, academic authorities, in claims of sexual assault, discrimination, or harassment.*
Women's reports of pain symptoms are less likely to be believed by doctors, and they are staggering more likely to not receive proper medication, go undiagnosed and untreated. Women are 32% more likely to die post-op if their surgeon is a man. "Womens' pain not taken as seriously as mens' pain. Researchers found that when male and female patients expressed the same amount of pain, observers viewed female patients' pain as less intense "(sciencedaily.com/releases/2021/04/210406164124.htm) "Nearly three-quarters of cases where a disease primarily affects one gender, the so-called “men's diseases” are overfunded, while the “women's diseases” are dramatically underfunded."
https://www.concernusa.org/story/gender-bias-in-healthcare/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/interactive/2022/women-pain-gender-bias-doctors/ https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/gender-bias-in-medical-diagnosis#how-does-it-affect-diagnosis https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/women-and-pain-disparities-in-experience-and-treatment-2017100912562 I could literally go on on this topic forever. The gender empathy gap is a form of epistemic violence against women.
* "Suicidal behaviour and self-harm in women can be viewed by family, health professionals and the community as attention-seeking, manipulative and non-serious, which can negatively influence how young women are treated." (Curtis, 2016) *Men with overweight tend to be perceived as wise or experienced, while women's credibility tends to decrease with excess weight... women seem to experience higher levels of weight stigmatization than men, even at lower levels of excess weight (Flint et al., 2016)
*Women are at greater risk for weight/height discrimination than men (Puhl et al, 2008)
*so many papers on this but "Across the board, women are perceived to be less credible than men. Especially women’s testimonies of rape and sexual harassment are widely trivialized and disregarded, even though reports of sexual abuse are not more likely to be false than reports of other crimes" (Schreurs, 2020) more like Mack, 1993
UN women getting absolutely shit piled over this tweet. YES YES YES. Beat their asses!
Enough with the lies and misinformation. Also TRAs are under this tweet like “The replies highlight why violence against trans women are a problem”
Women who challenge gender ideology aren’t the ones killing trans women. Homocidal males are. Why don’t they focus on eradicating male on male violence instead women’s boundaries.
Also the nerve of featuring rapist Nikki Tutorials
People who ID as transgender are actually less likely to be murdered than the average person. Where’s the UN statistics claiming the opposite?
controversial opinion: transwomen insisting on being included in lesbian communities is why lesbian bars are dying because there’s no point trying to socialize with other lesbians or find a romantically/sexually compatible partner in a “lesbian” bar that’s full of males
lesbian transwomen are still women. if you want cis only lesbian spaces make them!
We did.
They were called “lesbian bars”, and “women’s music festivals”, and “women’s book stores”, and trans activists have hounded them out of existence.
PantheaCon female-only spiritual rites infiltrated by transactivists Sex-specific events are no longer allowed at PantheaCon — not even traditional rites based on exclusively female experiences such as menstruation, which have always been deeply revered in many Pagan traditions
The Fayetteville Goddess Festival has ironically cancelled a lesbian event on the erasure of lesbians due to transactivists complaining it was exclusive.
THE RED TENT: LOST FOREST LODGE has withdrawn their event, The Red Tent Temple from PantheaCon due to “outraged” transactivist protesters arguing the “entire concept is offensive.”
The Nerds with Vaginas Facebook page has been unpublished at least three times by Facebook due to reports from transactivists over their name. This is despite their regular posts declaring themselves pro-trans and explaining that they, the page owners are the nerds with vaginas.
thats right ladies, not even a facebook page!!!!! not allowed!!!!!! they’re still alive for now but goddamn
The last one is hilarious because it absolutely includes trans people with vaginas but that’s not good enough lol
First they demand that women call ourselves people with vaginas, then when we do, they still say it’s transphobic. Definitely has nothing to do with ubiquitous hatred for women though!
Statistically, the pattern of violence in trans women more closely resembles male patterns of violence- meaning, it is extremely more likely for a trans woman to be violent compared to women. Statistically, trans women are the victims of violence at about the same rate as other males, while violence against females is astronomically more prevalent.
Statistically, the pattern of violence in trans men more closely resembles female patterns of violence than male ones- meaning, it is extremely less likely for a trans man to be violent compared to men. Statistically, trans men are the victims of violence at about the same rate as other females.
And by statistically, I mean that per capita, trans women commit roughly the same amount of violence/are subjected to violence at the same rate as other men, while trans men commit roughly the same amount of violence/are subjected to violence at the same rate as other women. Violence against trans women/men and trans men/women will increase or decrease proportionately based on other factors such as race, sexuality, class and access to resources, but there is never a case where women/trans men are privileged over men/trans women. There is never a case where trans women will experience or commit different rates of violence than men of the same race, sexuality and class. There is never a case where trans men will experience or commit different rates of violence than women of the same race, sexuality and class. In most cases, being visibly gender nonconforming- not an invisible “gender identitity” was the cause of hate crimes against trans identified people. It’s important to recognize that according to trans politics, gender nonconformity does not mean that one is trans. A GNC person could be considered “cisgender”- so what does that mean for stats on violence against trans people? I’m inclined to say that most trans hate crimes are actually misogynist and homophobic hate crimes. But I digress.
Let’s isolate and compare statistics only within trans identified people. Trans men are still more likely than trans women to be the victims of a violent crime- in fact, according to that study, trans men, female nonbinary people and “cis” women are all more likely to be assaulted than trans women or male nonbinary people (i.e., “transfemmes”). Unfortunately there have not been any studies on trans intracommunal violence which explicitly names both the perpetrator and the victim; however, simply going off of aforementioned statistics with regards to trans women’s rate of violence versus trans men’s, I would venture to say that trans women are more likely to commit violence against trans men. Even isolated within trans spaces, trans women follow male patterns of violence while trans men experience female patterns of victimization. The reality of this is obscured through studies that either conflate trans women and trans men, or that neglect to inspect patterns of violence between the two.
I have tried to be as clear and concise in all of this thus far, because no one told me these things when I was trans identified. I wish someone had. None of this is hate speech. None of this is cherry picking. These are the statistics that have been backed up time and again. I have not misgendered anyone- however, I would pose a question at the end of all of this that some would consider hateful. If trans men, female nonbinary people and women share an axis of oppression- being female- then wouldn’t it be more helpful to articulate our experiences in common terms? Not in dehumanizing or inaccessible jargon (i.e., “people with cervixes”), not in terms that strip us of our ability to name our own bodies (“frontal holes”), but as women. Women who experience the material reality of our biology in vastly different ways, women who have varied and unique feelings toward our bodies and how we are treated for them, women who dress and act in myriad of ways. Women who are women, not because of how we feel, act, dress, or live, but because we are adult human females. I would also pose another question: is it helpful to call a male a woman who behaves like a male, is treated as a male and who oppresses women like all other males? If you hate read this whole post, I’d encourage you to really consider this before blocking me or replying with the calming mantra “Trans women are women”: who benefits from allowing men to call themselves something they are not? Who benefits from allowing men to redefine the words that describe women’s lived experiences; our reality?
yes maybe, but maybe you also dont understand how psychology works? here are just a few things that might result in someone being more violent than a cis person:
-repressed emotions
-harassment, bullying/ cyber bullying, invalidation
-internalized homophobia or transphobia, usually from outside sources
-non-supportive friends, co-workers, or family
think before you fucking speak dipshit
If repressed emotions, harassment and bullying, invalidation, bigotry and lack of support were the reasons for violence, every single marginalized group in the world would be more violent than privileged groups. But they aren’t. Trans women commit more violence than female people because they are socialized with male privilege, not because they were bullied. Psychology shows that privilege is a precursor for violence. Psychology shows that male people are more desensitized to violence and are more likely to objectify and dehumanize other people— because of male socialization. I’m not interested in giving males a pass for violence against women because they are having an identity crisis.
The surgeon’s [cosmetic surgery] market is imaginary, since there is nothing wrong with women’s faces or bodies that social change won’t cure; so the surgeons depend for their income on warping female self-perception and multiplying female self-hatred.
‘The Beauty Myth’ (1990) by Naomi Wolf
I feel like this tweet perfectly showcases my general objection to the use of the term “Karen” when there’s no male equivalent. A huge part of the reason we’re dying is Trump and his mostly-male cronies, not to mention all the men out there protesting to play golf and get a haircut.
But the soccer moms are an easy target and are partially responsible so, sure, let’s just blame them.
Men are more likely to not wear face masks.
Men aged 19-24 were more likely to break lockdown, a majority of people aged 13-24 were found to be not complying with the hygiene rules.
Men and people under 25 were most likely to believe in Covid misinformation.
Not only is this vitriol towards middle aged women sexist and ageist (for want of a better word), but its also actively harmful, because a lot of people are viewing wearing masks as weak and compliant, which is one of the factors believed to be leading men to not wear masks. A lot of campaigns to get people to wear them are starting to look at the gender difference specifically, and flipping the genders like this is doing nothing but damage.
Also I would like to reiterate how honestly sexist it is that people are just automatically blaming women when all studies I’ve ever seen about demographics complying or not all are saying men are more statistically harmful to the covid prevention effort than women are. The age thing is ridiculous as well when young people are far more harmful.
Ive honestly been looking for a while and I have yet to see any study that suggest middle aged women are even equally likely to be pulling BS than young men, or middle aged men, or young women, let alone predominantly responsible for continued spreading.
And countries lead by a woman, are better facing covid. Like New Zealand and Germany.
Stop blaming women for the actions of men.