Nia's backup blog

[floxi-deactivated20230719]

when a girl with pronouns in her bio goes thru ur terf blog and likes all ur posts

[impalaterf]

^^^ cryptos this is a thing, like, you could be like me and just go off on main once people start catching wind (not as bad as you think, you don’t deserve the people who will turn on you on a dime), but the hive mind is so malicious, there are people I’ve never interacted with ever who’ve blocked me well before I started posting.

As always, any cryptos who follow me, you are ABSOLUTELY allowed to like and interact here as you see fit, and you can dm me (and seems like pretty much any of us) if you want to rant about how you feel. We have all been where you are, and seeing you guys there is just wonderful, it makes me feel not so isolated on this hellsite :)

[empress-hancock]

Yeah please remember, people do comb the notes for their “blocklists” and stuff. People who are obsessively supportive of trans people and even people who are trans have ended up on blocklists for showing up in the notes. This even includes situations where someone reblogged one of our posts to argue with it and then their followers liked their reblog of the post where they argued against us. They check the notes and they do not bother to check why you showed up there.

[inqilabi]

I am so surprised at the rapid acceptance of porn. I mean like what is it, the 70s it hits the market with the film deepthroat. And by late 80s early 90s it’s part of something you give your boyfriend as a gift (see references in popular sitcoms) . And 2000s, you’ve moved on to public acceptance of getting beat during sex. That’s an incredibly rapid regression.

And I swear to God if you reblog this post and compare cave stick figure with boobs to porn, I will make sure you realize you were born without a brain.

[octoburfrost]

"The public censure of women as if we are rabid because we speak without apology about the world in which we live is a strategy of threat that usually works. Men often react to women’s words—speaking and writing—as if they were acts of violence; sometimes men react to women’s words with violence. So we lower our voices. Women whisper. Women apologize. Women shut up. Women trivialize what we know. Women shrink. Women pull back. Most women have experi­enced enough dominance from men—control, violence, insult, contempt—that no threat seems empty."

Andrea Dworkin - Intercourse

[tofanahisjava]

i would like to take this oppertunity to apologize in advance for the assult upon your eyes and soul that i am about to commit.

This made my jaw drop

What happened to missgendering being literal violence and unexcusable?

And also like wtf???

[cliteral-violence-deactivated20]

So he's... Sexualizing a woman he hates, knowing it would be against her wishes?

[radfemfox4-deactivated20230703]

How do these people feel so confident looking absolutely ridiculous?

Wait, I know. Male socialization. The fake praise shoveled onto them at all times also feeds their narcissism. Vile.

[radfemsiouxsie]

Sexualizing a woman who he hates...how incredibly male

[gorlpower]

hellloooooo looking to follow more woc radfems/gender critical blogs 🤩 if ur a woc pleath give this a like/reblog and i’ll follow you basically !!! if you’re not a woc feel free to reblog anyways just to spread it around :) ขอบคุณค่ะ pals

[radfemhagen-deactivated20230507]

Tumblrs being weird again follow my backup @radfemsiouxsie incase my account gets deleted

[transwomenarestillmen-deactivat]

Which one of you silly tumblrinas did this

[perpleja]

Bad news: they fired her

[radfemhagen-deactivated20230507]

Where is Maxine Harlow

[radfemsiouxsie]

Reblogging this for reach where are you maxine

[radfemsiouxsie]

Forgot the name of the tif mcr fan that blocked me but I remember her bio being like "in the process of reclaiming 'mcr fan' slur"and its like...why r gendies so obsessed with reclaiming slurs lmao

[radfemsiouxsie]

My internet tif friend just broke the news her male friend is a tw now 🤢 and apparently they're talking a lot and getting along 🤢

[bakwaaas]

we’re all boring to someone, annoying to someone, ugly to someone, but it’s not that deep

[timtimtara]

[radfemsiouxsie]

Kate bush is for radfems fyi

[fingerlickinbutch-deactivated20]

"what should i find attractive in a trans woman" okay then what should you, as a lesbian, find attractive in a trans GUY? esp post hrt (you're not allowed to say "pussy/uterus/ovaries/weird sexual shit) aaaaaand GO!

Why are you saying this like it’s some sort of gotcha? There isn’t an immense pressure on lesbians to fuck trans men like there is with trans women. If anything, lesbians are encouraged to shun SSA trans men who want to stay in our community.

Lesbians are female homosexuals, so if a trans man is exclusively attracted to other females, he is a lesbian and should be welcomed into our community if that’s what he wants. However, trans women are male. A male who’s exclusively attracted to females is heterosexual and it’s frankly ridiculous that people insist that they can be “lesbians”. It’s an incredibly simple concept that y’all decided to fuck with for your own vanity

[lavenderfeminist]

“You’re not allowed to say “pussy/…weird sexual shit” Buddy this is a question of sexual attraction. You can’t exclude literal primary sex characteristics from sexual attraction. Also the issue of a lesbian not being attracted to natal males is entirely unrelated to a lesbian not being attracted to women who’ve had extensive cosmetic surgery or taken testosterone. I don’t find men attractive AND I don’t find women who’ve had extensive unnecessary surgery attractive. The first is a requirement, the second is a strong preference and principal. Neither of those things is contradictory.

[gallicinvasion]

When you’ve been taught all your life that it’s impolite to refuse, that you’re rude if you say no, then you haven’t been given the tools to vocalize your own boundaries. This means men can (and do) take advantage of your fear of being seen as a bad person. This puts you in harm’s way.

Female socialization is not just inconvenient. It’s dangerous.

[radfemsiouxsie]

Lgb because the T fucked us over and now lesbians and gay men are being called bigots for being homosexual

[bitcch]

i used to freak out over being called a terf but now i realize terf just means someone who acknowledges the reality of sex based oppression so im over it

[radfemsiouxsie]

I wish there was a more mainstream and acceptable of saying hey I'm a lesbian but I don't agree with transgender ideology nor do I want to include males in my sexuality. Like at this point its embarrassing to be apart of the lgbtqiasgdajfhsgfk+ because now everyone thinks I have a gender identity or that I'm open to having sex with males who call themselves women. I wish there was a way to be lgb without the t attaching themselves and ruining everything we've done