transphobes dont see trans women and trans men too differently, they see us all as “trannys” and we can stop trying to give their bigotry microlabels
this just? isnt true?
op is literally the radfem they think is calling them transmisogynistic slurs
thanks for saying “nuh uh” really wraps up the conversation wonderfully 😭 i would love to understand your perspective but you’ve decided to keep it a secret so that i do not know???
im literally a different person im not going to have the exact same perspective as my mutual. i got you though, go into my tag #runeworks , go to the essay i wrote and go from there. its not the exactly what you’re looking for but its insightful if you truly are interested in my perspective. honestly my #runepolitics tag is reflective of my views.
all im getting is that TMA and TME is yet another binary im going to have to face as a non binary person but instead of from the government its from FUCKING TUMBLR? seriously, i get that transfem and transmasc people have different experiences and some trans guys are being weird about it but i cannot find a single thing of yours that talks about intersex or nonbinary people like theyre real people or a single mention of real oppression from Real Life. we can make a new binary because people in tumblr cannot be normal about trans people or we can work on the fact that we’re considered terrorists in the USA and illegal in most countries just for existing.
trans misogyny cant exist if transphobia doesn’t exist so maybe we could work on that first instead of separating our community even more
tw: im gonna talk about some dark things concerning transgender people, if you arent ready to know about it, dont read
you know what? im coming back because im pissed and not at any of you
i wanna clarify that this isnt for just you guys, this is for everyone. every trans person on this hellsite and then some
people are dying
our trans brothers and sisters are dying
there are only five US states that haven’t banned the transgender panic defense, an argument someone can use in court to justify murdering a trans person for no reason other than “they were trans and i didnt like it”
when i say “transphobes” i dont mean the oh so scary radical feminists i mean the people in the fucking Epstien Files who rule half our countries while kidnapping and eating children and we’re one of their next targets
we are literally starting the 8th stage of genocide
i dont fucking care if im tme or tma if i could get gutted in an alleyway and my parents would have to put a different name on my grave while my murderer gets away with it
stop harassing each other for all this stupid tumblr drama and please please please please just focus on not dying? please?
im not surprised anymore when i see another dead trans person on the news. a dead trans child who killed themself because of bullying or their family not being supportive. this is a shared experience other trans people have talked about
delete tumblr if you need to but please… this can matter later. we dont need to fix this now.
this can be undone. a deadname carved into a gravestone cannot
Yes, all trans people are being killed.
Trans women are being killed more.
Why does addressing the material reality of the increased level of danger that trans women experience feel like exclusion to you? Why do you feel the need to try and say "we're all being killed!" As though it's happening equally? You're sitting here talking about how you're pissed that trans women won't stand with you, when trans women WANT to fucking stand with you, but you won't stand with us about the specific forms of violence that we face that other trans people are exempt from.
… i know that
… i am a trans woman
… i never said that it “felt like exclusion”
i make a post about how im scared of being murdered and scared you will die as well, and this is your response? how could you read that post as if im saying it with contempt and not tears? is this division genuinely this important to you?
this?
this is what you talk about?
I am not making a division. The division is in your desire to accuse other trans women of causing a division for talking about their specific forms of oppression. I don't know if you've simply bought into the false narrative that there are trans women going around trying to divide the community just for the fucking fun of it, but what's actually happening is trans women are being systematically harassed and accused of creating divisions... for merely fucking talking about transmisogyny. And you are contributing to that by trying to moralize anyone who stands up for themselves. Do not fucking emotionally police me and tell me what I should feel. Do not fucking tell me that creating a division is more important to me than community protection. What's important to me is making sure that trans women aren't being systematically raped and murdered, and you're sitting here telling me that I'm causing division for??? What??? For not saying that trans men have it equally bad?
You made a categorically incorrect statement in your original post to try and generalize a transmisogynistic experience as though it's general transphobia that affects everyone, and that other trans women need to stop talking about the history of these terms and how they're used, lest they be creating "division." And when called out on this, you went on about how all trans people are dying, and these evil people in your reblogs aren't doing enough to fight the genocide that we're facing because??? What??? We're not saying that trans men have it equally bad? We're talking about the unique forms of oppression that trans women face? You need to realize that you are doing what you're accusing everyone else of. You are the one who is saying that people need to stop advocating for themselves, and instead start advocating in exactly the way you want. Even if you mean it genuinely and without ill intent, everything you're saying here is identical to transmisogynistic dogwhistles, and uncritically repeating dogwhistles will only bolster them.
i cant say anything without you interpreting an entirely new meaning behind it, can i? im not being mean, im not being sarcastic, im not springing a trap on you when i say things or ask questions
the smallest thing i can ask at this point is that you read my posts as closely as possible so you can see that there isnt anything in between the lines
i wish we could talk in person instead of through a screen so you could see my actual emotions and experience and how much i just dont want to see more people die
i guess tumblr isnt a good place to mourn though im sorry for pointing out my fear of genocide














