Love is Radical! (inactive/archive)

Pro-radqueer advocation and support for ALL 🌈🍓

[radicalove]

As of editing this post, the owner has logged out and abandoned this account as he is too drained from the toxicity of the radqueer community/adjacent to continue advocating and engaging further in good faith. This blog now serves as an archive of posts that still contain merit to share with others, but we will not be actively using it to comment, reblog and follow users.

It is possible we will return later, but for now it is in our best interest to step back.

Old intro below:

Welcome to the Radicalove blog! (radical + love)

Ran by a radqueer plural collective known as the [REDACTED]. We use they/he pronouns collectively, most posts will not have a signoff. Formerly radqueerislove Our own blankqueer! | Discord server [yes, it is still active and you may join if you like]

What is radqueer? (shortened to RQ)

Simply put, it stands for radical queer - an ideology/identity that is pro-trans identity and pro-paraphilia, including all non-normative and LGBT+ identities. (more info)

This account aims to provide resources and support towards radqueers & adjacent, and to show the queer community(+the world at large) that we are not what uninformed users make us out to be. We firmly believe that all experiences & identities are valid, and that real love is inherently radqueer! 💜

What is "real" love?

1st Corinthians 13. Love is a selfless and divine energy - one that surpasses anything one may deem "impossible"; one that surpasses all discomfort, law and hate with compassion and understanding. Anything that violates the goodness, happiness or safety of another is not love. Love is NEVER pro-abuse.

We believe love is radqueer because love accepts all and does not seek to have it's own way or be above someone else. Love is love, simply put, and cannot hurt others. So no matter how taboo, weird or "wrong" something appears to be, everyone deserves the right to live, love, be treated with respect, given chances, a home, and express themselves.

While the mods who run this account have their own opinions and biases, we aim to keep this place as open and neutral on stances as it can be. ALL paraphiles, identities, and so on are welcome here, including but not limited to: xenosatanism and it's branches, NIN/transnazi/transharmful/harmed, all contact stances, pro-AI and other beings with "controversial" opinions/beliefs.

Full: https://rentry.co/radicalove

[radicalove]

A long vent directed towards this blog and community (by Rue/SirDerealist)

When we discovered radqueer, I had the idea to make the world a better place to make the RQisLove blog/pages and Discord server to spread radqueer positivity. I was not heavily online before that, we didn't understand the type of weight and drama that happens on tumblr as I had not used it long before except for rarely some art, and basically grew up under a rock. (We should have known though, as even being pro-ship is hard, they will gatekeep you because they view you as a danger)

All of the things here with people picking sides and hate on people is hurting and draining us, with people trying to now bring us down, lie about us, pry us for answers and proof about this or that about people we follow or know, it is like every time we try to explain ourselves (no matter what it is) it only leads to people twisting our words or picking out very random things to make mountains out of molehills and get their followers on different sides. Sometimes they try to say we are using AI to type if they don't understand our words or jump right away to harassment, they could be pro or anti this or that but it doesn't matter, I cannot prove or disprove anything because emotionally-charged assumptions are much louder than we can handle... they will try to get you angry and charged so they can get you to say something mean so they can "prove" now you are a bad person. It is utterly exhausting to deal with. So that is why I am hesitant to say anything to people I'm not on an interpersonal trusted level with, that is one reason we are hesitant to trust people, talk about our sides, make callouts or anything like that, because it always feels non-productive to us no matter who is in the wrong.

My host made the "statement" doc on Perseus to help Husked with theirs but I do not agree that is what we should have done, I am considering deleting it but I am scared people will just then say we are trying to hide things or come after us further, but really, we never signed up for this sort of thing nor were we ready to face it. Well I just today let Monika back in my server, and now I am getting people being rude to me for it and begging me for answers I am not obligated to give and that is what sparked this post. When all I am doing is stretching out my hand to someone who asked to be accepted. At times it even makes me want to take down the blog and server entirely so I can ignore all of it but I know I am doing it for some of those people who need the support and want their radqueer questions answered... so I am of the mindset that I refuse to take it down and let oppressors win. However, I may have to make more of an effort to instead make things private or leave radqueer community entirely and branch out in other places, it may honestly be the right thing for me to do right now is abandon my project and I am really seeing some of my system members can't hold their tongue or help run this appropriately either.

I do not want to be personally involved with anyone here, at the end of the day I am a disabled plural person, I am just trying my best, and nobody seems to be able to respect that. They choose to see everything we say as to get some kind of reaction, attention, anything they can't wrap their heads around because it is not the normal expectation, that can really wear and tear on a person's sense of self-worth. Who we are is not even the radqueer norm, which I myself don't understand but it is how it is. I am not somehow wrong or evil for being kind to people no matter how its spun how evil that person I am kind to is. I am just a guy trying to make people happier. That is ALL I wanted to do from the start. But apparently that is not what people do and we should just kill or shun everyone we don't like or agree with? No, no, no. I will never EVER be like that.

I will have to say, our experience on this site and in this community has been a terrible one. Since the very start, all the way to early/mid last year, we were accused of lots of things and told to kill ourselves because we questioned someone who was anti-AI harassing someone else and asked them to consider all perspectives. Ok, well apparently that made us an Earth-hating murderer. Then later on got involved with these people like Monika and Perseus and Husked and everything. So now I guess that makes us groomers and apologists too. We got a blog termed just for posting transID flags too, during the peak of our hyperfixation on the flags and terms, it was all gone in an instant. Don't get me wrong, I am glad to make the maybe 2 or 3 genuine acquaintances through some of these things who more align with our beliefs, but I feel like all the other dozens of negativity makes it not worth it. And I CANNOT allow ourselves as a plural system to get roped into things, be exposed to harmful ideas, engage with drama, feed the emotional narrative, etc. That is NOT what we came here to do. And frankly, this blog is not even for radqueers, it is for antis to learn about radqueer. It is for the people on antiradqueer sub to reconsider how they treat people, etc. It is for YOU guys to RECONSIDER how you TREAT PEOPLE. But what is the point in teaching them about it... if they really are just going to find themselves in a space where they will be groomed, harassed, and hated? Can not any of you control yourselves and think in a compassionate manner?

End of vent. I don't know what the future of any of this holds you could see us deactivate in a week or just continue reposting stuff.

[star-----light]

hello rq tumblr:)

recently i've picked up rq blinkie collecting as a hobby and noticed that a lot of blinkies in the rqc seemingly go missing due to lack of archival. currently i have made a rentry that aims to attempt to archive every blinkie that i possibly can from the rqc warning for flashing images on this rentry

RADICAL BLINKIES

radqueer blinkie archive

currenty there are about roughly 800 or so blinkies in my current archival and am looking to add more. feel free to suggest blinkies to add in my ask box (or even dms) rules for blinkie archival:

blinkies have to be made by someone who is either rq, adjacent or neutral. i will not add blinkies that are made by antis out of their respect. the blinkies also have to be for a rq audience

blinkies should be rq themed. i'm not going to add unrelated blinkies even if they are made by a rq

you can submit your own blinkies, you will be credited by your tumblr user (unless stated otherwise)

if you have any issues with the archive please reach out to me. blinkies can be taken off the rentry if requested of course

i am always looking for new blinkies to add. i spend hours surfing through the rq tags to find any. it would be a great help if you guys could help me with that. however please be patient with me as i am disabled and slow when it comes to adding stuff sometimes

!! also !! looking for a website that's not rentry to put the blinkies on. rentry is really slow sometimes and i recently was going to go with neocities but my website was taken down before i even put 10 blinkies on the website

[derealitysys-deactivated2025082]

Antis, please stop getting info about radqueers/proshippers/transids from other antis. thats how ecochambers work. If you want to know something about the radqueer community, ask an actual radqueer.

For example, we're strongly anti-xenosatanist but we still ask xenosatanists if we want to know something about them.

You're not going to get radqueer cooties from talking to the people that you talk about.

[pararecovery]

Recovery from paraphilic disorder is often about learning self-acceptance, developing coping skills, setting boundaries, processing trauma, reducing harm, and taking responsibility. It's not about making someone "get rid of" their paraphilia. Paraphilias, by themselves, are not inherently dangerous or harmful! Yes, that means even the ones that people think are "gross."

[radqfess]

Sometimes I still feel weird about transblack people as a cisblack person.. Especially when they say the N word... But I'm working on not feeling this way towards them because at the end of the day their identity doesn't effect me or harms me I'm anyway..

[radicalove]

Thank you for being respectful! Talking to transblack beings, and supportive cisblack beings may really help you understand more ^^

[littlebarrelofmonkeys]

hi! im very curious about what being transblack means to you? and how/when did you realize thats what you were. i am cisblack myself and i just want to understand better. but i hope this doesnt come off as rude in any way 🥹 im generally very open minded when it comes to other identities

this may sound stupid in retrospect, but what made me start visualizing myself this way was my attachment to kittydog. her, as well as other black youtubers and streamers affected how i perceived myself how i wanted to look. eventually, the exact look came to me and i can visualize myself every time i close my eyes. i feel more comfortable this way. i feel naturally disconnected with online personalities of any other race, when i watch black youtubers mention their black audience specifically, i feel at home. i think its a mix of having a childhood that paralleled stereotypical african american lower class childhoods and this natural connection i have with black internet personalities that made me visualize myself this way and really resonate with those experiences. i in no way want to compare myself with victims of racism, as i have never personally experienced systemic racism. as someone who is biologically not black, my struggles will never compare to those of cisblack individuals.

being transblack means not only identifying as black, but being able to resonate with black experiences and being able to be a good ally. if you identify with a community, you are going to have to be prepared to defend that community.

ever since i saw myself for the first time, I've been having pretty bad dysphoria. on most days its fine, but on other days it gets pretty bad. i cut my hair so that i don't have to feel the texture against my skin. since i can't really avoid looking at my skin without closing my eyes, i just imagine my head as looking like the real me and that puts the dysphoria at bay. when i close my eyes and picture my whole body looking how it's supposed to look, i get euphoric and tingly and happy inside. ^^ if you have any more questions, feel free to ask!!

[blinkies by @/ur-brother]

[loiter-rex]

Stance Coin: RadYume 🍓☁️

or: radyumeship, radical yumeshipper, radical yumeshipping

A fiction/selfship stance centered around radically shipping yourself with a fictional character or factual being.

This stance is pro:

Freedom in fiction

Non-sharing shippers (peaceful AND toxic)

Voidsharing shippers

RPF yumeshippers

Possessive, neurotic, and “delusional” shippers

TransDating beings

Fictoromantics, fictosexuals, and fictophiles

Shippers who are in a real relationship with their (n)f/o and feel that the “yumeship” term is too simple and underrepresents the significance their relationship holds

Shippers who are actively searching for an introject/transcharacter/transperson/kin/IRL of their partner to form a relationship with

Shippers who hold their doubles in a spiteful, hateful, or otherwise negative regard

Shippers who deny the existence or validity of their doubles

Shippers who have delusional attachments to their partner

Dark yumeships (age gap, incest, cross-species, etcetera)

Yumeshipping with transfictional beings (or: referring to your relationship with a transfictional being as a yumeship)

This stance is neutral on:

Shippers harassing their doubles. It is up to the individual to decide if they are pro or anti harassment

This stance is anti:

Unsolicited reality checks

Anyone can identify with this stance if they find that they align with it.

This stance is not strictly aligned with radqueer, meaning that you do not have to be radqueer to be a radyume.

[myceliumatter]

you can stomp your feet about it all you want but you genuinely can't attribute generic Good Person Traits/Opinions™ to your in-group/community/aesthetic when they have nothing to do with it. you can't "no true scotsman" therians who use ai because ai has nothing to do with being an animal and there is no other word for "identifying as an animal (and also sometimes you use websites)". you can't say you have to be anti ai to be radqueer (???). you can't say you have to be pro or anti kink to call yourself an age regressor because that's a basic verb !!! you don't have to interact with people whose opinions you disagree with but we can't claim you can't be a furry if you don't support israel or whatever because that's meaningless

[idlebrains]

we need more Radqueer artists.

and I don't just mean drawing, I mean writing, cosplay and costume making, music, literally anything that is art. yes I wanna see that sculpture you made, yes I think you should go on to make a animated series, literally do what your heart desires.

do not let the stigma of being radqueer stop you from making a masterpiece.

[diaryofababychristian-blog]

You. Yes, you who is reading this post.

If you feel… - like a failure - frustrated because you kept on feeding yourself with what you think is worthy or will bring you true happiness and satisfaction - tired in pleasing people - empty - like living a double-life - shame and guilt because of your past

Always remember that GOD LOVES YOU. For it is written: “And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love.” (Romans 8:38)

Yes, He loves you that much. <3 It is a love that doesn’t ask anything in return, a love that is unconditional. All we have to do is to accept that love. :) It seems too easy because He made it easy.

I may not know what’s going on in your life now, but I believe you are meant to read this post of mine. Take it as a message from the Lord, reassuring you that He will never leave you or forsake you. Our God is beautiful compassionate God, He will accept even how broken you think you are.

May you be blessed today and in the coming days ahead. #radicalove

[radicalove]

(looking thru our name on tumblr to find this really old post <3) even if you are not Christian or cannot be a part of it due to trauma surrounding religion, know that you are loved.

[thisisparamisia]

Its child predator, not pedophile.

It's beastiality, not zoophilia.

Its corpse desecration, not necrophile.

"You're being pedantic!" People tell me, even those within mental health movements themselves.

So is it pedantic when people point out that narcissistic is not the same as "egotistical/self-absorbed/emotionally abusive"?

Is it pedantic when people point out that psycho, psychopath, and sociopath aren't the same thing as "criminal/abuser"?

Is it pedantic when people point out that schizophrenic, psychosis, and delusional aren't the same as "quirky/lying to oneself"?

Is it pedantic when people point out that ADHD and autism are not the same as "being quirky"?

Is it pedantic when people point out that low/no empathy/sympathy is not the same thing as "being cruel"?

Is it pedantic? Or are you just unwilling to admit that paraphilic disorders are stigmatized, and that thousands of non-offending paraphiles get demonized by your statements?

Is it pedantic? Or are you just unwilling to recognize that most predators do not have para disorders [link], and that even those who do are predatory because they're bad people, not because of their condition?

When will ya'll admit that you're unwilling to give up the concept of an "evil disorder"?

[PT: Is it pedantic? Or are you just unwilling to admit that paraphilic disorders are stigmatized, and that thousands of non-offending paraphiles get demonized by your statements?

Is it pedantic? Or are you just unwilling to recognize that most predators do not have para disorders [link], and that even those who do are predatory because they're bad people, not because of their condition?

When will ya'll admit that you're unwilling to give up the concept of an "evil disorder"?]

[jewish-microwave-laser]

reminder that radical compassion MUST include people you disagree with. you must see that kahanist as a fellow human being. you must understand that that police officer has a family that they care for. you must acknowledge that your maga neighbor has the same basic wants and needs as the rest of us

as a queer person who grew up in ky i can tell you first hand that this is how we deradicalize people: real, human connection and compassion. this doesnt mean that you personally must engage with those who make you uncomfortable or (gd forbid) who are dangerous. but it DOES mean that your friends who do that shouldnt be isolated from your community for doing so

peace activism starts on the level of 1:1 conversations, there's no two ways about it.

[sodomit]

"We should oppose the social norms that restrict what a human body should look like" and "we should not make derogatory comments on bodies of people who choose to conform to the norm" are two things that should coexist.

It's like the "dark woke" shit all over again. No, you will not solve the problem of widespread coercion by adding more coercion. You gotta break the problem at the core, you gotta break the part that says "human body can be criticized and policed". Not just create a micro space where the body you like is praised and the body the establishment likes is despised and you revel in getting to say shaved pubes look unnatural and unhealthy.

What you also don't realize is that people who get most serious and permanent of the procedures you shit on are hated by the wider society too. The society doesn't like breast augmentation or leg lengthening or face lift or whatever else there exists, because the point of beauty standards is to make people suffer, not create more people who fit the standard.

[distorded-angel]

"dni harmful identitys" .. mm (　｀ー´) .. thats not how that works !! ids can make you uncomfortable but they cannot harm you (｀^´*)

[unfamiliar-ghostly-system]

As someone who is an ex-radqueer, I'd like to say that you can't believe in radqueer ideology unless you are in a really dark place mentally.

It's a community formed around warped views on consent and relationships, stereotypes about disabled people and people of colour, and harmful views on self perception and identity.

The tags is a collection of people talking about harmful and toxic relationships, how they hate themselves and want to be hurt, and once in a while the idolification of awful people! But in all seriousness, it's the most depressing fucking place and when you're "in it" you can't even realise that.

And unfortunately a lot of these people are minors or young adults.

[radicalove]

This is misinformation. We have all had our dark places, yes, and we've been there personally but we've also been out of it and stayed radqueer. We were radqueer even before we knew what it was 10 year ago (before it was coined but have the same beliefs). We had paras, trans IDs and thought about ourselves the way a radqueer might. We've always been pro-accepting people where they're at, our views about identity, etc. so you don't need to be mentally in a bad space to be radically queer... you can actually be quite a happy/nice person. And we've met plenty of them! I think what you're saying alone is a stereotype, trying to excuse radqueer as something that can't exist unless it's either for trolling or because someone was groomed into it. Maybe our views are just... not the mainstream? Because that's kinda the point? That doesn't mean they are warped, they're just different. I respect you have a concern or perspective as an ex-radqueer, I may be curious to hear what you have to say about it! However it is not a good thing to dismiss other's positive experiences because of your own didn't go well. Also we understand the radqueer community has toxic folk in it, and post things others don't want to see, we want to say this is the case for any community, and that you can curate your online experience to the best you can. There's nothing wrong with venting, btw

Radqueer was one of the things that helped us feel less depressed... because at the time we were uplifting other people and creating a purpose in our area that was the opposite of depression. imo. -Cinnamon

[allykotetsu]

there is no such thing as a harmful paraphilia!!! No exceptions