I had a strong porn addiction because I was groomed as a child and was made to watch them for obvious reasons. and I literally just hopped to hentai, then to ecchi and then to making my own nsfw art if I /really/ want it and then dropped it all in like a year.
And even now, if I really, really get the urge to watch/see something pornographic, I make my own. I write my own fics and I make my own art. In the worst of my āgive insā I still only read a vanilla hentai. Which I havenāt had any of those give ins in a very long time.
Stopping porn addiction isnāt impossible, if you have trauma you are able to consult a psychologist who will refer you to a capable and specialized therapist who will help you quit it. But general porn addiction CAN be ditched in your own home, it just takes time and effort. And the actual desire to stop.
I stopped before I knew even the genuine evilness of porn. Because itās not only human trafficking that goes behind the scene. Your brain begins normalizing this behavior and considers it the base line for your limits which makes further abuse possible.
I also understand that orgasms do calm down certain issues, and can be used to cope. but you can have an orgasm without porn. In fact, you can indulge your own sexuality with yourself without needing human trafficked pornography which makes your issues worse.
Pornography is bad for you, bad for everyone. Itās evil, itās human beings being abused for monetary gain. It fucks up your brain, your expectations, your capabilities of performing in bed, while it keeps using you to further itās trafficking schemes.
Why do you think porn sites are free? Where do you think the money comes from if itās all free? How come you can all sorts of pretend rape, to genuine rape? Or even down right murder?
In 2016-17 ish I donāt exactly remember, I was contacted online by a Muslim who found me in a pro lgb group and sent me a link to an xhamster video of a couple of who I assume lesbanese (from the accent) men putting fire crackers in a gay manās asshole and litting it up as a threat. You can guess how that ended. How many other videos you are watching are the exact same violence just less visibly?
How many āpseudo rapeā videos out there are actually rape? Or corrective rape? Or minors involved? How many of these clips are of victims of domestic violence who have these videos of their rape being puplished without their knowledge?
Anyone who thinks pornography isnāt as evil and we are just prude old hags needs to understand the literal slavery that goes into these sites.
And thatās NOT just free sites either.
Paid for sites and content is still run by abusers and trafficked victims. Many ex porn stars worked for paid membership sites. Not to mention that hyper sexuality is a sign of mental issues. How many of these girls are actually doing it and selling it out of their own choice and not to have food or pay rent? How many of these girls are just used to being sexually exploited and cannot cope in society so the continue this path???
Watch this video of a sex trafficking victims who expresses how she didnāt know any other type of āloveā
https://youtu.be/zQFOrwyFopA
Porn is evil. Porn needs to die out. Itās not a matter of opinion. Itās not a matter of life style of view points. Itās the objectively evil.
