[beardedmrbean]

[slumsaintt]

[unreadable]

[exposenature]

[depsidase]

[rocedmed]

[depsidase]

[important-cat-pics]

[wetheurban]

Nobody talks about how much growth changes your social life. What you want to talk about changes. Where you want to spend your time changes. What you need from relationships changes.

[kosmogrl]

[wetheurban]

I know you’re tired, but be gentle with yourself. You’re doing a good job.

[wholesome-animal-images]

[depsidase]

[str-ngeloop]

it's called the whether because it depends

[wetheurban]

You deserve a career that leaves you with the time and energy to actually enjoy your life.

[peri]

digital selfharm is real. do NOT check up on that ex-partner/ex-friend. do NOT reread those old messages/conversations that you know will hurt your feelings all over again or that will otherwise make you feel like shit. do NOT block evade to see if you’re being talked about. inhale. exhale. let it pass and you’ll be better for it.

[luna-azzurra]

Something neuroscience-y that helps with prose: attention is selective. A character will not notice everything in a room. They will notice what matters to their goal, fear, desire, training, wound, or obsession. A jealous character notices hands. a hungry character notices food. A soldier notices exits. A lonely character notices pairs. Description becomes character when attention has a bias.