We build too many walls and not enough bridges

Kat. Just a girl, who loves music, books & heartbreaking lovestories I'd much rather be "too sensitive " than whatever the fuck has happened to half of humanity

[hollanovfuckoff]

Me looking at the new blog to follow, but finding only straight/poly/they are not sure content on their dash

[actuallysara]

New/old photo of Hudson Williams and Connor Storrie at the Heated Rivalry 2025 (via mara_vox)

[hudconcentral]

He could've also meant Seine Connor which in French means a river in Paris kind of like the one in Egypt some people are swimming in rn

[readingkat]

HE SAID IT

RELATIONSHIP. Not friendship. RELATIONSHIP.

Loud and clear.

No hesitation. No awkwardness. No tension.

Just pure pride, joy and happiness♥️

And he was looking at their picture with the biggest smile on his face:

And thats all I need to know♥️

[hollanov26]

For the love of all that is good and holy can we please stop making shit up and trying to explain away Hudson’s words and actions? That man did not say sin. If you listen with those two thinks attached to the side of your head it’s plain as day he says seeing. Take that how you want. Whether he meant on screen or on FaceTime or whatever he said SEEING. This isn’t the Rozy vs Rozanov discussion. There’s nothing muffled there’s full enunciation SEEING.

[serenthelioness]

Hudson at the Bell Media Upfronts

When did you see Connor, Hudson?

And did you catch something else that wasn’t said? Interesting mention or lack thereof in regards to family at the CSAs.

[actuallysara]

Hudson Williams at the 2026 Bell Media Upfront talking about books, Heated Rivalry and his favourite things to do in BC | June 4, 2026 (via etalk)

[readingkat]

It gets to a point..

The fact that some people rather believe that Hudson is an absolute jerk who treats his " girlfriend " like shit and therefore get angry at him than to be willing to change their minds about K and what role she plays in his life, tells me everything I need to know about the state of this fandom.

And before people come at me: I am not saying he is perfect or put him on a pedestal. And, since I know people like to say this or play the misogyny card, without even knowing what misogyny actually means 🙃,its also not criticizing K .

But the fact that so many people can see all the tension, his cold behaviour, her annoyance ,the way they both look uncomfortable all the time, but the only conclusion for these people is : Hudson is a jerk, he needs to make a decision, his behaviour gives them the ick, K deserves better.. and yes these are all the things I had to read in the last days.

I think I explained my POV a few times: I think that H and C are a couple and that K is helping them out as a cover up, buffer, beard or whatever you want to call it at this point.

But she only does it, because thanks to shitty DM and that sus tiktok account, they were both put into that situation, because that girlfriend thing blew up immediatly and they were stuck.

But I think both of their behaviour shows that they are absolutely tired of that situation and pretending and thats exactly why they act the way they act .

And also, the way Hudsons treats women in general, how respectful and supportive he always is. I refuse to believe that he would treat his girlfriend like this. There is simply no way.

So maybe, just maybe, Hudsons behaviour and also of course Ks behaviour is based on the fact that they are both stuck in a situation they both do not want to be in and not because Hudson is a shitty person who is just too much of a coward to make a decision ( yep thats exactly what someone said about him) .

And maybe just maybe it is time to change your POV and trust me, from my own experience and from what some mutuals have told me, a lot of things will begin to make a lot more sense, if you let go of the girlfriend perspective.

Because it gets to a point where its just very obvious what is going on.

If it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck and walks like a duck, maybe it simply is a freaking duck 😉🙃.

[solarielunare]

There is a kind of arrival that makes no sound.

It doesn’t announce anything, doesn’t break the air, doesn’t demand to be understood. It simply happens… as if the world without noticing, stops pushing you forward.

And then that person appears.

Not as an immediate answer but as a calm that settles in slowly, like the soft light of an afternoon that is in no hurry to leave. And everything that once felt like searching begins to look like a path that, in truth, had been leading you here all along.

Destiny, if it knows how to be gentle, doesn´t push two lives into each other. It brings them closer with care, as if it knows there are things that can only be touched once they have stopped trembling.

And one day, without grand promises, without loud signs, their hands meet.

And in that simple moment, something immense happens: there is no longer a need to understand everything.

Holding hands stops being a gesture and becomes a refuge. As if the world, suddenly, becomes less vast. As if everything that once hurt stays a little further away not because it disappears but because it no longer weighs the same.

Walking together is no longer about chasing anything. It is about stopping the escape. It is learning that not everything has to be an unanswered question, that not everything has to hurt in order to be deep.

And then comes that rest that is not the absence of movement, but the presence of peace.

Resting in someone, not as surrender but as finally arriving home after having been lost for a long time.

And destiny, in its softest form, doesn´t say “it was inevitable”.

It says something much sweeter: “you can stay here”.

And staying, with that intertwined hand, feels like the only truth that never needed explanation. H^^py day everyone ☺️🌞🌛

[jovan88]

Okay ya’ll. I’m gonna have to add an exception to my rule of never posting about K on my blog. But only this one time. I don’t like her energy or the energy and the behavior of her glazers. It’s just so dark and chaotic and I don’t want to invite that in to infect my space. However, I had a thought regarding her appearance at csa that I cannot get out of my head so I need to post to let it go and move on.

So, I’ve seen many posts commenting on her choice of attire for the ceremony in comparison to Hudson’s. While some have been really nasty, most have been reasonable critiques. What I noticed is that, unlike her previous appearance, she was not styled at all by a professional. The outfit doesn’t need to be expensive to look expensive. Which makes it obvious that this time, Hudson did not pay for her styling by Anastasia.

Now here’s where the speculation comes in. What if the reason for that is because there isn’t a point to it anymore. With Hudson’s incredibly detached and cold performance that night, it seems bare minimum has hit a new low. His photo dump honestly reinforced that as well. He kept with the same pattern as usual: talk about her but mention Connor right after. Never let people forget that Connor is always on his mind and her presence doesn’t change that. Make sure everyone knows where his heart is.

Now when I say that there isn’t a point in using his connections/money to style her, I’m alluding to the possibility that this may well be the last event we see her in. I mean, he still isn’t rich yet and I know that styling isn’t cheap so why bother if the charade is ending soon. I think that’s also part of the reason he put so little effort in to the performance this time. He really is done.

These next few weeks are gonna be interesting so imma continue to sit back and observe.

[kindahoping4forever]

5SOS: sayuwami

[serenthelioness]

In All Seriousness…Why?

I truly am buying into my own theory that Hudson is hyper aware of avoiding things that might make Connor doubt his place in his life or feel uncomfortable. Our sensitive Pisces man.

Why do this - and I don’t think this is his chaos monster.

The limited PDA - basically side hugs and JCPenney approved poses - sharing his award with him - talking about him on the red carpet.

Then today with the photos - why post it when he could have so easily have not included anything about Connor and no one would have said anything since he wasn’t there (physically).

Maybe Connor has a finsta that only follows a few people like Bailey, Tayler, and Hudson, so there is a chance he would see it.

I truly don’t think Hudson is doing this for the public - it’s either for Connor or it’s a special rule for himself to always keep Connor centered - especially when they are apart because of work obligations. He even does the Connor heart thing on autographs of their photos

These boys seem to be down bad for each other on some kind of nuclear level.

[readingkat]

He knows EXACTLY what he is doing and I love him so much for it🤭.

Always making clear who his heart belongs to♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[kindahoping4forever]

thedailysauce: "if you're gay you get free tickets to @ 5sos" you heard it here first folks!

[serenthelioness]

Darkness Coming to Light

With success comes ugliness at times. Prepare for that big friend group to get smaller for Hudson. Unfortunately, success and wealth reveals people for who they are, including those around the successful person.

We’ve seen that Hudson has not been impacted by fame in his personality- he still comes across as fairly normal. If anything, he seems to be actively working to stay that way.

Unfortunately, we’ve seen in the past few weeks the same is not true for his friend group. I wrote about Hudson outgrowing his old Vancouver friend group recently and with his historic win Sunday, it seems even more relevant. It would actually be odd if some of his friend circle didn’t resort to this behavior - it’s sadly a natural human response in some, especially since Hudson’s life is taking him further away. People don’t like it when you no longer fit into the box they have for you. We know Hudson is going to be spending more time in LA, New York, and around the world. He has reached a level of public success most will never see, which is especially challenging for people in his group who also aspire to achieve his level of success.

Resentment comes with that success in the form of passive aggressive behavior as an indirect way to express hurt, anger, or a desire for control. It can also manifest as covert hostility such as backhanded compliments or joking comments to belittle the person who has achieved success.

I say all that to say people do this when they see people actively slipping away. Secure people do not act this way. They are actually revealing more about what is happening behind the scenes than they realize. Secure friends would be protecting and congratulating Hudson, not trying to use him for clout and embarrass him. I suspect all the low-budget social media leaking is coming from those elements of his friend group trying to leverage anything they can to keep from losing access. This is somewhat similar to what we’re seeing with the sycophants obsessed with the “partner,” they are now focused on attacking others pointing out how poorly things went on Sunday. Had they had the kind of interaction they had hoped for, they would be basking in the real life proof of true love. Since that didn’t happen, they are pretending the shards of sadness they can find are good signs and ranting about supposed RPF.

The Saving Grace

However, the shortsightedness of these people will bite them eventually because Hudson actually has solid people around him to support his changing life. First and foremost is Connor - the only person on the planet experiencing the exact same thing and who also understands Hudson across all levels. People overlook that Hudson and Connor met as struggling actors and are coming up together. Connor didn’t just appear when Hudson got famous. Also, both he and Hudson seem to be connecting to solid people in the industry who genuinely have their best interests in mind - people who can subtly help them sort out the weirdness that is rearing its head now with Hudson’s personal life.

Hudson is not alone, otherwise these antics might be more effective. He has people who love him that he can trust who will counteract the negativity and help him weed out the chaff. And Hudson has the benefit of a professional team who can neutralize low-level amateur ploys - and that even includes his current management. I wouldn’t be surprised if both he and Connor make management changes over the coming year, which is also a natural progression as they reach a level of career growth that is beyond what their current management is qualified to handle.

While it is frustrating to see these weak attempts by supposed friends to keep Hudson in “his place”, it is part of human nature when money, fame, and power come into play. Be prepared for all kinds of weirdness - and we already have unfortunately with the leaks, fake accounts, etc.

We’ve seen the best way to handle it is to do what Hudson has already done, ignore it!

[readingkat]

Every single word of this 👏 👏

" People do not like it when you no longer fit into the box they have for you "- that is such a mic drop sentence 🎤🎤. DAAAMN.

[readingkat]

It is concerning...

I have been thinking about making this post for a while and I am still not really sure about it, but I need to get this off my chest.

By now I kinda made peace with the fact that some people in this fandom still cannot see the truth and still clinge to the girlfriend thing or this poly shit or whatever head gymnastics I had to read in the last weeks.

How ANYONE can still think this is a real relationship, after all the pics from the CSAs is absolutely beyond me. But you do you.

BUT, what I actually cannot understand, especially about the girlfriend thing, is that people who still clinge to that don't realize how absolutely toxic and unhealthy such a relationship would be.

And I am actually concerned about all these young women who think that this is normal behaviour in a healthy relationship.

When I see the comments on here or other platforms who absolutely celebrate H and K and think they are the couple of the century and think K ist just an absolute baddie ( if I have to read the strongest soldier comment one more time I am gonna flip)and I see that these are often young women between 18 and 25 it actually makes me sick to my stomach.

Because this is DEFINETLY not normal behaviour in a healthy relationship.

If I imagine for one second that this relationship is actually real, than Hudson would be an absolute jerk( I don't think its real, so please do not attack me).

The way he is always so tense around her, the way he ignores her, the way he simply cannot touch her, his fake smile, no kiss,no hug when he won the award, and most of all: his behaviour with Connor.

He would be a walking red flag, if I believe for one second that he is dating K.

And before people come at me with this, maybe they don't like PDA or thats normal for a longterm relationship stuff- NO,JUST NO.

I am in my 30s and had my fair share of relationships ,good ones and also not so good ones, but never ever behaved one of my boyfriends like this. NEVER.

One of my best friends has been married to her husband for 12 years and there is still so much chemistry and affection between them. Another friend of mine does not really like PDA for many reasons, but she still is affectionate to her boyfriend, even with other people around.

If a relationship is healthy, you can SEE it.

In little gestures, little moments, the body language. But when it comes to H and K there is nothing but tension and awkwardness. So why are they ALWAYS the exception?

I mean if you have to do the wildest head gymnastics or come up with the most insane theories to justify their behaviour, then maybe it is time to change your POV.

Because if you really think that this is a real relationship than you also simply accept that H is an absolute jerk of a boyfriend.

And I personally refuse to think that a man who is so respectful to women, I still think of that one video where he watched the womans drink with hawk eyes, who speaks so highly of women, who literally has a team that is mostly women, would actually treat his girlfriend like this.

So please, all you wonderful ( young) women in this fandom: this is not normal and if you think its normal, please raise your standards. You deserve so much better and a partner who actually cares and respects you 🫂.

And you know who Hudson actually is affectionate with and who he absolutely cares for and shows all the signs of a healthy and stable relationship with? Yes, his ,imo, real partner,Connor.

So if you want to celebrate a relationship and take as an example how a relationship should be,its definetly this one.

This post is inspired by some very emotional conversations with @hollanov26 @this-daydream-is-dangerous-13 @lifelovelaughterlarry @christinaxlr8 @dayleyforlife @evileve007 and @88toujourspur12 about that topic 🫂♥️. Thank you for this.

And feel free to add your thoughts ❤️‍🩹.

[dailyconnorstorrie]

Connor with a fan in Atlanta recently