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The internet tends to talk about adhd/add like it's a fun personality quirk meanwhile at least once a week I worry I'm gonna get fucking fired because of how this fucks with my brain and my ability to do my job.

geek-ramblings

I feel you on this. Like I constantly am worried about job security because it never feels like I’m getting enough done or are being too scatter brained. Even when you get a ton done it feels like maybe it wasn’t fast enough or you could have been faster etc.

thundergrace

Scatter brain oof that's the one! Always distracted. Missing little details. Feeling behind while also somehow jumping too far ahead.

sucede-es

🎨 @pejac_art

mx-dorkboy

Anyway adults saying “I don’t know isn’t an answer” is part of the reason I learned to lie and bluff so well.

mx-dorkboy

Really though, what was that about? I don’t know is a valid answer. It communicates very clearly that the child cannot answer your question, and therefore maybe needs more help understanding the question/situation. Why do you try and push them to give an answer they don’t have? That stresses them out and it makes them feel like they’re being punished for not knowing something.

logically-asexual

i thought i was the only one with an “i don’t know” problem because my parents made it seem it was the strangest and also most horrible thing in the world. i genuinely didn’t know and they got angry and that only blocked my thoughts more which meant i didn’t know the answer to anything else.

kitvalkyrie

THIS ^^^

nyxwoven

Also “I don’t know” is a commonly used sentence for children with ADHD/Autism. We DON’T know why we can’t do our homework. We DON’T know why we can’t eat certain foods sometimes. We DON’T know why we forgot to do a chore. It’s really distressing when you genuinely don’t know and people think you’re just lying or indifferent

parkchanwoohoo

I love lying to kids. It's so fun. My coworker's daughter said she speaks 2 languages and I said I spoke 17,000 and she narrowed her eyes at me and was like "... no you don't" and it was the cutest thing.

The last time I saw her I told her I was a "half-magician" that can only do 50% of a trick, and I showed her how I can tear a piece of paper in two but can't make it come back together, and she got soooo annoyed with me. Absolutely adorable. Lying to children is the best

jamnsketch

oh, the aster blooms

hardmiraclementality

Damn! I love her! ♥️🥺✨

graycatluna

Hey, could you do me a favor?

Could you just RB this?

The little RB statistics chart is so pleasant and stimmy to look at and I want to see what it looks like when it gets really REALLY huge because it makes me think of some deep sea lifeform

melynnwaters

here lemme help

*ahem*

reblog this post to kiss the person you reblogged it from

hope that works :)

graycatluna

THANK YOU THIS IS MAKING MY BRAIN SO HAPPY AAAAAAAAA

THIS IS SO SATISFYING ITS LIKE A GROUP OF PLANKTON OR A RAILWAY CHART...

artificial-father

have some serotonin, as a treat

breathe-rainbow

Just a reminder to everyone that Simon has gone out of his way to continue communication with fans and to let us know updates when he can. There are too many posts criticising him for not releasing more information when we can only imagine the level of work that has gone on behind the scenes. He will release information when he can, he should not be criticised for his contractual obligations or taking his time to finalise details which will be out of his hands. He shared in our grief, he entered our spaces to hear our thoughts and took time out to do interviews. It’s easy to forget that he wasn’t obligated to do any of that, but he still did. I know we’re all excited and a little impatient, but this guy has gone above and beyond. Let’s continue supporting him by showing how grateful we are ♥️

ducksoup17

hey now that it’s disability pride month can you please remember to include people with Down syndrome and other chromosomal defects into your activism. they’re so often left behind. I literally never see anyone spreading Down syndrome awareness that isn’t close family of someone with Down syndrome. They exist and they’re living breathing humans who deserve just as much activism as every other disabled person

beemovieerotica

PSA: bot comments are taking over ao3

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Basic rundown:

They are all 3 sentences long

Perfect grammar, capitalization, and punctuation

Like absolutely flawless English teacher-style writing with only a single exclamation mark, ever

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Please spread the word about this so authors can filter comments and report them accordingly

There has been some speculation about why this is happening at all, and the best guess is that this is a feature that AI-training story-scraping tools are implementing to try and make their browsing traffic look legitimate

rebuilt-likethetemple

Oh no I totally sound like a bot when I comment on fics lmao pls I’m just awkward

cluelessandsapphic

I love how bea and ava's arguments are written. they freely say what is bothering them, not hiding anything. they communicate so well, even without saying anything at times, (which is quite remarkable if you think about it because they haven't known each other that long). both consider the other's feelings, wholly. And, though they may say terrible things in the heat of the moment, they always apologize afterwards. taking responsibly, and communicating instead of causing more problems in their dynamic. my favorite of these is probably from the s2 -- though i love their arguments from s1 as well.

When bea is mad at ava for exposing them, forcing them to relocate, she lets out what is bothering her, ava's selfishness. and though, ava is coming from a good place when she decides to follow Micheal, a part of her is trying to make up for the events of last season, so she tends to "jump head first into danger" as bea puts it. However, bea fails to remember, ava has been bed bound her entire life, she doesn't know any better. bea is not prideful after she yells at ava, she takes accountability and realizes where she is wrong. she apologizes and the pair settles their argument, each taking into account the other's feelings, and ending the argument consoling each other. Creating a safe space, and resembling that of an actual relationship instead of the typical lack of communication trope to create angst and other unnecessary drama. this is one of my favorite scenes in warrior nun, and if it's renewed, I hope to see more of these.

funnytwittertweets

chavisory

[Tweet by Gillian Branstetter reads “If enforcing gender norms requires a constant state of surveillance and censorship then they probably aren’t as biological or innate as you think they are]