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let's put this clear, a man will never be cooler than a butch lesbian
a collective awakening happening on tiktok
isn’t it fascinating how women are socialised to care about aestheticism in literally every single aspect apart from when it comes to men?
of course there’s the obvious ones relating to her own appearance and other women’s: does gold or silver jewellery suit her? is her “colour palette” a winter or a summer? is lipstick shade #49 the perfect nude or does shade #51 suit her better? do her breasts look flattering in a sweetheart neckline or would a halter be better? would a turkey nose job suit her? how should she pose for this instagram photo? how does her body look in this nude?
and women’s conditioned flair for aestheticism bleeds over to every other aspect of her life too: the popularity of pinterest and tumblr among women and girls, her well-decorated bedroom and apartment (meanwhile just look at a male’s living space), her laying out the table and presenting the food perfectly for a nice dinner, or her constantly decorating her place with fresh flowers or changing up decor in line with the seasons, her gravitating towards characters that look “cute”, or her having visual hobbies like arts and crafts, knitting, gardening, jewellery making, pottery, baking, her carrying her polaroid camera everywhere
so, we’re somehow meant to believe males are “ViSuAL cReAtUrEs” when they’re visual about nothing beyond women and girls’ bodies, and were also meant to believe women are NOT visual creatures when it comes to men even though they’re visual about literally everything else?
it’s curious
I'm sex positive in that I think women deserve to have pleasurable sex, they deserve to have orgasms, and they deserve to center their sex life around their own body and their own interests. I support women having whatever sex they like, and I support women having sex with the only goal being their own pleasure. I support women masturbating to feel good, with no guilt or shame or feelings of inadequacy.
My sex positivity is about women having sex that is safe and pleasurable.
i need lesbians to get meaner i think. there’s nothing wrong with being a female homosexual attracted to females and females only. nobody is entitled to relationships, sex, or our sexuality. and you don’t have to apologize to anybody.
... Is that the lipstick lesbian flag? (If no, I'm sorry for the misunderstanding)
Yep! But with glitter ✨
omggg i used to stalk ur blog all the time back in 2022😭 youre just the coolest
I probably answered this really late, but thank youuuuuu 🥺💝
Honestly I’m still bitter that the face of “internalized misogyny” is a socially awkward, tomboyish, usually teenaged girl (who’s blatantly coded as not straight lbr), as opposed to shit like queen bee adult ~beauty gurus~ who get their kicks and clout by viciously attacking other women for their looks, and make money peddling dangerous “weight loss shakes” to 13 year olds
stores will be like THIS IS A SAFE PLACE 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ and then have an entire wall dedicated to harry potter merch
harry potter won’t hurt you he’s not even real
imagine feeling unsafe bc you saw harry potter merch in a store
About that post you dissected:
“gold stars” that come out as later as bi are literally a problem. They most likely knew they were bi but bc they didn’t fuck men they ignored that/refused to admit it.
Like how does a bi women parading as a lesbian prove gold stars are going to end up as bisexual??? It’s just proving bisexuals use lesbianism as a costume 😭
👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼
anyone else gay and only sort of okay at video games?
touched a nerve there, didn't she?
he goes on a whole rant about how her observation is invalid because #NOTALLMEN!!! and then locks the thread from discussion lol
suppressing dissenting opinions or thoughts is a big red flag for a group just fyi
lets start yea? all this coming from the same women who said she couldn't care less about Israeli women getting raped. but lets actually address the post.
women who tried men, didn't like them and came out as gay later are 100000% more likely to still identify as a lesbian beyond age 30
so you think the only true way to be a lesbian is to fuck men to know for sure? gee wonder where I've heard that one before; bis having bad sex with men doesn't make you gay, cope harder; also didn't you argue that lesbians can get drunk and fuck men? Amazing.
whereas Loud Proud "gold stars" have a reputation for deciding they're bi(or even STRAIGHT)some time after 25 when the youth rebellion wears off and they decide they want the Real Relationship they kept themselves "pure" for lol
gold star lesbians arent "pure" we're seen as rape meats, a challenge, ugly dykes, etc. but most of all WE FUCK WOMEN. we aren't virginal or pure so maybe work on your projection.
"true lesbians arent gay until they've fucked men and know for sure", a marvelous take really. the audacity to call us bisexual is just wow. does this much projection come free? or is it an added bonus to fucking men and coping poorly? seethe, die mad that true lesbians don't fuck men ♥️
but lets talk about one of your most repulsive posts:
telling a raped lesbian she’s privileged. REAL LESBIANS GETTING RAPED IS NOT A PRIVILAGE for bisexual women who fucked men and view us with envy. you're an American woman and talking about the global closet? while calling gold stars privileged? i was born in India and constantly worried about arraigned marriages and pregnancy. guess what? never fucked a man. women don't need Western media to know their innate sexualities. and if someone is FORCED into relationships with men (which, you aren't) due to culture then they're STILL gold star lesbians because coercion is rape, and rape doesn't equate to sex. the fact that you use these women to make yourself, a privileged bisexual, feel better is disgusting and possibly the most horrendous thing I've seen yet. stop being jealous of us, stop imitating us, stop projecting on us; you're not a lesbian, and you never will be. stop using lesbians who are less privileged than you as proof of *your* suffering.
even if women don't know what 'gay' is, they KNOW they're exclusively SSA. you don't need Western media, otherwise, conservatives would be right in saying the TV makes people ga,y please.
furthermore we are entrapping vulnerable young women in relationships with men because they think they can't be gay, they've already been soiled :|
they're not gay. this isnt about your projection of sexual purity, it's about being EXCLUSIVELY ssa.
I don't know when "only gold stars are real lesbians" became a popular talking point, but it's brand new to the lesbian community, misogynistic, reactionary and way fucking worse than some bi woman accidentally making lesbian posts for a couple years, my godde.
in what world do you live where this is a popular talking point? by my count there are less than 10 GSL on this website who're open about it; the rest of the "lesbian" community vehemently disregards, shames, and despises us. just because your bisexual feelings are hurt doesn't mean there's some secret lesbian mafia with us bullying you people.
the global closet is HUGE. stop stuffing people back into it
saying lesbian = exclusively ssa isnt shoving anyone into the closet.
this is not a Discourse, I refuse to validate this as a discourse, this is categorically Sexual Harassment aimed at enforcing lesbian sexual purity.
Maintaining the boundary that lesbians don't fuck men isn't sexual harassment or purity, its your homophobia and misogyny speaking. lesbians don't need to try dick, cope.
I have never mentioned whether or not I've fucked men on this platform. It says everything we need to know about your argument that even potentially other Gold Stars could have their dyke cards revoked for basic feminist analysis.
the feminist analysis doesn't dictate lesbian sexuality unless you're a poliliez so; a bisexual woman married to a man came up with the comphet theory and you all act like it is a proven scientific study just because it excuses your bisexuality, erases lesbian sexual orientation, makes you all fetishize us for men while reveling in the fact that you're deconstructing our words, spaces, and dividing us. also, I find it hard to believe you haven't fucked men tbh, or at least don't fantasize about it given you going on record saying lesbians can get drunk and sleep with men. it's projection.
Lastly: I've seen more bisexual women policing lesbians with this nasty "gold star standard" than actual lesbians ourselves and the rest of dykes need to stand up and do something about it. In any other case "bi women sexually harassing lesbians" would rouse us all to arms, but everyone is suffering from Lesbian Insecurity and too afraid of being invalidated to defend anyone else like a bunch of TRAs.
you're quick to call women who've never sucked dick bisexual. to say we're in denial and privileged (despite many of us being from third worlds) and that the only true way to be a lesbian is to fuck men because otherwise you're "pure" and saving yourself for men and will 'likely come out of the rebellion phase and try dick eventually'; your obsession with us is pathetic, and your words only benefit men seeking to rape women; given that you've said you don't care about Jewish women getting raped, and how you said gold stars getting raped are privileged, it's clear you're a lesbian fetishizer who deeply loathes true lesbians. sincerely hope you kill yourself actually.
gold stars dont need to try men to know for sure, they're not privileged either. we didn't grow up in a magical land without homophobia, there is no dyke paradise; if there was, women like you certainly wouldn't exit.
die.
“your body MY choice 🤣” I have a loaded gun and I’m aiming it at you right now and if you take one step closer I’m pulling the trigger
my homework for y’all is to be so wildly unhinged with any man who says this to you that he fears for his life. I’m not kidding. reject liberal feminism and embrace becoming a terrorist