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reminders i need to like, tattoo on my brain:

1. if you feel judged and hurt by others, try sleeping

2. if you feel judgmental and resentful of others, try eating (the classics)

3. if you feel uncomfortable, try showering

4. if you feel directionless and afraid, go sit outside for a bit and maybe then you'll calm down. maybe even a walk if youre feelin crazy

5. take it easy, but by god, take it

anaryllis

oh and how could i forget. final boss. take your fucking medication

the-adventures-of-dave

I dunno guys do you think he’s mad at me for locking him inside or

is-this-fascism

i don't care if it's nazis, mormons, or a bunch of misguided autistic people. if anyone ever tries to tell you your soul is from another planet and you're actually part of the class of impressive people that secretly did everything cool in the world but is now extinct and lives on through your broken genome, you RUN. YOU WILL RUN AWAY. YOU WILL SPRINT FULL SPEED AWAY FROM THAT.

is-this-fascism

grabs you by the shoulders listen. listen to my words. i understand the urge to make fanfiction about yourself and to find a reality in which you're super awesome and great and everyone who hates you is wrong and dumb. i get it. you're better than that. you can love yourself without putting other people down, dehumanizing and generalizing, and retaliating against your oppressors.

there's no NPCs. there's no aliens coming to save us. we're not the next step in human evolution. our hyperconnected nervous systems give us terrible sensory overwhelm more often than they make us geniuses. neurotypical people are sentient, conscious, aware people who are capable of understanding you. we're more the same than we are different. we're more the same than we are different. we're more the same than we are different.

lierdumoa

Also stay away from people who say shit like "sexual attraction and romance addles the mind and makes you crazy and irrational and this is why being aro/ace makes you intellectually superior." I've seen that a couple times times on this hellsite. Stay away from anyone who tries to convince you that your racial identity/cultural identity/gender identity/sexual orientation/neurodivergence/any other intrinsic quality makes you a member of some master race that is inherently superior to the other humans.

You are not immune to exceptionalist propaganda.

softness-and-shattering

No one is lesser, no one is superior. No matter of neurotype or identity or freaking skull shape and jaw angle, nothing never zilch zip nada. Any kind kf subhuman - superhuman rhetoric you run away from and dont look back.

Pride in ones identity is one thing, thinking that makes you better than anyone else is another. Theres a very distinct differrence there.

thepeacefulgarden

Yes to all this.

No, you're not broken.

No, you're not "too much."

Yes, you matter, even though you've been made to feel as if you don't.

Yes, it's frustrating navigating a world that wasn't set up for you, a world that doesn't care about you or honor your needs.

Yes, it's disheartening seeing everyone else seemingly sailing through life and having it all figured out.

Yes, you feel deeply, and you have a highly developed sense of justice.

Yes, you've been told "life isn't fair," and to just accept that life is going to suck, and that's frustrating, because you know it doesn't have to be this way.

Yes, you grew up in a world where hierarchy is what's considered normal.

Yes, you've been made to feel like you're broken, by people who just couldn't meet your needs, and weren't willing to even try. And that sucks.

Yes, it sometimes seems like the people around you are speaking a different language and living by rules that make no sense to you.

Yes, it's lonely when you don't fit in, when your very being seems to set off some kind of alarm bells in other people.

Yes, it's frustrating when you're doing everything you can to fit in and do what you're "supposed to," and no matter what you do or how you do it, you're doing it wrong.

Yes, it sucks that you're expected to meet their needs but they're not expected to even try to meet yours, or meet you in the middle somewhere. That you always have to be the one who needs to change, or to make sacrifices.

But no, you are not an alien (although sometimes it can feel that way.) You are not a superhuman. You are not the only one who has it all figured out. You are not the only one who's not broken. You are not uniquely evolved. And while you are not inferior to everyone else, you are not superior, either. You are enough, and it is enough to be enough. And you don't have to change, or to be someone different, or be above other people, in order to be enough. You are enough right here and now, just the way you are.

ajani

One of my favorite things about biology is that there are so many diagrams like this that look like shitposts if you remove any and all context from them

boarofthenorth100

Enter The Boartex And Find Power Indescripable

adamsmasher

WE WERE ON JEOPARDY!!!!!!!!!!

rouge-the-bat

thank you for coming to my this #mythis

purpleisdebeste

I’m sorry Orpheus i was too harsh on you…

purpleisdebeste

i was in the physics lab today and we were working with lasers, so the Lab Freaks (legal name) were being very careful to stress that we Do Not Turn Around or Look Behind Us because we’ll get extremely blinded by the power of high strength lasers

and i’m not gonna lie it was actually extremely hard to resist turning around. i misjudged orpheus it turns out this isnt extremely easy actually

purpleisdebeste

okay i’ll be honest i 100% looked back at the lasers. actually multiple separate lasers multiple different times. they were pretty

and i didnt get blinded. so clearly lab safety isnt real and you should always risk it cus taking risks is awesome #gambling

but uh. my ass is NOT making it out of the underworld 🔥🔥🔥

overnightshipping

pangur-and-grim

I told my little nephew that I'd wave at his airplane when it flew over my house today, and he very calmly and politely explained that it wouldn't be possible to see me due to the limitations of human vision. I said he just had to squint real hard, and he took a deep breath and went into the toddler version of "see, what you're not understanding–"

pangur-and-grim

fishing-princess

lakemojave

Fishing Lesbian's always putting facts out there she's great i think. It'd be great if she was on tumblr in some capacity

lakemojave

I guess we'll never know.

evangelala-blog

internet friends are kinda like illegally downloaded friends. you don’t get the physical copy but you still get all the great content

eveningflares-deactivated201903

#i’d illegally download you all

leafpool2014-deactivated2020011

reblog if you’d illegally download your followers

alfamangle

freshlypickedmint

i-am-a-fish

I'm glad that people are still having fun on tumblr even after we found out about the frightening ghoul that reblogs posts but doesn't say anything

the-frightening-ghoul

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goopygamer9000

pronouncingitwang

at some point in your life you will be boiling fruit, water, sugar, and lemon juice in a pot to make a syrup or jam. the instructions will tell you to simmer for a certain amt of time. your timer will go off and you will look at the pot and go, "hm, this doesn't look thick enough. maybe i'll let it go for another 10 minutes." this is the devil speaking. it's only so liquid right now because it is at boiling point. it will thicken when it cools down. learn from the follies of my youth and do not let this happen to you

yokowan

at some point in your life you will be making a sauce or a stew in which you need to add cornstarch to thicken it. and you will prepare a slurry of starch in cold water and think "this looks like way too little starch to thicken this amount of liquid." this is the devil speaking. cornstarch instantly polymerizes at 95°C and if you add too much it will turn into an impossibly thick goop.

le-jardin-inculte

at some point in your life you will be making some sort of cream based dessert that requires gelatin to thicken it. and you will soak some gelatin sheets in water and think "this is too few gelatin sheets for this amount of cream." this is the devil speaking. it will thicken in the fridge and if you add too much you will end up with milk jelly

shithowdy

at some point in your life you will be baking cookies. you will take the sheet out after twelve minutes as the recipe instructs and the cookies will still be glistening and soft. "these don't seem cooked enough," you will think to yourself, "i should place them back into the oven until their edges are nice and golden." this is the devil talking. this is how you get dry, overdone cookies. the cookies will continue to bake on the warm sheet for several more minutes and then harden up after sitting on a rack for a while. trust the process. trust the process.

whitachi

at some point in your life you will be adding a small pasta to a soup and you will think "that is not enough small pasta." this is the devil talking. the pasta will absorb the stock and expand. this is how you end up with a soup that is a solid mass of soggy ditalini.

araceil

At some point in your life you will be adding garlic to a dish and you will think "that is not enough garlic." These are angels speaking. They are correct. Add more garlic.

glasspostings

while you were attending therapy i was studying the blade

glasspostings

what do you mean i need better coping mechanisms

dancinbutterfly

>a wild therapist has entered the chat you need an additional coping mechanism studying the blade is a DBT principle called Building Mastery - wherein you engage in anything that is practical during which you gain skill and can actively see yourself progress - which is resilience building technique by which you shore yourself against vulnerability factors that make it harder to regulate emotions and manage activities of daily life and interpersonal interactions effectively. if you continue to study the blade while engaging in therapy, it will in fact make your therapeutic session more effective because having a skill that you pursue builds self-esteem and is a foundation upon which other coping skills can be built. so not better coping skills, blademaster, additional ones. you are already heading in the right direction and you have proven you have the tenacity to apply yourself to one discipline. now show us what you can do when applying yourself to your healing.