Craziest thing about it having undiagnosed quiet bpd is seeing everyone on the internet and in real life of course, baby, care for and love the “impulsive standard bpd” types yet villainize those who have quiet bpd by saying “they did it to themselves, we can’t see their outburst so it’s untrue.” I have been suppressing my emotions in an abusive household from 2013 and only exploded or using the clinical psychologically correct term “split” on my family for the first time ever in may and April of 2025 due to my narcisstic abusive sister quietly dying of a heart attack and everyone ignoring what she did to me for 8 years. So yes I wa triggered by people stating I was “griveing” enough for that MONSTER and praising her,rewriting her influence and history.
