delicious closet queen

[animusbell]

you can't come to my birthday party? aw dang, (remembers it's bad to guilt trip people) this doesn't matter to me at all (remembers to demonstrate that i am affected by you to affirm your positive presence in my life) but while you're away i will die (remembers not to guilt trip again) unpreventably. unrelated to you. don't worry about it. (remembers to express care through actions and not just words) you're in the will.

[annabelle--cane]

what I mean: "sexual intercourse" is as much a social construct as "romantic courtship," and you discover this very quickly as a queer person if you try to talk to able bodied straight cis people who literally think the only thing that counts as Actual Sex is penis-in-vagina penetration, like they call oral "foreplay" it's so dire. various people have a lot of vested interest in cleanly defining "sex" vs "not sex" for a whole slew of reasons (ex. censorship dodging and enforcing, conferring the social clout of virginity and prowess, finding and closing loopholes about premarital sex, deciding what relationships "count" as serious partnerships, ligating what is general assault vs sexual assault vs Something That's Definitely Probably Fine And Not Sexual At All, Actually, etc.), and it's really not something you can just fall back on as obvious common sense that people are dumb for questioning.

what I say: sex isn't real and you can't have it

[rexaleph]

thinking abt revisiting todd solondz after 10+ years, maybe watching the back half of his filmography for the first time, but like....rereading the synopses of his movies i have watched, feels like i'd get annoyed. feels like an annoying oeuvre to have. normative-type people committing and being subjected to grotesque shit, suburbian underbelly, the family, school but what if fucked up. and like...i guess the stuff of his that sticks in my mind are transgressions against taboos i personally find troubling (child abuse, the extreme racism-misogyny of that writing class story), so that is working as intended. like there's people who get annoyed by stuff i like in that "i dont wanna see that shit" way, and i don't like.....super respect that position. i wonder what my thoughts were watching all that at age 19.

[sivavakkiyar]

you know back then they didn’t use to romanticize the past

[ode-on-a-grecian-butt]

[crabussy]

how come they make you reinvent the concept of dinner every evening. I have to make dinner come true every evening like some kind of unpaid genie intern

[buttastic]

the thing about anxiety is that it is a stupid disease that makes you evil and I think more people should frame it in those terms when talking about how to navigate it

[onrtrp]

the set of ships is nonempty and finite

(any reasonable notion of) size induces a total order on the set of equivalence classes of ships of the same size

every nonempty finite total order has a maximum

there exists a ship that is no smaller than any other ship

QED

[tiktoksforlosers]

[jenroses]

I... I was not prepared. 

[despazito]

Performs a german ritual on my little tool

[greenbloods]

art moodboard

[corrucyst]

REAL masculinity is about [traits and behaviors that anyone can have that youre gendering for reasons that are ultimately misogynistic]

[2087]

The Accidental Truthtellers of the Post-Privacy Era

Illustration by Ard Su

[valtsv]

believe it or not i do actually enjoy nice things sometimes [goes to the nice things convention] kind of fucked up how much of this is enabled by exploitative violence on a societal level

[threedollarsdotcom]

scientists are hard at work exploring each others bodies

[eggl-rd]

lately been feeling like i have 1 angel wing and 1 devil wing and 1 normal eye and 1 black and red eye with black tears coming out of it

[rexaleph]

im gonna try watching along with the sopranos mc+ but so far...medium impressed. watchable but not super compelling. i like tony a lot, james gandolfini is very charismatic and i loooove how he commits many big and small evils while remaining so crazy likeable. everyone else tho....i dont care about these people. the mother is good but too fucked up and evil, she doesnt register as a person. i guess the don who is sick, and that whole interaction was very cool. very mafia movie cool, very "the old ways", but offset w the same conversation also being an old friend talking abt his chemo treatment. and the evil uncle. those are the 4 people i'm not like. mildly annoyed to be seeing at any time lmao