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Dora / Nemamka 30s | she/her/sunshine | bi/zz/aro ©♥ JOJO | YOI | Tolkien Supernatural | Marvel + always something extra, tagged my fic

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ジョニィの髪型練習（モデル画像トレース）

[catingas]

late night existential doubts

[wolfbirds-and-smoothies]

Heated Rivalry + Text Posts

[bundaskifli]

@duioki2007 and @scoutzbloghub requested kars 🤭❤️

[bundaskifli]

my uwus

[hardcoremisery]

you don’t know what you’re up against

[limnerheretic]

hi y’all it’s been a while 🤲 was a bday gift for my homie @operatorveau

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HELLO,AUTUMN.

[mawofthemagnetar]

Tarot cards lost all mystical power in my eyes when I found out that old Italian men use tarot decks to gamble. Someone’s Nonno is out here playing The Tower in attack mode to take his buddy Sergio to the cleaners, and I think that’s beautiful.

[lookmiik]

bedtime

[dontdierobb]

Yes here of course there are miracles Under your sighs and moans I’m Gonna take you I’m Gonna take you home

[pineapplebread]

This is a little full circle moment for me, a little approval stamp on the first drawing that started the Tattoo AU. I started the series after Endgame, not expecting for it to be the multi year journey it has become. I’ve been asked many times if the Avengers have seen the art before.

I can now officially say, yes, Chris Evans has seen tattoo Steve. (He smiled down at the print, nodded and said, “I dig it. I like it.”)

I’m extremely emotional that so many of you guys are so happy for me. I’ve always said the Tattoo AU was a collaborative project, and it def wouldn’t have gone on for so long and with so much detail without the input and encouragement from the stevetony community. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart for your continued love and support of this series. I’m eternally grateful 💖

[thefructosefather]

Some Josephs for my bf

[sorayatokyo]

Come Rain Or Come Shine

[morganoperandi]

I’m a cis-gender man which basically means that, when I was born, the doctor went “It’s a boy!” and when I was old enough to understand I agreed with him.

The thing is, I don’t know why I feel like a man.  I was teased and bullied for it a lot when I was little.  I’ve never had stereotypically American male interests.  I never cared about sports or cars or guns.  I was more interested in music and cooking and the arts.  I’ve always been emotionally in tune and sensitive, even when I did my best to suppress my emotions to survive a childhood of abuse from other children.

It’s not physical either.  I don’t feel like a man because I have a penis or a beard.  If you put my brain in a robot body or any other body, my essence would still feel male (I assume).  I literally can’t imagine what being any other gender would feel like, since I feel so acutely male.

I think that’s why the concept of being transgender always made sense to me.  I’m a man.  I don’t have any bloody clue why I feel like a man, but I don’t feel that it’s tied to my body or my interests or the way that I’ve been treated.  I feel like a man because of something beyond that.  Something ephemeral.  So, why couldn’t others feel the same?  Why couldn’t a person who’s been misidentified as a girl feel like a boy for the exact same nebulous reasons that I do?

And, since gender really doesn’t make any sense to me anyway, why couldn’t there also be people who feel as if they don’t have one?  Or who flow across genders like a ship on a map?

Are there people out there whose sense of their own gender is inseparable from their physical form?  If you put those people into robot bodies or, simply, other physically different bodies, would their gender identity also swap?  If so, why?  Are they actually more lost in their gender identity than I am and they need to hone in on the physical in order to anchor themselves?

Why do people feel like they are the gender that they are?

[sir-renaissance]

This is very soul filling to read. Thank you

[5typesoftrash]

My grandfather, who had a difficult time coming to terms with it when I came out, has been working very hard to understand me and my experience. About 5 weeks ago, he asked me, almost offhand, “why are you so sure that you’re a man?”

And I replied, “well, I could ask you the same thing.” And I moved on, continued, tried to explain why I feel the way that I do, but I don’t think he heard any of those things that I said afterward. 

Because six days later, we talked about it again, and this is what he told me: 

“I couldn’t stop thinking about what you said last week. Because all my life I identified it as ‘these are the parts that I have, and so I am a man’. But you’re living proof that gender is not limited to what is attached to your body, so I asked myself, why am I a man? And all I can say is ‘because I have no idea what it feels like to be anything else’. I cannot imagine what it’s like to be a woman. Or neither, or both, or any other gender. I have always been a man.”

And I replied, “that’s exactly what it feels like for me.”

So, shoutout to my cisgender grandfather, for stumbling upon the essence of being trans accidentally, with very little help from me. I love you, grandpa.

[the-cimmerians]

watching cis folks suddenly and comprehensively grasp the inessential nature of gender is always a joy

[rhaegarzeppeli]

A distant acquaintance was rambling about trans people and when asked why they bother her so much she was like "well because if womanhood is questioned then my womanhood can also be questioned". And I'm like... duh.

Womanhood, femininity, being a man, manliness, these have always been and forced and morphed and propagandized, and pushed and questioned and aggrandized, and softened and mixed and accepted again and again.

But questioning does not mean that the answer will be something different than what you expect. You are allowed to examine yourself from time to time and come out 'yep, still pretty straight, still pretty cis'. Questioning it is not some kind of death sentence, holy shit.

And if once you do arrive to some new conclusions - all the more reason to not spread fear about it.

[garuye]

CaeJose Week 2025 Day 5: Flowers

Resilience

[sorayatokyo]

Cheers for you, cheers for the goal.