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[rinkara]

hello and welcome to my blog. I post my art and sometimes cosplay, and reblog some completely unrelated funny posts. please enjoy your stay!

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[the-evil-skull]

This is not meant to sound hostile or vague anyone but this is bothering me. "Inshallah" means "if God wills it". If your intention is to say you hope the hips don't lie but whether the hips lie or not is up to God, then you say "Inshallah the hips don't lie" but if you're trying to say "wow, the hips don't lie" or something similar, which I think is what the op was getting at, then you say "Mashallah the hips don't lie" which means "God has willed it, the hips don't lie"

[bigmickswingin]

[kateammann]

Happy Pride Month to all of my fellow aces!! 🖤🩶🤍💜

[tamamita]

[flopstat]

who would win

gayle waters-waters

lestat de lioncourt

Voting ended onMar 16

[godlessondheimite]

In 2026, the chicest thing a gay actor can do is never explicitly come out as gay but also make it abundantly clear that he is. Coming out is too modern. Staying closeted is too old fashioned. But this method merges contemporary freedom with Old Hollywood glamour and allure, and it weeds out the dumbest people who truly don’t get it. I call it the Pascal Method.

[nobodys-odyssey]

Taylor Swift does this

[godlessondheimite]

no she doesn’t

[nobodys-odyssey]

You clearly don't go here or to queer history and signaling, or both, enough to have this conversation and I'm not going to explain it to you. You could have asked questions, you could have done even a modicum of research. You didn't and you made yourself look ignorant. Goodbye.

[dancinbutterfly]

#I'm fucking crying#this is an instant classic#this is the next meme#i can't believe I'm here to see a baby copypasta nary two hours old#I can't#lol#i laughed way too hard#iconic

[angelsaxis]

i went to queer history and signaling and i didnt see taylor swift

[curiositysavesthecat]

Do you think it's weird and/or predatory for a 13 year-old and a 30 year-old to be best friends if they're not family members or related by blood? Assuming everything is innocent and platonic. Nothing romantic or sexual.

Yes, it's weird and predatory

It's weird. But not predatory

It's predatory. But not weird

No, it's not weird or predatory

Remaining time: 2 days 16 hours

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[creelson]

unpopular opinion but I don't think there's anything weird or predatory about an innocent friendship

[dianxiacantastemolecules]

The question is why the fuck is a thirty year old hanging out with a 13 year old if not in their family?? The only other relation that could have them interact is through teacher/student and bring friends like that would be weird as fuck

[creelson]

found family? the kid not feeling safe in their house? the adult wanting to help? family / teacher / school isn't always a guaranteed safe place. should the kid and adult each have friends that are their own age too? sure. but if their friendship is genuinely innocent then I think the problem isn't them but people who project their weird and predatory thoughts onto them

[the-bar-sinister]

Don't forget shared hobbies?

A 13 year old and a 30 year old could reasonably meet at a tabletop gaming store, a fiber arts group, a book club....

[audacityinblack]

They could literally just be neighbors. This whole isolationist thing of never even talking to the people you live closest to is new and weird.

[olderthannetfic]

When I was 13, an art teacher who worked for my mother (who ran after school programs) got into the X-Files. This was season 1. Neither of us knew anyone else who was into it, and she wasn't very online given that this was 1994, so she had nowhere else to discuss it. I'd call her every Friday night after the episode, and we'd obsessively go over it.

I'd probably have called her my best friend at the time, though I very much doubt she'd have said the same, partly because having One Single Best Friend and being super weird about which of your friends gets this coveted spot is not something middle-aged people care about.

Some of you have very weird ideas about 13-year-olds living in hermetically sealed bubbles. Frankly, many neurodivergent weirdo 13-year-olds who grew up to be Tumblr users were far, far better at talking to adults at that age than at talking to other 13-year-olds. Many of you would have had a way happier year if you'd also had an old-ass "best friend" to talk to back then.

[pepperpatrol]

Cross generational friendships are vital to your personal development and the health of your community. The world is made up of many people who are all different ages and you will have to navigate personal and professional relationships with a wide variety of people forever. There is no way around it. Learning these skills starts in your youth.

Obviously you engage with kids at their level. That's just being a basic decent human being. The benefit of cross generational friendships goes both ways. It is good for adults to remember how to engage with the perspective of youth just as much as it is crucial for children to get bite sized insights into more challenging concepts as they grow.

Also there are going to be single people who deserve companionship and community as much as anyone else and that includes the company of younger people. Some people will never find someone whether they want it or not. Some people will get into relationships where forming their own family is simply not an option. That is a simple fact of life. They are not a fucking predator for seeking out human connection with the people around them. A 70 year old woman who never married doesn't have less valuable companionship to offer the people around her just because she never had kids.

Also I think around 30 years old you aren't really giving the designation "BEST" friend as much weight as that thirteen year old does. It is functionally meaningless. A relationship is just a relationship.

[flamingwell]

I've been friends with teachers, religious community members, people who share my hobbies, neighbors, friend's parents and kids of my friends and my parents' friends, people I babysat for, tutors, librarians, etc etc, many of these both as the kid and as the adult in that relationship. Intergenerational friendships are vital for community and for functional development and personal growth, and they're a vital way to protect kids. If a kid has an abusive home life, where do you think they're going to get help and also a model of what healthy adult/child interaction looks like?

[afellowgoodsir]

Which mythology was your special interest?

Greek

Egyptian

Norse

Roman

Celtic

Other (tags)

Remaining time: 3 days 1 hour

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[goodgirl-inc]

[goodgirl-inc]

nevermind post cancelled he's dead again

[zeitghost]

[nyunai]

VGen Comms

I don't really post here these days, but if any one from my nyugen days are still about, I'm offering character design/illustration comms on VGen.

Offering big discounts to try and push to verified and build portfolio!

RotundSparrow (@RotundSparrow)

Check out RotundSparrow's commissions and portfolio! | Avid TTRPG fan, DM and GM with buckets of experience with Dungeons and Dragons lore,

[hehasthemfeet]

average internet friend group

[were--ralph]

been having a hard time with everything lately. i cant do really anything and i dont know why

[the-hornylands]

[were--ralph]

me

[enbyroses]

It doesn’t even matter how hard you try

[were--ralph]

me

[mageless]

[were--ralph]

me

[hotvampireadjacent]

[helenvaughans]

[zitasaurusrex]

[etrosgate]

"Crab Silence" struck me speechless for a second

[dumnslut]

[loucifersbitch]

everyone needs to get weirder, yes, but also get kinder. get more supportive. get more loving. be good to your fellow fans, especially the creatives who give you art and gifs and fics and fancams and and and. treat each other well because on tunglr dot hell, we are all neighbors. and neighbors look out for each other