I officially can no longer be bothered to make an entirely new blog for every thing I enjoy, donāt know why I decided to do that in the first place. Probs worth saying Iām a minor, not that Iāve encountered anyone being weird but donāt be
In honour of pride month I am going over all of my flags!
Aroaceflux
- Meaning: Oneās sexual and romantic attraction fluctuates across the aroace spectrums, not always in sync, just an overall term for being aceflux and aroflux
- Flag colours: Five colours fading from pink to blue
- Pink to represent alloness
- Transition colours to represent fluctuation
- Blue to represent aroaceness
Again there are different flags but this one matches the other two and looks cool, also blue is between green (aro) and purple (ace) so it makes sense
You can see my other posts (aroflux) (aceflux) for more specific stuff about those flags in a way that carries over to this flag.
So overall in the aroaceflux flags the general colours seem to be:
Reddish-pink for alloness
Purple for asexuality
Green for aromanticism
Blue for aroaceness
As far as I can tell, this is because red is associated a lot with romantic and sexual attraction, purple comes from the AVEN website (and allegedly comes from a legend about amethyst preventing drunkness, but now purple just represents community due to this website), green comes from the complimentary colour of red, and blue comes from being between green and purple on the colour wheel
If we look at the sunset aroace flag we also see that orange represents community and yellow represents love that isnāt sexual or romantic
In honour of pride month I am going over all of my flags!
Aroflux
- Meaning: Oneās degree of romantic attraction varies in its degree across the aromantic spectrum, eg. Sometimes alloromantic, sometimes demiromantic, sometimes greyromantic, sometimes aromantic.
- Flag colours: Five colours fading from reddish-pink to green
- Reddish-pink for allosexuality
- Transition colours for fluctuation
- Green for aromanticism
Like with the aceflux flag, there are other flags, but I like this one (also the one that goes through white is too similar to abrosexual for my brain to cope)
If you want more specific personal interpretations of colours: reddish-pink for alloromanticism, orange-y for demiromanticism, greenish-orange for greyromanticism, desaturated green for aromanticism, green for apothiromanticism.
Disclaimer: These are not āthe fiveā checkpoints on the aromantic spectrum, just the five main ones I personally identify with and associate the flag colours with
In honour of pride month I am going over all of my flags!
Aceflux
- Meaning: Oneās degree of sexual attraction fluctuates across the asexuality spectrum, for me from asexual to allosexual, sometimes greysexual, sometimes demisexual, etc. Pairs nicely with abrosexual, and some blueberries and thyme on the side
- Flag colours: Five colours fading from reddish-pink to purple
- Reddish-pink symbolising allosexuality
- Transition colours representing fluctuation
- Purple representing asexuality
There are a few different aceflux flags but I like this one.
If you want a more in depth personal interpretation of colours: reddish-pink for allosexuality, pinkish-red for demisexuality, pink for greysexuality, purpleish-pink for asexuality, purple for apothisexual.
Disclaimer: These are obviously not āthe fiveā identities under the asexuality spectrum, just the mains ones I personally experience and see in the flagās colours
In honour of pride month I am going over all of my flags!
Omniromantic
- Meaning: Oneās romantic attraction is to all genders, but with varying degrees of severity and preference, finally something about me that isnāt fluid
Flag colours: Light pink, pink, black/indigo, dark blue, blue, with lighter versions of each colour outside the central heart shape
- Light pink for gender spectrum
- Pink for femininity/finspec
- Black/indigo for genders outside the male-female spectrum
- Blue for masculinity/minspec
- Light blue for gender spectrum
- Heart for romantic attraction specifically
Again, this ^^ is what Google says, I disagree. And we all know I am the all powerful decider of everything (/j).
So personally I again see pink as similar gender attraction, blue as different gender attraction, black/indigo as multiple genders/lack of gender/non binary genders (itās doing a lot of heavy lifting), and the lighter shades as the varying degrees of attraction.
Aa commonly used phrase on le internet a few years ago to define omni was āpan with a preferenceā which, while being useful as a simple way to explain to newcomers, this falls into holes when explaining the difference between it and bisexuality.
Some see omnisexuality as like bisexuality, however my view of the two is that bisexuality has a distinction between similar gender attraction and different gender attraction, whilst omnisexuality has a distinction between all genders.
The best way that I can explain pansexuality vs omnisexuality is that pan peopleās checklist of attraction doesnāt even have gender as a category whilst omni peopleās does, but all genders are accepted
Romantic attraction differs from sexual attraction in a way you can probably figure out, and whilst I am abrosexual, I am also omniromantic
In honour of pride month I am going over all of my flags!
Abrosexual
- Meaning: The gender that one is attracted to changes, like genderfluidity for sexuality, I unironically think this is linked to my genderfluidity lol
- Flag colours: Green, lighter green, white, lighter pink, pink
It seems that there isnāt a set reason for any of the colours (other than they look cute) but the fading of one colour to another is common in fluidity flags (see the aceflux and aroflux flags), and a lot of people compare the colours to watermelons, which are mostly water, which is fluid.
My personal interpretation is green for different gender attraction, white for attraction to multiple/all genders, pink for same gender attraction, fading colours for fluidity.
Iāve seen some people online saying stuff like ābut everyoneās attraction changesā and sure but Iām pretty sure youāre not 100% gay, 6 on the Kinsey scale one day and then 100% straight, 0 on the Kinsey scale the next - and if you are, consider that you might be abro.
Some sources Iāve seen say that aceflux-ness falls under this term as well, and I do identify as aceflux, but for the sake of compartmentalising, I see this as the gender(s) Iām attracted to changes and aroaceflux as the amount/way that Iām attracted changes.
In honour of pride month I am going over all of my flags!
Nonbinary
- Meaning: Not identifying with either binary gender male or female
- Flag colours: Yellow, white, purple, black
- Yellow for genders outside of the gender binary
- White for multiple/all genders
- Purple for genders between male and female
- Black for an absence of gender
(Guys the flag makers canāt agree on whether black means all or non, or white means all or non, Iām gonna go with they usually come together so both? Both is good)
Nonbinary/enby is sometimes considered a gender of its own: a third gender. However many people (myself included) who are not male or female or a third gender still identify as such, so it can mean either a third gender or any gender that is not male or female.
I also use it like that to sometimes be a third gender (whilst being genderfluid) and sometimes to just mean not male or female.
In honour of pride month I am going over all of my flags!
Transgender
- Meaning: Having a gender that is different to the one assigned at birth, despite being genderfluid I also identify as trans as unfortunately I was not born a shapeshifter
- Flag colours: Blue, pink, white, pink, blue
- Blue for masculinity/minspec
- Pink for femininity/finspec
- White for transitioning/neutral/intersex/questioning/enby/other
- Symmetry for process of transition
Whilst with the genderfluid flag I didnāt like the use of āpink for girl and blue for boyā, here I think it works (for lack of a better phrase) because it represents both assigned gender at birth and gender identity.
In honour of pride month I am going over all of my flags!
Genderfluid
- Meaning: My gender changes, usually at the most inconvenient possible times, because it is like a cat that refuses to cooperate in any way shape or form
- Flag: Pink, white, purple, black, blue
- Pink for femininity/finspec
- White for lack of gender
- Purple for androgyny
- Black for enby spectrum
- Blue for masculinity/minspec
This is what Google says ^^, my personal interpretation is more pink for cisness, white for lack of gender, purple for enby genders, black for multiple/all genders, blue for transness.
(This comes from the pink in the bi flag being same gender and the blue being opposite gender, I prefer this way of not gendering colours and appreciating that I am sometimes cis and sometimes trans but always genderfluid)
Hey, hey, look me in the eyes when I tell you this okay? The whole "do trans women or trans men have it worse?" debate going on right now is the most obvious CIA bullshit on earth cause honestly we've both got it pretty shitty and fighting each other isn't helping anyone
As a genderbender this is something Iāve struggled with in the past cause itās really easy for my brain to think āI wish I was just a trans guy at least then there would be some end goalā or smt, I have to remind myself that gender static trans people could easily think the same of genderfluid people (like āI wish I was my agab at least some of the timeā or smt), our brains want to compare us to other people and thatās normal but itās important to remember a) you canāt change your gender so thereās no point wishing you were something else and b) everyoneās life is shitty, you just gotta take what youāve got and make the most of it. The only way weāll get through the shittiness going on is solidarity
Uhhh Iām in the Agender spectrum (mainly using they/them!) and also a lesbian and in the aromantic spectrum! (I think greyromantic for now but idk bro).
I am arguably cis (she/they), biromantic and some type of asexual! Don't question me further on these points because my logic is flimsy and I will cry!
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iām vaguely transmasc currently favouring calling myself ānothing, in a boy wayā (they/them but i wonāt object the occasional he/him thrown in for spice) aromantic and asexual!
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Hola, im genderfluid (xe/it so also neopronouns user), abrosexual, omniromantic, and aroflux and aceflux (or just aroaceflux but idk if thatās a word). Also ig polyamorous (but currently single lol)
So Iām the lgbtq+ equivalent of as indecisive as humanly possible
Tell us which animals you would like to see on our next series of banknotes by 3 July 2026
So I just voted for which animals should go on the bank notes (and if you live in the uk, you should too)
Anyway thereās a demographic section at the end basically to see what groups of people voted for what, and one of the questions related to sexual orientation, and I canāt wait for Bank of England to be like āhey all the gays voted for frogs aināt that weirdā
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