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@roleplaytipsandadvice
hi! can you please let me know if you think greta onieogou could work as a full sister to dijon talton or possibly suggest some other fcs who could work, please and thank you?
They could work together for sure.
Other suggestions:
Cynthia Addai-Robinson
Gugu Mbatha-Raw
Jordan Alexander
Samantha Logan
Lenora Crichlow
Angel Coulby
Laura Harrier
Karla Crome
Lydia West
Fleur East
It depends how old you want their sibling.
𝐍𝐀𝐌𝐄𝐒 𝐌𝐀𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐋𝐈𝐒𝐓 : by clicking here or following the source link below, you will find a responsive & filterable masterlist of 400+ first names of various origins ! names are listed alphabetically, but can be also be filtered by gender & origin, and include meanings to the best of my knowledge, though it is by no means an exhaustive list & will be continually updated ! please like or reblog if you found this helpful !
hello I hope this is okay to message you, I know you're not on this blog as often anymore either, but I wanted to let you know I sent a message to you on the @roleplay-theme-recs account, I would have sent it here but since it's more geared towards the themes you've reblogged and looking for specific ones I thought it made sense to ask you the full question over there. thank you!
This is like a backwards treasure hunt because I first saw you messaged me on fionaroleplays that you sent a message on here and theme rec blog. Now I see this.
-goes to log in to theme rec blog if I can remember the log in-
Edit - I've replied
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Back in the tags with a new guide pertaining to writing people of color, specifically east asians! This will be a general expansion on some areas that I’ve already covered in my historical guide which you can check out over here. Again as a preface, I’m speaking as someone who comes from an east asian background but, some of the topics I’ll cover below may also relate to asians as a whole. As always, if you’ve found this helpful and useful, please reblog ( this helps coverage more than likes do. )
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i’ve found i need a bigger text box than the one in the spacing generator by byluna, though this was most definitely inspired by it. other sites with text editors have distracting colors and look very cluttered so i decided to do something about it ^^
this is a full sized editor, simple and minimal to avoid any distractions with a wide text box and adjustable height.
the options supported by tumblr / that you can use to format your replies are:
source: copy and paste the code for your reply
B I U S : bold, italics, underlined and strike
styles > small : make text small
format: headline 1 and headline 2, h2 is the most commonly used headline
text color: like this. find the hex code for any color you want here.
numbered / bullet points
blockquotes
image (it has to be uploaded to tumblr!)
formatter mobile friendly
important note! (legacy posts only, npf posts do not have this issues)
if your reply includes a @ mention or color text do not switch back to the rich editor, the color will be gone and the @ mention may or may not work at all.
if you want to preserve color text in your partner’s reply, click on edit reblog and switch to the html editor without touching anything. copy the code, paste it in the rp formatter to trim, write and format your reply as usual. this post explains it in detail.
i hope this is helpful ! liking and reblogging to share is appreciated ♡
updates logs:
sept 7, 2022: general updates + night mode toggle + 2 text box options. log here.
sept 29, 2022: created a new version hosted on carrd instead of tumblr, which provides a better mobile responsive layout but can be used on desktop as well.
feb 10, 2023: mobile and desktop versions have been merged into one. read post here.
use it here.
SUBSTANCE USE DISORDERS: A GUIDE FOR WRITERS.
hey i’m a mental health therapist and a writer here on tumblr dot com, back again with another “how to write mental health” guide! this time we’re talking about SUBSTANCE USE DISORDERS! this is MY very specific wheelhouse because i do intensive outpatient work for a substance use disorder treatment agency!
i have seen SO MANY gross mischaracterizations of addictions on tumblr, specifically within the indie roleplay community, from demonizing addicts to misinterpreting addiction to calling their “has a glass of sometimes after work and blacked out once after one night of drinking” little dudes alcoholics. for the purpose of this post, i’m going to try and stick to the CLINICAL side of addiction because there’s a pretty huge addiction recovery/sobriety culture that is incredibly lovely and supportive but it can get convoluted with all the different programs there are out there.
now, let’s start with what makes a substance use disorder a substance use disorder. a substance use disorder is any sort of PROBLEMATIC USE OF A SUBSTANCE THAT INTERFERES WITH DAILY LIFE AND DAILY FUNCTIONS. depending on the specific substance the diagnostic criteria looks a little different but all substance use disorders diagnoses more or less follow the following criteria ( pulled from the opioid use disorder criteria in the DSM-5 ):
a problematic pattern of [drug/alcohol] use leading to clinically significant impairment or distress, as manifested by at least 2 of the following, occurring within a 12-month period:
[drug/alcohol] are often taken in larger amounts or over a longer period than was intended.
there is a persistent desire or unsuccessful efforts to cut down or control [drug/alcohol] use.
a great deal of time is spent in activities necessary to obtain the [drug/alcohol], use the [drug/alcohol], or recover from its effects.
note: THESE DO NOT JUST INCLUDE ILLEGAL ACTIVITIES. i’ve had clients with alcohol use disorders wake up early and hang around the gas station until it opens at 7am to get their first 12-packs for the day, go through great lengths to hide alcohol from spouses, stash alcohol around their work spaces so they can drink periodically throughout the day, etc. not necessarily illegal, definitely problematic.
craving or a strong desire or urge to use [drug/alcohol].
recurrent [drug/alcohol] use resulting in a failure to fulfill major role obligations at work, school, or home.
continued [drug/alcohol] use despite having persistent or recurrent social or interpersonal problems caused or exacerbated by the effects of [drug/alcohol].
note: ask yourself here how your character’s relationships are effected by their drug/alcohol use.
important social, occupational, or recreational activities are given up or reduced because of [drug/alcohol] use.
recurrent [drug/alcohol] in situations in which it is physically hazardous.
continued [drug/alcohol] despite knowledge of having a persistent or recurrent physiological ( physical–think of the body reactions ) or psychological problem that is likely to have been caused or exacerbated by the substance.
tolerance, as defined by either of the following:
a need for markedly increased amounts of [drug/alcohol] to achieve intoxication or desired effect.
a markedly diminished effect with continued use of the same amount of [drug/alcohol].
withdrawal.
debunking some common themes i see across the writing community:
SUBSTANCE USE DISORDERS ARE, MORE OFTEN THAN NOT, A RESPONSE TO COMPLEX TRAUMA. i’ve been in this field for 4 years and 99% of the clients i have seen have experienced some degree of trauma. getting absolutely plastered and high is a damn effective way to check out when someone is experiencing chronic trauma and doesn’t want to deal with the overwhelming emotions that come with it.
SUBSTANCE USE DISORDERS ARE, MORE OFTEN THAN NOT, CO-MORBID WITH OTHER MENTAL HEALTH DISORDERS. similar to the above point, checking out with drugs and alcohol is a damn good way to forget how shit your brain is.
THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A SUBSTANCE USE DISORDER/ADDICTION AND CASUAL DRUG AND ALCOHOL USE. if your character smokes weed at the end of the day, or takes prescription pain pills for chronic pain as prescribed, or goes to the occasional party with their friends on the weekends, or drops acid at a rave, and these things are otherwise not interfering with their lives–that’s not an addiction. that’s casual drug and alcohol use and it’s fine. people are allowed to let loose sometimes.
PLEASE TRY TO STRAY AWAY FROM DEMONIZING A CHARACTER WITH A SUBSTANCE USE DISORDER. a big part of treatment is processing the “why” while also acknowledging that your actions related to your substance abuse have affected others. that does not mean people who are struggling with addiction are less deserving of love and compassion. the reality of addiction is that yes, a lot of folks with an addiction do have very strained relationships and have done unsavory things while in their active addiction. if you come at it from the perspective of “this person is dealing with strong internal turmoil” though, how does your portrayal of your character change? how do their internal monologues change?
CONSIDER WHY YOUR CHARACTER IS TRYING TO CHECK OUT WITH DRUGS AND ALCOHOL. what’s going on in the ol’ coconut that they’re struggling to deal with? alternatively or in addition, do they have something going on PHYSICALLY that they’re trying to deal with, like chronic pain? common feelings associated with people who are in their active addiction are anger, anxiety, grief, self-loathing, depression, sadness, fear–i assume you know feeling words if you’re a writer so i’ll stop there.
NOT ALL ADDICTS ENGAGE IN CRIMINAL ACTIVITY AND EVEN IF THEY DO, THEY ARE NO LESS DESERVING OF LOVE AND COMPASSION. i work primarily with court ordered clients with high criminogenic risk factors. i have groups full of felons and they are some of the loveliest, kindest people i have ever met. similar to substance use disorders, criminality can be a response to trauma. a teen who is growing up in a loving stable home isn’t going to turn to gang activity, an adult with healthy relationships and coping skills isn’t going to hold up gas stations or get into dealing drugs. people are just people. similar to the above point, if your character is engaging in criminal activity, ask yourself why they would be and see if that changes the way you portray them.
that’s all i have for now! feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions because again, this is precisely my wheelhouse. it’s what i treat every day.
cheers, and happy writing!
so this guide was requested by ANONYMOUS. i’m writing this out to clarify a few things that i know you have to dig deep to find out if you aren’t thai/friends with thais who actually have knowledge of this. quick disclaimer: this is hella summarized. things obviously get more complicated than this, but i’ll try to explain it the best way i can. ok, let’s get started.
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ritu arya in the umbrella academy !
in the source link you can find #217 gifs of ritu arya in her role as lila pitts in the umbrella academy season 3 episode 1-6. please don’t repost or claim as your own but feel free to edit in any way as long as you give credit by @’ing me in the post if posting publicly! please like/reblog if using! enjoy! trigger warnings: body image, violence, knives, choking, kissing, food/eating
HOW TO: MAKE HIGH-QUALITY GIFS WITHOUT STRAINING YOUR STORAGE
i recently had a problem with one of my drives where i kept all my material and lost all my series and films i kept there - it was on my laptop itself and i’m selling this laptop soon anyway, so i didn’t think it was worth it to redownload over 100GB of gif material.
however, modern problems require modern solutions, so today i’m going to show you my new method for making gifs that means you do not have to download large files to your hard disk. tutorial under the cut!
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spanish surnames : a masterlist
below the cut you’ll find a list containing # 150 spanish surnames sorted alphabetically . these are some of my personal favorites so please enjoy and consider giving this post a like / reblog if you found it useful !
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﹒﹒ unisex names masterlist !
back again with another masterlist for u all after receiving some anon suggestions . here’s 250+ unisex first names for ur next character , these come from various influence points but some of them really are just pulled from thin air . the names are sorted by first letter but not alphabetically within each letter ! if u found this useful , feel free to like or reblog to boost this .
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under the cut you will find #134 musing tags for otps and relationships. these have been taken mostly from lines of songs, as well as several broadway musicals. do with them what you will!
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Hello! 😊
Could you please help me locate some people who could play the parents and a younger sister for Aisha Dee? Thank you.
Done a whole ass family template including brother, sister, mother and father here.
Some additions as that is five years old now:
Due to Aisha being biracial please make one parent white and one black (or biracial). Thank you. Those older adults who are biracial will have (br) next to them.
Younger sister
Maisie Richardson-Sellers
Kadiatou Holm Keita
Brittany O'Grady
Laura Harrier
Mercedes Morris
Ruby Barker
Taylor Russell
Alisha Boe
Hey there!
Could I please get some FC help for somebody who could play Katherine McNamara’s mom? Blonde, probably late 40s early 50s. The age gap in characters in only 20 years of that helps/ matters 😅
TIA
I've actually done an older FC suggestion many years ago. Though my main goal was for red heads. Here are some of these people plus added extra that are blonde:
Christina Hendricks
Stephanie March
Jessica Chastain
Gillian Anderson
Drew Barrymore
Elizabeth Banks
Julianne Moore
Cate Blanchett
Sarah Rafferty
Nicole Kidman
Miranda Otto
Amy Adams
SMUT
Smut Guide: Casual Sex
Smut Guide: For Beginners
How to: Write a First Time Sex Scene Romantically
How to: Smut - The Bare Bones
How to: Smut (For Virgins)
How to: Write Lesbian Smut
How to: Write Smut (2, 3)
How to: Write a Blowjob/Prepping for Smut
Smut Guides of Tumblr
Tips on Writing Sex Scenes
A Guide to Language in Smut
Domination and Submission
Making Love
A Smut Guide
I saw this big master post about all random things, but I found these the most important things and felt the need to separate it from the other topic. I’ve read most of them and I fully agree with them and if your insecure but want to try out things or just want to improve your smutting skills, then I suggest you read these. c:
Hello! 😊
Could you please help me locate some people who could play sisters for Sidney Sweeney? Thank you.
18-25
Hunter Schafer - Trans woman
Halle Bailey - Half sister
Sabrina Carpenter
Emily Alyn Lind
Elle Fanning
Emma Laird
Milly Alcock
26+
Andreja Pejić - Trans woman
Zendaya Coleman - Half sister
Dakota Fanning
Sasha Pieterse
