in california with my toes in the sand @saccharinesugawara - Tumblr Blog

"so what fates do we share? windows down, wind in your hair"

welcome to paradise ☼

your date for the evening ♡ (about me)

a trip down memory lane ☆ (masterlist)

if we're not compatible ⍋ (dni criteria)

trip suggestion box ☽ (asks/requests)

#henry espionage #henry pinned

i11-shitsxx

“i’m the jesus of wishing to christ you’ll come back” BAR

yossyislandd

treat pretransition people and people who don’t want to medically transition with respect or i will kill you. especially if they’re of color. idgaf if you’re transgender yourself it’s transphobic. you are not exempt from being transphobic just because you’re trans.

yossyislandd

also treat midtransition people with just as much respect. there is not a single trans person who you have an excuse to mistreat regardless of their gender or what they decide to do with their bodies or how far along they are with their medical or social transition. and if they’re of color you better show them some extra respect and kindness too. once again your status as a queer minority does not mean you cannot be a bigot.

wearewatcher

for everyone on here who isn’t over on the hell site

class1akids

Kaminari information in Ultra Age (he's so wholesome)

Class A profiles

dragon-in-a-fez

so the BBC accidentally said the UK consumes 4.7 kilograms of cocaine per person per day

bagels-n-shmaegels

HELP

pitbolshevik

like idk how to break this to you but most of the time straight men are homophobic and misogynistic because they hate gay people and women, not because they're secretly gay

pitbolshevik

that's not to say gay men can't be misogynistic, god knows I've met plenty of gay men who fucking hate women, but let's be real here: you are not criticizing misogyny in the gay community when you make jokes about trump and putin blowing each other. you are using (imaginary) gay sex as a form of humiliation. you are no different than middle schoolers using "gay" as a synonym for "stupid" or "lame".

lavernderflowermoon

Goodbye to all my darkness, there's nothing here but light

closest thing I picture when I hear this line

specialagentartemis

“Be curious about what you’re writing about” is not stock Common Writing Advice but it really, really should be. There are a lot of written works that fail due to the authors just being obviously incurious about what they are writing about.

wizardshark

Yeah we've all seen the opposite though. I do NOT need 10 pages of information on the Paris sewage system mid-story

azeofspades

Maybe YOU don't. Coward

wizardshark

Victor Hugo isn't going to fuck you!!

largishcat

he would if he was alive. man was famously A Slut

internetusercucumber

Yes, I spent the whole night finishing this. I was this desperate to see them hug🧎‍♀️

(Can‘t wait to put pope yaoi into my portfolio)

gigglesister

it will never stop being funny to me how much of kink in public type discussion centers around collars when like. unless someone has a specific directly kink-related symbol or word on the collar theres no way for you to know if their choice to wear it is kink-related in the first place. that is a widely normalized fashion item. you are trying to have moral panic over something you can buy at fucking claires.

gigglesister

and that is very much the point. positioning something worn by very specific groups outside of kink communities for well known reasons as inherently sexual isnt done unintentionally, because this focus on the concept of 'kink' in public is about wanting to control people and justify harassment and violence towards people in certain groups.

when people say they want to beat anyone wearing a diaper in public theyre aware of the fact that includes a lot of disabled people. they already know about collars being worn by trans women to draw the eye away from adams apples, by alternative subcultures, by therians and otherkin, various other people seen as Weird in some way. they know that hatred for them will be more socially acceptable when its framed it as hatred of kink, because its easier to position as bad.

if you say that you dont want children seeing anything done as a kink thing, it sounds like youre Protecting Them. it doesnt sound like you want to say anyone that makes you personally uncomfortable is a threat to children on the basis of that discomfort, it gets turned into some righteous desire for preventing a theoretical harm. it doesnt matter what you obviously mean, it doesnt matter whether that harm exists or not, because youve successfully rebranded your message.