Do you have tips or resources for getting better at socializing, the art of conversation, how to speak to anyone, connect, etc ❤️
My main piece of advice is to speak clearly, slowly, and softly. Think before you speak and make sure what you say holds value. Talk less about yourself and shift the focus on them. And remember the old adage, "it's not about what you say, it's how you make them feel".
To make the conversation worth remembering, ask appropriate open-ended questions and make the other person feel important. Start with a compliment or talk about something you've observed, keep the conversation going by asking them to tell you more or physically show you're interested by leaning in or nodding your head.
Which takes me to my next point, remember to be a good listener, too. Listen earnestly, not just for the sake of it so you can speak next. Try not to get distracted and truly listen to what the person is saying—digest everything and make mental notes of what they're saying. This will help when you meet them the next time and bring up something specific they said; it'll make them feel important because you made it a point to remember.
Eye contact is crucial. I know this makes some people uncomfortable but looking elsewhere just because you're shy can give them the wrong impression and that you aren't interested in what they have to say!
Being able to speak with conviction is a great skill. It shows others that you are confident in what you are saying. When you are speaking, avoid using filler words, like "um" and "you know" or phrases that make you sound unsure.
When receiving a compliment, accept it gracefully. Showing enthusiasm or warmth when you receive a compliment makes the giver feel fantastic. So learn to express your appreciation by saying a simple “thank you” or “I really appreciate that”.
Lastly, keep in mind that certain topics are just off-limits if you are in a public setting. Health, money, gossip, personal information, etc. Try to avoid discussing these because they are either too personal, might lead to a misunderstanding, or might be too controversial. Avoid discussing your personal life in great detail because it may seem like you're emotionally dumping. Save that for a best friend or a therapist.
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