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maxxie-or-smth

i was crazy back then (8 minutes ago)

#inky core #me

rhythmmortis

POV: goofy is burying you alive never to see the light of day again

modesty

Do you have any kinks?

peace and quiet

tainaronian

my bacteria….

#me w my oc

flmeth

The truth is more important than my reputation.

#she. her....... shr she she sh e she her HER #dragon age #da #dai

theladyeowyn

I just want to help my friends.

#lotr

queerspacepunk

not to be all "these two words will change your life" or whatever, but I promise you, programming in "good catch!" as your response to people correcting you/pointing out errors or whatever removes so much friction from interactions, and comes with a delightful happy meal toy of "not hating yourself so much for making mistakes"

madgastronomer

I use "I stand corrected" a lot. The mild silliness of the outdated language makes it work for me.

knitmeapony

I had a high school science teacher who would say "if you admit you're wrong and change your mind..." and the whole class would respond back "... you aren't wrong anymore!"

And when a kid would assert something incorrect In class, he wouldn't tell them they were wrong, he would help lead them to the right answer and then when they admitted/ accepted the new information, he'd say "now we're both right! Nice work!"

For a bunch of gifted kids whose identity and reputation often was staked on knowing more than most people, it was a great safety valve. No shame in making a mistake, because if you accept it you have learned! Now you are smarter! It always made me feel better.