My Brain & It's Turmoils

♡ Heyo! Just bored posts here ♡

[assignedmale]

[hyperlexichypatia]

You have got to stop referring to video games, fiction, drawings, etc. as "CSAM."

This defeats the entire purpose of the term "CSAM" (child sexual abuse material) which is that it's material of a child being sexually abused. The term was coined by anti-CSAM advocates because this material was being called "child porn," and it's not "porn." "Porn" generally refers to fiction, and CSAM is not fiction. It's real footage of real children being really abused.

"CSAM" is to "child abuse" as "snuff film" is to "murder." It is real filmed violence against a real human person. Games/drawings/fiction depiction child abuse as a plot point in a work of fiction are to child abuse as, e.g., murder mysteries are to murder. It's a fictional story in a fictional medium. No real human people are harmed in its production. You can argue -- and many people do -- about whether the fictional depiction "sends a bad message" or whatever, but it is not, literally, a snuff film or CSAM.

Referring to fiction as "CSAM" not only needlessly gives cover to moral panic and censorship; it also completely dilutes the harm of CSAM. The harm of CSAM is not that it's morally bad media that sends a bad message. The harm is that real human people are abused in its production.

[femmehorror]

We need to be more realistic about lesbian sex, too, because sometimes it feels like this huge expectation to maintain a certain level of stamina looms over us, simply because we’re more prone to practice what straight people think is foreplay and we consider full-on sex.

Some of us have chronic pain. Some of us have past or present injuries. Some of us are on medication that screws with our libido or the amount of time we can last and keep going. Some of us simply don’t feel that much of a desire to fuck. Some of us are on the ace spectrum. Some of us are more than content with frotting and kissing and calling it a good, intimate moment 20 minutes in. Some of us have vaginismus or other conditions that can make sex uncomfortable to some extent.

It’s OK to not go on for an hour. It’s OK to tell your partner to stop. It’s OK to ask them to change positions if you have a bad knee or back. It’s OK to not last, and to be too sensitive to go on, and to call it a day.

Sex is about the journey, the connection, and the experiences you both share in that moment. Orgasming is a wonderful consequence of the chemistry you might have, but orgasming is not the main goal. Remember that, and sex will be a million times more pleasant and, in some cases, less stressful.

Don’t feel pressured to perform. Sex is only good when there’s enthusiastic consent and enjoyment from both parts, no matter the amount of time it lasts.

[femmehorror]

HAPPY LESBIAN VISIBILITY WEEK! 🧡🤍🩷

[raincloudsunny]

i miss my wife again

[tempestbunny]

can you just mindlessly play with my pussy while we watch a show please

[ryan-sometimes]

As an autistic/adhd person going through the job search process I’ve learned to phrase my autistic/adhd traits as corporate friendly things. Here’s some examples:

I have trouble reading between the lines and picking up on implicit information? Actually, I’ve learned the importance of giving and receiving precise, specific instructions in order to avoid time consuming miscommunications.

I’m easily bored with only one task? Actually, I have a curious mind and thrive in places with a wide range of tasks as I prefer dynamic environments where I can contribute to many projects.

I have trouble with white lies that are merely social niceties? Actually, I prioritize a transparent work environment where we can tackle issues head-on.

This way I don’t have to lie, but rather just spin my truth in a way that’s palatable to them.

[transgender-vulture]

"God you made your character look so CLOCKY. Its CLEARLY a FETISH at this point. God. Why do you have to draw girls with facial hair!? Why do you have to draw guys with small shoulders and wide hips??"

Hey. Question. How do you feel about visibily intersex people? Hey. Answer the question. Why do you feel so deeply uncomfortable seeing someone who doesnt look cis. Hey get back here.

[playfulpochi-deactivated2023051]

You know what would be great rn? Soft anal with lots of babying and pitying about how my poor wet little cunt is being so neglected

[mxjackparker]

some of you need to re-learn the word "selfish" and stop calling everyone a fucking narcissist

[konoko]

[weltenwellen]

Making the people you adore laugh is literally everything

[laika-the-bitch]

[mortimermcmirestinks]

via @eptck

[salt-intake]

Is it just me or does everyone hate when yur comment gets liked and your only linked to the comment, not the post? Like I posted that comment a month ago. I don't remember that.

[urmom62562]

I’d do anything for her hand to be holding and caressing my face and falling asleep on her I ache for her so much

[byjove]

Nothing makes me angrier than the “Minimum wage jobs are intended for teenagers, of course adults can’t live off the wages, they should get real jobs.” bullshit. Not only are you pro child labor but you’re pro underpaying children for their labor? Also, there are so many teenagers out there working to survive and pay rent and support themselves and their families and these jobs are fucking brutal. Pay them what they deserve.

[salt-intake]

More people need to realize that not all teenagers work for fun money. A lot work for their family as the original poster said. And a lot of employers are pushing their employees payment down. Then people are telling these people with good jobs to get a "real job" bc their pay has dropped to smth a tennis would get. Teens should not be paid less if they're doing the same job as an adult.

[coffee-discussions]

In this household we love and appreciate hip dips

…. I have hip dips

[salt-intake]

Hip dips are amazing! They are crafted and loved by all gods! The human body is beautiful! Also men have them to so they need to stop hating. And another thing, they are perfect natural handles to pull ur partner in. To swing them around while dancing in the kitchen at night or rest while they swing their hips. THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!

[aropride]

please god let chatgpt die out like nfts did. With a fast and graceless fall into irrelevancy

[bladespark]

Like to charge, reblog to cast.

[conservethis]

Casting with all my might

[salt-intake]

Please!!!