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piece of peace ✌️

Commission for setecolors on twitter!!

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radicalgraff

“I will not die for the fucking economy”

Seen in Philadelphia

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love letter mb

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Να κολλήσουμε έτσι και τίποτα άλλο

dogcunt

depression has got me acting cringy as fuck dude

lollibeepop

Love Yourself (even if sometimes others have to do it for you)

franziska-after-success

It’s not a good thing to try and force someone not to use a healthy coping mechanism. There’s nothing inherently wrong with self-deprecation.

fernacular

There is, there very much is.

Self-deprecation isn’t a healthy coping mechanism. Coping mechanism? Yes. Healthy? Absolutely not. Saying bad things about yourself seems harmless or even good in the moment but if you do it enough you will reinforce negative beliefs about yourself and the world around you. Say “I’m the worst” enough times and you will believe you’re the worst. Say “everything sucks I should just die lol” enough times and you will come to believe that too.

I’m not pulling this shit out of my ass either, by the way, this is coming direct from when i was an outpatient at a psychiatric hospital, way back when i did this EXACT THING CONSTANTLY and ended up suicidal. This is what I was taught there, and this is how I dragged myself out.

The best way to combat this (very unhealthy) coping mechanism is really just to force yourself to say good things about yourself, and shut down the bad ones. It feels stupid, it feels like you’re lying, it feels like it will never work. But over time, if you keep at it, and with the help of friends, the new words will replace the old ones. If you replace “i’m terrible” with “I’ve made a mistake, but that doesn’t make me a bad person” that is what you will come to believe, and make it 1000% easier to actually fix the problem because you won’t be bogged down with self-hatred.

It’s annoying, and aggravating, and you don’t want to do it because self-deprecation is how you’ve coped for so long, but I promise you it’s not healthy and will make everything worse in the long term.

lkeke35

Self deprecation is basically self hatred performance for others. You’re hitting yourself before you think others will hit you! If you admit, right up front that you’re worthless, then your audience can’t say it first!

parhelics

and that’s on toxic shame

one-time-i-dreamt

this South Korean birthday ad for Jesus is… interesting

one-time-i-dreamt

to everyone unfamiliar with the concept (because, for example, birthday ads aren’t done in your country like they aren’t done in mine), usually fans buy ad space in honor of their favorite celebrity’s birthday and display an image of them there, example:

fans of singer Kim Taehyung organized this ad among others for his birthday (source: x y z)

but I have never expected to see Jesus fans do the same with an edit like that

m-hammy

jesus fans

takashi0

#We prefer the term “Christians”

ashleylmao

christians jesus stans

seashellronan

all those posts like “don’t give yourself bangs during quarantine” “don’t dye your hair” “don’t shave your head” are honestly bullshit this is the Perfect time you’re literally not allowed to leave the house for god knows how long do something crazy who gives a fuck

teaboot

Counterpoint: I saw a lady with a choppy (natural) grey Mohawk today that looked sick as hell and she said "thanks, its my living room special". Be the post apocalyptic rebel you wanna see

selene-the-dragon-princess-deac

Remember that movie in which Jack Black was a teacher and building a rock band and when a little black chubby girl asked to be a singer he only said “sure! let me hear you” and the moment she started using her beautiful voice his lit up like all of his dreams came true, PLUS the same little girl was scared that people would make fun of her because she was fat and he started listing awesome singers with some weight on and included himself and told her that people wouldn’t laugh because she is awesome at what she does and that is all that matters PLUS that it’s ok to enjoy food?

Also, when a little boy asked to be the band’s stylist he just said “sure, go ahead fancy pants” like, there wasn’t a single second of questioning it, he went into “ok, that will be your position then” right away

That fucking movie is an hour and a half of Jack Black teaching kids to love themselves disregarding all of the stereotypes

thirst-empress-deactivated20170

And don’t forget the Asian guy said he shouldn’t be in the band because he thought he wasn’t “cool enough”. Jack Black didn’t miss a beat by making up a secret handshake between he and the kid.and telling him he’s amazing at what he does playing the piano. After that the Asian kid even stood up for himself against a bully.