nsfwitchcraft

!!!18+!!! nsfw sideblog | transfem witch | early 30s 🪻ALL queer people are safe here! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 you are beautiful and i love each and every one of you 🚫cishet men, minors, TERFs, fascists = DNI🚫

[sapphicating-witch]

Obligatory 'about me' post....

Hi there! I'm a witchy, switchy, bitchy transfem in her 30s, just here to express the more erotic side of myself i normally keep under lock and key. My pronouns are she/her and they/them, using either or both sets is acceptable.

I'm ambiamorous, (kind of) demi grey ace, and polysexual (though I typically describe myself as bisexual), leaning heavily toward women (cis and trans), enbies, and trans men. Also, ***I am NO LONGER AVAILABLE for DMs. If I repost something of yours, that is NOT an invitation to try and get to know me. Anyone messaging me will be blocked immediately.***

I'm generally pretty subby, but i also have switch tendencies. again, it depends on how I'm feeling in the moment. I prefer using my fingers and tongue if my partner wants to be penetrated, but I'm theoretically not opposed to being touched down there in other ways. In practice it's... complicated.

Also, I do have complex PTSD so please respect my boundaries. Do not send nudes without asking first, and if you want to roleplay or anything, it's polite to introduce yourself and let me get to know you a little first before we do that kind of thing. Any violations of this policy, or any attempts to circumvent my boundaries in general, will result in a swift blocking.

(also if you're here to troll or catfish, or if you're a cishet man, TERF, fascist, racist, sissy blog, or a minor, you WILL be blocked on sight. no exceptions)

Likes:

✨️genuine, caring people

✨️kindness

✨️being praised

✨️being called a slut, whore, etc. but not in a mean way

✨️emotionally intimate sex

✨️foreplay

Dislikes:

🚫anything super emotionally or physically painful, i'm trying to recover from trauma not add to it

🚫people who don't obtain my permission or consent first

🚫violence, gore, nonconsensual sex

🚫anything super gross

🚫pedos

🚫cishet men, as a general rule

🚫anything that violates my stated and unstated boundaries in any way

🚫people who are dishonest and/or play games

🚫people who didn't read the pinned post

🚫conservatives

[pr3ttypunisher]

it’s always been important to me to make sure you feel safe first. before anything else. before my hands go anywhere. i need you to feel safe. that’s the whole foundation. everything else comes after.

i’m not going to reach for you before you’re ready. i’m just going to be here. present. calm. a soft place to land after whatever the day did to you. and i want you to take your time getting here. take your shoes off. put your bag down. let the door close behind you and just... breathe. you don’t have to be okay yet. you don’t have to be anything yet.

when you’re ready.. i’ll be right here.

and when you do find me, i’m going to open my arms and let you decide how close you want to be. if you want to be held i’ll hold you. if you want to sit beside me and just feel someone nearby i can do that too. if you need a minute before you can even be touched i have that minute. i have all of them. there’s nowhere else i need to be, except here with you.

and if you let me hold you i’m going to do it properly. both arms. your face against my neck or my chest or wherever feels right. i’m just going to let you feel me. let you feel that someone has you. that you don’t have to hold yourself together right now because i’m doing that. i’ve got you.

i’m going to stroke your hair. your back. slow and repetitive and completely without agenda. the kind of touch that isn’t asking for anything. that’s just saying i’m here. you’re safe. i’ve got you. over and over without words until your body starts to believe it.

and i’m going to wait.. i’m good at waiting. i’m going to wait until i feel your shoulders drop. until your breathing slows down and evens out. until the grip you have on my shirt loosens because you’re not holding on for dear life anymore. you’re just holding on because it feels good to. because you want to.

that might take ten minutes. it might take an hour. it doesn’t matter. we have so much time.

and while we’re there i might talk softly. just the sound of a voice that isn’t asking anything of you. that’s just there keeping you company while you come back to yourself. and you don’t have to respond. you don’t have to do anything except be here.

at some point i’m going to press a kiss to your hair. and then another one to your forehead. slow. like i have all the time in the world to be gentle with you. because i do.

and my hands are going to keep moving. your back. your sides. your arms. slow and warm and learning you. touching you like you’re worth being touched this carefully. because you are. you always have been. even on the days you forget it.

and somewhere in there you might start to soften in a different way. something shifting from comfort to wanting. and that’s okay. that’s so okay. your body is allowed to want things. you’re allowed to want things. there’s nothing wrong with that and there’s nothing to be embarrassed about.

if that happens i’m going to follow your lead. completely. whatever pace you set is the pace we move at. if you reach for me i’ll be there. if you want to go slow we go slow. if you want to stop at any point we stop. no questions. no disappointment. just. whatever you need.

and if it does go further i’m going to keep that same gentleness. that same care. i’m not going to change on you. the hands that were stroking your hair are the same hands that touch you now. nothing gets rougher or faster or more urgent unless you want it to. we can stay soft the whole way through. we can stay in this same warmth.

i’m going to check in with you. are you okay? still with me? how does that feel? because i want to know. because your experience matters to me. because this isn’t just about what i want. it’s about making sure you feel good. feel safe. feel like yourself. feel like someone who deserves to be taken care of.

and after… whatever after looks like. i’m going to hold you again. bring you water. pull the blanket up. press a kiss to your forehead and mean every single part of it.

you deserve someone who takes their time with you like this. who doesn’t rush you or push you or make you feel like you have to perform. who lets you be exactly where you are and meets you there.

i hope you know that.

[migatito]

[asexual-domme]

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

[misssmeat-deactivated20251019]

Nothing gives me anxiety like seeing a young submissive on tumblr. I said what I said.

Was I once a young sub on tumblr? Yes. It is hypocritical? Maybe.

Being on tumblr as a young sub gave me endless resources to learn about kink and myself… but it also exposed me to a never ending barrage of unhealthy influences, unsafe kink, and people trying to take advantage of me.

So many of us that are new to kink are looking for community and are desperate to feel less alone in our interests. Trust me when I say: the older folks on this and other platforms know that. And many of them are pieces of shit who know exactly how to take advantage of your desire to find belonging.

These people also know that the younger you are, the less experience you have, the less likely you are the question their unhealthy or abusive behavior. The less exposed you have been to kink, the less confidence you’ll have to stand up for yourself as a submissive.

It happened to me. It doesn’t mean you’re weak, dumb, or stupid. It means someone who calls themself a “Dom” saw something to gain from you with no consideration for your humanity.

Anyway. Not to be an annoying old person, but don’t trust anyone ever!!!! Question everything and everyone. Know your worth. Understand the gift and value of your submission.

And … try to date someone your own age. 💀

[cherry-flavoured-devilry]

Thinking about soft dommes a normal amount today. The thought of hearing her moaning more desperately than I am even while she’s burying her strap all the way to the hilt inside me…

“Mmmfhh, sweetie, you’re taking me so well”

“Fuck— fuck,, omgfuck, you’re so tight for me…”

“Yeah. Yeah, just like that. Yeah, keep moving your hips like that. You’re so fucking pretty- mmmmmhhffffg”

“Mmmnnggg good girl- such a good girl. All mine,, my- mmghhh good- mmmmhggh- girl…….”

God- needy soft dommes have a special place in my giddy lil whore heart and they deserve the whole fucking world…

This post is about lesbian sex. Men/minors DNI

[fttitv]

[sapphicating-witch]

so i found out i am, in fact, grey ace. not demisexual

[sapphicating-witch]

like. i have Never wanted to fuck someone because they're hot. that's not a thing that ever computed in my mind, despite the media depicting it as "normal" behavior. i can appreciate someone's attractiveness and even become aroused by it during some occasions, but that doesn't mean my brain wants me to have sex with them.

if i Really want to take someone to bed, it means i feel they're a safe person to explore my sexuality with. it's not based on how physically attractive i find them At All. and even if they do feel safe, i don't feel a strong urge to bed them. it just means sex is an Option, not a Need.

[sapphicating-witch]

so i found out i am, in fact, grey ace. not demisexual

[deadlyprettyy]

i can't even describe what it's like seeing a butch in public. it turns me into a school girl, panic and flushing cheeks and the need to be noticed

[sepezzz]

Night shift worker and her weird goth vampire Roommate

[boredbacktodeath-deactivated201]

Don’t you want to hear your collar clink as I fuck you senseless? Don’t you just want to cum to the sound of possession?

[soapoey]

Sex is bad ass if you like hanging around someone enough you can get them to put a bunch of ooze in you. Or other such things

[ragdolly-rabbit]

Slow make out session where you’re desperately grabbing and grinding against eachother heals the soul btw

[nellylongarms-deactivated202504]

while you were partying, I studied [sapphic yearning].

while you were having premarital sex, I mastered [verbose smut writing].

while you wasted your days at the gym in pursuit of vanity, I cultivated [sexual perversions].

[clownhonk4ever]

a big problem with dyke tumblr is that in those smutty text post scenarios the girl with the dick is always the aggressive dominant one, which is obviously not just transmisogynistic but boring. maybe those cis girls would actually get some of the “dyke cock” they keep desperately posting about if they pushed us around once in a while!!!!

[iridescent-nymph]

NO MEANS NO but so does: “i don’t feel like it” “not right now” “i’m not sure” “i’m not comfortable with this” “i don’t like that” “let’s just chill”