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a real go-getter, if you will
more people could identify as asexual/aromantic if they not only knew what that label is but also knew about how wide the spectrum could be. because not every ace/aro person feels the same way and even people who DO have a general idea on what it means, could still be like "yeah no i cant be possibly ace/aro because i feel/do this and that"
genuinely SO sick of that thing in media where a character doesn't want to have sex and it's treated like some kind of barrier to be overcome or problem to be fixed. Reading a book that treats it somewhat like that right now, and it genuinely made me question myself for a second, what the fuck. This is truly the first time I have ever had a thought along the lines of "what if my asexuality means I'm broken", and that was awful. Horrid. Fuck this.
hi, hi, hello! hi fandom space! i’m a sex favorable asexual! yeah, i exist! yes, i’m the one you keep pointing out when you want to ship canonically aro/ace characters! hi! guess what, i hate you. stop it. stop using me to erase my friends who aren’t sex favorable, because you know what? it’s actually really awful of you to only believe i exist when you want to erase a different part of my community. stop using me to encourage allonormativity. you as an allo person do not get to use ace-/aro-spec people to encourage our erasure and dismissal. no. i hate it and i hate you. stop.
Appreciation post for this lineup of flags that is fuckin rad and now lives rent free in my head
"I know you say you're asexual, but . . . you should really get that looked into by a doctor. Low sex drive is a side effect of many health conditions."
Yes! Hi! It's me! I'm the person who identifies as ace-spec because of health conditions that have been diagnosed by their doctor. Yes, there are treatments that exist that could "help" me. But they are time consuming, expensive, and kinda painful, so I don't really care. I have bigger problems. What are you gonna do about it?
