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@sapphobiais
Do you believe in "lesbophobia"? Do you think it's a legitimate form of prejudice or just something TERFs made up to further isolate the bisexual community?
Uhmm.... of COURSE I believe in lesbophobia! From my knowledge, it was created to give a term to the intersection of homophobia and misogyny that lesbians experience. It's a great, important term.
Sapphobia is...
...when a radical feminist told me my bisexuality "supports the patriarchy"...whatever the hell that means.
Sapphobia is...
...being mislabeled within 5 seconds of coming out to my friends. I said "bi" I didn't say "lesbian" and I'm sure I know my own identity better than somebody else does.
Sapphobia is...
âŠbeing told that pansexuality is âa stupid thing some teen girl made up on the internetâ. Sapphobia is dismissing identity labels by attributing them to girls.
Sapphobia is...
...being with the same woman for over a decade and still having a lesbian treat you like you're not only just an ally but one of those intrusive allies who try to make queer rights movements about them -- just because you liked a FICTIONAL guy.
Sapphobia is...
...yr boyfriend telling you that he's a little wary about dating you because last time he dated a bisexual girl she broke up with him for another girl (as if it would be any different if she broke up with him for a guy??)
Sapphobia is...
...hearing yr friends that yr not out to say that they can understand being a lesbian but they somehow can't wrap their mind around the concept of liking more than one gender
Sapphobia is...
...people telling us weâre not actually queer if we happen to disagree with them.
Sapphobia is...
...being puzzled that you would still want to be out when itâs easier to say you are monosexual.
Sapphobia is...
...thinking seeking out other bi women to be in relationships is odd.
Sapphobia is...
...knowing that lesbians will also dismiss and abuse you for labelling yourself as bi, but fighting that stigma is not optional and closeting yourself is the reasonable choice.
Sapphobia is...
...everyone assuming that bi women and femme non-binary bisexuals have to make themselves available to this abuse to seek out men or else they are not authentically bisexual.
Sapphobia is...
...having to use filters to block all harrassment from bi-fetishising straight people who get stroppy when I dismiss them, and not wanting to wade through tons of fetishising men to find the few âgood onesâ anymore.
Sapphobia is...
âŠhaving my cis male friend ask me why I donât change my status from bisexual to lesbian on dating sites because âwouldnât it be easier?â
Sapphobia is...
...having to have sex with certain people before you are "really" not straight. Then having to be in a relationship before you are "really" not just experimenting.
Sapphobia is...
[TW: rape, victim blaming]
âŠbeing constantly harassed by your significant other from the moment you tell him that youâre bisexual to have a threesome with him and âanother hot slut.â
âŠbeing raped when you refused in order to prove that âyou never really liked women anywayâ and were âjust doing it for the attention.â
âŠbeing told by friends â both gay and straight, both male and female, self-professed feminists included â that you were asking for the rape because youâre such a slut that you sleep with anyone of any gender at any time
âŠbeing told that even though most of said former friends know youâve literally only slept with three people in your life.
Sapphobia is...
...cishet men giving out your phone number to their friends without your permission, and when you find out how a stranger got your number he says "well, he said you're bisexual so you wouldn't mind."