A lingerie blog of a curvy girl

Back-up for IG - @Saraddicted (the former @Krikaras)

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What? Not black? What’s this going on? 😂 I do have other colors than black, I just haven’t taken ‘em out for a spin in a long time. . My everyday stables consists of: - two black @chantelle_paris bras (Festivité & Parisian Allure) - two black Mariah Low Wire bras from @changelingerie - one Raspberry red Mariah Low Wire bra . What bras are in your regular rotation? . Wearing Felinda by @agentprovocateur with a matching skirt for #maythemonthoflingerie. . #lingerista #leopardprint #animalprint #lingerieaddict #lingerieaddiction #agentprovocateur #felindabra #felinda #agentprovocateurlingerie #lingeriecommunity #ootd #lotd #ootn #lingerieoftheday #lingerieofthemonth https://www.instagram.com/p/COtKAKljiTH/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Yay, me. Following up. Posting twice in one week 😅 I guess I needed a challenge to motivate me. . For #maythemonthoflingerie I’m posting my outfit today. It was a super lovely warm day today, so I found my dusty bikini and spend all day outside in my garden with my sons. . Just feeling the warmth of the sun, revisiting an old book from Paris, eating “snacks” (what does the cop board contain today? Popcorn, salty biscuits and coco pops 😅), hugging, laughing, enjoying alone time with my oldest while the small one napped, listening to good music and reading books with him. A good day. . And I’m happy to finally have updated my bikini game to something that can contain my boobs, not hurt my neck and make me feel comfortable with the high waist knickers. I was a very, very long search trying to find a black bikini top in my size that wasn’t too plain, but could still match a pair of plain bikini bottoms. I ended up with this bikini top from @pourmoiltd in a 36F. Could probably go up in cup size, if it had been available 😅 . How did you spend your day? Did you have sun? What’s your bikini game like? . #blackbikini #bikini #plussize #gcup #hcup #lingeriecommunity #lingerie #blacklingerie #highwaist #highwaistedbikini #highwaistedknickers #ootd #lace #kimono #lotd #lingerieoftheday #lingerista #lingerieofthemonth #lingerieaddict #lingerieaddiction https://www.instagram.com/p/COqtth_D_Zk/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Strappy black lingerie - my go to. This set is from @lalcouture and I’m super content about how comfortable this bra, feels even though it’s full of straps and details. The skirt is such a fun piece and perfect to style with other things too. Slide to see the back 😉➡️ @laceandhaze_ reminded me of an old theme #maythemonthoflingerie, so I’ll try and tag along. It won’t be daily though. I’m way too little on IG for that. But when I have a free moment from my two tiny rascals, I’ll give it a shot. . What was your favorite #lingerieofthemonth? . My all time favorite was #layeringlingerie 🤩 . #blacklingerie #lotd #ootd #lingerieisforeverybody #lingerieofinstagram #lingerieaddict #lingerieaddiction #lingerista #lingerieplussize #plussize #plussizefashion #bralette #strappylingerie #lingeriecommunity #lalcouture (her: Denmark) https://www.instagram.com/p/COmZPO2Dyku/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Time for this. Can’t wait to have more excuses to dress up.. I’m all for all black everything lately. In a super dark mode and my clothes is clearly showing it. I’m just saying... Last week I packed my clothes for some days away and ALL except 1 item was black 😅 . Wearing @lalcouture knickers and harness bra 🖤 . #blacklingerie #strappylingerie #sheer #ootd #ootn #buttfie #lingeriecommunity #harness #strappy #black #bralette #custommade #smallbusinesses #butt https://www.instagram.com/p/CObOW_zDVBp/?utm_medium=tumblr

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So a cutie from abroad kinda inspired me to show you my latest lingerie. This gorgeous @chantelle_paris Festivite bra (and knickers) was a xmas gift from my man. The first set he’s ever bought me, actually. . Which just made me think - How many % lingerie did you buy yourself and how many % was gifted to you (sponsered gifts not included)? So mine would be 99% versus 1 % gifts. . And a little about the bra: If you’re a G-cup, like me, and don’t love the full cup look, it’s not thaaat easy to find bras that look sexy and support a big cup. But right now I have two faves - Low Wire bras from @changelingerie and this gorgeous Festivite bra from @chantelle_paris. It has this extra elastic layer, that keeps the jiggle contained 😜 . #lingerieaddict #lingerieaddiction #blackbra #blacklingerie #lingeriecommunity #chantelle #plungebra #blacklace #blacklacelingerie #ootn https://www.instagram.com/p/CKRwyLrgmXl/?utm_medium=tumblr

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I’m so sick of feeling trapped, unattractive and old. . I just wanna go out; dance and flirt. I wanna kiss strangers, dance all night and forget all my worries. . I feel so trapped. Emotionally, psychically and socially. So many things trapped in me. . Yeah. I’m gonna stop here, because I’m just repeating myself. Goddamn feelings. (her: Denmark) https://www.instagram.com/p/CGncTjDHskr/?utm_medium=tumblr

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My favorite set. Mariah by @changelingerie. . Can I just have one set in each color, please? https://www.instagram.com/p/CF8BiMOAH7L/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Hello lovelies. How’s life? Recently I stumbled into a @changelingerie store and found my new favorite bra shape. It’s a triangular cup shape with a low wire. I’ve been dreading looking for new bras for my bust that has grown and changed shape after carrying and nursing two boys. I’m not into full cups, because of the high wires between the tatas, but they escape a plunge line bra. But not this design 😍 It’s called Mariah and comes in black, white and an older season raspberry red. Which I managed to source in a sister size 😬 I love the lace pattern and am not at all hating the sheerness of this. . It feels so great to actually have bought a bra, that I wear for everyday life and that doesn’t just hang pretty in my lingerie walk-in. Most of my collection is on a break, because of size change. . #lingerie #blacklingerie #lowwire #lowwirebra #trianglebra #highapexbra #changelingerie #mariahbra #lacebra #lingerieaddict #lingerieaddiction #lingeriecollection #ootd https://www.instagram.com/p/CDCiTGCg-YV/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Dear all my long-distance-never-met- (and those I’ve met) lingerie-friends. Thank you for being such a lovely and loving community that always have something positive to say to each other. I’ve never seen it like this before, and I really appreciate it. . I’m not on here much atm. Those two little boys take most my time. But I’m on Snapchat if you wanna keep in touch. It’s mostly snaps of my sons tho. Just to be warned. Not any hot naked snaps for any creeps, so no need to waste your energy there 😂 https://www.instagram.com/p/B-Wp-9oAnIk/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Postpartum depression I’m a great mum. I was born to be a mother. I’m amazing at it. My kids are smart, well behaved, kind, creative, calm, trusty and outgoing. (Mostly the oldest - the youngest has yet to show us his full personality). . I’ve cared for children my entire life. Lived in-house as a full time care taker of babies and toddlers. I’m an educated pedagogue. I know my shit. I’m calm in the shitstorm that often happen with kids. . And yet, here I am? With a postpartum depression. Not able to function. Struggling with my mental health. Why? So many women have raised two kids and more. Why? Why can’t I manage? Why do I feel like I’m drowning? . My best guesses are: a) I’m sleep deprived. I haven’t slept well or even a full night in more than two years. b) I might be more prone to depression/stress, as it runs in the family. One granddad, one mother and two brothers. Partly my farther, too. Fucking genes. c) Genuine overload and burdening myself with taking on too much as a social figure in our local society. I run a creative group every month, I try to better my sons daycare institution and I’m on the local towns committee and arranging markets, outings and events. Stupid, I know. d) The entire house is a bloody mess and my mood is almost directly linked with what my eyes see. So the disorder is keeping me unhappy, but my hands are never free or my energy level is not present. . That’s just a few reasons. Haven’t really thought about this, before putting it in writing. . How has your week been? . #postpartumbody #postpartum #postpartumdepression #postpartumjourney #postpartumdepressionawareness #ppd #depressionhelp #postpartumhealth #mentalhealth #mumlife #mumoftwo #beingamom #beingamum #agentprovocateur #blacklingerie https://www.instagram.com/p/B4qSFlTAFGd/?igshid=1ljhdlxmgq0gd

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Theo is 5 months old and I’m starting #postpartumdepression group. Will I ever be me again? Or will this new me turn into a good one? . Anyone else struggling and want to share? . #postpartumbody #depressionhelp #struggling #postpartum https://www.instagram.com/p/B4neAW3AoIa/?igshid=z6ffleqqncqi

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This is not for your satisfaction. This is my breastfeeding body that gave life to a little boy, made from love and sex between my husband and I. This is me taking a beautiful picture of myself - and now I need you to listen. Look at my photo and read my text. . I’m worried for the world. I’m truly worried for the society. I’m worried for my children and what they are growing up to live in. I’ve been watching documentaries about sex and society, how men and women are behaving due to our society and culture, about what has become the norm and how the younger generations relate to sex and relationships. I’ve watched “Sex and love around the world”, “Turned on: Hot girls wanted” and “Liberated: the new sexual revolution” just to mention a few. And it’s telling a terrifying true story. Sexless marriages in Tokyo, where husband and wife takes lovers instead, fear of being affectionate in public, fear of touch, 40% of young Japanese men are virgins. In Ghana it tells a story of having to fight to keep your man. Being available all the time, his sexual pleasure comes first. The man takes mistresses and girlfriends aside from his wife. He provides financially and the women do whatever to keep him happy. You can’t say no. And women can’t cheat. I can’t put all of this down in text, but I’m sharing clips from the documentaries in my story (now Saved Stories), so please go look. There are some scary revelations about how we’ve come to live and treat each other. I’m so blessed, protected and privileged here in little Denmark with a loving, safe upbringing. I aged and became an independent woman. I’ve felt the peer pressure. I’ve regretted having sex and one night stands. I was telling myself I was liberated, having fun and being a modern women - but sometimes it didn’t feel right. I was telling myself to not care and enjoy casual sex. But it didn’t make me feel good. It was confusing. I was kissing several men in one night and dating several people, but I got to a point where I couldn’t deal anymore. I wasn’t happy. I wanted deeper relationships. But no one wanted to commit. I decided to stop. Fully stop. (Continued in comments) . #sexandlove #sextherapy https://www.instagram.com/p/BtdHV5ahY1q/?igshid=1ch62q3vlj4f1

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My first entry for @lingerie_of_the_month for a long time. . I’m trying to promise myself to remember to dress up.. take a tiny bit of time out and put on something I feel I look good in.. do my make-up. Get a fucking haircut. . I love being a mum, but I’m struggling with being anything else. I don’t have the time or energy. I don’t take the time, because I don’t have the energy. But I don’t feel whole. I need to be Sara. I need to be more than just M’s mother. . I don’t know if it was too early having a second child - but yeah, no backsies on that one, since I’m 17 weeks along. . So I need to focus on my self care too. I’m not good at that. All my clothes are worn and tired - so is my hair. Most of my bras don’t fit me anymore. I haven’t worn makeup for years... . BUT yesterday I ordered a shit load of new pretty clothes that the bump and I can wear and still look hot. . And I’m trying to find more time to take longer showers and just getting dressed nicer. It truly helps my mood and self confidence. . What do you do for self care, to get in a better mood or to feel more confident and yourself? . Wearing Buffy bralette with the last bit left of their spiderweb lace from @lacegrenade_shop . Still one of my favorite bralettes! ♥️ . #lingerieblog #lingerieaddict #beingamum #expecting #babynumbertwo #blacklingerie #lacylingerie #strappylingerie #spiderweblace #lacegrenade #bralette #ethicalclothing #ethicallingerie #motherhood #pregnant #pregnancy #lotm #lingerieofthemonth https://www.instagram.com/p/Bs0PDqxhve_/?igshid=11xvb6st7z4ha

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🙈 We’re having Baby No 2 🤰🏼 I’ve been “morning” sick the last many weeks - but it’s been all day, every day 🤢 . I’ve lost several kilos. And my energy level is so low. . If any of you remember me being very depressed recently, it’s partly been the pregnancy hormones. I didn’t know, but when the nausea started, I put two and two together - with the first pregnancy I was so low in mood and fighting my partner constantly, before we found out. So I took a test and it was immediately positive ♥️ . Ps. I’ll post this as my postchristmas outfit for @lingerie_of_the_month . #lingerieblog #pregnant #lingerieaddict #ootd #lingerieoftheday #lingerieofthemonth #lotm https://www.instagram.com/p/Br0zm6Bh-bU/?igshid=1lh4d1bgi2jyd

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Hey guys. Posting because I’m sick of my old photos. Here’s one from today. . I have a walk-in full of lingerie, yet nothing to wear. . My assets have changed quite a bit from breastfeeding. They’re less “full”, but have still gone up 1-2 cup sizes, which means they’ll escape a plunge line... 🙄But I just still can’t forge myself to buy a full cup. I’ve been trying on a few full cups, but I just don’t love the look on me. . I’m considering getting something from @dearscantilly, but I hate that they won’t ship or sell to Denmark 😓 . Any advice, lingerie crew? . Wearing an oldie from @annsummersuk 💜 . #backfromhiatus #lingerieblog #lingerieblogger #annsummers #plungebra #purplelingerie #lingerieoftheday #brafie #lingerista https://www.instagram.com/p/BrpiNppBeVL/?igshid=1e2lnjtfjg63d

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I was contemplating on whether or not I should post my own image or repost for the @lacegrenade_shop contest. Because I only have a few images of me wearing this custom made Buffy bralette from Lace Grenade - taken shortly after giving birth to my little boy (which is why I also still look preggo here). . I ordered this beautiful bralette, when I was pregnant and therefore didn’t dare to order briefs, because I couldn’t take my measurements. But I’m itching to order more from them, because this is the BEST BRALETTE EVER!! It’s no secret that I’m full busted, but this brand has successfully made an enormously gorgeous bralette, that not only supports bigger breasts, but gives a beautiful shape and cleavage 😍 Furthermore I love so many of their unique designs. Just.. gimme, gimme, gimme! . #lacegrenadeshop #bralette #bralettes #blacklingerie #spiderweblace #lacebralette #buffybra #instalingerie #lingerista #lingerieblogger #lingeriemummy #lingerieaddict #lingerieaddiction #intimates #effyourbeautystandards #bodylove #postpartumbody https://www.instagram.com/p/Be6W3OXn5cM/?igshid=1mrdnrkfrxm0r

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This is from June, when I was 31 weeks pregnant. . I bought this @agentprovocateur set, but the bra is not great on me and I forgot to return it, so if anybody is interested I’ll gladly sell it on. The bra is 36E and knickers AP5, if I recall. Send me a DM. It’s a shame, cause it’s so sparkly and beautiful! . What’s your latest bought items that doesn’t sit well on you? Do you keep it anyway? . #lingerieaddict #lingerielove #lingerieaddiction #instalingerie #ap #agentprovocateur #blacklingerie #sparklylingerie #sheerlingerie #31weeks #31weekspregnant https://www.instagram.com/p/BetojQCnUZ7/?igshid=3g6o7orwbarq