🔥LUCY🔥

16 | green witch | aro/ace | she/her

[satancantsleep]

Friendly reminder that there are aros who love romance/romantic relationships and by insinuating that every aro is disgusted by romance your driving a wedge in our own community. We exist.

[aro-sp-ace]

listen up aros

hey i wanna do some sort of groupchat (doesn’t matter if here on tumblr or on some other social media) with all the aros where we can all meet and bitch about amanormativity and aphobia n aromisia n stuff,,,, like, a friend group for aros where you can meet friends, not necessarily for finding a zucchini, but more of … a bunch of aros hanging out together and find friends bc many of us are super introvert from what i know,,,,, so, my fellow aros? What do y'all think of this idea?

[satancantsleep]

OH MY GOD YESSSSSSSSSSS

[aromantic-pride]

Would you guys be interested in an aro/ace discord server? It’d be for all people who fall under the aro and/or ace umbrella. If you are interested then reblog this post and if you aren’t then like it

[satancantsleep]

YESSSSSSS

[satancantsleep]

A PSA

👏AROMANTICS CAN BE IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS IF THEY SO DESIRE👏

👏AROMANTICS CAN BE IN A QPR IF THEY SO DESIRE👏

👏AROMANTICS CAN SURROUND THEMSELVES WITH THEIR FRIENDS AND NOT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP IF THEY SO DESIRE 👏

It's their choice and only their choice into what relationships they have. It's their life, not yours so, get the fuck over it.

[resonance-of-libra]

This is the Lucky Ace. Reblog to recieve a wad of cash that is oddly specific to your current needs.

[jukaidream]

I reblogged this shit two days ago y’all… what kinda sorcery is this. Oddly specific too …. I’ll take it tho 🤯

[thisisasinkingship]

I think I did it wrong

[comic-girl2234-deactivated20240]

Uh I reblogged this like 3 days ago and I start my new job on Monday??? Like idk how you accidentally find a job but I did.

[nuggetsadventures]

Takin my chances

[nuggetsadventures]

I TOOK MY CHANCES AND GOT $131.85 FROM MY JOB

(I usually make about $40)

[spacee-pirate]

Today I just realized why I’m so scared about school.

I love school so much. I get to see all my friends, and my friends are so damn important to me. The saying, ‘the blood of the convinent is thicker than the water of the womb’ is so true with us.

I haven’t, however come out to any of my friends at this school about me being aroace. I wouldn’t normally consider this a problem, but I somehow managed to convince myself that I was scared of coming out to them because of my parents reactions. It’s not.

I’m scared of getting a broken heart.

I’m scared that even though they know how much friendship means to me, that I consider it more important than romance, they’ll all still eventually leave me for their significant others. I might be aroace, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t want to feel loved and accepted. I want them to value our friendship at least as high as they value their romantic relationships.

This probably won’t make much sense to anyone who isn’t arospec, but that’s ok.

You can still reblog if you’re not on the arospec, to help people better understand.

If you aren’t aro yourself but have an aro friend, please, please, remind them and let them know that you’ll always be there for them, and try to make time for them. I know that I, personally, have felt abandoned by my friends when they talk about their crushes. They don’t mean to make me feel that way, they don’t even know I feel this way, but all I really want is to have a best friend who I know will always be there for me.

I’m gonna try to summon up some courage and come out to them at some point this year, just so they can try to understand.

[satancantsleep]

It's... it's in words!

[tes-redemption-deactivated20210]

You know what honestly breaks my fucking heart? The fact that cis gay/bi people can be just as transphobic/aphobic/etc. as any homophobic/transphobic cishet person. We should be sticking together! We should, as a community of people that all have somewhat similar experiences and deal with a lot of the same bullshit, stand up for one one another. None of this excluding/gatekeeping shit. Period.

[ace-thinks]

ARO PSA

Just in case anyone has forgotten, not all aromantic people are white.

Ok carry on.

[ace-thinks]

Something I’ve always wondered is like.. before ppl have their first kiss, do they actually legitimately look at people and instinctively Want to kiss them? It just seems like such a strange impulse - like “I wanna put my mouth on your mouth and possibly also put my tongue up in there while I’m at it.” 

[aro-aceplace]

I mod for two different aro/ace blogs and I’ve seen so many asks from aspec people who are in some deeply unhealthy friendships at this point that I think it’s really time to make a post about it.

Your friends should not mock or belittle your sexual and/or romantic orientations. Your identity is an important part of who you are and an actual friend would know that. People who mock your identity aren’t your friends, they’re bullies. 

Your friends should recognize and respect your boundaries. You’re touch averse and your friends keep touching you even though you’ve asked them not to on multiple occasions? Sex jokes make you uncomfortable and you’ve asked your friends to not make them around you, but they refuse to? You’re romance repulsed and have explained to your friend that hearing about their relationships all the time is bad for your mental health but they still won’t stop? Then those people aren’t respecting your boundaries and you either need to have a serious talk with them until they figure it out or you need to stop being their friend.

This can be hard to hear but it needs to be said. Don’t let your friends mistreat you just because you’re aspec. You deserve so much better and I promise there are better people out there.  

[gaypeopletwitter]

[selfvoid]

Aromanticism is what fits me best, but I don’t want to be aro. I want so badly to have some kind of feelings for someone but it just isn’t happening. I don’t want to be alone.

[satancantsleep]

WHY IS THIS SUCH A MOOOD?