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space is an inherently transfeminine aspect. i think its track record speaks for itself
USAmericans, no matter their marginalisation, really do fail to see people from outside of their country as actual human being deserving the same rights and respect as them
using violence to liberate people from sweatshops, unsafe mines, and grinding poverty isn't the same as using violence to impose those things on people. the idea that violence is morally repugnant regardless of context is a belief that every oppressor throughout history would love for the oppressed to hold
but i stay silly! *←said in the most world-weary voice you ever did hear*
I'm not immune to nostalgia for 2010s liberalism a la "this used to be the sjw website" but honestly ...... as much as the overton window has shifted into hell. What with the fascism. It did always kinda suck though didn't it
We Are having such an insane wave of antifeminism in otherwise lefty queer progressive type spaces but it's easy to forget what we used to have was, like. Pussy hats
That being said we did have Black people here before tumblr exploded their blogs. Women, even. And we had sex workers, too. Tumblr's political climate getting Worse can be pretty clearly traced to nuking all the Black women (2016) and sex workers (2018) and trans women (Right Now)
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The “hrt will make you boy crazy” is just some genderplay kink, it’s harmless and fun for ppl who are into that kind of fetish
uh no
there are dozens of girls in my notes telling me how scared the idea of suddenly liking men made them. it's such a pervasive idea that im constantly seeing freshly out girls terrified and asking for advice because they desperately don't want it to happen.
I've never once seen it even be used in a kink context come to think of it, it's always some poor scared trans lesbian desperate for it not to be true and a bunch of people saying oh don't worry about it if it happens it happens men are actually great tehe.
If you need to hear this, you can be a trans woman and a lesbian, you are allowed to like women and it doesn't make you a predator or any less trans. i love you <3
no it fucking isn't stop telling people this.
this post is full of people talking about how scared shit like this made them, it's just not fucking true stop saying it.
For most people transitioning is a huge change, you are figuring out who you are and what exactly you want in life, it is natural that *some* people may experience and explore their sexuality along with this. This has nothing to do with hrt.
To suggest that your hormones will influence your attraction is honestly wildly misogynistic. "You're taking the woman drug so of course you are going to start liking men, real women are attracted to men." do you fucking hear yourself?
Every girl that has put off hormones or transitioning all together because of this deserves a fucking apology right now.
I agree with almost everything you're saying, I just have to point out that you misread that last one a little. When they said its a dice roll, it seems like you interpreted it as it will change your sexuality, but that's not what was said. They were saying that it can change your sexuality, which it can. It also might not. Both can happen, and it is good to be aware of that.
oh my fucking god im going to start killing wtf are you people talking about
hrt will not fucking change your sexuality, it's not a dice roll, it won't "maybe" do it it isn't something to be fucking aware of fuck off
some people, over their transition experience changes in their sexuality. this has fucking nothint to do with hrt stop telling vulnerable girls this all you're doing is scaring people away from potentially life saving treatment by telling them it might have an incredibly unwanted side effect that doesn't fucking exist. fuck you
Its in the packet they give you, that it can do that.
oh yea because trans health care professionals are so knowledgeable and smart, I'm sure it also says 2mg of estrogen and no t blocker is a good dose
fuck off
sorry but realistically it can some degree change what you perceive as attractive. Its a huge change in your endocrine system and physical and sexual attraction are partly also based on this. Will this "drastically change" your sexuality: probably not unless you let it. Will it change what you find attractive in other people: maybe?
omg really?? will it make me like the colour pink as well? make me dumb and weak? make me a good little woman for a big strong man?
shut up and leave me alone
... I need you all to bring a little more thought to this than "the chemicals are turning the frogs gay". that's not how any of this works. vague handwaving at the endocrine system is not a rational thought process, you're just professing your ignorance. you don't know anything about the endocrine system.
there is absolutely 0 reason to believe that HRT will make you like men. literally just no good reason.
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This sucks, man. A passing heroine got my pet dark knight pregnant and now i've got a litter of paladins tearing up my couches.
it was always t4t, they're both trans women
if I ever mention a couple they're both trans women
^ this exactly
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one consequence of transmisogyny (but not unique to it) is that it makes you into a paranoiac. take the example of the "degendering they" or like the "backhanded compliment," relatively minor interpersonal interactions that trans women increasingly feel hypervigilant about. it's probably counterproductive to assume everyone who gives you a compliment or refers to you as "they" or "this person" (<- phrase that actually revolts me a little now in this context) is doing so condescendingly, in a malicious or even just incidentally diminishing way. but also, everything about your life as a trans woman encourages you to be on alert for these kinds of cues, because if you're not paying attention to them then when the hammer drops it will hit that much harder.
just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not after you.
I’m waiting at a straight bar for this really cute trans guy I have a crush on to show up for a drink. He noted, teasingly, that I was a “fancy bitch,” and so picked a craft cocktail bar that billed itself as a “whiskey and bitters emporium.” Unfortunately, the only mixed drink I tolerate is pineapple juice and spicy tequila. The bartender, a dimpled woman with envious curls, eyed me with curiosity when I ordered it, and then said “on the house” when I began to rummage through my purse for a loose ten. I knew why the drink was free, but just in case I didn’t, the bartender said that she’d seen me around and I was a really interesting person. I thought my crush would understand my irritation at this: like, please, I already know I’m trans, just let me forget it for a second while I try to be a girl on a date with a boy. But when he arrived, he didn’t get it. A free drink was a free drink, and she didn’t give him one.
Now he wants to know why all the trans girls in Seattle are so angry, act so traumatized. “It’s not like you’re a bunch of child soldiers. Your parents weren’t killed in front of you.” He asserts that even when something nice happens, like a free drink, trans girls get triggered. Like everything is a wound, everything is trauma. He starts talking about this trans girl he met a few months ago; how all she did was bitch about AFABS and encourage cis scum to die. He wanted to be her friend, but she called trans guys Aidens, and did things like pick up all her meals drive-through, because she was convinced people inside would stare at her or misgender her. He describes the house this girl lives in—a coven of trans women polyamorously fucking each other to biblical levels of drama over the soundtrack of Skyrim on PS3, all the while telling each other how shitty the world was away from each other, until they so confused micro-aggressions for deep violence that they walked around with knives in their boots and canisters of mace dangling from their purses—and I exhale with frustration when I realize exactly which girl he’s talking about.
Two feelings rise. I don’t want to be categorized with Lexi. I want to be appealing to my crush. So I tell him I’m not like that. I’m not angry all the time, much less armed. But internally, I’m thinking, of course trans girls all love and fuck each other. Who else will? When I first learned the term brick for those square never-will-be-passable trans women, it was auxiliary to an explanation for another term, masonry: as in brick-on-brick love— only bricks get stuck to other bricks.
Except what do you do with the meanness of the word masonry itself—it was other trans women, the only ones that bricks could supposedly trust, who came up with that hilariously cruel slang. Brick-on-brick betrayal. But we have to understand each other well to be so cruel.
Most of the cruelty I’ve experienced has been inadvertant, the kind that comes from getting trampled so often that inevitablely someone steps somewhere sensitive. My first boyfriend after Sidney was a married man who fell in love with me accidentally. He could not see past his own bafflement at his attraction to see me well enough for anything like intentional cruelty. We met in hotels or he came to my studio apartment after work, and his cruelty, like his love, came accidentally. Once, he took me for a weekend in a fancy hotel in Portland—the Nines—where the Los Angeles Lakers were staying. When I came out of the shower, buoyed on a carpet of steam spilling into a hotel room designed in a modern style—no door, only a frosted glass divider between tiled bathroom and lush bedroom—I stood naked with my back to him, combing my hair and heard him murmur, “You’re so beautiful, I feel sick.” I looked at myself, then his reflection in the mirror and saw it was true. I was beautiful and it hurt him. I doubt he ever complimented his wife that way. His wife did not possess the kind of beauty that triggered a desire that made him disgusted with himself. My kind of beauty does not trace a path to stable relationships, a dining room set from Crate and Barrel, a Thanksgiving turkey with his folks. He had no conception of what to do with my beauty other than choke on it.
My friends who date women have it just as bad. Once in a queer bar, I heard a cute woman in a leather motorcycle jacket joke about her gold star status—she’d never once touched a penis. My friend Zoe had been drinking G & Ts for an hour before that, working up the nerve to ask this woman out. I found Zoe fifteen minutes later, outside the bar, soaked from hiding in someone’s dew-covered hedge on 15th, where she had cried softly in frustration.
“Yeah, that’s transphobia,” my crush agrees, “but not trauma.” He glances at my now finished drink, and I take it as a rebuke. Go pay for the next one of those. The more I try to explain, to list the tiny grievances that added up to an intolerable day in my life, the more I sound unhinged. A man hissed at me on the bus. A bunch of teenagers loudly discussed whether I was really a guy. A girl I only knew on the Internet left a suicide note. The cashier at Whole Foods smirkingly called me “bro.” The TV at the nail salon, playing soundlessly, featured some nonsensical ghoul that I realized, with a shock, was someone’s idea of a trans woman, someone’s idea of me. The guy at the local corner store revealed that he knew where I lived and shrugged when I asked how: everyone around here knows about you. And now, I get irritated at one thing: a free drink, and I sound crazy complaining about that, right? Some total loony acting traumatized ‘cause a bartender tried to be kind.
My crush sighs and pulls out an ace. He knows people that have actually been raped, have actually been beaten—hell, half of the trans dudes he knows have been, and they aren’t paralyzed with anger, convinced they’re constantly persecuted. We’re talking real Trauma, not someone whispering about them on the bus, much less the burden of free drinks. To which I know I can probably come up with some of my own friends’ real Trauma, but I’m too affronted, so I just shriek: THE WHOLE WORLD MONITORS AND MOCKS MY EVERY WAKING MOMENT!
Needless to say, he and I do not hook up. He leaves me to my free drinks and my tinfoil rage hat.
When he’s gone, I miss Lexi for the first time.
— Torrey Peters, Infect Your Friends And Loved Ones, pg 40–45
“That’s just transphobia” in and of itself already being its own flavor of that same type of bullshit. Like oh okay so do you think there’s a mainstream idea of “gold star gays” for gay men who have never interacted with vaginas? Do you think that transmisogyny is just some silly term used for attention?
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men are just so overwhelmingly assured of their default status in every situation. the way most men use "he" as the default pronoun when talking about strangers online or in a video game makes me so fucking mad. like yeah i hope you get executed via firing squad man i hope your life is genuinely as miserable as possible you bubonic rat fuck
like in this video i'm watching the user they're he/himming has fucking QUEEN in her username!!!! they literally do not want to consider a world in which a woman dares enter their little playtime world!!! consider submitting yourself as a candidate for the next episode of will it fucking blend
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atanta lol
Shut the fuck up
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