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@scrambledegg-idiot
sposed to make myself a blog. Sup. I'm Alex. Protector/gatekeeper guy for my system. Resident asshole (second only to the host /affectionate).
I'm pretty much endo neutral, pretty sure we're traumagenic but our host disagrees. Whatever. Endos are cool to hang out i don't have a problem with y'all, anti endos are too but don't be assholes on my blog. I'm not dealing with it. I'm the only asshole allowed here.
Fuckin. Idk man. There's an intro or whatever. Ask if you need anything else
MWAHAHAHA guess who's back in frontttttt >:3
astrid can you stop being so fucking cringe for like 5 minutes istg
lowkey don't even know how a system like ours would form without trauma. like if someone else says theirs did that's kinda not my fucking problem but please can we as a system just recognize that maybe some of what we've been through was shitty. and that that affected us. please.
if you can't do everything, at least you did anything.
it's not perfect. but at least it's better♡
i was raised by people who it was more likely to be scolded by for what i haven't done than congratulated by for what i have. whenever i did anything, it was usually just an "you should've already done this earlier" or "why do you only listen to me some of the time?"
i have to remember that my real family, the one i found and was not born into, would never say something like that to me.
i feel guilty a lot about only completing one chore when i have more on my to-do list.
or about half-assing a task because that's all i'm able to do.
to everyone who needs to hear
it's okay. any progress at all is progress you've made. anything you have energy for is enough. even just the act of putting it on your list is progress towards the finish line.
be proud of doing something that's hard for you. be comfortable with admitting that something is hard for you! no matter how small it is or "lazy" it makes you feel.
you're doing a good job. i don't care how many things there are left to do in your life.. you're doing a good job♡
how does this fucker still not believe we're traumatized. how much do we have to go through before you see it. jesus fucking christ man get a grip
Love getting to be my unfiltered self anonymously online. Was playing a Roblox game earlier and there are people out there who will never know my host, they'll only know me. Kinda fucking sick ngl
think what's cool about it is that they like ME, yk? Theyre MY people, which are very different from my host's ppl
Love getting to be my unfiltered self anonymously online. Was playing a Roblox game earlier and there are people out there who will never know my host, they'll only know me. Kinda fucking sick ngl
yeah im complaining again becuse its pride month and for some reason im not seeing any agender posts that have a million notes, we arent included in the heart flag gifs, and it feels like nobody is talking about us
please dont forget about agender people this pride month
dont forget about agender people who dont also identify as trans
dont forget about agender people who want to transition (binary or not)
dont forget about agender people who dont
dont forget about agender people who use or like traditional binary pronouns like he/him and she/her
dont forget about agender people who prefer they/them or neo pronouns or a mix of pronouns
dont forget about agender people who dont want to use pronouns at all
dont forget about intersex agender people this pride
dont forget about agender people who are bisexual, pansexual, lesbian, gay, ect.
dont forget about agender people who are aromantic or asexual or both
dont forget about agender people who just dont care about dating or dont want to date anyone for any other reason
dont forget about agender people this pride
I want to remind people that catching an STI is a values neutral event that literally just means you have a social life and got unlucky when you got lucky. There is no judgement to make beyond "damn that sucks bro."
You should absolutely have safe sex, continue to get regular testing, and use PPE, but condoms aren't 100% effective and intimacy comes with risk. I can't believe we're having this conversation in 2026 how did our culture fall as far as slut shaming someone for nearly dying of an STI and being open about his story so others know it's possible.
getting lost in boston is fun because I turned around on a street corner three times and some guy yelled "hey stupid! the bus is that way!" very helpful interaction and accurate insult, 10/10 no notes
one time I walked around a building a couple times looking for a bathroom and this guy went "this bitch thinks she's on a merrygoround, where the fuck are you tryna go? bathroom? one floor down to the right behind the door that says bathroom."
My very first time in Boston. I was absolutely miserable, trying to drag my giant suitcase up a lengthy set of stairs in the pouring rain. This guy who had already reached the top looked back at me with the most pure expression of disgust I’ve ever seen in anyone’s eyes, marched back down the stairs, grabbed my suitcase, carried it to the top, left it there for me, and walked away without ever saying a word. I think about him often.
For the people in the notes going "why is Boston like this": a) the insults are a way to show you have no ulterior motives when helping someone (and don't need to be thanked or repaid), and b) Boston was settled by the Irish
also the Italians. mixing Irish and Italian sociocultural attitudes had the effect of multiplying the Sass Levels by the power of infinity, in the sense that you get all of the clever dry wit of the Irish and all of the bitchy gossipy condensation of the Italians rolled into one very stereotypically overly-friendly American package.
also worth noting that who you are to them doesn’t matter. they’ll talk to strangers like that and will also talk to their best friends like that. they’re just Like That.
More from the notes:
What is it with Pride events and ableist micro aggressions?
There’s been so many but my main ask would be for people to please stop sticking random stickers on my wheelchair tray without asking (or worse, asking and doing it anyway even when I said no). I am exhausted and now I have to buy rubbing alcohol to get them off.
Hate to see a transmasc egg thinking he needs permission to be a boy. If you want to be a boy, just do it. “But what if I don’t experience enough dysphoria?” Doesn’t matter. I didn’t ask if being a girl makes you miserable, I asked if being a boy makes you happy.
You don’t need an endless list of reasons to transition, you can transition just because you want to. You can transition just to have a deeper voice, just to have facial hair, just to use a different name, just to kiss boys in a gay way. It literally doesn’t matter. Do what makes you happy and fuck all the rest or whatever that gay little twink said in little miss sunshine.
@i-suggest-transing-your-gender
