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rb and put in the tags your username without using the middle row of the keyboard
see I like bullshit like this more than those "the first letter of your name" things because this one literally can't harvest data because everyone's username is definitionally already public
I think every lesbian who says she wouldn't date a bi woman is functionally on the same wavelength as men who say they would only marry a virgin
it all boils down to "penis steals women's purity" and there's literally no non-shitty way to believe that. being gay doesn't give you a get out of jail free card for being sexist
i’m not hiding in the tags for this one bc i’m not staying mature at all-
FUCK lesbian-based biphobia. as a lesbian, i dislike most lesbians because of the biphobia that they spout. “eww, how can you like her, she’s touched a man” “she’s into men, what if she cheats on me” “i’m probably just an experimental phase for her” like fuck OFF.
bisexual women don’t fucking exist solely for you. they’re fucking people. fucking human. human beings who have SEX!!! with the people they’re attracted to!!!! shock of all fucking shocks!!!! the amount of shit that i see lesbians gatekeep as if it only fucking exists to spite bisexual women, it’s fucking laughable. my girlfriend and i were on tiktok (when i still used tiktok) and she (a bisexual woman) sent me a post someone had made claiming that “pillow princess” is exclusively a lesbian term, as if sapphic bisexuals don’t fucking exist. i wanted to fight all of those lesbians in the comments on my girlfriend’s behalf.
also a lot of biphobia aimed at bisexual women has everything to do with misogyny. we get it- you hate men. you don’t also have to hate the women/AFAB bisexuals who are attracted to them
TLDR: lesbians, bisexual women were not created for you. if you’re a lesbian that won’t date a bisexual woman because she’s been with a man and you’re worried about “being tainted” because she’s been with or is into men, you’re fucking missing out.
Signed: a lesbian who is in the happiest and healthiest fucking relationship they’ve ever had, and it’s with a bisexual woman
never forget the absolutely awful youtube video of those lesbians dissing bisexuals (which was the first youtube video that came up when i typed in 'bisexual' back in 2014 cause i was discovering who i was)
Things I wish I knew as a teenager
Hey frens, I made this blog when I was around 15.
That was about 10 years ago now. I have a very different, and dare I say more humbled attitude than I used to have about the beliefs I hold. So here's some stuff that I think might be worth saying in case someone needs to hear them.
You can't control people. It is also very rare anyone is doing anything to spite you specifically and if they are, you're being bullied or controlled by them and it's a situation you should get out of if you are able to. I used to think people wouldn't invite me to parties cause of some grudge against me, it was actually cause I didn't drink and they didn't think I'd like an environment where that was all everyone did. Took one conversation.
You can be 100% sure in your belief of something and then be given information that makes you question it. I have been saying very certainly that I am pro decriminalisation but against legalisation and someone pointed out to me that legalisation didn't necessarily mean what I thought it meant. It just means people wouldn't have to be in danger to get the things they're getting anyway. I was able to say "I hadn't actually thought of that perspective, I may need to think on that for a bit" and it was fine. I didn't lose credibility. I still felt I came across like I knew what I was talking about. It's so useful to know this. Smart people accept when they might be wrong.
Let people believe in stuff. The world is boring to some people without it. Let them believe in star signs or religion (as long as they aint a hater - we love the gays) or the universe.
Sometimes you'll have a cold and get the sniffles. Sometimes you'll have a cold and get a blocked nose or just a cough even. Those are both colds. When I got covid it felt like my legs were broken but when my friend had it, he didn't have that, he had breathing problems. We both had covid in the same month. So why is it, teenage me, you think your depression will only be real if the symptom is you ending up in hospital? Depression can completely drain you and make you unable to get out of bed, yes, but depression can also feel like an all consuming energy that it doesn't matter what you do, you have all this energy trying to destroy you from the inside. Your depression doesn't need to end in suicide for it to be real, in fact I hope it doesn't.
Fitting in is great, standing out is great. You shouldn't be focussing on either, you should be who you are regardless of how it relates to anyone else. I know you're a swiftie. I know you like starkid. I know you are you.
Anyway, if you're a teenager or hell anyone who reads this and relates and even goes "huh never thought of it like that" then this post has served its purpose. I swear being able to say "can I think on that for a bit" or "actually if it's alright, could I have some space for now?" and my favourite "I'm honestly not sure but my guess would be ___" has made me feel so powerful and so free in conversations. In this world, we're sort of pressured to fight for our opinion instead of learn from someone else's view. It's divisive and depressing and isolating and cultivates an idea where you're not supposed to grow. That's stupid.
It's gonna be okay, I am shocked at how okay it's worked out for me after starting this blog.
you ever have situations that make you want to take people by the shoulders and go "you are not 15 any longer. this behavior is no longer quirky and cute. it is exhausting for you and everyone else to act like a teenager you haven't been in a decade or longer. knock it the fuck off"
lots of ppl making this about adults who have interests they find cringe but let me be clear this is about emotional immaturity. idgaf if you're 35 and like goku okay but can you have an adult conversation without making yourself the victim is the matter at hand here
if a girl isn’t like other girls our immediate reaction is to think that she’s tomboyish but if a guy isn’t like other guys, our immediate reaction is to think that he’s not an abuser.
this circling tumblr again? really? look guys im a feminist but this isn't an explicitly feminist post. it's a shower thought.
"you should be an egalitarian!!!1!" i believe in men's mental health rights, i think the wage gap is just as bs as bmi, but like that's not the point?? ?
It's just a stupid little thought of "im not like other girls" is usually said in cartoons and shit by girls who are tomboyish but "im not like other guys" is usually said by the guys who arent like the jock type in those shows.
"youre back peddling!" ...dude this was maybe 3/4 years ago? let it go guys
leitmotifs never get old to me like holy shit dude there’s this melody that corresponds to this one guy and if you hear the melody it means the guy is there. holy shit. and sometimes it refers to ideas too not just guys. has anyone heard about this
Sometimes something fucked up happens to the guy and their melody gets fucked up too. Sometimes the thing that fucked them up also has its own melody and when the first melody gets fucked up the second melody gets mixed in
no fucking way dude. are you serious
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tw verbal/emotional abuse mentions: Hey, i've went through a lot. It's hard to admit that but I'm starting to realise that what I've been through is not my fault and that I don't deserve this and I certainly didn't when I was a kid. So if I can help just one of you, even if it's me in the future, it could be worth something.
If you know the song Lullabies by All Time Low, or even what it's about, that's essentially what I've been through, I love that song thank you Alex Gaskarth.
I don't think people talk about the different stages of this much. Personally, I think the first step in this is the outburst. When the abuser will scream and ridicule and threaten you. This is the part most people refer to when thinking about the abuse. You hide, rock back and forth, cry, start contemplating escape plans and how well you can barricade your door. You're terrified and suddenly you're 5 and are living in a horror movie. Any strength you had is Gone. Any bravery, any willpower, all gone. You also feel guilty. You think you pushed them to that and you could have prevented it. Someone's reaction to the word "no" is not a reason you shouldn't say it. You can learn so much about a person by their reaction to the word "no". If their reaction makes you feel scared, that's not on you.
Then there's the night of the abuse. You're contemplating sleeping but you don't know if you can. What if you miss something? What if they snap? Will you be safe? It's the most restless night of your life.
The worst part is the morning after. Nothing will ever be quieter than a house after an abusive outburst. It's the worst quiet in the world. You keep thinking it's going to happen again, you think you should apologise to the innocent bystanders you caused the abuser to abuse. A lot of people talk about fear and panic as thinking the world is ending. No one talks about the feeling that the world has already ended and you're just walking in the debris of your own home. It's all still intact but it feels like a wasteland.
So you can either wait until the next one, scared of every wrong move or raised voice. Or, you can move on. You can use this anxiety as fuel to get stronger, you can use it as a catalyst to get therapy, you can do everything in your power to become whole again. I beg you not to let this affect anything about how you treat others. Empathy is a beautiful gift and while you should have boundaries and not be taken advantage of, you should expect the best in people still. It'll help things be so much less miserable.
I hope you're okay I really do. I survived this shit, so can you, i promise.
i remember when the only lauren lopez solo we had was pigfarts/boy toy and we were dyING THIRSTING STARVING FOR ANOTHER. then came What If from Firebringer and it was magical...but now Now, I see you younger newer starkids skipping Just For Once like it's not a meal we were all craving/needing in 2015. and that's valid, you do you, you're wrong but you're you
supernatural was better before the introduction of castiel.
most controversial thing i've said on this site
saying this on the year of 2024 when the creator himself said castiel saved this fuckass show 😭😭
creator sent him to superhell for being gay i get my opinion nah haha fr like enjoy what you want, controversy amused me a little, my opinion means fuck all to your enjoyment and i really hope it still brings you joy man
i watched the goddang vampire diaries like i have no legs to stand on here
supernatural was better before the introduction of castiel.
most controversial thing i've said on this site
stephanie lauter is veronica sawyer with better taste in men. i will not elaborate.
sometimes you have a cold and you get a runny nose, sometimes you have a cold and you don't get a runny nose. both of those are colds even if it's different symptoms to the same person. you can have a depressive episode that's you going numb and not feeling anything and then later on you can have a depressive episode that's more about feeling too much. both are valid depressive episodes. don't invalidate yourself dude
my attraction to women grows stronger watching Angela Giarratana break plates and idk why
did anyone else who grew up christian and neurodiverse just make up their own batshit explanations because no one would tell us anything??? Like my catholic church barely mentioned relationships to the point idek if my church was homophobic or not like just forgot they existed. So what my brain fully thought happened was that when you got married, God would send down an angel and like "yo how many kids do you want" and you'd say like 3 and God would be like "easy squeezy no problemo 3 kids in your lifetime" and I guess unplanned pregnancies or babies out of wedlock were works of the devil?
Please tell me I'm not the only one who made this stuff up
Paul: So your telling me that bright blue alien spores are what allows you to control your human body?
Bug: Yup! Why'd you ask?
Paul: Because bright blue alien spores from space control me and my friend back home! You don't think...
Bug: No.... it can't.... no...
so i totally understand the concepts of like harmony and counter melodies etc but it will never not be funny to me to imagine that steph/mariah is just singing a completely different tune because no one told her in songs like "Go Go Nighthawks" and Bury The Bully from NPMD. Like cmon someone else must be amused by that concept right? But I stan everyone in starkid lets be real
