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[asaltysquid]

The divine act of creation. To craft and mold yourself to completion.

[internalriot]

if u r trans no matter what ur agab and ur gender may be there is a good chance u will have a voice in ur head telling u that u need to lose weight to pass and to have people take u seriously . that is the voice of the DEVIL do NOT LISTEN TO IT !!!!

[mynqzo]

everyday i trans my gender, cross my dressing, gay my sex

[intolunarorbit]

Who else up being soooo eepy always :3

[pirateprincessjess]

Yalll want to see some trans joy?!

Josie and I get to go swimming this weekend!! I know that doesn’t seem like much, but for a couple of trans women this is a big deal, and I AM SO EXCITED

[lookadreygon]

Now I wish I had a private pool so I could invite all my trans friends over for a swim!

[pirateprincessjess]

It turns out that you can rent pools for like 50 bucks an hour. I know that’s a lot of money, but if you divide it up among enough people it ends up being pretty doable!

[baldboydyke-deactivated20231030]

Gender Renaissance: a genderqueer zine

Gender Renaissance is a zine that's about beginning to listen to people's personal experiences with their gender, by simply starting with as

My zine is finished and available for purchase on Gumroad!

Thanks so much to the 'tumblrinas' that contributed!

@nuclearjazzhands @chiimeraangel @faehalfwit @crystalqueerenby

And to those that didn't get to but we're still Incredibly supportive during the process; thank you as well!!

[baldboydyke-deactivated20231030]

[cuntvonkrolock]

reminder that trans men also fought for your rights and refusal to acknowledge this is tantamount to denying historical fact

[cormancatacombs]

Some sources for those who may not know:

Lou Sullivan's Diaries Show the Transformative Power of Queer History

The legendary trans activist's personal writing is a radical gift.

Pioneering gay, trans man Lou Sullivan, who died in 1991, in his own words

Lou Sullivan was arguably one of the first publicly gay trans men, known for campaigning for gay trans men to access transition healthcare.

[colourofthekites]

oh we won, this is gonna be a cinematic event

[lamborghinea-pig]

reblog if you are full of transgender and homosexuality

[artistalley]

Magic Juice

A piece celebrating the gender euphoria testosterone gives me!

Want more @lekrow? Check out what else is featured here on @artistalley.

[lekrow]

Another piece I’m so excited to have featured! Happy Pride shout-out to my trans siblingsss! 🏳️‍⚧️❤️✨

[thesesummersonspoet]

aaaaand that’s the tea. 

[wootwona]

since the old version of this post was flagged for 'adult content'...

reblog this post if your account is a trans safe space or owned by a trans person!

along with that, reblog if your account is a trans non-binary spectrum safe space or owned by someone on the trans enby spectrum!

[ahamkaracature]

Ooh what does this button do?

[romysoph-deactivated20240121]

butch teddy bear... if you even care...

[polyamorouspunk]

We need kink at pride because “kink” isn’t just kink. “Kink” is:

That boy wearing jeans that are too tight

Your neighbors and their “friend” that lives with them

Having a beard and wearing a skirt

Wearing any kind of choker

Literally anything else they decide goes against the “norm”, and it can be literally anything. That is why we need kink at pride.

[xkilljoy]

No we don't. Respect ppls boundaries. If respect isn't normal anymore what will be normal then? Anything, no matter how it impacts or scars other peoples lives? Kink doesn't belongs to pride.

[polyamorouspunk]

Look around you. Do you see where “No Kink At Pride” has led? Being transgender is illegal now. Exactly what people said would happen. You know what’s going to be next? Being gay is going to be illegal. Because being gay is not “respecting straight people’s boundaries”. They don’t want to see you. They want to kill you.

[lynati]

xkilljoy has yet to realize that what they are and what they look like- whatever they are, and whatever they look like- is considered "kink" by not only the people who started the "no kink at pride!" rhetoric, but by many who have picked up that torch in the recent years. They don't realize that by supporting this rhetoric, they are actually agreeing that they themselves don't belong at pride. Because still to this day, a lot of people see any degree of queerness as the same as kink, and they will joyfully jump on the "no kink at pride!" bandwagon to shove as many queer people out of pride as they possibly can, until they can make "pride" entirely their own thing with an entirely new meaning. Those are absolutely the kind of people you are chanting "no kink at pride!" alongside, even if that's not what you personally mean by it. And when those people chant, "respect my boundaries!" what they mean is, "STOP EXISTING!!" Are you SURE those are the things you want the people in your community to hear you say, now that you know they are actually dogwhistles for something far more insidious than a strong disapproval of people wearing tight leather clothing in public? Are you SURE you're standing with the people you really want to be standing with? Please take the time to actually think about it.

[homoidiotic]

1990s FTM portraits by trans photographer Dean Kotula (featured in his book The Phallus Palace read here)

[dykescully]

dykes for trans rights quilt - sarah-joy ford

[jupitervelvet]

t4t Adam and Eve

[crazywolf828]

so its just like a fetish...?

Y'all see what I mean when I say I get crap for it?

No! It is not a fetish! It's this neat term called gender nonconforming. Y'see I'm a female, I was born as a female, but my ideal self would have a dick and no tits. I've had plenty of people tell me I'm confused, that I'm just trans, but they're all wrong. I tried that, went through that gender exploration and it just wasn't me, I'm not a guy.

It's not a fetish to present the way I am, who I am. You wouldn't call a nonbinary person fetishistic for wearing a binder right? I have a packer, a binder, an stp, these are things that aren't strictly for trans folk and people need to start realizing that.

I always hear gender (and the way you present) is a spectrum but people really treat it as if there's only three viable options. Cis, nb, and trans, while dressing accordingly to each. Stray from the image people have in their mind and suddenly your transphobic, your fetishizing other people for being who you are.

Basically, just fucking let people choose their own gender and present how they want. You're a cis dude who wants tits? A vagina? Or go on E? Fucking go for it. You're a cis girl who wants a dick? Doesn't want breasts? Maybe you even want to go on T? More power to you.

Fuck the people who say you can't be your ideal self. Fuck the people who say your body represents your gender. After all you wouldn't say that to a trans person right? So why would you say it about anyone else's gender?

If I gotta fight a million anons, make a million posts for people to understand they don't have to stick to the three options society has made popular than I will.

[ashelyskies-deactivated20241121]

If anyone wants to be shitty about this you can go through me first.

I hate that people call it transphobic to align this way, because, truthfully? What I see as transphobic is the insinuation that a flat chest and/or a penis is antithetical to femininity or womanhood. If you can't accept cis women that feel more comfortable with a flat chest, or having a penis, or whatever other instance of gender nonconformity you're gonna be shitty about, then not only is that real fucked up, but you're also a hair's breath from transmisogyny.

OP is absolutely right. People should be allowed to do whatever they want with their own bodies if it isn't harming anyone. That's just what bodily autonomy *is*.

Transphobia is an interesting term, because one of the core principals it revolves around is the destruction of bodily autonomy. So if you don't believe people like OP deserve that right to bodily autonomy, you're essentially stating that you only care about the fundamental bigotry that transphobia runs on if it has the "trans" prefix attached to it.

Leave people like OP alone.

When are we gonna get to the point where we stop looking for an "acceptable" queer target to bully? Cause this happened with bi people, then trans people, then pan people, then ace people, then aro people, then poly people, so on, so forth, and im sick of it.

[teumessianandlaelaps]

I'm a non-op binary transgender man. I have a vagina! Given all the money in the world, I would still have a vagina. I'm a binary man who likes having a vagina. It's not a fetish, it's just a male vagina. Sometimes men have vaginas. Sometimes men *want* to have vaginas, and they are still men. Sometimes women *want* to have a penis, and they are still women. People should have access to whatever gender-affirming care that damn well pleases them.

[spacelazarwolf]