Why Being Yourself Is The Key To Being A Successful Investor
You don’t need to be that guy to be successful. Who knows, but that media savvy guy or that uber-confident trader may just have a different investing time frame than you. Or they may have a different psychological make up. Or different collection of experiences. OR THEY MAY JUST NOT BE YOU.
And that’s okay.
Therein lies the secret. The secret to each of our celebrated successes and failures as active investors. Be yourself by getting to know yourself. Understand what makes you tick and why. How your losses and gains were derived.
And be comfortable in your own investing skin.
Sure, there are plenty of successful traders and investors out there. And many of which you should be following, sharing ideas with, and learning from. But there is a fine line between reading advice and needing advice. As investors, we need to learn to stand our own 2 feet.
Few understand this as well as myself. I have been actively investing in the markets for the past 15 years. And it took me some time to realize that there wasn’t a cookie cutter recipe for success. Sure, reading and researching helps, but it doesn’t always equate to success. Investing is psychological. And because we constantly want to protect our inner-being, we need to understand how to tame our impulses.
I really enjoy writing this type of article when the markets (i.e. S&P 500) are experiencing some volatility and price swings. Moreover, it is during these times that investors learn more about themselves and build critical ‘experience’ inventory to draw upon.
In my opinion, active investing is one of the most difficult things anyone can endeavor to do. And unless we learn more about our risk profile, we’ll never be at our best.
In short, when we try to be someone we’re not, well, we’re not ourselves. And that either leaves us vulnerable to losses, drawing straws, or celebrating gains that have little to do with who we are or how we got from point a to b.
So what can investors do to take their game to the next level?
Keep an investing diary – This can include entries/exits, and notes. If nothing else, it will keep you accountable.
Make a plan and follow it – Even if this leads to some losses early on, you’ll be able to figure out if you are better at investing on longer time frames or trading shorter ones. Set realistic goals and be okay taking profits (or losses) to refresh your capital for the next opportunity.
Minimize losses – Big losses greatly damage your psychology and subconsciously separate you from yourself (it’s that ego thing). Realize that losses are going to happen… in fact, a sign of a mature investor is knowing when to take a loss… and being okay with it.
Take care, and thanks for reading.

















