Selene

I'm a wolf, I use all the pronouns and all the gender is mine. Who's gonna stop me, the cops? I'll bite em. My gender is my plaything, toy with it. Seriously, get creative, neopronouns are fun and I use them all. I am not human, nor am I a person. Calling me a boy or girl is fine, but man and woman are human terms. Born January 2002 (I don't wanna have to edit my age, do math :3) My gender is also wolf. Anybody calling me they or it will make me very happy. Radiocollar ID: 1311-N I write wlw omegaverse stuff. Edit: Because a lot of trans people come here for support and community, anything NSFW will be relegated to a separate blog. Being here to support yall has become this one's purpose.

[selene1311-n]

Okay yall I figure I oughtta do a pinned post.

Hiya, I'm Selene; I'm a polyamorous nonbinary bisexual wolf therianthrope and my pronouns are literally everything including every neopronoun you could possibly think of, get creative, gender is my plaything and I'm hoarding all of it, it's all mine.

I stick up for trans people. ALL trans people. And that means backing up my transmasc brothers and nonbinary siblings, which REALLY pisses some people off.

My DMs are fully open if anybody needs a bit of support or a spot to vent; they're confidential, I won't post any screenshots or anything without permission, even if somebody is a total asshole to me.

I'm in the UK, which for yall Americans means I'll be asleep in the evening. I moved from the US though, so I know how shit is over there too.

I have an alt blog, @karaapocalypse, where I do posts as my CDDA character just for some fun.

I'm a game dev, I taught myself unreal engine and basically every form of digital art.

I also write smut, so here's the AO3 link; it ain't good, so just a fair warning, read the tags.

I'm a bit of a flirt, so feel free if that's something you like doing (18+ peeps only obviously), just don't get possessive and stop if I tell you to.

@1311-feral for NSFW stuff.

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[selene1311-n]

I am every gender, so that means that no matter who I'm with it's always gay >:3

[selene1311-n]

psst be gay (bi). Do crimes. (and welcome to the bi club 💗💜💙)

I love doing crimes! :3

[selene1311-n]

Updated my URL to better reflect my gender. I use the label transneutral now, as I've kinda grown to feel equally comfortable with masculinity and femininity; denying either just denies myself my full range of expression, being primarily masc or fem just feels like living with half a gender to me.

I realize I've never actually clarified my gender terms all that much, so here goes I guess :3

I am every gender; so pangender or omnigender are apt terms, omnigender has the better flag though lol

I use any pronouns, I like it when people change it up often, the more often I hear different pronouns for myself the better. If you feel a neopronoun is apt for me, please use it, I love neopronouns!

I am not human, so I do not use the terms man or woman to describe myself; boy or girl are both good though, especially if you make boy more fem and girl more masc cause that's kinda the vibe. If I'm a girl, then I'm a girl in a boy way, and if I'm a boy then I'm a boy in a girl way. Being referred to as a thing is also really good.

Between myself and my alters, my gender expression is a bit fluid; while I'm always every gender, sometimes I feel like exploring one part of it more than others, and it can really change on a whim. There is never a gender that I'm not though. Genderfluid might be an apt term.

[klapollo]

you are not a "femcel" you are not a "foid" you are not a "hon" you are a woman worthy of respect and taking up space and being happy and the world is yours for the taking you're ALIVE!!!!!!!!! you're a HUMAN!!!!!!! FUCK what they told you!!!!!!

[selene1311-n]

Me @ every self deprecating transfem person out there.

[brittlepredatordemon]

Actually, no, I don't think that friendships dropping like flies in your late 20s and early 30s because no one has time for that between overwork and family obligations and marriage and kids and partners and the ritual of the time slayer is normal and ok. No I don't think deep conversations and spontaneous adventures being replaced with a tired coffee every six months is a normal part of growing up. I don't think that emotional intimacy and soul bonds disintegrating in the face of practical inconvenience is a fact of life. I think that means something is deeply deeply wrong with our society and I will never forgive it for the friends I've lost

[catchymemes]

[ottermatopoeia]

[selene1311-n]

Damn it's almost like sex workers are real and generally empathetic people that provide for the common good and should be valued as people or something, who knew.

[myirlnameiscloud]

People who mock binders in any way shape or form are some of the scummiest people around seriously.

[selene1311-n]

There is something really nice about finally understanding your sexuality a lot better and being able to repair you relationship with things that might have felt taboo or uncomfortable because of their association with masculinity and/or femininity :D

there really is; makes things feel more whole

also just the general realization that I was forcing myself to avoid things for some bullshit self image

[selene1311-n]

Speaking of which, there really does need to be a discussion of just how taboo it is in some trans spaces to be into guys, especially among transfem circles. It's fucked.

There's this prevailing idea that, if you're going on estrogen, being a trans lesbian is the "right option." It's kinda forced tbh; being attracted to guys doesn't get any less taboo for for transfem people than it is for cis men. The exact same bias against that attraction just gets repurposed.

(To be clear, I don't identify as transfem anymore, cause I'm every gender so it wouldn't make sense. But I did, so the experiences are still relevant.)

[selene1311-n]

There is something really nice about finally understanding your sexuality a lot better and being able to repair you relationship with things that might have felt taboo or uncomfortable because of their association with masculinity and/or femininity :D

there really is; makes things feel more whole

also just the general realization that I was forcing myself to avoid things for some bullshit self image

[selene1311-n]

A fun part of being bi is that there are a lot of things I'd kinda just not thought about or repressed before; but knowing I'm bi, and being okay with it, they're starting to turn back up. There are a lot of things I didn't know I'd find attractive, but do now.

Facial hair, for example, is really... growing on me.

[2pen2wildfire]

parents are allowed to straight-up torture their kids with zero consequences. they can withhold food and water, lock you out of shelter, confiscate your belongings, bar you from human contact, attack and harm you and exert complete control over your physical appearance. and this is just the norm. if you speak out against it you're seen as a delinquent or a predator. even otherwise progressive people get uncomfortable with the idea of dismantling the nuclear family unit because they still see it as the best way to keep kids safe when that simply couldn't be further from the truth. it's evil.

[heyftinally]

This is also part of why I'm so loud about homeschool reform, specifically in the USA.

In the US, there is no meaningful legal definition for educational/academic neglect in any of the 50 states or federally. What this means is that a child can be "homeschooled" and exclusively be taught how to cook and clean, reach the age of 18 being unable to read, write, or count, and this alone is not considered neglect. That 18yo, should they even have the knowledge that suing exists, has no legal grounds to sue their parents for denying them an education.

In over 40 US states, a convicted child abuser can homeschool their children. So someone who has done time for child abuse and somehow regains access to their child(ren) can decide upon returning home that they want to "homeschool" their kids. Those children are now locked in a home with their abuser where nobody can see them.

There are no welfare checks.

There are no routine assessments.

There aren't even databases — state or federal — keeping track of how many homeschooled kids there actually are.

Meaning a child can be locked in their home for their entire life with their convicted abuser, learn absolutely nothing, never go to the doctor, and so long as that child is fed, clothed, and the abuse isn't physical or sexual, that child has almost no chance of rescue and no legal ground to seek restitution if/when they escape.

The only way homeschooled children get rescued is if they're beaten, starved, or physically neglected and they're able to get the right person to see that. Otherwise? They have to wait until someone finds out they were murdered as a result of their parents "homeschooling".

And feral homeschool parents love to jump down my throat about this, and then get even more pissed when I tell them I'm a homeschool alumni.

Because I know it's not all homeschoolers. But even one is too many, and the lack of protections should scare everyone. If you're a good homeschool parent, nothing will change. If not, you deserve whatever comes your way as a result of adequate oversight.

Children deserve rights.

[selene1311-n]

imo children should be considered equally the responsibility of their entire community, rather than under their parents' control.

[selene1311-n]

Decided to look up the omnigender pride flag and was not disappointed :3

Technically pangender is also an appropriate label for me... but the pride flag looks like somebody poured bleach on the trans flag unfortunately, it's all faded and a kinda pale yellow and I don't like it :( (There are two, but this one is more aesthetically pleasing imo. [Which is also legit the only reason I call myself bi instead of pan, the bi flag is just better idk.])

[selene1311-n]

Omnisexual

Omnisexual actually kinda describes my experiences pretty well. I thought I'd have a gender preference when I was first figuring out I'm bi, but I really don't, I'll be just as happy with men as with women or nonbinary peeps. But, at the same time, gender does play a role in how I feel the attraction; attraction to men feels just as good, but different, like there's a different energy to it. I can't really describe *how* it's different, it just kinda is.

(Also the pride flag is fantastic, no notes. And sharing a sexuality with Garak from DS9 and Jack Harkness is kinda based ngl.)

[selene1311-n]

Decided to look up the omnigender pride flag and was not disappointed :3

Technically pangender is also an appropriate label for me... but the pride flag looks like somebody poured bleach on the trans flag unfortunately, it's all faded and a kinda pale yellow and I don't like it :( (There are two, but this one is more aesthetically pleasing imo. [Which is also legit the only reason I call myself bi instead of pan, the bi flag is just better idk.])

[fieryfoxboy]

Genuinely what the fuck does this even mean. I’m at a loss for words at this point. Just. What?

[luminarycamille]

Probably this, which is most of the boys on this site tbh

[selene1311-n]

Delete this. wtf

[fags-in-trees]

So how many of these have you posted now? Do you just collect bigoted drawings of trans men or something

[selene1311-n]

Apparently; somehow I'm not buying that apology.

[fags-in-trees]

Gonna go out on a limb and say she just doesn't like people being mad at her lol

[selene1311-n]

Then maybe she shouldn't be a horrible asshole, ain't that hard.

[fags-in-trees]

Fr, I'm pretty sure she was making fun of me when she asked to be friends but even if she wasn't literally why would I say yes?? Half your blog is about how much you hate trans men and our first interaction was you mocking my age and treating me like a young child, fuck offff

[luminarycamille]

I was sincere but since now you decided to hate me I guess I won’t be your friend even if you said yes.

[fags-in-trees]

You regularly post hateful things about me and my community?? As far as Im concerned the hatred is mutual. You can't pretend to like trans guys and then constantly post hateful shit about us, it's a terrible way to get us to like you

[luminarycamille]

I never said anything hateful about you specifically

[selene1311-n]

oh yes because that *definitely* makes it better

I'll go be friends with Donald fucking Trump cause he never specifically said anything about me.

[whatthehellisthis-world]

This person isn't being sincere, she's an exorsexist piece of shit that thinks non binary people are "cissexuals with different pronouns", which is a disgusting way of talking about someone.

[selene1311-n]

yeah; hope her account ends up deleted, she's said some ban worthy shit

[fieryfoxboy]

Genuinely what the fuck does this even mean. I’m at a loss for words at this point. Just. What?

[luminarycamille]

Probably this, which is most of the boys on this site tbh

[selene1311-n]

Delete this. wtf

[fags-in-trees]

So how many of these have you posted now? Do you just collect bigoted drawings of trans men or something

[selene1311-n]

Apparently; somehow I'm not buying that apology.

[fags-in-trees]

Gonna go out on a limb and say she just doesn't like people being mad at her lol

[selene1311-n]

Then maybe she shouldn't be a horrible asshole, ain't that hard.

[fags-in-trees]

Fr, I'm pretty sure she was making fun of me when she asked to be friends but even if she wasn't literally why would I say yes?? Half your blog is about how much you hate trans men and our first interaction was you mocking my age and treating me like a young child, fuck offff

[luminarycamille]

I was sincere but since now you decided to hate me I guess I won’t be your friend even if you said yes.

[fags-in-trees]

You regularly post hateful things about me and my community?? As far as Im concerned the hatred is mutual. You can't pretend to like trans guys and then constantly post hateful shit about us, it's a terrible way to get us to like you

[luminarycamille]

I never said anything hateful about you specifically

[selene1311-n]

oh yes because that *definitely* makes it better

I'll go be friends with Donald fucking Trump cause he never specifically said anything about me.

[luminarycamille]

if you actually got sexually harassed you would be jumping at the bit to fucking post it, fake anons you send urself dont count btw, but you couldnt even try to be smart enough to do that you just made up baseless bullshit again lmaoooo

Oh typical man, reflexively telling a woman she’s lying about being sexually harassed. I was so disgusted when it happened I just blocked him, and when I went to check it’s not there anymore so he must have deleted it.

[luminarycamille]

He deleted the original comment, but not the following.

[selene1311-n]

That's a blank profile dumbass, it's a bot.