No. Stop it.

God. SHUT. UP.

[hawthorn56-deactivated20230602]

Must be nice to be a man and feel absolutely zero guilt or concern while you sit on your arse in front of the tv as your wife frantically runs herself into the ground with the never ending grind of holiday cooking/cleaning/gifting/wrapping/decorating/tidying/arranging/crafts/familial politics

[mautlyn-deactivated20170727]

it always bewilders and offends me that at family gatherings all of the women are up cleaning, cooking, clearing the table after dinner, bringing snacks out, etc., and all of the men are just relaxing and sitting around. I’m also up cleaning, clearing peoples’ plates, etc., because I’m expected to do that as a female, while my male cousins get to sit around and chill. Even the male relatives that I like just sit around and chat and don’t seem to notice that my sister and I are constantly being called into the kitchen and they’re not.

so anyway yeah if you’re a male you should seriously try to pay attention to who’s doing all the work and who’s allowed to sit and chill (probably you) and maybe like, get up and insist on helping…

[perceptivedyke]

the most offensive is when they sit around and WATCH YOU run about cleaning and make comments? like my dad will be like “oh make sure you get that too” but not even in a malicious way and I’m like….did it ever occur to you….you could be helping too….because it’s not my fucking job…..

[shamelesslyunladylike]

Another reason why I despise family gatherings.

[shrineart]

Like we had some of the dudes help but yeah I do remember some celebrations going like this.

[sexualizing-glitter]

So are we just gonna bitch about it online or ask the men to help? Cause you're literally doing nothing right now.

[the-movemnt-deactivated20170912]

Watch: The last type of mis-pronouncer is the worst, most insulting of all

[spicehamster]

My birth name is Haille, and it’s pronounced “Hay-lee” but people keep pronouncing it like “Hallie”. some even fucking write it “Hallie” like no, I didn’t misspell my name. One of my coworkers says shit like “Kaylee” “callie” and constantly forgets my actual fucking name. It pisses me off so fucking much. 

There’s a girl in some of my classes named Latha and one of our professors has been corrected like a million times and still says it like “Lay-tha” when it’s pronounced “Leth-a”

[kaldicuct]

Has it really come to this? “If you don’t say my name right you are oppressing me.”? Fucking really? I’ve got a name, It’s from Assassin’s Creed 3. Connor’s real name. I’m using this name to make it easy for people to look it up. Guess what. There are many ways of pronouncing it. OMG THE HUMANITY!

Ratonhnhaké:ton motherfuckers.

Remember, if you cant say a name right even if it’s not a common name. That means you hate the person who you didn’t say their name right.

There is no such thing as human error. Everyone can pronounce everything perfectly 100% of the time.

People with this mentality need to shut the fuck up.

[micdotcom]

Of course, there is human error, but if you make no effort to say a person’s name correctly you are dehumanizing them, disrespecting them and generally being an asshole.

It’s very easy to respect people who are different from you. Maybe you missed this part?

[christel-thoughts]

hey asshole, it’s not that you’re oppressing someone because you made a mistake. you’re being oppressive by refusing to learn to say their name correctly and forcing them to use something more Anglo that you’ve been trained to see as a valid/“normal” name.

you’re stripping them of the name they’ve had their entire lives or the name attached to their identity and just calling them whatever you think is easiest. You’re making your bias for anglo names their burden to bear. 

[brithwyr-deactivated20170122]

Something more Anglo? Give me a break. Pronounce names like Ailbhe, Daffyd, Eilidh, Defaid, Leagsaidh and Dáibhidh without looking them up. 

[neko-byodo-shugi-sha-deactivate]

Dvořák, also don’t look up how to pronounce it in Czech.

[kurosae]

Are people seriously getting offended by how people say names? What the actual fuck? How fucking sensitive do you have to be to get offended over pronunciation?

Let me tell you this:

Words are pronounced different all around the world.

A man from Germany might say a word differently than a Chinese man saying the same word.

Words. Can. Be. Pronounced. Differently. Based. On. Where. Someone. Is. From.

[emeraldmercury]

White people used to mispronounce my name and I thought it was racism… Until I heard Indians mispronouncing White names.

The point is every culture does it.

[bbs-butt]

I am white in a white country and everyone mispronounced my last name until after elementary school. Do I care? No. Is this oppression? Definitely not. Is it great when people make fun of your name or don’t even try? NO.

[fearinyourleyes-deactivated2016]

For fucks sake, people mispronounce my name ALL THE TIME even tho there’s not much to mispronounce. Y'all are so fucking whiney. But what do I expect from something as cringey as fucking micdotcom

[friendly-neighborhood-patriarch]

Folks with Polish names are LAUGHING.

[youngvolcanoe-s]

I’ve never met someone who’s ready my full legal name and gotten it right. Never.

[friendly-neighborhood-patriarch]

You must feel personally insulted and degraded every day. How dare regular busy people not make extra special time for princess! Don’t they know how important you are? Shouldn’t they take time out of their days to MAKE SURE they get it right WITHOUT you offering any help? The NERVE!

[bloody-white-wolf]

I mean, JFC, my family is largely Polish and even I can’t pronounce most Polish names.

[friendly-neighborhood-patriarch]

Even a relatively simple name like Casimir is hard to properly pronounce unless you know what to do.

[invenblocker]

My name is pronounced completely differently dependent on whether you speak Danish or English, due to the different way we pronounce i’s. I don’t run around demanding people say it in one way or another. Besides, I doubt you’d even be able to get my last name right, unless you’re from a Nordic country.

[cisnowflake]

People almost never pronounce my last name correctly. The thing is I don’t pretend I’m a mind-reader who’s 100% sure people are doing it for spiteful reasons.The overwhelming majority of the time that someone mispronounces a name it has nothing to do with racism and it’s absolutely accidental. The op is nonsense.

[it-goes-both-ways]

Still happens to me, people spell my name Elisabeth for some reason, or Haynes instead of Hayes. Not to mention my birth name, Shiel, which no one has ever got right, either Shield or Shiels, the hospital didn’t even spell it right, dad was listed under Shiels and even Shell.

It’s a cross we all have to bear. Not oppression, for the sake of all that is perforated.

[ldevstuff-deactivated20170216]

NAZI WHITE SUPREMACIST KKK SCUM LIKE YOU HAYES DESERVE TO BE HUNG FROM A TREE TIL DEAD

[it-goes-both-ways]

I’m Jewish, part Israeli. Best Nazi ever.

[lessdumbmoresmrt]

I dare anyone to pronounce Schachtner. Guess which letters you DON’T pronounce in English. Can you? Apparently you’re oppressing me if you can’t lol.

[it-goes-both-ways]

I’m guessing it’s phonetic in German? Sh-acht-ner?

Please don’t tell me it’s pronounced “Shatner” in English.

[ldevstuff-deactivated20170216]

nazis run israel you zio-nazi scumbag and zionists finded the mass murder of jews and looting of their Bank Accounts. YOU ARE A NAZI SCUMBAG

THE NAZI PARTY WAS FORMED BY ZIONISTS

HENCE THE NAME

NAtionalist ZIonist Party

[it-goes-both-ways]

I don’t know what I’ve done to anger you but I was just messing with you. While I am a mongrel and have Israeli ancestry, there’s also Irish, Scottish, German (yes, I know, sins of the father, or mother in my case), Spanish (most dominant) and a few others. I am really not a fan of religion in general but have a particular problem with the ones that mutilate their male babies, legally, worldwide. I’ve been called anti-Semitic for that. Also for mentioning that 11,000,000 people were killed in camps and gas chambers and the like, but people only seem to count the Jews. Everything is racist nowadays.

I suppose I must also be a paedophile and rapist because of mother, it’s not like I’m my own person regardless of my blood or anything. If you respond in all caps and accusations with no explanations I’ll know you’re just trolling, which is fine.

[sexualizing-glitter]

Omg Tumblr is actually getting mad over names. No one pronounces mine correctly. And its in the dictionary.

Get over yourselves.

[hwun]

[sexualizing-glitter]

Yes God forbid someone be busy and not have you as the center of their life. What selfish assholes.

God do you people actually treat others like this? Grow up.

[sciencealert]

Whoa. This is what fruits and vegetables looked like before we domesticated them 🌽🍉🍌 Image: Genetic Literacy Project #sciencealert http://ift.tt/1nZPLw1

[speculative-evolution]

I grew wild watermelons once. They were absolutely disgusting and utterly inedible. I had no idea what drove the person that first decided to intentionally grow them as food to do so, but I thank them for starting a chain of events that led to modern watermelons. Domestication is an interesting example of how the actions of one species can affect the evolution of another.

[sexualizing-glitter]

Everyone knows this is actually GMO right? Like giving it a fancy name doesn't change that... So everyone is just sooooo against evil GMO I bet you're not again "domestication". Just saying.

[gaymotional]

The Bible on Gender Identity

“I can’t accept you for being transgender, the bible says it’s a sin.”

Galatians 3:28 There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

Does it say that? Does it really?

[cl4yton-deactivated20180207]

Damn son even the bible isn’t transphobic, how about that

[zenm0de-deactivated20180127]

The bible is just a bunch of Jews wandering in the desert fucked up on mushrooms and water deprivation. Stop letting it dictate one second of your life.

[sexualizing-glitter]

...really guys? Ok so your argument about gender is that it's not black or white. So here you argue that the bible is saying there is no gender. That it's all fluid. There is no male or female.

Ok but no. Cause. The other two examples in this quote don't support that. Jews are not Greeks. Slaves are not free. That's very black and white.

So you can't just pick and choose shit to support your invalid arguments. If you do that you're basically doing what zealot Christians are doing to you.

[sizvideos]

Watch the full video

[thewhitefoxdevil-deactivated201]

Holy shit, this experiment is so exploitative of low-income children.

But ultimately this is hardly a positive lesson, tearjerker though it may be, nor is it some grand insight into children’s decision making processes. It’s an advertisement with a very pointed, clear message. As Becca Day-Preston wrote at The Debrief, where she called the video “Christmas poverty clickbait,” it’s cruel to impart such a choice on children in the name of exploiting their supposed kindheartedness. As Day-Preston put it, “…it doesn’t matter that the kids got to keep both gifts in the end. In the second that they thought they wouldn’t, when they were made to make a Santa’s Choice, they would have felt a combination of emotions I wouldn’t wish on anyone. All for the sake of going viral with a heartwarming tale of Christmas spirit.

@salon‘s story, which you can read here.

[kryptonians]

what the actual fuck

I’m so angry about this

[theroguefeminist]

It becomes clear how fucked up this is when you realize it would never work with rich kids. A wealthier kid would know that, whichever choice they made, either they or their family members would probably get what they wanted at some point. This only works by exploiting the anxiety poorer people feel when they are forced to make choices with limited means. Also just think about how much power the people giving the kids gifts have compared to how much power the kids have. The people doing these ads have the resources to give these kids meals and gifts year round in all probability. So now they are just using these kids for a few minutes like guinea pigs for a social experiment. It’s just nasty. Why not ask rich kids to give up gifts they got for Christmas to poorer kids they meet? And try to teach THEM a lesson in gratitude and Christmas giving?

[potashium]

And the idea that kids are selfish and would pick their own present only makes sense if you think kids never work to support their families. Or have never given up things because they know bills need to be paid. Kids recognising their parents deserve gifts is normal when you’ve watched your parents scrimp and save and work 7 days a week to make ends meet.

[yungcrybby-anonymousbosch666]

let’s experiment on poor people for some sort of poor people altruism porn.

[newwavefeminism]

Forcing poor children to prove their virtue on camera so everyone else can have a feel good moment. As if it’s a video about cute animals

[sexualizing-glitter]

Jesus fucking Christ it was a nice thing you guys fucking "tumblr'd" the shit out of it.

Fuck off all of you. Quit complaining about everything and accept the beauty in the world.

[sexsurveys]

Male and female respondents to the Great Tumblr Sex Survey had very different attitudes about paying for sex. 

[bellaandlunamae]

Did they forget about paying for dinner and dates? :P

[sexualizing-glitter]

GOOD THING PAYING FOR DINNER DOESNT MEAN THE SAME THING AS PAYING FOR SEX. IF YOURE TAKING SOMEONE OUT TO DINNER TO GET SEX YOURE AN ASSHOLE.

[crackjuice-blog]

[kingomd-deactivated20151007]

It’s accurate, sorry but it is. Unless you speak out against your people we don’t really need to speak ✌

[bando--grand-scamyon]

this was one of the realest things I’ve ever seen in a movie

[kingrudegyalchina]

I understand now

[sexualizing-glitter]

This is prolly one of the worst things I've ever seen on tumblr. And not in the way you think.

[smallyeet]

One of the most exhausting things about being around straight people is u have to explain urself if you wanna say things like ‘I hate straight ppl’ like it just ends up being this big over explanation and it’s tiring like chill not everything I say needs to apply directly to u in specific but the more u ask me about it the more it becomes about u

[fuck-no-bullshit]

god i hate it when im hanging out with a bunch of lesbians and they want to know why i say i hate lesbians it’s so exhausting 

[smallyeet]

Trust me they’re thinking the exact same thing u piece of lesbophobic shit, please never reblog anything from me and add your unnecessary opinion on it again

[fuck-no-bullshit]

hold on do you think i was actually serious are you really that stupid

[likewhateveriguess]

Sick egalitarian burn! Equal opportunity, lol! Let me go after a sixteen-year-old gay girl expressing her sheer frustration from living in a heterosexual world that despises her to the point of wanting her brutalized or murdered! Also ignore her call to refrain from engaging with her any further! Quite epic, indeed.

[idiotsniffingdog]

confirmed; she’s really that stupid

[mf-johnson-deactivated20190605]

White people really have no culture

Everything yall do you take from other races.

Can’t steal people anymore so yall take people’s culture

[aint-no-cure-for-society]

Greek Philosophy. Roman architecture. Shakespeare, Classical music. The list is endless really. Europe in the past few thousand years has created quite a lot culturally. are you really ignorant of these things. Even this internet you are using is a creation of white people as is the modern computer.

[mf-johnson-deactivated20190605]

Since yall culture so “endless”, stop stealing our shit then.

[feminismisfuckingstupid]

sorry robnominal but ‘’’’stealing’’’’ of cultures is what happens when people of different countries and cultures start to intermingle and diversity increases

way to be subtle about your race purity and segregation preference

[zanabism-deactivated20200529]

being called “racist” isn’t an insult or something mean that people are saying to you because they want to bring you down. if you’re being called racist you shouldn’t be brushing it off because you “can’t see the haters” you should be assessing your behaviour, your language, and mindset for signs of prejudice, discrimination, and sympathy/support for unfair and violent treatment towards racially persecuted people in your country 

[sexualizing-glitter]

but at the same time, people throw that word around so much (especially on this site) that it’s sort of lost it’s meaning. Some people have made it to mean  “I’m a certain race and you’ve offended me in some way so you’re racist”. Which is really unfortunate. It’s sort of like when psycho tumblr feminists call themselves feminists. It makes you not care about the entire movement/culture cause EVERYTHING is offensive from a guy saying your dress is pretty to iPhone not automatically knowing how to spell your name. 

Not everything is offensive. Not everyone is out to offend you. 

[micdotcom]

This woman sticking up for her fat-shamed boyfriend is the ultimate example of #relationshipgoals

With all the misogynistic body-shamers targeting women these days, it’s easy to forget men are victims too. Ashley Stevens and her boyfriend Christopher Glenn Reed were reminded of this fact when a picture of them ended up on Reddit. Response to the photo quickly turned ugly, with more than 2,600 commenters mocking Reed’s weight and appearance. But Stevens got the last laugh with an epic response for all the trolls.

[sexualizing-glitter]

I love when people send this blog hate mail about things...cause people always assume it’s one person running this blog. There are about three of us. your hate mail will need to be more specific. thanks.

[prettydollydumbdumb]

4chan Raid In Progress!!!!!!

4chan is about to raid #feminism, #ableism, #feminist, #fat acceptance, #patriarchy, #womyn of color, #misogyny, #pansexual, #lgbt, #lgbtia,  and probably other tags that they typically raid. They are going to post gore and other triggering material. They are additionally planning on posting a fake counterattack meme that urges tumblr users to “attack” 4chan by creating a *.bat file that executes “del c:/WINDOWS/system32″. If you are not tech savvy, know that this will corrupt your windows install and force you to reformat your harddrive. This counterattack will be labeled “Operation Burn 4chan.” Please do not fall for this. It is FAKE!!!

[prettydollydumbdumb]

Also fandom related tags, and #cute and tags that are frequented! please spread this to help those who could be triggered by gore and hateful images and words

[prettydollydumbdumb]

Elalalalovelylittlething:

The image above is an edit of the counter-raid disinfo. If you see the original “Operation Burn 4chan” (I will not post it myself), please respond with this image.

Punky’s Daddy here. The counter-raid disinfo is going to continue getting more and more complex. Above is an example of the iconography you can expect to see. But whatever it ends up being, please do not respond to, or take seriously, any shared bit of information that purports to be part of a “plan” to “take down” 4chan.

4chan can’t be taken down, it can’t be retaliated against. It is the most dense place on the internet for tech-savvy assholes. The purpose of all counter-raid reblog posts would be for 4channers to trick tumblr users into destroying their own Windows and MacOS installs. They will spend hours crafting elaborate ruses specifically to do so.

You give 4chan power by being upset, by responding with vitriol, by going on their forum. They desire you to say mean things about them. They want you to attack them.

Turn inward and protect other vulnerable tumblr users by spreading information about the raid. Don’t concern yourselves over whether they feel or do not feel victorious. Thinking about trolls gives trolls power.

Secondly: two dates are now scheduled for gore-spam: July 4th and July 7th, Noon EST. Avoid the following tags at those times:  #feminism #sjw #socjus #fat pride #deer noises #proud feminist #pansexual #doctor who #sherlock #transsexual #transmisogyny #emo #cut #anime #meme

Anyone who is putting in effort to spread information of this sort would be wise to safeguard their online identity.

Thinking about trolls gives trolls power.

[ayeka-heneini]

I don’t have a windows nor do I camp out in the feminism tags or anything of that sort. so this…is just another adventure in tumblr fearing 4chan…maybe they post this stuff to scare people?

and if they’re gonna post shit in tags you search then…idk…stay off the internet? or block the profiles that are posting it? don’t be a victim to a random photo on the internet. 

lol oh tumblr…you astound me with your fears….this whole post is literally saying you’re afraid of some photos. i get that certain photos can be triggering and are awful or whatever…but i’ve seen some pretty fucked up shit on this site without being related to 4chan at all…so just don’t search those tags. move on. stay off tumblr maybe?

[sexualizing-glitter]

this is fucking gold....tumblr is afraid of photos so now we all have to be whiny about someone posting a photo where our precious eyes might see it! 

pffftttttttt

[seethinkfall-deactivated2020121]

Overprotective Dad getting out the shotgun when his baby girls first bf shows up at age 14 isn’t ‘cute’.  Modest Dad telling his sweet precious daughter to cover up her shoulders isn’t ‘sweet’.  Concerned Daddy wanting to know where his baby is and who she’s with at all times isn’t ‘good parenting’.  Loving supportive father who gave his sweetheart a promise ring and danced with her at the chastity ball isn’t ‘old fashioned but harmless’.

Fathers who think they are entitled to their daughters bodies are the scum of the earth and need to stop.

[skeletoncoveredinflesh]

FINALLY SOMEONE SAYS THIS.

[sexualizing-glitter]

.....is this actually real? this isn’t dads thinking they own their daughter’s bodies...it’s dads protecting their kids from the would be assholes of adolescence. 

tumblr has hit a new low.

[riseofthecommonwoodpile-deactiv]

[gothicprep]

this is truly the most bizarre thing I’ve ever seen like despite the fact that they are literally marketing a dog bowl for humans (specifically, men) to eat out of, they have to put the word “man” on the side of the bowl in like the Rambo font so that your masculinity cannot be challenged while you are eating out of this dog bowl for men

[sexualizing-glitter]

And society wonders why we still have to teach men to respect women and such. Cause society itself has put them on the level of a common dog. An animal. Society creates its own problems then blames the problem itself for even existing.

[sridevi]

pizzaforpresident:

listen, i’m sorry that your culture is destroyed and that you all seem to suffer from alcoholism but we didn’t steal your land and we sure as hell didn’t do this to you

we bought this land

like 300 fucking years ago

get the fuck over it, get a fucking job, become a functioning member of society and shut the fuck up.

i have to work and go to school full time to afford to eat, you whiny cunts get free education, tons of race-specific scholarships, free housing etc etc

my family had to put off our disney world vacation by a year to pay for my braces

if we were native my braces would have been free

like fuck

idk

im annoyed

just gfuiahguihsg

“my family had to put off our disney world vacation by a year to pay for my braces”

[sexualizing-glitter]

Ohhhh op done fucked up