Basically there are 3 major ways
1. Sulk until you forget them (the best but the slowest)
2. Get busy(the moment you get time to think, you feel there's no progress, but this one is productive af)
3.date another (rebounds hardly work but now your brain is confused about grieving or feeling guilty, works best, if you are okay with emotionally whoring out)
Eh there isn't any true way to move on from people you really loved, you just start carrying on life with acceptance and sometimes gratitude that the forever didn't happen , but if you are looking for some words of wisdom here they are
1. Delete the pictures, chats, their number.
2. Put away /throw any gifts, clothes you have of them
3. Do not go stalk them on social media
Out of sight, out of mind
Yes we all love to hold on to the past, but it's all the past, you aren't the same person you were neither are they.
4 If you have common friends, don't talk about them, don't bring their topic, request them not to talk about their ex and stop having updates over them.
5. Start choosing yourself, now because all your "me time " is yours, you can choose to do 1 of the 100 things you always wanted to do
6. Channelize your feelings, I'm not saying go and cry for 5 hrs, but if this is your way then let me give u tissues, you gonna think abt them, then think what's actually you are grieving, their presence, the relationship, the future you thought you might have, the comfort you had with them, the person who you were when you with them, the happiness that they gave you, now having a good picture of what you missing will help you find a solution for it. There are always 2 things in life the best and the second best, you know which one you are going behind.
Missing them is okay but being stuck in the past is not, there would be a reason why it didn't work out so stop day dreaming about why it would have, it didn't and it' shows. I'm not saying that doing this will magically cure you, you might still stay up crying over them at 2 am, but gradually they'll stop being your first and last thought of the day.
Loving someone who doesn't love you the same is the most fucked up thing you can do with yourself. You can't keep craving something that's destructive to exist, why spend your life with someone who isn't obsessed with you. Don't you love yourself enough, don't you think you deserved to be loved, respected and cherished and chosen too?
The moment you start loving yourself, you'll stop caring who doesn't.
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