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[sherpafrankiefreddiesteviegeorge]

The self flagellation of evangelicals is lowkey kinda kinky but not in the good way but more like in the 50 shades of Grey way

[genderqueerdykes]

stop worrying about whether or not queer identities "make sense". gender itself doesn't make sense. "woman" and "man" are arbitrary constellations of traits and features that don't reflect how people who fall into those genders actually think, feel and behave. the definitions we have for manhood and womanhood don't make sense, either. according to cisheteronormative society, feminine men and masculine women don't "make sense" either. the biological sex binary makes ABSOLUTELY no sense, with intersex people proving that it quite literally doesn't exist.

why do queer identities have to "make sense" in order for you to see them as valid? they shouldn't have to. let go and accept that identity is not a scientific theory. it doesn't have to "make sense". none of this does. stop running others' identities through such scrutiny and realize your identity doesn't "make sense", either. embrace it. it's a good thing.

[mushyushy]

The rise of discourse about trans mascs/trans men in the lesbian community has me realizing something.

So many of ya'll hate heteronormative standards, but are all too comfortable upholding cisnormativity. I'm fucking tired of people saying "maybe I'm not woke enough for this..." instead of trying to understand queer people's unique perspectives on gender and its relation to sexual identity labels.

Here's my take: Gender is complex and is defined differently by everybody. Womanhood and being socialized as a girl can be notoriously traumatizing due to the sexism ingrained into our society (especially when we're taught from such a young age that we will always be victimized and abused for being women). As such, when someone transitions to a masculine identity, those experiences don't suddenly go away.

And no, you're not "invalidating yourself" by saying you're a lesbian if you're a trans man. You're exhibiting a unique combination of female socialization and male gender identity. And you're not invalidating other trans men, either, because you're not forcing them to use the lesbian label.

Stop pushing queer people into boxes!!! Especially when the lesbian community is known for its gender-nonconformity and trans identities (butches and studs, for example, many of which are transmasc).

I could also talk about how this corresponds with a rise of fascism and conservative values, and that by pushing queer people down you are only contributing to homophobic mentalities, but you CLEARLY aren't ready for that.

Sincerely, a transmasc lesbian

[sherpafrankiefreddiesteviegeorge]

The reason straight people think being gay is a choice is because they're choosing to be in miserable marriages.

[sherpafrankiefreddiesteviegeorge]

No, I don't think you understand how upset I am that the twenty Christians I was with over 4th of July did not bother to notice the manly, dramatic, and beautiful cover & title of the book I was reading (it was Song of Achilles btw), to ask me about it at all, to say that's a cool looking book, all so I could say deadpan and straight faced, "Thanks, it's gay."

[goingroguepod]

words cannot express how obsessed I am with the Keira Knightley/Jack Davenport audio commentary on the first Pirates of the Caribbean film

[theadhdgoblin]

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Autistic and Repeating the Same Phrase Over and Over

Neurodivergent_lou

[sherpafrankiefreddiesteviegeorge]

I have stumbled upon neo pronouns and I have to ask why does someone choose to use them? What do you feel in your bomes that compels you to not choose they/them? I love languages, literature, and anything socially gender related, i am asking in good faith, curiousity. Imo the z in zey/zem/zir is easier to say than th in them. Anyone else's opinions?

[sherpafrankiefreddiesteviegeorge]

Happy Pride sucker's! I googled something I can't stop thinking about so here it is for you. About 5% of the United States population is lgbtq. We're 5%! The mormons makeup 1.2% of the US! The gays outnumber the mormons! The gays outnumber th mormons!

[sherpafrankiefreddiesteviegeorge]

Evangelical Christians are the worse because they can't have a normal conversation. I can't talk about being queer without it turning into a very loud debate about human rights but it's okay for Christians to feel comfortable telling me and people like me should go to Hell.

I just wanted a coffee, why do you have to give me a sermon I didn't ask for!

[sherpafrankiefreddiesteviegeorge]

I realized a fundamental flaw in applying Christlike love. Jesus knew he was going to die and rise again. Could you imagine facing your enemies knowing you would be resurrected? I'd be an absolute menace, which is absolutely why I'm not a messiah lol. I've noticed some Christians believe they have to love even their enemies and then they can't fathom why their lgbtq friends/family might speak ill of Christians in general. You can't love someone who means you or your community harm. Jesus had an advantage in loving his enemies. He knew he was coming back, that he'd be okay.

[sherpafrankiefreddiesteviegeorge]

Was talking with some conservative family members. They said, "i can't understand why you're so upset, the world is getting better," and my knee jerk thought was, "because we progressives dragged y'all kicking and screaming into the future and will continue to do so!"

[neverindifferent-deactivated202]

I spent a whole damn week on this 😭 anyway here are some jjk boyz 🩵🩵

my thoughts about each little sketch below the cut 🤘🏼

(click for better quality!)

(do not repost my art anywhere <3)

top left: satosugu being cute, what else is there to say really 🫶🏼 (suguru hand over your gender pls 🫴🏼)

bottom left: Toge!! Jjk zero look because I love that so much. He’s underrated tbh ✌🏼

top middle: Okkotsu my timid little guy!! 🫂 I gave him cursed speech headphones bc I need him and toge to have conversations ok? let me have this.

bottom middle: SOFT ITAFUSHI!!! babies!!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 Yuuji for sure loves when Megumi accidentally falls asleep near him. sweet babies. wrapping them in bubble wrap and ignoring the manga 💅🏻

top right: ok this one is my favorite. Choso and the life changing spaghetti. That was what I named the layer and honestly I couldn’t stop laughing the whole time. The fear in his eyes. I feel bad for him but I couldn’t pass up the chance. 😭😭

bottom right: salaryman Nanami, close up and full length. work is shit, he’s right and honestly I think he should’ve stayed a salaryman ok. Keep your boring job baby girl and don’t go anywhere near shibuya on Halloween. I would watch tf out of slice of life fed up Nanami at his salaryman job. 😅😅

white doodles: hearts on satosugu, cursed speech symbol near toge, confused okkotsu, shooketh choso, sleepy megumi, cranky nanami and finally lil satoru doodle ✌🏼😋✌🏼

[gojosbf]

once upon a time they were happy...

[hashtagloveloses]

the thing about jujutsu kaisen is it really is as gay as everybody says and it is equal opportunity about it. yeah whatever the hell satosugu and itafushi got goin on but at the same time nobara’s backstory is like she was plucked out of an angsty yuri and accidentally put into a shonen. then two twin sisters who hate each other are fighting over her. megumi is telling yuji he never once regretted saving yuji and satoru is calling suguru his “one and only” meanwhile nobara talks about her literal ring of keys moment as a kid and thinking of her childhood best friend in her final moments. a BL and a GL at the same time we just don’t have time to unpack all of that bc bitches are dying left and right

[sherpafrankiefreddiesteviegeorge]

Reblogging for the ring of keys analogy 😂

[heyhiwhatsupdude]

Okay okay okay people are like Yuji can’t like megumi we know his type !!! But that’s his type in WOMEN and unless asked that directly Yuji wouldn’t say his type in men !!! He’s a himbo!!!! Pure of heart dumb of ass!!! No one knows if he likes men bc no one has ever asked!!!!