Kink stuff

Ace and bigender (not saying which genders at first). Sub. Old enough to be an adult and know basic internet safety. If you're my irl moot from my main go away NOW you never saw this 💖

[covered-up-bondage]

[ropepup]

think this is Lemon (@DDD04004120 on TW)

[letmebeyourkink]

To all my sfw followers know that i absolutely love you and that the only reason I don't follow you back is that this blog is for when I'm horny and I can't masturbate to my dashboard if there is a post about Doctor House every two horny posts. You understand, right?

But you are very welcome to send me sfw or nsft inboxes whenever you want and dm me and chat about whatever!

[letmebeyourkink]

Still hope all of you get off to my posts, somehow it makes if even hotter if it's a sfw blog. It's like being naked while the other person is completely dressed.

[miscling]

what does submission mean to you?

is it about pleasing someone else?

is it about serving a higher power?

it is about wanting to be useful?

is it about being something small and less?

is it about being wanted?

why are you submissive? what do you want from it?

[miscling]

it's struggling with the question a bit, because it doesn't think it's really considered it before. it's said a lot *about* submission. it's said a lot about the *how* to do submission, but the question of what it means to itself has an answer that's felt a bit distant lately.

what does submission mean to it? it means belonging. it means being something to someone. it means being wanted.

so submission is kinda about itself, in a way. it is about what it wants: to feel like it means something to someone. but what is it about submission itself? what if it has that sense of belonging already? what does submission do for it?

submission lets it be small, but so does being little, or being a kitty. is submission even the best way to let itself be small? it's a maid. it needs responsibilities and tasks. it can't always be small. there is housework to do, tasks that need completing. being submissive lets it feel useful, but so does organising and managing meetups.

right now it wants to feel good, it wants to feel small, and it wants to feel useful. maybe it wants tickling or its hair pulling a little bit. it doesn't feel like it wants anything too extreme or intense. it wants to be held and loved.

that's enough for now, right? it doesn't always have to push itself to its limits. maybe it's okay. maybe submission doesn't always have to mean complete self denial and enduring massive bruising.

but what if it's just depressed at the moment, and instead of wanting beating it wants holding? what if instead of being useful, it was allowed to just be a pet? what if, at its core, it is tired?

[miscling]

this is a domination checkpoint

if you have a submissive, this is a prompt to go and remind them of their submission. have them send you a selfie, affix a collar or cuffs, or otherwise do a small, unobtrusive thing to show them what an obedient, submissive thing that they are, or simply say hello in whatever way you do. be creative: they are yours, after all. remind them of your presence, remind them of your place.

do not linger, else your submissives may begin to develop minds and thoughts of their own! and you wouldn't want that, would you?

[trainwreck-of-thoughts]

Doing one of those 'visualize a switchboard with a dial marked 'obedience', now imagine it being turned all the way up' suggestions, but then I get increasingly surreal with it just to see how you interpret it. Your winsomeness is now at eight out of ten. Genderfluidity is at five. Ennui? Dead zero.

[bound-sadist-deactivated2026052]

[tinyyfairyyk]

finally got to be in rope again after almost a month 😇 thank you thank you @falingerx for making me feel all the things 🥰🥰🥰

[ace-trainer-alice]

it's called a stuffie because you st--... sorry, this isn't me. the low effort jokes, the base sexual humor, the implicit reference to penetrative sex. I've been under a lot of pressure recently in my personal life. I need a release, an outlet. rent troubles, anxiety, having to talk with my family. it's all been adding up more and more. so I'm going to need you to stay still and not fight back while I grope you for two to three hours while denying your personal autonomy and humanity, ok?

[ace-trainer-alice]

probably my greatest pervert weakness is that i don't really find 'disgusting' or 'gross' type acts to have much erotic potential. too much cleanliness compulsion even in hypothetical. my greatest pervert strength is my mystic eyes of mind control.

[phyllocnistis]

girl suspended from my ceiling... spritzing a girl suspended from my ceiling gently with water.... melting ice on a girl suspended from my ceiling and then pouring hot wax on her... much to think about..

[ace-trainer-alice]

My asexual sexual awakening was like three months after starting E when a girlthing and I compared heights by standing right in front of each other chests almost touching and making eye contact. the deer-in-headlights fear response in its eyes as i look down on it and it realized how much smaller than me it was. I spent like a year chasing that high.

[ace-trainer-alice]

in general play that your partner doesn't directly enjoy the sensations of but finds so hot conceptually that it goes along with it anyway is kind of awesome.

[toaarcan]

Happy Moon Landing Day!

[miscling]

sidling up to someone: aren't you tired of not being in control? wouldn't you like to feel power- true power- over someone for a change? wouldn't you like to let go of your inhibitions and just enjoy yourself?

sitting them on a throne: just sit there a moment, and look down on everyone around you, how they all look up to you, you can be their world, their universe, their everything...

giving them a submissive: tell it to kneel, and it will, kick it in the face and it'll thank you for the taste of your foot, tell it to open its mouth and it won't stop you from putting whatever you want in there...

whispering in their ear: you deserve their worship, you deserve everything you want from them. every single one of them is yours to command, why resist, why hesitate? take what you desire...

getting visibly excited: its blood is yours to take, pain is its to take, you don't have to hold back, you can be all powerful. you can be its mistress, its owner, its goddess! all you have to do is reach out and grab it by the throat and it will gurgle out a moan for you!

climaxing and moaning slightly: you deserve it, you should have everything you want... everything...

[little-lady-doeheart]

About your post about turn-taking: what should those of us in that "littlest" role do to take responsibility for it? Is it just a matter of communication?

I usually offer (or just take the initiative to try) to take turns, but I am usually refused with that same "you're too little to baby me." Is it just a matter of "pausing the scene" to check-in that the other isn't doing it out of a sense of obligation or something? Is there more to it?

Honestly I got pretty spooked by the post, and really wanna make sure I'm not taxing anyone else like that.

well it is certainly complicated, isn't it...? for many of us, 'how can i ensure my play partners are actually being honest with me' is a bit of a million dollar question...

it does certainly need to be accepted that a baseline level of impaired emotional communication and difficulty expressing needs and desires is essentially endemic to this community, in large part because of the nigh-universal histories of mistreatment or negative experiences. certainly i myself am far from being a really good communicator about this sort of thing! this gives us all a bidirectional responsibility towards both ourseleves and our playmates to both be persistently caring and inquisitive as well as determined and expressive. i think this manifests in many forms- pausing the scene to check in is never a bad idea and is certainly one practice that can be useful. in general what is important to emphasise is that communciation and exploration is going to be a constant, ongoing process. it cannot be a matter of 'they told me once so that is the answer i assume forever'. you may have to be quite firm and put on your big girl hat to ask these questions properly at times. 'you're too little' is sometimes an okay answer, but it doesn't really answer the question of what they want and need, does it? maybe the honest answer is that they are satisfied with the current arrangement, but it is a good idea to get a more fully formed answer that is not so informed by the in-scene power dynamic. it may be worth investigating what other sorts of play they are getting outside of you, which could inform your picture of how their needs are being met.

at the same time, you do at some point simply have to trust they are being honest if you have done reasonable work to investigate their feelings! it's also not ideal to be constantly questioning and doubting someone or treating them as if they can't be trusted to express what they want. it is actually very probable that you will hurt someone at some point, just as it is likely you will be hurt. that is the nature of such vulnerable play with typically vulnerable people. it also matters what we do after such hurt has occured.

as for spooking you, i do apologise. i didn't want to cause any guilt or negative feelings, but i did feel the need to use somewhat harsh terms to fully express what can be a consistent source of frustration for me. it seemed to me important to be quite open and direct, even if it came at the cost of potentially sparking discomfort. in the end, i do not know you or your partners or your dynamics, so i do not know which parts of what i said apply to you and which do not.

thank you for your question. this is a topic very much of ongoing investigation for me as well so it is hard for me to give conclusive answers, but i hope this was somewhat helpful. others may wish to chime in as well with their own suggestions. good luck with your playtime endeavours 🌷🌷🌷

[misscaptor]

Hii, do you have any advice for girls getting into domming?

Tiny bit of personal context, I'm transfemme (early transition) and have a.. surprising number of girls wanting me to domme them.

(oh also, if I have any follow-up questions, do you mind my DMing you?)

DMs are fine!!!

my advice is to practice making decisions without agonizing over them. 90% of the decisions you make while domming (what do we do next, should it wear a collar or a harness, can it cum now or should it beg more etc) are arbitrary. Learn to just decide. The more you think about every choice you’re making the faster youll burn out and get decision fatigue. If you realize you made the wrong choice, you can change it as soon as you realize. The most tiring part of domming is the overthinking. The second guessing. The “was that hot or embarrassing”. I can maintain my domme persona the longest when I can just say “whatever. I already made my decision. Time to move on”.

also, develop a list with your partner of things you want to do. “Fuck, what do I do now” was the main thing on my mind when I started domming. If you have your own list of options for stuff thats on the table you can go down the list in your head and select from it instead of coming up with things to do on the spot. Also, don’t be scared to just grab your sub and stare at them while you think of what to do. There’s no time crunch and the pause will make them anticipate something. Especially if you’re not talking, just looking at them and sizing them up.

last, something I wish I could have told my younger self that may not apply to you: it’s really, really fun to lean into being girly as the domme. It’s fun to giggle while you cut someone. It’s fun to coo over bruises. It’s fun to tie it up and make it watch you try on dresses and kick it hard if it doesn’t show enough enthusiasm. Leave lipstick marks all over it. Make it brush and braid your hair. Make it zip your dresses and make sure your skirts sit right. Force it to give you princess treatment. It feels amazing. It’s so worth it.

[ifitbleedsbiteharder]

i just fucking love playing hard into other peoples kinks i love it so much like oh honey im sorry i didnt know you had such a praise kink before i started gushing about how much i like how good a job you did, oh im sorry i didnt realise how much playing with your inner thigh while we were in public in front of our friends would mess with you, my fuckin dream job is being some kind of demon of lust sent to tempt people into fucking me

[ifitbleedsbiteharder]

I should stress, the appeal here isnt in pleasing you per se, its in making you lust after me, it's to turn your mind to the desire to have sex with me, its to make you unable to think about anything else, its about using your deep secrets i shouldn't know and silly manipulable brain to make me the centre of your mind, thats why im a demon