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Jimin: Bellflower
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J-hope: Gladiolus
Rm: Hibiscus
Suga: Water Lilly
Jin: Peach Blossom
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JK: Bluebell
Jimin: Bellflower
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J-hope: Gladiolus
Rm: Hibiscus
Suga: Water Lilly
Jin: Peach Blossom
if you could, what fairytale/story would you think best described the couples?
Im gonna be frank with you- they aren't the happiest of tales and I'm not a bit tale reader. My best references come from Brothers Grimm, Shakespeare and Hans Christian Andersen. I'll share for the ones I have already did, and then I'll give an updated list for everyone once I finish my series and learn a bit more about the members and their fs's.
Bluebell:
"Briar Rose" as they are currently in their "death like sleep" moment.
'Snow White" because these insecurities had to have come from somewhere or someone important enough to take this strong of a hold.
"Romeo and Juliet", if Juliet had ran from Romeo and realized too late that she loved him after he took the poison then killed herself to be with him...
"The Little Mermaid" specifically from Brothers Grimm where her body dissolves into sea foam. I say this because it feels like it speaks to a deeply rooted fear in Bluebell.
Water Lilly:
"Iron Hienrich" especially in the beginning because I'm sure the connection gave Water Lilly quite the spook lol.
"The Little Match Girl" because it seems as though their living situation is not the best and it has them yearning for something better. They still hope and dream and live as positively as they can through the periling cold.
Hibiscus:
"Cinderella" Because of their past reading
"Rapunzel" also because of their past reading, as I mentioned in the reading iirc.
"Little Ida's Flowers" because it seems as though Namjoon really wants to help them in their journey but they are hesitant to accept or even acknowledge the possibility out of fear that things will be great for a while- and then all of their "flowers" will die.
Gladiolus:
"The fisherman and his wife" except they are lowkey both the fisherman and the flounder.
"The Princess and the Pea" in the sense that there is something being a persistent pain in the ass to them and it seems as though Hoseok might be the only relief or help.
"The Steadfast Tin Soldier" Because of how much Gladiolus and Hoseok love each other without having met yet. It is palpable.
From where they started, to where they are now, to where they will be: Hoseok and Gladiolus
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Note: I decided to change + to cx for more clarity that it means crossed.
yk what this can happen for some psychological reasons. Like you said that they think that they are not good enough, this can happen when they become so perfectionist in everything, everything needs to be perfect and logical to happen things in a certain way. Also this insecurity can cause from outside influence too , like you said they should ask help from their friends in this matter right? What if their frnds judged them in past and dismissed them when they talked about spiritual connection with jk? People are so nosy about everything, I can tell from my personal experience people just don't listen they just give you their opinion which they think is right, so this type of people also caused this second guessing things in bluebell, also let's say bluebell is insecure about their looks , even if they try to love their insecurities , there are so much people around us that can destroy is by judging us which can create another kind of insecurities, it's like thinking they are enough but people even parents can also flame insecurities in you . I know this saga and a lot of girls thinks that they are jks fs , and they have many experiences and theories about it , and if bluebell knows about this saga this can also create confusion in their mind that what separates them from all this girls, it's kinda confusing af .
Also how people can know that what they are thinking is not wishful thinking and this particular thing actually made for them ? This could cause many confusion in them and you said jk being single but he is like 28/29 right idk? He is grown man so he could be in relationship, sorry if I am mixing 3D with 5D . I could be wrong tho.
But this all can cause confusion around bluebell about jk , ultimately ignoring him , also you said bluebell lost their believe in spirituality , this can cause when multiple bad things happening in your life when you self sabotaging and procrastinating with everything and ultimately it gives you bad results, then people come to accept that their life is made only for struggle and good things can't happen to them , it's kind of loop where bad things after bad things can cause this type of reaction from people.
That's it this are my thoughts, it could be resonating with bluebell or not , but don't take it too much seriously, sorry for the long paragraphs, haha 🥲btw your English is good and I hope you are having a good day! Take care.
Thank you so much for mentioning the psychological aspect of it! I feel as though a lot of people are trying to remove the psychology and the spirit from spirit. Spirituality is as much psychological as it is spirit and it's part of the reason why it helps so many because the brain is powerful.
I wholeheartedly agree with you because people can have more of an affect on our psyche than most are willing to admit. If someone is constantly downplaying your talents, you will begin to second guess yourself, judge yourself before they can as a form of protection from the harmful stimuli. Not to mention, everyone has different reactions to inputs because personality, life experience, and the childhood you experience affect everything down to the way you hold your own breath. It is also generational hence generational curses. Even I have experienced that. I grew up with only my mother and she expected me to obey no matter what because she did not have the nervous system to properly manage mine because her mother also did not have a nervous system that could manage hers. Because of that, I didn't have the strongest sense of self and anyone who had a will stronger than mine could take authority in the way my mother did. That led me to be in connections with people who would take advantage of what I offered and tear me down even more. It lead to a lot of second guessing myself but, through spirituality I learned to trust myself more and regain my power and authority over myself.
If Bluebell went through anything similar or worse, I can only imagine the amount of wounds that would leave, and how difficult and insurmountable it must feel for them to try and face all of it. Spirituality is so much more than "good vibes, live laugh love, love and light and peace". It can be a heavy task to many.
I'm glad you also mentioned insecurities because the societal beauty standards are insane. Society literally teaches us to hate our insecurities and to do everything we can to fix them. No one is truly impervious to the opinion of masses and many fall victim to them. If Bluebell had a parent or guardian who fell victim to impossible beauty standards, then placed those standards onto them from a young age, combined with media always uplifting very specified beauty standards while demonizing normal beauty and bodies, it would build a tough wall of insecurity to break.
The thing that is interesting about this whole Jk fs frenzy is that many people don't believe they are his fs from a genuine spiritual standpoint, they believe it out of desire and desperation, many out of obsession also. Many people desire the power, the visibility, the ability to say they bagged Jk, many want him simply because others want him. It's so painfully obvious from the outside looking in. And seeing how people used to dogpile on others, how even some people who believed they were Jk's fs would bully and harass others- I mean anyone would be afraid to be like that if they hold the same belief. Even if they are objectively normal about it, the abnormal ones will frighten you. And if they were a target of the campaign and tirade god only knows how much more aversion that would cause as well. I think a lot of it is wishful thinking, a lot of it is obsession, desperation, desire, an escape from their own lives. It is hard to tell if you are distracted by all of those things. And because spirituality is hard when it comes to shadow work, ego death, transformation, you can eventually trick yourself into thinking you are on a spiritual journey without actually being on one or getting better. From what I've seen, this exact thing can cause a psychosis- I mean look at Azaelia Banks. Without the strong foundation of knowing yourself in and out, through all of the discomfort in the shadow and ego, you can mess yourself up pretty badly.
Even though Jk is like 29/29, he is a man, a famous one yes, but still a regular man. I figure it would be hard to date for him because of reasons stated above. It's hard to determine if someone actually likes him for him or likes him because he's Jk. Even with money and fame, it would still be hard because people would also be attracted to him for those qualities and less him. Think about the average 28/29 yr old man you know, not all of them are going to be in a relationship because life cannot be averaged. Different circumstances apply to different people.
Like I said before, it's less about Jk and more about everything else that is affecting their connection with Jk and thus putting the "blame" on Jk. It's like If you were to choke on a cherry pit at the beach and then blame the beach for why you choked on a cherry pit and avoid the beach for the rest of your life. Because the circumstances happened at the beach or in this cause within the connection, doesn't mean the connection is the problem. It's not that they are ignoring connection because of Jk, they're ignoring Jk and the connection because of the circumstances surrounding it. It doesn't feel like there was any confusion about anything, just deep- deep intense denial and avoidance. That's why I say it's like they know, the knowledge is stable but the trust in the knowledge because of everything else is nonexistent.
"also you said bluebell lost their believe in spirituality , this can cause when multiple bad things happening in your life when you self sabotaging and procrastinating with everything and ultimately it gives you bad results, then people come to accept that their life is made only for struggle and good things can't happen to them , it's kind of loop where bad things after bad things can cause this type of reaction from people."
It's less them losing their believe and more so their belief becoming altered. It's like they viewed spirituality as unsafe and thus everything else by proxy was unsafe which led to them running the other way every chance they can get, convincing themselves that they are going the right way because it's away from all things spiritual. It truly is a loop because perception affects reality but many people believe that reality affects perception.
The last thing I want to mention is the fact that many people are more concerned about what's going on with Jk and his fs than they are with the group as a whole. I understand that the circumstances around them are shocking and "entertaining", but the hyper focus on just them- I believe is part of the reason why Bluebell cut themselves off. It's just food for thought.
Hi, your readings are super detailed which makes them very interesting! The way you read the cards is quite profound. :)
I remember a reader a while ago, mention to eh same exact things about JK and the possibility of the spiritual connection breaking down so he would have two potential lines of love in the future. It is unique to see it being brought up again because I never see readers bring it up.
When reading your analysis, I truly felt so bad for the both of them. Like there is a sense of yearning between the two but it can’t go anywhere. trapped feelings? I feel like the spiritual connection between them is very strong, and at times can probably feel very confusing for them to navigate because it can almost make you feel crazy. Maybe that’s why bluebell is having such a hard time. Maybe they descended into a period of like hardcore/intense feelings that never got results and therefore in order to not get lost so deep into the connection, they will push it away. To me, I don’t think it’s just bluebell preventing the connection from coming forth. I do think they are running from it though, and jk’s energy is the one that won’t let them go. Anyway, their connection is truly so interesting to me. Wishing them the best.
I’ll be back to visit your blog again! 🦋
aniidaniii also asked: "Oh! I meant to ask this in my original comment too lol. But if bluebell were to get themselves together, how do you think they and JK would meet? To me, since the connection is so spirtual, I feel like it would be a serendipitous meeting..sort of like right time right place. I just ask this because they are on tour right now and I feel like that could provide a lot of moments to meet people that maybe you wouldn’t have before because he will be hopping all around the globe. It seems like the perfect chance for everything to align?"
Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed my readings! The way I see it is, their connection and journey is only confusing to those who aren't them. It's like having a secret language or something, there isn't anything about the connection that is inherently confusing to them, but the circumstances around it causes confusion. It's less about the connection, it's strength and jk, and more so about Bluebell and their comfortability with it. For example, if Bluebell has been told their whole life by someone they trust and love like a parent that they are never enough, they will struggle to feel secure in a relationship or connection because they'll constantly question their self worth. Or say they were active when the bts tarot tag was popular and there were witch hunts for fs wannabes and saw how the wannabes were treated and also how they acted and that formed a resistance in them because they'd be afraid to be seen that way or to come to realization that they are another wannabe. The connection isn't everything, sometimes it serves as a vessel. Many people tend to forget the psychological components of spirituality and connections such as these because the only way to truthfully prove them is by actually getting with the guy but even then, if you haven't learned to let go of your attachment, you'll always have that doubt that questions. I also mentioned it being a perfect storm for them that caused a lot of friction with them even entertaining the idea of spirituality as a whole because of whatever it was that they experienced lead to them having an aversion and avoidance of all things spiritual which is an umbrella of things that jk happens to fall under unfortunately. These problems affect more than just the connection with jk, it affects their whole life, which would then affect the connection with jk. If Bluebell is stopping themselves from living their lives out of avoidance or aversion, then that would also hinder the progress of the connection even if it is unintentional as we do not exist within a vacuum. I think Jk is patient in the sense that he is letting them go through the motion out of both the belief that it is better for them to make their own decisions without his input but also out of fear that he'll scare them away if he tries too hard. It's less him not letting them go, and more him not closing the door on them. He sits in the threshold of the doorway, waiting for them to make their way back to him. He sits, waits, watches, and hopes, all ready to welcome them into the next chapter if they so please.
Truthfully I don't really like commenting on things that would take place in the physical as I feel that they can be affected. If I do get the green light from the universe to tap into it then I will share. It most likely will be when it has already happened or is close to happening. I do agree with you though, it will be serendipitous and something that would be hard for even them to fully predict.
I think it's beautiful that love can really just change fate itself. I wonder if there are other examples then?
It truly is a beautiful thing! I'm pretty sure there are plenty of examples if you are willing to see them. A good example is Jason Mamoa and Lisa Bonet in terms of celebrities.
Do you think Jungkook and blue bell will meet online or in real life at the end of this year?
I cannot comment on how, when, or where they will meet. Knowledge of an outcome changes the outcome, some things are better left alone so it can play out how it is meant to play out. I also cannot assure myself that there isn't someone reading my works believing they're Bluebell and then do something that would affect the outcome like using my readings as a blueprint, or that Bluebell themselves may come across something and become more aware and it chases them off, or that someone will send them the evil eye and affect the flow of things because of their jealousy. If something has no effect on their journey's I won't mind reading into it, but things like this do have a small possibility so I can't in good consciousness.
From where they started, to where they are now, to where they will be: Namjoon and Hibiscus
DISCLAIMER: These readings are for fun. Please reblog if you enjoyed!
Bro what is happening rn 😭😭 , what happened to bluebell that she/he cut off jk and spirituality? If the connection breaks will they both suffer or what bro? But if she /he lets say sees your reading about their connection that you stated here , what advice would you give to him/her that can rekindle their connection with jk .? Can't they go back to each other? Like seriously what's happening.😭🙏🏻
If the connection where to break, they both would face serious backlash because of how it's breaking. If it were broken due to one party making a clean and clear decision to fully separate, there wouldn't be much of a backlash other than Jk feeling heartbroken and having to learn to love another and go through a different set of life lessons and experiences to closer match the needs of the new Bluebell.
Genuinely there is nothing I would be able to say to Bluebell if they do come across my blog and read what I say. It is impossible to change the mind of someone so intently committed to the way things are. If they were willing, I would tell them to first address what caused them to separate from Jk. Address what scared them away, address their insecurities, address their fears, address that sometimes their mindsets can be wrong. I just responded to an ask that mentioned the exact same mindset that they seem have currently so perhaps that can give a bit of head start. I think part of it comes from the refusal to admit that they can be wrong. I also think part of it comes from the belief that it is enough to name the things and move on but all that does is name the things. It's like putting a chuck roast in the slow cooker without turning it on and expecting it to be cooked. It is illogical and neglecting the further necessary steps. I think this is something that Hibiscus experienced at one point in time due to the reading I have in my drafts. I'll post that one later once it's finished.
If they are reading I want to emphasize:
It is not enough to name the thing and move on, you must sit with it and work through it or else it will continue to exist and fester within you. You may think that you can sweep it all under the rug, that you are strong enough to suppress the feelings, reason away the signs, block out the calls but you are not. You will never be strong enough to simply block it all out and do nothing. Either you do the work and choose to continue, or say that you no longer want this with your chest. Not with wavering, not with "I think" say it definitively and let it end. If not, then I hope you are able to handle what happens when the thread snaps because it will be unlike anything else you have experienced.
I think I also want to say, it's less about Jk and more about, it's not right to treat yourself this way. Even if they decide with their chest that they don't want to explore this connection with Jk, they shouldn't treat themselves as if their life is meant to be nothing but struggle. I think no matter what, they have to clear out what's going on in them to have them take things in such a topsy turvy way, address everything I mentioned because you can't really enjoy life when you have these things running it for you. Even if you fully release Jk, it's not right of you to deny yourself things that you want and desire because you feel like you're not good enough or you feel like you should hide yourself. In any case, if nothing is done, I think the connection will end in travesty where both sides get hurt immensely.
Bro what is happening rn 😭😭 , what happened to bluebell that she/he cut off jk and spirituality? If the connection breaks will they both suffer or what bro? But if she /he lets say sees your reading about their connection that you stated here , what advice would you give to him/her that can rekindle their connection with jk .? Can't they go back to each other? Like seriously what's happening.😭🙏🏻
If the connection where to break, they both would face serious backlash because of how it's breaking. If it were broken due to one party making a clean and clear decision to fully separate, there wouldn't be much of a backlash other than Jk feeling heartbroken and having to learn to love another and go through a different set of life lessons and experiences to closer match the needs of the new Bluebell.
Genuinely there is nothing I would be able to say to Bluebell if they do come across my blog and read what I say. It is impossible to change the mind of someone so intently committed to the way things are. If they were willing, I would tell them to first address what caused them to separate from Jk. Address what scared them away, address their insecurities, address their fears, address that sometimes their mindsets can be wrong. I just responded to an ask that mentioned the exact same mindset that they seem have currently so perhaps that can give a bit of head start. I think part of it comes from the refusal to admit that they can be wrong. I also think part of it comes from the belief that it is enough to name the things and move on but all that does is name the things. It's like putting a chuck roast in the slow cooker without turning it on and expecting it to be cooked. It is illogical and neglecting the further necessary steps. I think this is something that Hibiscus experienced at one point in time due to the reading I have in my drafts. I'll post that one later once it's finished.
If they are reading I want to emphasize:
It is not enough to name the thing and move on, you must sit with it and work through it or else it will continue to exist and fester within you. You may think that you can sweep it all under the rug, that you are strong enough to suppress the feelings, reason away the signs, block out the calls but you are not. You will never be strong enough to simply block it all out and do nothing. Either you do the work and choose to continue, or say that you no longer want this with your chest. Not with wavering, not with "I think" say it definitively and let it end. If not, then I hope you are able to handle what happens when the thread snaps because it will be unlike anything else you have experienced.
Hi, hope you're doing good :) I am curious about this situation with bluebell, to be exact, her refusing her right path. I think life is confusing enough, so we are all at times not able to see clear whats right for us and what path to take. I'm not sure what the root issue is that gatekeeps the progression of their relationship. You mentioned many times that she "knows", but she is refusing to accept it, as it seems unrealistic (she's real for that). I have a feeling that self-esteem issues could also come into play, or a feeling of not being "enough" for such a star like him. Let's be honest, Jk is surrounded on a daily basis by talented and beautiful people, so you need the IT factor to stand out. Even if she would finally acknowledge it and set up her mind to "Okay, he's your future husband, time to get him", she still needs plenty of luck to physically access him. Which means, for them to meet up, they need to align in space and time to let the meeting happen. If she is an average civilian, it is way harder task than it would be for an influencer or celebrity (would love to hear from you about her status tbh, because if she's a celebrity and still is not willing to get closer to him, then that's on her, smh...). And in case of her being a foreigner, it's 10 times even harder, as not only is the location different, but also the language barrier. I'm genuinely curious what is lacking on both sides, so this meeting could happen
I feel like you hit the nail on the head but not in the way you think.
The problem is, they know their path, they know what is out there, what they are capable of, but their insecurity prevents them from standing in that energy. They have it so twisted that they genuinely believe left is right and when they get the sign to go right because they went too far left, they continue going left. It will literally take their guides bullying them for them to see they have it twisted, but even then they'll toss out that new information and keep going because they've managed to convince themselves that their guides are wrong or that it wasn't their guides. It's like they are incapable of letting things go that impede their life or success, rather they hold on tighter and go further away.
It is a lot of self esteem and insecurity issues that are also furthering this process because of the exact same thought process you went through. I can be surrounded by the hottest men in Hollywood and not find them attractive. I feel like that line of thinking is so absolutely bizarre to me because Jk is not a shallow man. He, and none of the other members are so shallow they would only date someone for their looks. The thing is, no matter how much you explain this to someone who is determined to stay attached to their insecurity, they will never listen. Even if Jk is surrounded by all the top models, there is no saying that he would only find them attractive and no one else, or that he'd even be interested in them further than their looks. Looks are not everything in life and if someone believes that then I'm sorry but you are not going to get far.
I do think that Bluebell has an issue with believing that they are enough, because their energy has left their original holding place and they are trying to hard to fit the mold of other things and it's not working which then further validates their feelings of inadequacy which is a form of confirmation bias.
I think people here often forget that the people of bts are people. They are humans. They are not princes, or upper echelon, nor are they aliens, or divine beings. They be fucking about having fun and visiting places just as any normal people do. J-hope went to the grand canyon with a group of friends, Rm was spotted buying pokemon cards- they don't exist in a separate plane of existence from us "regular" people, they just have money. I feel like that also removes the spiritual aspect of it. Right time, right place kind of thing. If you want something, and the universe agrees, the universe will make it happen. If something is ment to happen, the universe will make it happen. These connections are choices, they are built on choices, so until both players choose to come together, the universe can't really force them together even if they are meant to be because the universe respects free will. Because of that, literally anything can happen. They could be at the same coffee shop, at the same park, visiting the same campus, on the same vacation, passing each other on the street, through friend of a friend, at the same restaurant. They exist just like we do. They are not gods.
As for them being a foreigner- I didn't say they were lol. I said it was possible that they are the child of immigrant parents. That simply means that the place they were born and raised is different to the place they're ethnically from. They could be ethnically Brazilian but culturally Scottish because they were born and raised in Scotland. Not only that but Jk is a smart cookie and as far as I know he speaks two languages but could speak/be learning more. English is a commonly spoken language and is often taught as a secondary language in numerous places in the world so I don't think communication would really be an issue. It's more common for people to speak multiple languages.
I feel like the issue here, or at least the one I'm seeing is that people often place to much importance on reality and forget that we are just people on a floating rock full of energy. The spiritual side of things affects the physical, the physical can influence the spiritual but only in response. Literally anything can happen if wills align.
Is bluebell the only fs struggling? Because I would imagine everyone would be struggling unless they had already met their partner or something
Absolutely not. I think there will always be struggles as the crux of many spiritual relationships is dealing with the ego and your own shadow but the way Bluebell is struggling is similar yet different than what the others are struggling with especially in the way they are reacting. I have only read into Yoongi, Jungkook, Hoseok, and Namjoon as of right now (in my drafts) and they all have their own struggles around limited beliefs in themselves, struggles to believe in the connection, but they all have different responses. I think Bluebell is the only one that is having the hardest time with it as of now.
Yoongi and water lily reading is so amazing, I follow other readers and they also said the same thing about him that he is getting fking Spiritual like enormous Spiritual awakening and transformation, there is this talks going on around some readers that water Lily is probably his twinflame and his true love and hence such massive Spiritual growth for their union, it is also being said after some toxic relationship he became extremely closed off but now he is healing very well, and water Lily will be the only one who would be able to experience that deep intense and passionate true love of him, she will also be the only one he would ever love because past relationships just used him or just temporary lessons for yoongi, did you feel anything about his twinflame relationship, can you do a reading generally on their relationship, their union and their marriage, there are lot of readers who also said she would turn his life upside down in a positive way and after meeting her, she the kids and the family will be his top priority and then comes his work, it's really amazing seeing yoongi healing like this and he definitely deserves that true passionate love and beautiful family life after all the pain and struggles he went through.
I'm glad you enjoyed my reading but, I feel like this is a mischaracterization of Yoongi and forcing heteronormative standards onto him. I also feel as though this specific set of thoughts is closer to fantasy than anything realistic.
It is true that Yoongi is becoming especially spiritual, but he still has a grasp on reality and is very present in his life. He puts a lot of importance on the people around him and experiencing this life as much as he can before he moves on to the next one.
I won't comment on twin flames as I feel that the term has been blown wildly out of proportion and has been flanderized so much so to the point that it has lost meaning and has become the new "soulmate". I think we have many soulmates, and encounter many, but there are some that have been with us longer through many other lives compared to others and that is what I think Water Lilly is to Yoongi. I think for the past few lives they have been with each other and will continue to do so until something changes.
I feel like the term true love erases the importance that love has for everyone. There is platonic, romantic, and familial love and true love feels like disrespect to those other forms of love and feels like it turns this into some sort of fantasy story which it is not. Yoongi is a lover, he loves a lot, he loves freely and loves deeply and I think he believes that love should be shared. The only reason why there is massive spiritual growth towards union is because that is what they agreed upon and what they both want. They could've taken it slow, agreed to meet in old age, or to only love each other spiritually, it's all their choice.
"it is also being said after some toxic relationship he became extremely closed off but now he is healing very well, and water Lily will be the only one who would be able to experience that deep intense and passionate true love of him, she will also be the only one he would ever love because past relationships just used him or just temporary lessons for yoongi"
This one is tough so we'll have to dissect it. What you may see as toxic might not truly be toxic. It might be that he thought someone was the one, but they went their separate ways because of too many differences and thus decided to focus on himself. I won't say he wasn't hurt because separation from one you love will always be painful, but it's not like he was hurt so badly he became recluse. It's normal for people to decide to focus on themselves after an intense break up so that they can be in the right mindset for the next relationship. The notion that Water Lilly will be the only one to experience the best of him is- it's just a falsehood. Like I said, Yoongi is a lover who believes that love is never wasted when it is shared. He is deeply caring to those who are around him. He would love his family, his team members, Water Lilly, and his friends equally as much because he loves hard. I feel like the notion of Water Lilly being the only one he would ever love is also incredibly unrealistic because he did truly love the other people he had relations with. I feel like it puts a lot of disrespect on and dehumanizes his other relationships as well as him. Yoongi is a very thoughtful person and would not be in a relationship or partner ship with anyone if he wasn't fully genuine in that connection. I won't comment on whether or not he was used but he was loved deeply and loved deeply. It is unfortunate that some things didn't work out for him, but it is also wrong to deduce the people he cared about to simple "lessons".
I don't think at this moment I would want to pry too deeply into what their married life would be like as I believe somethings should be private. I feel like that would be too much of an invasion on my part, mostly because I was not invited to see that already.
"there are lot of readers who also said she would turn his life upside down in a positive way and after meeting her, she the kids and the family will be his top priority and then comes his work, it's really amazing seeing yoongi healing like this and he definitely deserves that true passionate love and beautiful family life after all the pain and struggles he went through."
I feel like this also mischaracterization of Yoongi and Water Lilly as well. Life exists beyond that of just family, partner, and work. I do think that Water Lilly will expose Yoongi to a lot of new and amazing things and that will change his life for the better, but I don't think that is a uniquely Water Lilly trait as there has been many others to do the same for him. Secondly, this feels heteronormative because we don't really know what Yoongi sees for his life as far as kids and marriage. He may or may not want that for his life, and we have no idea which and I feel like we should leave space for that. Same as how I prefer to refer to Fs's as "they/them" because it is gender neutral which gives space for more accurate info to come in. When you go into a reading you must release all biases because the only information you will get will be filtered through said bias- which is what's happening to Bluebell just as an example. If I were to believe all of the seven members wants kids, I will only see kids in their reading even if one of them would rather parent a pet instead.
Yoongi is someone who loves many and loves many things, music will alway be his life, it is a part of him that cannot be removed. If he were to get married and have kids, he would bring them into his world rather than have them separate. He would be teaching his potential kids music theory and playing with toy instruments because that is another one of his loves and a huge part of his life.
I too want to see him happy, but I want to be realistic about it. I think some readers have turned these grown men into fairytale princes and their love lives into some sort of Disney script.
I had read a post here from a reader saying that Suga's FS changed. Will the same thing happen to Jungkook? Is there absolutely no chance of Jungkook's FS returning? I apologize, I thought I might not have fully understood your message because my English isn't very good.
To be honest with you, I don't know. From the looks of it, that seems to be exactly where there are heading and there is really nothing anyone can do unless Bluebell decides to get over themselves or Jk decides to move on. I feel as though the current projection of this specific connection is going to continue to decay until there is nothing left. It's like Romeo and Juliet except Juliet runs from Romeo and gets into worlds of trouble half way through and when Romeo drinks the poison, that's when Juliet realizes their error and then kisses the poison on Romeos lips to be with him but by that time it is too late. Truly, the only chance they have is with Bluebell doing a 180.
How did you choose the Fs names plz?
I kind of chose at random lol. I figured flowers would be the most ambiguous thing, so I looked at a list of flower names and picked the ones that felt closest to how their energy presents. I thought about doing foods but then I figured some people would look too much into it and be like "Jk's fs is called Polenta does that mean they're from Italy?" or some shit like that lmao. Thinking about it, I could've done different sea creatures or shells to match my theme. Agh, missed chances...
ooh is it bad that i felt so frustrated when reading your jk x bluebell reading 😭 i feel so bad for bluebell though, they don’t even know that they are causing all of this. what brutally honest advice would you give them? but tbh i dont think they can be helped
It was incredible frustrating and difficult to be honest because I kept having to reshuffle, pull clarifiers, refocus to make sure I was getting as clear as possible. There was a lot that I had to cut from the readings. I'll be brutally honest I don't think there is anything I can say to help them. This situation won't solve itself until Bluebell makes a definitive move, or Jk decides he has had enough. I just hope that the current Bluebell will be able to handle the fall out once this is all over and when there is no path to return home. It feels like on the surface everything is fine, but if you lift the hood it's like the engine is two seconds away from combusting.
the information you gave about bluebell and the connection was really interesting. do you think all the gossip surrounding jjk’s love life, especially the recent news, may have impacted their connection? i wonder if it could have caused a disruption between them and pushed bluebell into feeling like they needed to be realistic about the situation, focus on themselves, and build their own futures without taking the connection into consideration because of the circumstances.
I'll be honest with you, every time I try to focus on the energy of Bluebell, I see a person in a cage. Except it's that meme of that bird in a cage with three bars and enough space for them to walk right through. I think Bluebell has convinced themself so impossibly deep on a soul level that I don't know whether or not I should have faith that they will make it through. With that being said, I think Bluebell avoids everything jk, or at least that is the story they tell. I think they still check in on him, not enough to keep up with everything but enough to convince themselves that he's doing well and that they should keep moving away from him and themselves. I think the disruption happened a long time ago as this energy has been stagnant for so long it's thick enough to be cut with a knife. I think they are using the rumors as a confirmation bias as well though. It's the logical reaction, but not reason enough to abandon oneself and ones spiritual journey and forgo connection with their guides and ancestors. From the energy, it seems as though they are focusing on themselves for the wrong reason, as if they're trying to fix what's wrong with them when nothing was wrong with them in the first place. It is a very common feeling that can happen either from outside stimuli, like people telling them that they aren't smart enough for example, or internal stimuli of consistently comparing oneself. I think for Bluebell and Jk, they both only consider the option of things that keep them stuck in this energy, believing it to be the best way out but are actually making things harder than it needs to be.