heya :> i hope youre doing well. my lilith conjunct my crush's venus, I've been really curious. What does it mean? 💕
Lilith Conjunct Venus in Synastry
Is always very intense and sexual. There are themes of raw sexuality that can be hard to contain. The reason why is because Lilith is wild untamed energy and Venus is all about sensuality, femininity, and sex. When one partner’s Lilith is conjunct the other’s Venus, the Lilith person will be desired for her beauty and sexuality. The late Aaliyah was probably experiencing the effects of Venus conjunct Lilith in synastry when she wrote: “One in a Million”. The intensity is out of the world. You will think of this person constantly. There will be an intense attraction that will feel palpable. Lilith contacting inner plants always makes the energy hyper-charged. However, there is something “forbidden” about the attraction for whatever reason. It could be race, age, classism, the fact that you’re coworkers, etc. However, it’s one aspect you’ll never forget. It ignites an initial spark that draws two people in.
Though there's lots of good stuff here, tons of intrigue and focus. But I want to warn you, Lilith aspects in Synastry are loaded with obsession. There’s a dark magnetic field that surrounds two people with this particular placement. Lilith operates a lot like Pluto. So, not only does she bring out primal instincts, desires, and shadow personalities of each other to the surface, she also triggers issues surrounding jealousy, being desired, and depravity. This is because Lilith’s energy is passively dominant, consuming, and overwhelming. Venus can have a bite too. Hard aspects with Lilith brings out the darker nature of both partners, whether it is aggression, compulsion, or even promiscuity. Remember, the conjunction is still a hard aspect so people with this inter-aspect need to take care not to let the energy consume them. Venusian energy wants to be appreciated but gluttony can also live here. Two people can find themselves over-indulging on each other whether that be in a sexual sense or simply needed to possess your partner in every way. This includes but is not limited to, stalking physically or through social media, intimidating romantic rivals, constantly monitoring behavior etc. However, Lilith will want to maintain her independence. Since this is synastry, the energy can flow both ways.
Mars making aspects to uranus: These people are badass in my opinion lol. These people tend to have a resting bitch face or people could tell them they they thought they were mean before they met them, because their way of acting is very aggressive. These people do not take labels or the actions of others to influence them or have them come in their way. They are the real rebels and are all about the drama. They LOVE being in control. Don’t mess with them or they’ll tear you down for real! (This especially goes for the conjunction)
Leo and Virgo dominant: You guys are too critical about everything and judge everyone! They are the type of people that will give you information for almost every topic and never fail to act like they know everything. Trust me I love both Leo and Virgo placements (I have virgo placements myself), but you nit pick too much on everything and it’s hard for most people to find common ground with you because you are so critical. It is hard for you to understand most peoples way of doing things and ways of thinking and believe you could do better than them. You are very productive and I wouldn’t be surprised if you have high levels of stress on you because of how responsible you feel about everything going on in your life. It is good to lay back sometimes!
Venus conjunct Mars/Venus or mars in 1st house people: So how does it feel to be gods favorite?? Everyone thinks you are so charming and you catch all eyes when you walk into a room. You guys form relationships quite easily if other aspects in your chart are harmonious and I’ve noticed from experience that they have very comforting energies when you are around them. They do not feel intimidating at all and they are approachable.
People with heavy Lilith aspects or touching the ascendant: As mentioned above you are charming too, but Lilith gives A LOT of sex appeal you are magnetic on a whole new level and you may seem intimidating to most. Many may be attracted to you just for your looks but not have interest in anything else besides that. If you are a women I’ve noticed they tend to get a lot of hate or negative behavior coming from other women for your energy is so intimidating they may be jealous. Maybe you don’t have the best relationship with your mother. You may also have self-esteem issues but everyone thinks you are attractive.
Capricorn and scorpio dominant: So hot but look so angry at the same time. Very hard working and passionate individuals too. Very serious with their work and in their collaborations with others. If you see this in a person’s chart, just know you can rely on them.
Libra moons: As a libra sun, these people get on my nerves😂. They love me and I try to love them too because they can be so charming and we have many common interests, but god make them MAD make them your enemy GAME OVER. Libra moons can be so petty and can hold grudges on people for a long time and have the BIGGEST MOUTHS; they know how to make an entertaining fight. I’ve noticed as a libra sun every person I meet that has a libra moon can easily read my mind without me saying anything, and I feel like I can read theirs too and we BOTH know we can! It’s scary and as a scorpio rising I hate this like let me have you guessing a lil bro😂🤧.
Synastry
Venus conjunct ascendant/ Venus in 1st house: The Venus person is attracted to the ascendant persons appearance. The way they look, the way they dress, the way they hold them selves, everything to the Venus person is ideal. They make the ascendant person their definition of beauty.
Mars trine/sextile the sun: This is a classic and for a good reason. Even if the synastry chart looks challenging, there is attraction coming for the mars person. The mars person loves the sun person and respects them. They both get along every well and can have the same perception on many things in life. Really gives a synastry chart harmony.
Mars square the sun: The attraction is extra strong here people! These two are likes magnets to each other and this I have seen in many synastry charts of couples. Can be toxic though, because the mars person tends to be aggressive towards the sun and may be controlling too. Ego clashes are common in this aspect too. I believe if this aspect has the square it is energy that is felt from both sides, not just the mars person. The sun person could find the mars person attractive and be just as drawn as the mars person.
Mars conjunct sun: See this cannot be taken lightly lol. Not for the weak at all because the mars will be DRAWNN to the sun person. Both get a lot of energy out of being around each other and common sense seems to exit out the window too because they both like each other so much. They are each others weakness. Check if there are Venus-mars and moon-mars aspects in the chart to see how it could play out if this aspect exists in the synastry chart!
Venus conjunct/trine/sextile moon: Pure love coming from the Venus person to the moon person. If you are the moon person you can easily find comfort from the Venus person because they have such a loving nature when around you and they basically give you what you want out of a person. Check the orb of the aspect too to see how influential this aspect can be.
Venus square moon: With the square aspect I’ve noticed that the moon person is prone to getting their feelings hurt by the Venus person. The way the Venus person acts does not match with the way the moon wants to be treated or may find the way the Venus person behaves in immature or simply not be the moon persons type at the end. This is an aspect that will be seen when you communicate with each other more.
Venus square sun: I’ve seen this multiple times too. There is physical attraction coming from the Venus person for the sun person. With this aspect the tighter the orb is the better! Anything going above 5 degrees I don’t think will be visible, but you guys let me know if you have experienced this aspect with a bigger orb. There can be a lack of attention or love coming from the sun person that will make the Venus person feel like they are the only ones putting in the work while the sun person is not noticing it. The Venus person may care deeply for the sun and the Venus person gets nothing in return or they get very little.
Venus / Moon / Mars synastry (conjunction, square)
Venus conjunct Moon synastry is considered a true love aspect. If at a tight orb the love will be mutual and likely emotionally fulfilling. Both parties tend to be very sweet to each other. It can be sickening to outsiders sometimes. They very much understand each other’s emotional and security needs. They enjoy doting and spoiling one another with back rubs and gifts. They are each other’s side kick and best friend. They care for each other deeply, and selflessly. The Moon finds beauty and warmth from the Venus. The Venus feels greatly understood and nurtured in return. Long walks, hand in hand and cuddling. They look into each other’s eyes and feel their spirits lift. Simply being in one another’s presence heals pain. It feels as though they are wearing a favorite comfortable sweater. They are a classic and romantic pairing. In non-romantic relationships this aspect will still be good to have. They joke around and behave goofy. Venus feels like being romantic with the Moon. The Moon draws out their creative and organic self. They are allowed to be themselves in this relationship. They hardly will notice other people when they’re with each other. If one of them do give anyone outside of the relationship more attention than the other party will feel left out in the cold. There can be jealousy but generally they want to make each other as happy as possible. Going about their individual daily routines won’t normally clash too much. Always look to the rest of the chart to determine.
Venus square Moon indicates a rather strong emotional and sexual connection. Instead of the conjunction and softer contacts which show mutual understanding and good feelings. The square creates friction and a restless energy. Venus square Moon in synastry shows two people who usually are very much in love, or attracted to one another but are very different in how they each express their emotions and go about romantic gestures. Frequent likely arguments can become the couples natural form of foreplay.. Such paring indicates an off and on again relationship. Similar in some basic ways but different in other important ways. They argue about little petty things. This can even be the case in the early stages of the relationship, but since there’s a strong attraction both parties will try to ignore the irritation or awkwardness felt sometimes. This aspect will generally play out when they couple is out socializing together or having company over to their home. They can have differences when it comes to raising their children, or have conflicting views on marriage and children. Such as one person may want kids and a big family while the person person although aren’t entirely turned off by the idea, is not completely sure that is something they want. They may want to travel and never considered children. Their moods generally two don’t match up well. One person will want to have sex and the other seems to be caught up in something else they’re doing. When the two do sync up, there is emotionally driven sex.
Venus conjunct Mars is considered to be a marriage and major sexual attraction aspect. Especially when it is at a tight orb. This particular aspect’s potency depends on other mars and venus contacts going on in the synastry charts. When Venus conjunct Mars, there is an immense sexual chemistry between two people. Venus is the feminine and Mars is the masculine, so together they have found their ideal match. They view each other as the mate they always wanted. Mars is compelled to touch and flirt with Venus. They really like to touch one another, especially early on in relationships. They may feel like they haven’t been as fulfilled in the bedroom before they met each other. Mars is usually the initiator and behaves like Venus’s knight in shining armor. They feel compelled to win Venus over. Venus in return feels completely in her feminine energy, but being chased after by Mars. Mars really make them feel like a woman. Not only is there simply a sexual/romantic attraction, there is mutual respect. Both parties do not mind going out of their way for one another. In fact they may want to team up and tackle projects together. People see the couple as an ideal match. They physically look good together and are charming. This is a good long-term aspect because when two people are sexually compatible it makes them less likely to wander outside of the relationship. Candle lit love making and passion are all the name of the game. If there are any negative contacts connected to this one, then beware of jealousy. You don’t need to be around each other 24/7. Give each other some room to breathe or this can turn platonic.
Venus square Mars there is either an immediate repulsion or attraction towards one another. In many cases it is both. The way that the Mars person advances on the Venus person can make them flat out uncomfortable. However that is where the tricky-ness occurs with this aspect. There is a fine line between dislike and like. Love and hate. They irritate the hell out of each other sometimes, which ironically fuels the attraction. Venus see’s Mars as aggressive or inconsiderate. Mars sees Venus as soft and beautiful physically, but Venus is overly sensitive or does not react how the Mars wants when they pursue. Mar’s wants to dominate and conquer Venus, so they can come off as desperate or overbearing. It can take longer then the conjunction/opposition for these two to form a relationship of any kind because of how much they drive each other crazy. They can be be that couple who has some fiery, epic arguments. Screaming at each other in a very public place. All because one of them said/did something the other person didn’t approve of. Other people will take notice of the tension between them, especially in the beginning. Some issues this contact also ensures is sexual disharmony. They are attracted and horny, just at different times. When they do have sex it’ll be aggressive and passionate. Think of Brad and Angelina in Mr. and Mrs. Smith. Loud make up sex isn’t uncommon.
Moon conjunct Mars in synastry is a baby maker aspect. This is because of the impassioned physical responses from both parties. There is a great deal of libido responses when around each other, making them more fertile. The moon persons emotions are drawn outward, making them feel vulnerable initially in front of Mars. the mars can go into fits when the moon becomes overly sensitive or emotional. At the same time there is a lot of understanding about what both people are attracted to in an intimate relationship. The moon in the beginning is intimidated by the mars yet finds their domination and strength to be very sexy. It causes much steam. The kind which burns underneath the skin. This attraction is primal and instinctive. This aspect puts both people in heat. They want to engage in sexual activities or mate. The sex is likely to happen quickly. Mars does the chasing and wants the Moon person SO badly. Both planets feel primal and primitive traits of animal and man. There can be an animalistic quality to the sex. It is common for the Moon person to want to have the Mars children. The female in this contact can become more fertile like those mentioned above. Mars makes the moon feel safe and protected. Mars is indeed protective of the moon. They go into total warrior mode when anyone messes with their lover. Although they may respond heatedly to each other, any outsiders should beware trying to pull that nonsense. This is another good long-term contact to have if there’s other positive aspects. Similar to the Venus/Mars conjunct, there is great sexual relief and satisfaction.
Moon square Mars in compatibility normally brings on irritation at first interaction which makes both people dislike each other, or they feel this irritation which lends to sexual emotions. Moon square Mars causes friction naturally on its own, that just puts people on edge. There can be an attraction, with other supporting aspects. So when there is a romantic attraction involved, these people will seriously annoy the hell out of each other, but they do love each other. Their interactions in the initial beginning of the relationship will be emotionally hot and perhaps feisty. There can also be interactions to do with manipulation. The Mars person can physically manipulate or be more aggressive which makes the Moon cower back. Overtime the Moon will fight back which is where the square energy really comes in. The Mars can pick and poke at the Moon so the Moon eventually will begin having outbursts. They can feel like the Mars is emotionally abusive in some extreme situations. Normally however it can just simply be the Mars teases the Moon, and finds them to be overly sensitive. They sometimes wish the Moon was not so sensitive. There can be a lot of sex in beginning of relationship because of the level of friction aroused when around each other. In the beginning this can be kind of sexy to have. It’s definitely an aspect which brings pure emotional responding to each other, especially in the heat of the moment. Both parties need to watch out for manipulating each other to get what they want. It’s not about each other’s individual selfish needs, it’s the needs of both parties that matter. This aspect can drain two people over time and other people around them. Each other’s parent’s can definitely be a stress. The Moon persons mother can interfere in the relationship perhaps and Mars gets angered by this. Or vice versa. Regardless of the fighting and heated moments, there is obviously love for each other even if they are at war. The War is always started by petty things said and done too, so try not to be completely immature with this aspect. It can tend to make people act in childish ways simply because the other person drives them nuts.
@zalrb I know astrology isn’t your thing but I just thought it was telling this person used Stelena to demonstrate a marriage &/or major sexual attraction between people who have Venus conjunct Mars relationship. The depiction for the Venus conjunct Mars dynamic seems to match my thoughts of SE.
Moon-Mars aspect might be one of my favorites in synastry (especially the trine, sometimes the conjunction) when both people (but especially mars) are emotionally mature and are good at communicating. Both people are intensely involved with one another. There's likely an incredibly strong physical attraction towards one another to the point where when they do finally come together, they can't keep their hands off of each other. Their connection can become pretty sensual. It is likely the mars person feels for the moon intensely at first, but doesn't want to scare the moon person off with how much they desire them so they wait until they show receptivity. Mars person always wants to be touching or to be near the moon person and the moon person secretly loves it. The moon person is incredibly magnetizing to the mars person, and the moon person is super attracted to how the mars person asserts themselves. They love how the mars person takes initiative in the relationship and feels pretty inclined to quickly accept and respond to the mars person's gestures. Mars person can put a lot of effort in to satisfy the moon person on multiple levels and are super protective of them. There's an incredible amount of passion shared between each other and the sex is primal, erotic and steamy. This connection is all-consuming and both are irresistible to one another once a relationship is formed.
On the flip side, a common challenge between the two is that during arguments/disagreements, the mars person can be incredibly short with the moon person and/or stonewall them by not telling them what the problem is. Mars person needs to understand that it's not them vs the moon person when in arguments/disagreements and that there's no need to be overly defensive. Mars person also needs to be mindful of how they respond (or lack-thereof) to the moon because the moon person will often take things to heart. Moon person can end up internalizing a lot within the relationship if the mars person doesn't properly communicate. Moon person can be quite reactive toward the mars person; especially towards their actions. The moon is the most vulnerable placement in our charts and because of that, the moon person can become easily wounded with mars' coercive nature. Mars is keen and precise and knows how to push the moon person's buttons. If not mindful, the mars person can initiate petty little arguments on an almost daily-basis. Mars needs to understand that they can easily impact the moon person's emotional security and that there's risk for creating emotional turmoil.
What do you think about a moon conjunct mars placement in synastry?
Really sweet and warm! The mars person probably feels very strongly for the moon person and has a hard time not reacting to their feelings for better or worse and the moon person feels desired and even sought after by mars because of how driven and intense their pursuit of the moon person is! It’s very traditional in nature even if the genders are switched and can mean that the moon person calms the mars person down at the right times whilst also being able to care for and nurture their more impulsive side in a way that brings our tenderness and affection from the mars person and the mars person brings or sexuality and passion from the moon person that causes them to want to protect and nest with one another! A huge baby maker aspect to as it can show sex can be very emotionally Driven and can have an instinctual desire to pro-create or at the very most mars will want some sort of dominance over the moon or imprinting such as cumming inside of the moon person or if the moon person is male he will likely cum inside of the mars person or if it’s same sex relationship this would still stand depending on who is the dom partner in the relationship and so on.
Hi everyone, please note that this is mainly referring to romantic synastry. I can do more posts about platonic or familial synastry in the future, if that’s something that would interest anyone :)
The Sun shows us the area of life we essentially “illuminate” in the life of another person.
Sun in partners 1st house
This is a great overlay in most relationships, as it suggests that there is a common sense of understanding and resonance between the two. The Sun persons ego and identity are in sync with the House persons personality and outward persona. These two can become fast friends, and feel as if they have a lot in common. The Sun person can be drawn to the Ascendant persons physical appearance, and the manner in which they carry themselves. In turn, the house person can often validate the Sun person’s ego and basic identity. They have a profound impact on each others identities and feelings of self-confidence.
Sun in partners 2nd house
The Sun person brings awareness to the house persons values, finances, possessions, and sense of self-worth. The Sun person has the potential to impact the house persons feelings of self-worth (however, this can be negatively or positively depending on how the Sun persons Sun, is aspecting the house persons planets). Nevertheless, in some cases the Sun person can help the house person re-evaluate how they spend money and handle their finances in general. In a romantic context, the house person can at times feel possessive over the Sun person. This is often because they see the Sun person as someone who they “value”. However, if the Sun person is someone who dislikes feeling restricted, they will at times feel overwhelmed by excessive displays of possessiveness. (Please note that this can go either way, it can also be the Sun person feeling possessive of the house person) Despite this, this a helpful overlay when it comes to the acquisition of material items and gifts.
Sun in partners 3rd house
This is a highly communicative and intellectual overlay. The Sun person can encourage the house person to explore matters related to short-distance travels, communication, writing, and mental processing. If words of affirmation are one of your primary love languages, 3rd house overlays are perfect for you. The Sun person often stimulates the house persons desire to communicate, learn, and explore their immediate environment. There can at times be a ‘sibling-like’ bond between the two, as there are likely to be many lively debates and discussions with this overlay.
Sun in partners 4th house
This can often prove to be a very emotionally intimate overlay. The Sun person can encourage the house person to explore their ancestry, heritage, or familial roots in some cases. Alternatively, the house person may feel as if the Sun person is someone who they can truly open up to. There can even be an emotional dependency that forms between the two people. There’s a sense of comfort and familiarity here (as with most overlays on an angle). In a platonic relationship, the Sun person can “feel like family” to the house person. However, in a romantic context, the House person can develop a strong emotional attachment to the Sun person. If there are other factors that support this, the two may even have the desire to live together.
Sun in partners 5th house
This is a very fun, flirty, and light-hearted overlay. These two likely enjoy each other’s company. The Sun person stimulates the house persons desire for fun, romance, and creativity. There can be mutual affection, attraction, and desire between the two. However, it must be noted that 5th house overlays (by themselves) are often not indicative of long-term relationships. However, they do help keep the “spark alive” in most relationships. There can be a great deal of affection and desire that is generated here. The desire is not raw and primal like 8th house overlays, it’s more of a playful or ‘smitten’ type of yearning. Moreover, the 5th house is also the house of children. Thus, children can be a theme here. Lastly, the Sun person can also encourage the house person to be confident in their self-expression. There can also be an emphasis on creativity and shared hobbies with this overlay.
Sun in partners 6th house
This overlay emphasizes routine, service, health, and productivity. The Sun person can make the house person aware of their routines and habits that may be negatively impacting their physical health. There is also a sense of dependability and responsibility that is generated with this overlay. However, planets that fall on the 6th/12th house axis, can also denote that one person tends to give more than they receive. Thus, feelings of resentment can emerge over time. Despite this, the house person often appreciates how helpful the Sun person is. There can also be an emphasis on work, pets, or physical health when they are together. The Sun person can encourage the house person to adopt healthier habits and a productive daily routine.
Sun in partners 7th house
The 7th house is the natural house of partnerships. Thus, when someone’s Sun falls into your 7th house, you may feel as if this person has all the qualities that you desire or look for in a romantic partner. The 7th house is also the house of contracts and business partnerships. Thus, it’s possible that the desire to be business partners can also emerge. Although, 7th house overlays generally yield positive results. The 7th house is also the house of open-enemies. Thus, there can at times be a “love-hate” dynamic between the two. Despite this, you can often feel a very strong ‘pull’ towards someone who has their Sun in your 7th house. Some astrologers assert that 7th house overlays can lead to co-dependency but I think it depends on the individuals involved.
Sun in partners 8th house
This can be an intense but highly transformative overlay. The Sun person often triggers a great deal of transformation within the house person (even if they are unaware of this). The Sun person can illuminate or bring attention to issues that are related to death, transformation, shared resources, taxes, and psychology, in the house persons life. In a romantic relationship, this can cause a great deal of sexual attraction. However, I would also look for 8th house overlays of Mars, Venus, and the Ascendant when it comes to sexual attraction that involves the 8th house. Furthermore, 8th house overlays are rarely ‘easy’ as they often evoke extreme feelings, reactions, and emotions. However, they can be deeply intimate and binding. It can be hard for the 8th house person to let the Sun person go. These two can connect on an exceptionally intimate level (both emotionally and physically). One person may even introduce the other to matters/mediums that are related to the occult or healing.
Sun in partners 9th house
The house person tends to learn a lot from the Sun person with this overlay. They may even idealize them or place them on a pedestal at times. The house persons belief systems and worldly views may change or solidify when they are around the Sun person. This is a very expansive overlay. Topics related to higher education, foreign travel, philosophy, and politics can frequently emerge. Adventure, exploration, education, and travel are key themes here. The Sun person can stimulate the house persons desire for travel and expansion. The world is their oyster. They tend to expand each other’s worldviews and challenge each other’s deeply held beliefs. They can spend a lot of time discussing religion, politics, foreign affairs etc.. (especially if this is accompanied by a 9th house Mercury overlay).
Sun in partners 10th house
This is often a good overlay if two people want to do business together. However, in a romantic context, the Sun person can motivate the house person to achieve all of their career goals and aspirations. In some cases, the Sun person can often show a lot of interest in the house persons career, status, and reputation. The Sun person may even take pride in being associated with the house person. There can be a great deal of admiration and/or respect generated with this overlay. At times, this overlay can have a superficial quality to it, as one or both people may be more concerned about how the other person enhances their reputation or status. However, if both people are exceptionally career or goal-oriented, this can be an overlay that brings them even closer.
Sun in partners 11th house
The 11th house is the house of gains, networks, friendships, worldly aspirations, and communities. With this overlay, a friendship can form between the two people. 11th house overlays tend to produce dynamics in which two people are very tolerant and accepting of each other. These two may eventually integrate their social circles or introduce each other to their respective friends. In some cases, the desire to participate in humanitarian work together can emerge. Although 11th house overlays are not seen as traditionally ‘romantic overlays’ , I actually have observed that they are often present in many long-term relationships (same with 9th house overlays), as the relationship is primarily built on a sense of mutual friendship and camaraderie. Both people are inclined to be tolerant of each other’s quirks and eccentricities with this overlay. The Sun person can introduce the house person to influential groups or networks .
Sun in partners 12th house
12th house overlays are always very interesting in synastry. Their most positive manifestations can denote a highly spiritual, forgiving, and compassionate bond between two people. However if the planet receives many difficult aspects , there may be elements of mistrust, illusions, confusion or even deception. When someone’s Sun falls into another persons 12th house, they can make the house person aware of their personal “blind spots”. One or both people may have to make some personal sacrifices to make the relationship work. In some cases, the Sun person can serve as a spiritual mentor to the house person. Individuals who are very spiritual often remark how 12th house synastry (or a significant transit to the 12th house) triggered their spiritual awakening. Moreover, there can be elements of fantasy or illusion that accompany 12th house overlays. You don’t always see people who have planets in your 12th house clearly. However, you can feel a very deep and ‘otherworldly’ connection to them. If both people are willing to do the work and have made piece with their shadow-sides, 12th house overlays can be incredibly intimate and spiritually healing.
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I just realized i skipped Sun in the 5th house synastry
Sun in someones 5th house- this placement makes the house person see the sun as fun and childlike. Someone they can see themselves having a lot of good times with. If the house person has children, the sun person can remind the house person of one of their kids. But if the house person has heavy earth or capricorn energy, the sun can be seen as childish and frivolous. The house person can see the sun as someone they have to take care of or protect. But for the most part the sun person will help the house person develop a sense of individuality and introduce them to music, art, hobbies, and ideas that they may have never considered before. Air and Fire heavy charts will enjoy this energy in their 5th house. As it amplifies their nature, as this house is ruled by leo. Water heavy charts may look at this energy as a form of escapism and can be easily influenced by the sun person. But Earth heavy may rebel against it, looking at the sun as irresponsible or untrustworthy. Keep in mind it has a lot to do with the sign the 5th house is in too. But at the end of the day, this placement is a good one. the house person is awestruck by the sun person. They can be fast friends. In romance, the sun is someone you may want to have children with. But just look at the other placements, make sure theres strong saturn and 4th house aspex before you dive into the responsibility of a child. Without a strong foundation, the sun can overpower the house person becoming hypnotized by the carefree nature and wishing they could be the same way. Love here is free and sweet, it can be short-lived… but its NOT a waste of time. This persons taste in clothing, art, and music may be important influences moving forward for the house. ITs a lighthearted placement. And the sun means no harm. But they are influential, for better or worse.
(In this post Venus may sometimes be referred to as she and Pluto as he, this is nothing to do with actual gender it’s simply the masculine and feminine energies that the Planets represent and constantly saying Pluto-Venus got quite redundant.)
Venus Conjunct Pluto
The Pluto persons hidden desires and fears are awakened by the Venus person. The Pluto’s obsession for the Venus person is intense and often hidden. The Venus senses something deep and powerful lurking within the Pluto person, they are both fascinated and scared of the intensity of the Pluto. Often Venus doesn’t realize that Pluto has set his eyes on her, his desires are primal and passionate, he might watch her like he wants to tear her apart. She is light and carefree, able to chanel the energy of the Sign the conjunction is occupied by in an easy going and charming way, he wants to possess her perhaps even destroy her. A lot of the time these two don’t even come together. Pluto doesn’t want to lose his power, and power games between these two are popular, so he never makes the move. I noticed that Pluto is the one who usually has the upper hand in the relationship. If Venus is fascinated with the depth and passion of the Pluto person and makes her interest known, Pluto will often feel like he already did all that he had to do, he got her. Making the move would mean giving her the upper hand, now one might be rejected and lose the power. The relationship is often extremely passionate, the two cannot get enough of one another, they seem to always be together, obsession is very common in this configuration and Pluto is often very jealous of who Venus is giving their attentions to. Sometimes I find that Pluto can be quite mean to Venus, this is something they do to protect themselves they want to seem like Venus means nothing to them and therefore has no power to hurt them. Pluto is terrified of being hurt or rejected by the Venus person. Sex here can be healing to both parties, Pluto is a great lover that brings a lot of passion and heat into the bedroom, their touch is something Venus can become addicted to. These two love being in close proximity to one another, they seem to always be touching. Pluto loves to touch Venus and Venus melts to that touch. In general sex is quite amazing for the two of them, they are very compatible in this area and once that boundary is crossed sex becomes very important and quite constant. Sometimes Venus may sense something dark beneath the Pluto person and might just choose to stay away, they feel a destruction coming on and if they aren’t the type to like having their world shaken up then they best stay away. This relationship is very transformative, Venus shows Pluto the lighter aspects of life, and Pluto is able to bring Venus below the shallows and into the depths of love. These two tend to always remember one another, even if it was a short relationship, or maybe it never even became anything solid, these two will remember one another forty years down the line because something deep within them was transformed or brough to consciousness during the union. There is often an end to something in both peoples lives that leads to a rebirth. This might denote a secret love affair, a lot of the time other people around the couple have no idea that the two are involved romantically.
Both will feel more energetic, motivated and ambitious with each other. You will feel that spark that will drive you to enjoy life intensely alongside each other. After a boring and tired day you will only need to see each other to feel that recharge of batteries and feel that impetus and strength returning to you. They will feel very good about themselves, their self-respect will improve and the mentality of making their boundaries respected and valued will emerge. Being with the other person will bring back your enthusiasm and you will both be motivated to try new and exciting things that you have always wanted to do. You will experience all kinds of exciting sensations and feelings.
🤍Jupiter in Taurus🤍
After starting this relationship, you will feel more confidence and more stability in your life. You will easily enter into your sensual and romantic energy and you will be able to better develop your patience. This relationship will give them calm and will give them both the feeling of having finally found that cozy spot where they are safe. Both will naturally evoke in the other the desire to shower the other with meaningful gifts, details and gestures. They will give what they receive in a practical sense and will allow themselves to be pampered by the other in every way. If you decide to start a business, the presence of others in your lives can be a great push to make your goals a reality.
🤍Jupiter in Gemini🤍
It is very likely that your partner brings out your most communicative, curious and fun side. Even if they are very quiet in their daily lives, this will not be the case when they are with each other. Your partner will make you feel comfortable to share and ask about all kinds of issues. Your lives will become more dynamic and entertaining with each other by your side. This connection will feel unique due to the enormous mental affinity they feel, they will connect in many aspects and learn a lot from each other. The other will become their partner in crime, they will trust a lot in what the other says and their words and advice will remain in their minds and hearts. When entering the relationship, manifesting will be easier for both of you.
🤍Jupiter in Cancer🤍
The tenderness and affection that they awaken in each other is sublime, and they felt it from the beginning of their connection. They both teach and help each other on an emotional level, accept and adore every part of their partner's heart. They make themselves feel that they are safe and that there is no reason to hide everything their heart and soul have to offer. They feel a fervent desire to care for, protect and be close to each other, they love to know each other completely and adore each other with all the energy they have. They feel enormous familiarity with the other, they may have the feeling of knowing each other before, likewise, they feel that the other knows perfectly what you need to be happy.
🤍Jupiter in Leo🤍
You will feel more confident in yourself, more free to show to the other who you really are, and you will feel that you can be happy next to your person, who will passionately love every side of you, even if you don't often show them or feel insecure about it. You two feel like you are dating your number one fan. There is a lot of desire between you, but also admiration and respect, because you see in the other a person who inspires you. They genuinely enjoy each other's company, as it adds excitement, joy and romance. They will learn what a generous relationship is in which the other person is willing to love you as intensely as you do. You will both feel very proud to call the other your partner, prepare to show off and be show off all the time!
🤍Jupiter in Virgo🤍
The devotion they feel for each other and the relationship is noticeable from the beginning, they will awaken the other's curiosity as well as that instinct to help and support at all times. They will feel more encouraged and motivated to give the best of themselves in all areas, the other will be a huge motivator in life. It will be easy for them to give themselves completely in the relationship. They will expand each other's knowledge. It is likely that they came into each other's lives to help and give direction and stability to the life of their special person. They will give the other the feeling that everything is finally in order, that they can be calm. Likewise, in this relationship they will always look for activities that they can do together, no matter how small it is.
🤍Jupiter in Libra🤍
Oh this couple loves each other, they know it, the world knows it. Love and flirting flow naturally between both, evoking the most romantic feelings in each other, even those they never imagined they would feel with someone. There is a strong sense of camaraderie and balance, no one gives more than the other, they seek to be reciprocal as much as they can. They will awaken the sensitive, delicate and considerate side of each other. Likewise, they will teach their special person to use both their heart and mind in a balanced way without shutting the other side. They will teach themselves to depend a little on each other and not do everything on their own, they will know that they can count on the other.
🤍Jupiter in Scorpio🤍
They will see and feel that they have finally found someone who, no matter how complex your inner world feels, will try to get to know you completely without judging, only with so much love to give. The other will give you a sense of power and confidence, you will feel capable of many things and you will be certain that you have finally found someone to whom you can give your trust. They will awaken the sensual and seductive side of the other, as well as this curiosity to know each other deeply, from skin to soul. With each other, you will feel that you can express those deep emotions and in addition, you will create a deep bond full of understanding and loyalty. They will want to be there for each other no matter what.
🤍Jupiter in Sagittarius🤍
Being together makes them feel like the luckiest people in the world, the happiest and most satisfied with their lives, they feel that they have everything they need and that they can easily get what they want. The other brings excitement, moments of joy and a feeling of wanting to live to the fullest into their lives. Worries fade away and instead, a burst of hope and happiness fills your spirit. They will learn to be bolder, to take things calmly and to enjoy life a little more. You will be able to talk about deep and personal topics with each other, and you will also learn to see things differently with each other's enlightening points of view. They will become more independent and playful with the presence of their person.
🤍Jupiter in Capricorn🤍
Both of you will become more realistic with the help of the other, more focused and may have this desire to truly commit to the relationship and the other. Their responsibility will grow considerably in this relationship and they will be able to face problems with maturity and assertiveness. They will feel the energy to go after what they want, their ambitions will grow and they will be excited to plan a future side by side. You will admire and inspire each other by your willingness to work hard and strive, and you will feel that you are capable of going far with each other's presence or encouragement. Many of those things that you once dreamed of will come true with the entrance of the other into your lives.
🤍Jupiter in Aquarius🤍
They will mutually teach each other to act autonomously, to not give importance to what others have to say or give their opinion. They feel that with each other they can express in an authentic and direct way what they feel. They will learn to be more independent and true to themselves. Being with each other makes you more open, more empathetic and more at peace with yourself. They will try many new things with each other and they will always have this willingness to listen to each other and try to understand each other no matter how different they may seem. They will tend to be more understanding and compassionate towards each other, both will be as one and will ensure to be fair in the relationship no matter what.
🤍Jupiter in Pisces🤍
This relationship will give them the impression of living a dream, emotionally there will be a strong connection and they will feel that the other understands them perfectly. They see in each other the muse that inspires them so much in their daily lives, and of course, to those who are artists. They will teach themselves to feel their emotions genuinely and they will give each other's hearts a feeling of pure love, calm and peace. The other has a calming effect on you and you will feel in paradise when the other is around. The other will help them believe that beautiful things can happen, it will give them certainty that the tender and romantic side of love is something they can and deserve to experience.
🤎Jupiter in the 1st house🤎
This relationship will make you feel blessed in many ways, many things in your personal lives will begin to feel like they are going well and you will feel very comfortable in the relationship. You will see life with better eyes, you will feel more vitalized and optimistic, likewise, you will feel better about yourself as a person. They will give each other a lot of strength and motivation to achieve what they set out to do, and they will feel that with each other they are unstoppable. They will see the other as a lucky charm and a ray of light in their life. They will be the advisor, support and driving force of the other, and they will also leave great teachings.
🤎Jupiter in the 2nd house🤎
You can gain a lot of stability in your life by being together, and not just financially but in general. Likewise, your self-esteem and sense of self-worth can increase greatly thanks to the presence of the other person. When they are together they feel like they have everything they need, they feel safe and they feel like they are at a very stable point in their lives. They teach themselves to be more generous and will share a lot with others. Both will help each other bring into the material world everything they once dreamed of, they will feel strong support from their partner and they will have the common vision of improving themselves on a personal level.
🤎Jupiter in the 3rd house🤎
Talking to each other will put you in a good mood easily. They will feel that they found someone who not only listens to their ideas, but also values them and is interested in them. They will acquire a lot of knowledge in this relationship, they will learn endless things not only about love, but in general. They will admire the knowledge that the other has. They will feel that they connect mentally with each other like they do not with anyone. Stress and overthink will fade in this relationship, you will become more inventive and mentally active. You will feel that your ideas are better when you are with your partner. They will see things in a more positive way and bring a lot of joy to each other's lives.
🤎Jupiter in the 4th house🤎
One of the many beautiful things about this is the feeling of genuine happiness, comfort and the great trust they feel for each other. Positive lessons await them regarding emotions, they will learn to accept their needs thanks to the support of their partner. A duo full of love, happy memories and a lot of emotional and unconditional support. They will learn to express themselves better emotionally. With this person you can form a big and beautiful family, they may have similar visions about it. It will be very easy for you to give comfort and make the other person feel safe, protected and good emotionally. Emotional healing in this relationship will be an important topic.
🤎Jupiter in the 5th house🤎
The joy in your lives will expand with this relationship, which will fill you with a lot of romance, a lot of happiness and many experiences together as couples. You are likely to take many trips together and teach each other to enjoy their own hobbies. There will be a lot of flirting and regardless of the passing of the years, they will look as in love as the first day. They will feel more creative, more authentic and more spontaneous with each other's presence, they will feel comfortable showing their feelings. It may indicate good parenting and a similar vision regarding raising children. Your inner child will feel delighted with the other, very safe and loved.
🤎Jupiter in the 6th house🤎
You will feel more vitalized, stronger and you will add interesting and fun things to each other's routine. They can advance at work more easily from the beginning of the relationship. There will be something about you as a couple, be it your dynamic or your natural affinity that will make everyday things seem like something you could do together for a long time. They will feel better in health, both physically and mentally, after entering into this relationship and they will always make sure that the other is well. They will teach themselves to take better care of themselves. The other will show a lot of gratitude and appreciation for the other's actions.
🤎Jupiter in the 7th house🤎
This is a good indicator of marriage, since the coexistence between you plus the affinity, both romantic and in terms of values, makes you think that you have found the right person to take that big step. They see relationships in a similar way, and this bond, while feeling like a strong spiritual connection, feels like something dynamic, fun and eye-opening in many ways. Relationships can be difficult at times due to the degree of commitment, but with this placement, it will be easy to commit and love the other. Beyond just loving each other and feeling attracted, they will feel a high degree of respect and admiration towards their partner, whom they will see as a master.
🤎Jupiter in the 8th house🤎
They will awaken the most intense emotions in each other, they will know their darkside better and the other will love them deeply and totally. There is a high degree of devotion among you. This relationship will bring many positive changes, they will overcome traumas or emotional wounds together. Sex will be very important for this couple and very passionate and pleasant too. You will enjoy every part of the intimacy with each other, both sexual and non-sexual. When faced with relationship problems, they will always listen to each other and face them effectively, trying to make the other person feel good without losing honesty and love.
🤎Jupiter in the 9th house🤎
This relationship will bring with it many positive learnings, the other person will take you to new concepts, experiences and places. You may feel luckier with the entry of this person into your life, more blessed even. Both will always manage to surprise each other and constantly teach each other new things. You will grow a lot as a person for the better and you will develop a lot of wisdom. The vision they have of life will become bright colors and a lot of positivity, the other person will help them see the good side of things and not get demotivated when there doesn't seem to be anything good in a situation. Joy, an exciting journey of new emotions, travel as a couple and a lot of growth.
🤎Jupiter in the 10th house🤎
Job and professional opportunities will come to you more frequently. The other person will help you think long term and have clear goals, and not only that, but they will help and motivate each other to achieve them. This relationship can make them feel better and improve as a person. It is common for people to emphasize this, because this relationship will be one of the best they will have. Glow ups during the relationship are common. Chances are good that you work very well together and have a similar work ethic. They will admire each other a lot and show the other how proud they should feel of themselves. They can easily achieve success by being together.
🤎Jupiter in the 11th house🤎
Both will feel more idealistic about each other, they will have an enormous number of plans and desires for the future in which they visualize their partner by their side, and fortunately for both of them, it is very likely that they will come true. Their circle of friendship expands with each other, being able to meet great people thanks to each other. Your vision of the future and humanity may be more positive. They will learn to have a more open mind and see things from other points of view. Promotions and raises are common after starting the relationship, likewise, several inflows of money can arrive for both. The sense of friendship is never lost regardless of the nature of the relationship.
🤎Jupiter in the 12th house🤎
When you look into each other's eyes, a feeling of calm and joy will fill you. They will awaken in the other that dreamy side, that side of their emotions, deep and sublime that they do not usually explore. The relationship will feel magical, the connection between you will be inexplicable at first, but it will not be for your souls, who connect on a deep level and tune in easily. They will give some light to that darkness of the other, they will be able to express and speak everything that they keep silent about. This relationship can be extremely healing for both of you, and can be very revealing on a personal level. Heaviness, burdens and sadness fade when their eyes meet.
💕 Earth ASC composite indicates longevity of the marriage
💗 Sun/Moon/Venus/North node conjunct Saturn (synastry or composite)
💕 Vertex in the 7th (composite)
💗 Asteroid Companion (8490) in the 2nd/10th house, indicates longevity and permanence
💕 Oppositions in the composite are more beneficial than people think (the two people involved complete each other without feeling insecure of the traits the other partner possesses, which basically is what happens with squares)
The Composite chart is the mid-point between you and your partner, this chart can show us where the relationship is going, where you have difficulties and we can also see if a marriage it’s possible. I’ll list bellow a few of my absolute favorite placements to have in a composite chart.
Vetex and Juno in the 7th house or conjunct the DSC.
Now you have Juno (the asteroid for marriage) in the house of marriage, how no to love this placement? This gives the relationship a lovely vibe and the perfect environment for a relationship to develop into a marriage. This can be all the more significant if the Juno or DSC in the composite it’s compatible with the Juno of both partners or the DSC of both partner ( making sextile or trine)
If we add Vetex as well in the mix or the asteroid Destinn( 6583) you’ll feel like the two of you where fate to meet and marry, it can also mean that the relationship it’s fated for both of you.
Venus in the 2nd, 5th, 7th or 9th house it’s a good marriage indicator, 2nd house it’s the house of value and material gains but it’s also the house where Venus has rulership, 5th house it’s the house of children and romance, having here Venus can indicate that you’ll love to have children together or that you’ll have a lot of romance and love, 7th house represent partnership and marriage, Venus here can show the love you have for each other, 9th house it’s the house of traveling, philosophy etc, Venus here can indicate that you come for different nationalities/cultural backgrounds or that you like to travel a lot and share the wisdom that you have with others.
1 or 2 stelliums, usually best are in the 1st,5th ,7th ,8th,10th for marriage, I’ll not say that a specific stellium is better than another because it depends on both your charts, but it’s good to see in a composite chart planets in Cancer, Libra, Taurus and Capricorn. If you are lucky to have a stellium in one of those signs even better.
Juno in aspect with the Sun, the Moon, Venus, Mars, DSC or DSC ruler.
Jupiter in the 7th or 5th house it’s also a good indicator of a long-term partnership, especially if it makes a positive aspect with Saturn.
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1 cup Washing Soda (not Baking Soda. Different things.)
1 cup Borax (not Boric Acid. Also a different thing.)
½ cup - 1 cup grated bar soap (you can use literally anything. I often use Ivory because it’s easy to get and I find it works well, a lot of people like Fels-Naptha, which is an actual laundry bar. Some people use Dr. Bronner’s. Really does not fucking matter.)
After grating your soap, combine all ingredients. That’s it. That’s the whole thing. Use maybe a ¼ cup per load.
Also you can MAKE your own washing soda very VERY cheaply.
Step one: acquire $5 bag of baking soda from Costco.
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1. personal synastry and composite experiences and observations
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Sun in 8th house synastry: I was the house person they were the sun. I definitely developed insecurities I never had before as a result of this connection. With the sun shining brightly on my insecurities, they were hard to ignore and even harder to not project them entirely on the sun. A lot of “you did this to me!” energy. I didn’t consider myself a jealous person until this relationship and a lot of it came from wanting to be “good enough” in the eyes of the sun person. It’s like knowing you have these darker aspects in common and wanting them to see you can bond this way and see them in a way no one can. You also end up pushing limits together. You liked this? Now WE love this. You’re addicted to that? Now WE are addicted to it. Moderation is hard to achieve with sun in the 8th house synastry. It can also bring up insecurities surrounding sex with that person specifically, if poorly aspected. Explosive reactions and emotional outbursts aren’t foreign here. The house person can feel like a vampire being sunburned, with all its ugliness revealing itself from its body because of its interaction with this person. The 8H person wants a full, in-depth analysis of the sun person’s thoughts, intentions, and motivations. The plutonic energy wants to completely envelop the sun, compulsively in some cases, to know WHY they are the way they are, and why the sun presents themselves in certain ways. This is especially true if the sun person did something to hurt the 8H person, who can feel it more than is rational. The 8H person can really struggle with getting over any emotional harm or feelings of abandonment that come from the sun person. The 8H person can potentially resent the sun person for not being able to read them as intently as they could read the sun person. The sex, if and once insecurities are worked through, can bring you so much closer to one another and to yourself. I also feel like any disturbances or intimacy problems between you two can easily be felt by others or there can be blow ups in front of people you know, because the sun is a planet that illuminates wherever the light lands, whether you like it or not. Avoid public fights, because you will kiss and makeup but the damage in other people’s eyes will be done and opinions will be made. The 8H person might be able to see through any facade the sun person puts up, and this could lead to deep discussions that could be extremely healing for the Sun who might have to work through some things. The 8H person can also teach the sun person how to make more money and maybe even encourage them to start their own business. They can be known as a couple that makes a lot of money together. The sun person can also give sugar daddy/mommy vibes and the 8H the sugar baby, even if it neither one of the people involved are rich-rich. This is a highly binding placement. You two might find it difficult or even impossible to separate from each other even if the relationship has run its natural course. You guys are known as the couple that is “stuck” to one another.
Moon in 5th house synastry: *weird* but, for those who have this placement with a significant other, do you love to smell their body odor? I think in the house of children and fertility, it makes sense to love your partner’s pheromones. Something as weird as the smell of their armpits or stinky feet becomes comforting, idk?? This house is also really fun, and you can get a lot of emotional fulfillment out of acting like children together. 5H is ruled by Leo, so I also found that we had a lot of fun putting on “shows” for one another, and sort of making up our own characters and accents to make the other giggle. People are also really excited for the prospect of us having children together, and you’ll have friends volunteering to babysit or be the godparent of your unborn children LOL. Dressing up nice and going out on dates to somewhere with a great ambiance can be a great way to feel connected. Sharing perfume, or gifting each other perfumes or colognes. Loving the scents they wear. Same taste in candles? Candles as gifts. Lots of watching TV together? Having “shows” that feel wrong to watch without the other. Being called pretty by the other means a lot, and being pretty in each other’s eyes makes you feel good.
Moon in 12th house synastry: 12H synastry tends to have an awful reputation, and I get it when it’s a relationship that isn’t meant for you. However, my moon falls in my best friend’s 12H, and it is one of my favorite placements of ours. We have a telepathic connection where we can just look at the other and know what’s up. You preemptively know what will bother the other person and find it hard to understand how other people wouldn’t have assumed that thing would annoy your person. You understand each other’s motives, and can provide the ultimate shoulder to cry on or ear to listen with. When it’s a new interaction it can feel a bit intense, because how are you in my head!!! I feel like you can read my thoughts! It was like that for the both of us. It’s like, when together, both our consciousnesses transported to another realm where we are mutually perceiving something and our thoughts are being put on a radio for the other to listen to. Very spiritual relationship. You KNOW the vibes, and those feelings will be verified through the other person who already felt the same. She will never be wrong in my eyes and I will defend her to the death. We don’t even have to speak on certain days, but we can feel whatever mood the other one is in and check-up on each other accordingly. Whenever we have a strange dream or nightmare, the first thing we do is text each other and try to analyze what it could mean. I as the 12H person also dreamt of us becoming best friends before we formally met. The dreams i would have of her would always be loaded with spiritual symbolism. We also grew up with the same level of emotional attachment to our personal spiritualities and shared religion, which plays a large role in our understandings of one another. Most people just won’t get it, but she always will. She could read my crazy journal entries if she wanted to. 12H moon synastry is just unconditional love. Between friends at least, it feels like a long-lost twin connection. Also, her and I had gotten matching tattoos before we even knew of each other, both of them being for the same spiritual meaning!
Composite Mars in 3rd house: Lots of talking during sex, and lots of car sex— It might sometimes feel like that’s the easiest thing to talk about, or the conversation always steers to that direction. Sending nudes? Sexting. Maybe the only way you two could engage your sexual desire for one another is through sexting, because distance might not permit the full physical expression. If you don’t have a lot of experience knowing the other’s communication style, it can lead to a bit of random defensiveness or perceiving the other as communicating abrasively. I think it can lead to one trying to get reactions out of the other by saying something out of pocket.
Composite Mercury in 12th house: Pay attention to the dreams you have of this person! They will seriously tell you a lot about your dynamic, but don’t take them at face value! Lots of mystical elements to your dreams about them specifically, so maybe reviewing tarot card meanings and astrology concepts can help you decipher the meanings of your dreams. You might find it easier than expected to confide in each other or rant about your brain’s inner workings together. “I don’t know why I’m saying all that-“ or psychoanalyzing each other for fun. Talking about your less-than-desirable attributes. Being honest about your deceptive tendencies or specific lies you’ve told and why. Oversharing things that will usually make other people uncomfortable in the same context (like talking about your exes or failed situationships on a first date). Difficulties communicating when it’s not in person because it leaves too much room for confusion. Deceit is a real possibility though, with someone voluntarily “leaving out details” about their life outside of the relationship to avoid ruining the flow of energy or the dynamic. Having each other saved on your phones under fake names. Having to hide that you’re talking to this person from other people. One of you withdrawing communication to manipulatively make the other think about you more. Taking turns being each other’s therapist. Thinking about each other often but never expressing that, or the extent to which you think of one another. Thinking about the other at night before going to bed. “I started catching feelings for the girl that I’m currently having sex with, so it’s safe to say we don’t talk anymore, unless of course we’re having sex” in Sasquatch .22 by Bay Faction.
Composite Venus in 12th house: There really is a secretive component to this interaction that can feel impossible to bypass. Your family, friends, or society might not “approve” of you two together. One or both of you can be cheating on someone with this person. Only being able to meet up or be affectionate at night or in extremely private settings. The privacy of the relationship can help you open up a lot more than you’d expect to, because there’s no one but you two to perceive the other in this context. No judgments on how you two should behave with one another, so “let’s fully enjoy the moment while it lasts.” No one understanding your interaction or it’s purpose, and you probably don’t understand it either. Sending telepathic love notes. Longing. Intimate and romantic sex that haunts you or catches you off guard. Never wanting to be the first one to admit you’ve caught feelings. Ruining your sleep schedule to spend time with one another. Dreaming about romantically linking with them before it ever happens. Withdrawing once feelings start feeling real. The song “Lips of Angel” by Hinder reminds me of Composite Venus in 12H. “Illicit Affairs,” “August,” and “False God” by Taylor Swift. “Why Can’t I?” by Liz Phair. Gato de Noche by Bad Bunny. Sex by The 1975.
Lilith in 8th house synastry: Wanting to try things sexually with this person that wasn’t necessarily exciting with other partners. “You can do whatever you want to me, and I’ll let you.” Possibly experimenting with or preferring BDSM with one another. That Lana lyric that’s like: You fucked me so good that I almost said “I love you.” It might also be controversial if people knew you’ve had sex with one another. Revenge sex? As in, you two having sex might indirectly be spiting someone else, and it kind of feels like you’re dishing out delicious karma on a surprising silver platter— “lol if only they knew” You two might have fun misbehaving together. Doing what you both know you’re not supposed to be doing can make everything feel better, and even more reason to keep doing what you’re doing. Lana Del Rey in Diet Mountain Dew: “you’re no good for me, but baby I want you.” Wanting to be dangerous together. “Leave me bruised so I can’t forget you.” “Seeing you tonight is a bad idea, right?” This placement somewhat reminds me of a union between the death card and the devil card in tarot, with an emphasis on risk-stained sexual liberation. You can become symbolic of temptation in each other’s lives, so it’s hard to deny your impulses. Toxic by Britney Spears.
Chiron teaches us so much about ourselves but when it comes to someone else’s Chiron connecting without our natal Chart, it is a new way to deal with the force and power from this comet. The magic we may have once saw in things would diminish briefly with Chiron but with time and patience, we can learn how to fall in love with it again. Chiron teaches us about value, through the “wound” we learn and appreciate what was there all along. In synastry, it is enhanced because your partner is the force that drives this out. “The Wounded Healer” presents an obstacle that can truly alter the dynamic in a relationship. Only love and patience can help both parties overcome the pain and with time they can grow stronger together through this binding experience.
Chiron in the First House – A mirror is shown with this position, teaching the 1st House person that there is more to them that was expected. The 1st House person will have to come to terms with their fears regarding their ego and self-esteem. Chiron is the mirror and the teacher. They will open the 1st House person’s eyes and make them see what they are capable of. With this placement, Chiron teaches their power the beauty in transformations and letting go of pain associating with their ego.
Chiron in the Second House – Chiron teaches the 2nd House person how to value themselves and to see their power. Learning about themselves is key and Chiron here allows for the second house person to dig deep and see the potential that they have and the wonderful things that they can create and build with a little faith in themselves. The Second House person begins to learn what it means to be responsible and to put themselves first since their ego will be cultivated.
Chiron in the Third House – Here, Chiron allows the 3rd House person to face their insecurity when it relates to the way that they express themselves and communicate. This can be a synastry aspect that empowers both parties. Chiron helps the 3rd house person heal any wounds inflicted to them by mentors growing up. The native will be able to stand up for themselves and learn to embrace their opinions with more confidence.
Chiron in the Fourth House – Your origin story is a prominent theme with this synastry aspect. Chiron brings up those old wounds that shaped who you are. The 4th House person sees Chiron as a constant reminder of the past and the aspects of themselves that they are not willing to let go of. This is a synastry aspect that takes patience but with time it helps to empower the 4th House person, allowing them to take lead their home and family without love and not fear.
Chiron in the Fifth House – With this synastry aspect, Chiron shows the 5th House person the impact and power of their creation. The native with the 5th House will begin to see their environment in all colors and modes. This is a creative aspect that comes with a lot pain and healing. The 5th House person sees the beauty that can be created after the tougher times. This is an aspect that gives both parties faith that a brighter tomorrow can exist through love and joy.
Chiron in the Sixth House – There will be a focus on the well-being of the 6th House person with this synastry aspect. Chiron teaches their partner what it means to consider self-care and being more focused on improving their organizational skills. At times, Chiron can feel critical, but this is to be expected. A mature Chiron will help their partner be more motivated when it comes to routines and will set an example of how to take care of themselves such as eating right or meditation.
Chiron in the Seventh House – With this position, Chiron teaches the 7th House person how to heal when it comes to relationships. A past wound inflicted by a friend or a lover might continue to haunt the 7th House person, but Chiron will help them face their fears and move on. The lessons learned with this synastry aspect can make the 7th House person more confident in themselves. They will learn that they can still feel worthy even if they are alone.
Chiron in the Eighth House – A very powerful place, similar to the 12th House connection in synastry. The Chiron person teaches the 8th House person how to rekindle their relationship with themselves as well as their possessions. Chiron’s presence can be alleviating as you connect and become more in tune with the lessons of the 8th House. An energizing synastry aspect that can lead to incredible growth if both parties cooperate and learn from their experience.
Chiron in the Ninth House – Fear of the spiritual or the overall philosophies and ideologies of others will be the dominant themes with this synastry aspect. Chiron is here to change the 9th House person’s perspective on the world. Whatever past wounds were inflicted by those in prominent positions relating to the 9th House, Chiron mends and unleashes new methods of thought that will allow the 9th House person to reconnect with the spiritual and abandon fears of higher learning.
Chiron in the Tenth House – The wounds here will revolve taking center stage and the 10th House person knowing their worth when they are in the employee position. Chiron teaches the 10th House person how to lead, take charge and stand up for themselves. This is a synastry aspect that promotes mastery of power. The 10th House person will learn how to relate with their employees once they reach the top of the chain thanks to the teachings of Chiron.
Chiron in the Eleventh House – In the 11th House, Chiron teaches the native the meaning of friendships, connecting and the collective. The 11th House person might have experienced some inconveniences with friendships or other social interactions in the past, but Chiron here can serve as a source of empowerment like a Mars placement. It will be a relationship focused on changing the world together. The native learns to reconnect without fear.
Chiron in the Twelfth House – A relationship focused on healing through the spiritual. The Chiron person will be the one to awaken the 12th House person’s hidden fears and traumas. Both parties will experience the anxieties and the beauty of the 12th House together. This is one that binds and renews as the 12th House person begins to learn to move freer in the world without as much guilt and pain.
Blac Chyna got a Scorpio MC and Sun 8th house in her Fama(408) Persona Chart which makes sense since she is the highest paid non musician Only Fans creator. In October 2023 she was the top earning creator of all on Only Fans.
Earth placements🌱 tend to like the touching/sensing/moaning part during sex while Air placements🌬️ tend to be very visual & communicative. Fire placements🔥tend to value the pace and feeling. Water placements💧 value the emotional undercurrents. So air placements might care more about how the partner looks and be turn on by the appearance while Taurus gets turned on by how you feel & sound. Water placements get turned on based on the emotional undercurrents like for example scorpio placements can get extra turned on if its forbidden.
Venus 2nd house synastry seem to make yall want to kiss & do oral sex a lot more than you usually would with someone else. (Please confirm this if you had this in synastry w someone)
Mars conjunct Chiron in both synastry and composite makes the sex amazing. That soulmerging healing kind of sex.
Mars conjunct Reiki(5239) in the natal chart might make people feel changed/healed after they slept with you.
Eros(433) conjunct Neptune might mean a lot of people fantasize about you, Ive seen it in a lot of the charts when i did my xxx stars post.
Libra Moon and Mars tend to care a lot about how their partner looks. Disharmony can really affect them and therefore make them very easily turned off. Not always ofc, other placements play a huge role too.
Lust(4386) or Eros(433) conjunct Moon seem to make someone constantly in the mood for some ”funny stuff”. It also tends to create the same effect in synastry.
If you watch ”adult movies” you will enjoy performers you have 8th house synastry with or the same Eros or Mars sign. They will most likely ”do it” in a way you like. There is usually a conjuntion from one of their personal planets to your Venus or Mars involved when it comes to your ”favorite star”.
I remember a famous youtuber answering which celebrity he would choose if he could only sleep with ONE celebrity. Ofc I checked his synastry with the celebrity he chose and he had a stellium in her 8th house.
Check the degree of your asteroid Eros. Eros at 2° can mean a sexy voice, good at oral, liking it slow and sensual, might even get paid for it.
Sorry I know Ive said it before but so many Sag Risings with Pluto in the 1st house look like the stereotypical ”sexy teacher” look.
Mars degree says more about what you enjoy in the bedroom. Mars in a Cancer degree might find pregnant people hot or enjoy sucking someones titties or having theirs sucked. 🍼
Mars 9th house might like to do it in risky places. 9th house and Sagittarius energy can make someone kinda reckless.
Fama(408) the goddess of rumor conjunct Eros(433) can indicate people will spread rumours about your sex life. Known for being sexy. People can be very curious about your sex life if you have this placement.
People with Saturn 8th house might like a more ”cold” kind of sex with less cuddling and kissing etc just straight forward penetration sex.
Bacchus(2063) conjunct Mars in the natal chart seem to give the person an insatiable sexual appetite.
Moon & Mars in the 8th house in synastry seem to be the hardest to resist. Especially speciellt since they often come with some kind of forbidden situation going on. There seem to always be a reason why yall are not allowed to do it.
Lilith aspecting personal planets or inte the 1st, 8th, 11th or 10th house sometimes have the most innappropriate people vieweing them in a sexual way. Like the person they least expected. Which can be very hurtful for them.
People with Jupiter aspecting Mars tend to be seen as being good in bed no matter if they are or not. Its just the energy they exude.
Someones Lilith aspecting your personal planets can make them see you as wayyy sexier than you actually are. Same with 8th house/Pluto synastry.
in both cases: always start on the lowest setting and wrapped in something soft!! if it hurts, stop!!
But, re: sinuses: look up a diagram of where they are, and when a spot feels particularly good or is particularly congested, hold it there longer. Definitely keep tissues handy for when it drains. Also it can help if your sinuses hurt like fuck but aren't actually congested (which happened when I had covid), but the effect doesn't last long.
Re: TMJ disorder: You can just push it against the joint, obviously; if your vibe has a small contact point you can REALLY dig in there (but again: stop if it hurts). But don't forget the whole area around the joint, around your ears, and up your scalp. There's a lot of muscles that tighten when your jaw is tight/stiff/in pain. Be especially careful when on a spot that's just skin over a bone without a lot of padding.
vibrators can also help if you have restless legs syndrome! Especially ones with fancy pulse patterns. When my RLS is severe I tuck them behind my knees or wherever & can finally lie still & sleep. You might need to wrap them in fabric to avoid skin irritation ymmv. There was even a paper published somewhere called "counter stimulatory devices for RLS" that was hilariously vague about saying the word "vibrator"
Once again adding also useful if you have dystonia or any kind of muscle spasticity. I have cervical dystonia (neck spasms) and dystonia in my left leg that's essentially like persistent Charley horse cramps from my neuromuscular issues and bought a Hitachi expressly for this purpose lol
