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Just a quick little rant

I cannot stand when girls get into a relationship and fall off the face of the earth. I get it, you're madly in love... But when you need to talk to someone who isn't your boyfriend or you want to have a girls night, go fuck yourself. I've been trying to see you for months but you're too busy being with your boyfriend to give a shit. That's not a true friend. And honestly girls, what is an engagement, a wedding, having children if you have no friends to celebrate with you? Think about that.

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I use to love the thought of marriage . Not no more. I don’t have commitment problems. I just think nobody takes it serious anymore. They kinda look at it as just a piece of paper and a ring .

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Nothing brings you down unless you let it

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Typical Me

Coworker: Steve and I got engaged yesterday!

Me: omg congrats girl! I'm so happy for you!

Coworker: Really? I'm surprised you're congratulating me!

Me: why?

Coworker: Because you told me that wedding rings are actually the worlds smallest handcuffs just last week.

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I wish I could see my life in 10 years so I know if all this is worth it.

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My last relationship taught me: if you have to be the one who apologizes even though you've done nothing wrong- it's time to move on.

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Trust

I'm stuck in an age where everyone is so good at lying, everyone cheats, and you just can't trust anyone. What am I supposed to do?

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You are no better than anyone, and the only person you should aim to be better than, is the person you were yesterday

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Food for Thought

I have a thought for you. You hear SO many people from all generations telling us how we (20 somethings) need to learn how to “date” again and how all we do is “sleep around” and “hangout.” Well, am I the only one who thinks we should never stop the natural progression of things? Every generation has their own issues. So what we don’t know how to “date” like our grandparents did… WE AREN’T THEM. So much has changed since our grandparents or even parents dated! Women weren’t even expected to go to work back then, but now, our generation is trying to find ways to deal with our new gender roles. You see articles online saying how “our generation has lost the ability to love”… but what if, hear me out, we are just learning to “love” a certain way. Human being are not meant to be monogamous creatures, so why in the past generations have we tried so hard to be?

Sure, I’m a girl who loves when a man plans the date, brings flowers, picks me up at my door, buys the dinner with no hesitation instead of letting me even “pay the tip”.. all that is fine and well. However, when I think about it, I’m an independent woman, and I don’t want to give up my independence for anyone. So I want flowers? I know where to buy them. I was dinner? I can go by myself. I don’t need someone to shower me with things, because I can provide for myself. That’s how women should be. Take control of your own life.

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The moments that make life worth living are when things are at their worst and you find a way to laugh.

Amy Schumer

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Getting To Know Me

I’m a 20 something who has a lot of stories to tell. Ever since I was 14, I’ve been a “Serial Monogamous”. For those of you who don’t know what that means- I have gone from relationship to relationship. Hopped from one boyfriend to the next, often times without more than a few days break. So, until now, I’ve never really been single. Before when I’d be “single” it would never last more than a few weeks, and I’d be absolutely miserable the whole time- and I’d be looking for my next boyfriend.

This time is different. For the first time in my existence, I do not want to be attached to someone, I do not want someone to call my boyfriend, I just want to be left alone to go out with my friends. I’m actually happy to be single during my early 20’s… I can’t imagine missing everything I’ve been doing because of a boyfriend.

I’ve finally found myself, and I’m enjoying getting to be alone and happy. Not to say, that I don’t go on dates or enjoy male company- because I do. I have definitely had my fair share of crazy dates, and experiences related to me being single. Call me a real life Amy Schumer.

My dating life is so comical in fact- that I began a blog….