do one thing every day who scares you

Because you can't spell 'Savile Row' without 'vile.'  About the exhibits and the curator. Slip letters under the door. Current avatar is from artwork by Paula Meadows, and current header is from Baguio and Cordillera Travel.

[sinistersinister]

Hello!  My name is SinisterSinister, and welcome to my evil sex blog!

Warnings:

I don't consistently tag for NSFW content (because this is an evil sex blog and NSFW is implied), or do warnings unless asked.  I'm really bad about that.  It is not out of some petulant whiny kind of "THE WOKES ON TUMBLR HAVE GONE MAD AND I WON'T STAND FOR THIS!" attitude, it's just that I'm forgetful and lazy.  Tell me if you need anything tagged and I'll try to remember.  

 A blanket disclaimer: this blog is 18+ and may contain depictions of sex, violence, and/or sexual violence.  Please leave this blog if you are under 18, or if you don't like that kind of thing.

About me:

34/F/psychosexual fog of impotent yearning. Sub-leaning-switch, so no matter who wins, I win. I'll play along no matter your gender, I guess, because it's fun to play along, but I'm gay IRL.

About what you might see here:

Bad jokes. 

Tedious pseudo-philosophical arguments with myself.  Sometimes the psychology of it all.  Saying 'kink theory' sounds pretentious, but I am pretentious.

Cool info about fetish subcultures.  Even if I'm not 'into something' into something, it's still interesting to me. I love learning about other people!

Sometimes I post fan fiction recommendations. 

I like to write stories where a thinly-veiled self-insert is brutalized. Think: James Bond (and his clones) and Rosa Klebb are 30something lesbians in space. Read the stories under the tag (formerly st. rictus).

NO:

Ageplay (including diapers and DD/lg)

Vore

Poops

Goops

Feederism

Humiliation

Raceplay

Public anything

Gore. A little blood is fine and I like bruises but if you’re breaking bones or pulling out teeth or fingernails I’m not as interested

Gor

YES:

Sexy violence, control exerted over me, unequal power distribution.  Antique medical trappings, bespoke suits, leather oxfords, situationally-appropriate restraints, condescension and patronizing, not-explicitly-sexual violation of boundaries, a nice oxford or brogue, tweed, cruel whimsy, institutionalization, smiles that don’t quite reach the eyes, and implements that wound.  I am as much a fetishist of the violence of acts themselves as I am of contextual props.  If I have a 'type,' it's someone who is powerful, usually older than I am, and a bit of a creative sadist who takes full advantage.

Unrepentant evil people. Why settle for the bad boy? Why not have the WORST MAN?

I also like to put people in situations. Allow me to put you in a situation. I'm literally so sweet and nice. What, you don't trust me? Are you some kind of ableist?

Faustian bargains

More written than visual pornography.  

Questions and comments and creepy compliments and attempts to make me sexually uncomfortable are more than welcome-- they are encouraged.

This blog is my side-blog, so if I don’t follow you back, please please please don’t think it’s because I don’t like you.

If you're a beautiful or handsome woman, pleeeeease don't send me pics oh nooooo I'd hate that so much I'd get so flusterrrrred

[sinistersinister]

People on the ‘nsfw Charli XCX’ subreddit are downvoting me because I said “hey I love these nudes but is she okay with us seeing them? I can’t enjoy these if she doesn’t want us to have them.”

I don’t hate men, some of my best dads are men, but oh my god, even asking for ETHICAL NUDES is too much for you??

This is why I keep getting banned on Reddit. I just end up suicidebaiting people.

[girlmostlikely]

I don’t romanticize things I fetishize them. Big difference.

[xenasaur]

findom is so fucking hot in concept but in this economy? untenable

[xenasaur]

like the idea of sweetly cupping a girl's face and gently brushing my thumb across her cheek while I condescendingly explain that I know she worked soooooo long and hard for all this money but we both know that I deserve it far more than she does is so painfully erotic to me. I looooooove condescendingly explaining to girls why they deserve less than me while they whimper and nod and thank me for it. but I also would probably throw up thinking about taking money from someone when the economy is in this state

of course, I could get around that by findomming men, but then it wouldn't be fun. a real catch 22

[iamoutofideas]

you could tell the sub to rob a bank

[xenasaur]

be a good girl and put on this clown mask for mommy and don't forget to watch out for the bus driver

[whumpologyy]

“It’s not the pain, Whumpee,” Whumper said, as though explaining something simple, obvious. “It’s the control. The fact that you have no choice but to feel it, no choice but to stay here with me. You can scream all you want, beg me to stop, but none of it matters. Because I’ll keep going until I say so.”

[gretchensinister]

Insensitivity reader to make sure that your characters are ignorant assholes in the ways that make the most sense for the characterization you're trying to achieve

[sinistersinister]

i wonder if people with anxiety disorders are more likely to be into bdsm

[sinistersinister]

"i feel like i'm being hunted for sport. maybe i should give myself a reason to feel that way."

[sinistersinister]

i wonder if people with anxiety disorders are more likely to be into bdsm

[fishing-princess]

For thousands of years humanity has selectively bred chickens to have larger breasts and to have to lay eggs constantly. We did it to get more meat and per chicken, but from the perspective of the domesticated chickens they’re sorta living in a very specific fetish scenario

[sinistersinister]

I haven’t written anything and I need to be punished seveeeeerely about it

[innerchildabortionclinic]

interesting kink assortment on the dash

[sinistersinister]

last post is how some of you are writing whump

[humiliationvictim]

Humiliated again…

[thelastsmoke]

[treecitysessions]

They shouldn’t do that why is everyone supporting this dreadful game

[sinistersinister]

insane take and i may get canceled for the #truth

but mitski's 'washing machine heart' does not sound sad at all. it sounds desperately horny.

[sinistersinister]

dreamed i sat in victoria's lap and she fucked me with the barrel of her gun. she didn't care that it hurts me terribly to have anything up there and it was hot

[sinistersinister]

what's a steampunk's favorite drink?

[sinistersinister]

a clocktail

[sinistersinister]

my wife took everything in the divorce...