hey. ive been questioning my gender for a long time, and im pretty sure im nonbinary, but now everytime i think about gender (like, actually start questioning it) i have mild panick attacks and idk what to do? because not knowing my gender makes me anxious (i guess im one of those people that likes labels) but thinking about it makes me anxious. i have no idea what to do... sorry for bothering.
hey! theres actually a gender that describes this exactly! even if you want a term that describes your actual gender specifically, hopefully this will at least be a band-ad fix? followers?
kynigender: when you feel like you’re figuring out your gender, but then you get confused about it due to the anxiety/stress it causes you and have to start all over again
note: this gender is only for people with anxiety disorders
if you dont have an anxiety disorder (i mean it sounds like you do but) then theres also these:
novigender: a gender experience too hard to read/process/understand or too complex to pin down to one wordÂ
obruogender: When one’s gender is swelling or overwhelming to one. Used when somebody is overwhelmed or overpowered by their gender identity, to an even uncomfortable or suffocating feeling.
iragender: when your gender is angering. another way to put it is that thinking about/figuring out your gender is emotionally exhausting and now you’re mad at your gender.
rosegender: a gender that is layered and thorny. trying to hold onto the gender and pick apart every layer only causes emotional pain and stress. you can also have subtypes, ie rosegirl: a gender that has origins in girlness but you can’t quite place in what way.
snakegender: when your gender slips away every time you try to reach for it to figure it out, and it’s always changing and it’s really scary to confront so you just try to avoid it
then there are these, which are just some elusive genders but dont specify any type of anxiety/emotional tie
apsconsugender: a gender where you know what it isn’t, but not what it is. like the gender is hiding itself from you.
cocoongender: a gender that has not come out yet, a gender that has yet to emerge in its full form
ectogender: a gender that seems elusive, constantly out of your grasp, and impossible to pin down
existigender: a gender that only exists when you think about it, or is quiet until called to attention. alternatively, feeling genderless until a gender is consciously chosen.
staticgender: a gender that is literally like static on a tv; fuzzy + incomprehensible
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