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Ally Board! Tonight we came up with some guidelines to help you be a good ally, to the trans community and to other groups :) Here's a transcription (haha) of the board:
Welcome back SLC! Celebrate the semester with TransAction Thursday at 7:30 in the LGBTQIA space (expect baked goods)
diversify your queer reads: 2014 books featuring queer people of color
Earlier this year, author K Tempest Bradford challenged readers to try a year of books that arenāt written by straight, white, cis men. Some see challenges like this as limiting our reading choices - but in a culture where white, straight, cis narratives continue to dominate, intentionally diversifying the stories we read is an exercise in expansion.
As in the past two years, I put together this list of publications from 2014 with the help of resources like the Lambda Literary Foundation and Sistahs On The Shelf, as well as reviewers around tumblr, goodreads and elsewhere. It has grown thanks to the efforts of small presses like Kórima Press and biyuti publishing. These are all books that feature the voices of queer people of color and/or QPOC protagonists.
Annual disclaimer: Thereās no way this list is exhaustive. These are also not personal recommendations, just every title I could find. If I was unsure about a bookās contents (that is, if I was unsure if the qpoc characters were prominent, or if I thought the book might be exploitative), I tried to give weight to who the author is (i.e. I was more likely to include books I know were written by people of color). Of course, Iāll happily add books to the list if you have any suggestions that fit the theme - only books about QPOC, and only works published in 2014. Hereās everything I found, arranged by genre: Fiction
Otros Valos by Jamie Berrout
The Rules by S. Renee Bess
Love Enough by Dionne Brand
Yabo by Alexis De Veaux
The Girl with the Treasure Chest by V.A. Fearon
For Today I am a Boy by Kim Fu
Souljah by John R. Gordon
Niya 2 by Fabiola Joseph
Rapture by Myesha D. Jenkins
Prairie Ostrich by Tamai Kobayashi
The Paths of Marriage by Mala Kuma
Part the Hawser Limn the Sea by Dan Lopez
Last Words of Montmartre by Qiu Miaojin
Moving Forward Sideways Like a Crab by Shani Mootoo
The Walk-In Closet by Abdi Nazemian
A Lesbian in Godās House by Phenomenon
She of the Mountains by Vivek Sharya
Science Fiction/Fantasy/Horror
Skin Deep Magic by Craig Laurence Gidney
The Beast of Callaire by Saruuh Kelsey
Love in the Gilded Age by Saruuh Kelsey
Sacred Fire by Tanai Walker
Desire at Dawn by Fiona Zedde
Romance
Desire: Gay Passionate Short Stories by Orville Lloyd Douglas
Let The Love Be by Sheree L. Greer
How Can An Angel Take My Heart, Part II: The ArmanĆØe by Regina Knox
Pieces of Her by A.C. Mims
Les Tales: Tempted to Touch by Skyy, Nikki Rashan and Fiona Zedde
Surrender: Two Hearts & A Rainbow Series by Monique BT Thomas
Treasure by Rebekah Weatherspoon
Safe Haven by B.L. Wilson
When She Says Yes by Fiona Zedde
Poetry
Difficult Fruit by Lauren Alleyne
i just want freedom by b. binaohan
The New Testament by Jericho Brown
The Cha Cha Files: A Chapina PoƩtica by Maya Chinchilla
Floating Brilliant Gone by Franny Choi
Make Love to Rage by Morgan Robyn Collado
Under My Skin by Orville Lloyd Douglas
Prime: Poetry & Conversation by Darrel Alejandro Holnes, Saeed Jones, Rickey Laurentiis, Phillip B. Williams and L. Lamar Wilson
The Possibilities of Mud by Joe JimƩnez
Prelude to Bruise by Saeed Jones
Donāt Go Back To Sleep by Timothy Liu
Naming Ceremony by Chip Livingston
I Look For You In Other Truths by Ramon Loyola
Amorcito Maricón by Lorenzo Herrera y Lozano
Haiti Glass by Lenell Moise
This Way to the Sugar by Hieu Minh Nguyen
Everybodyās Bread by Claudia Rodriguez
Language Arts by Cedar Sigo
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The Fateful Apple by Venus Thrash
Drama
Bird in the Hand by Jorge Ignacio CortiƱas
BOOTYCANDY by Robert OāHara
A Boiz Life: A play in one act by E.J. Loveson
The Beast of Times by Adelina Anthony
Jotos del Barrio by JesĆŗs Alonzo
Memoir/Bio
The Prince of Los Cocuyos: A Miami Childhood by Richard Blanco
Fire Shut Up in my Bones by Charles M. Blow
Bad Feminist by Roxane Gay
Memoirs of a GayShe by Garland G. Guidry
A Cup of Water Under My Bed by Daisy Hernandez
The Transsexual from Tobago by Dominique Jackson
Aināt Gonna Let Nobody Turn Me Round: Forty Years of Movement Building with Barbara Smith edited by Alethia Jones & Virginia Eubanks with Barbara Smith
Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More by Janet Mock
My Life is No Accident by Tenika Watson and Jennifer DaelynĀ
Nonfiction/Queer Studies
Willful Subjects by Sara Ahmed
James Baldwin: The Last Interview and Other Conversations
Under Bright Lights: Gay Manila and the Global Scene by Bobby Benedicto
Gender on the Edge: Transgender, Gay, and Other Pacific Islanders edited by Niko Besnier & Kalissa Alexeyeff
decolonizing trans/gender 101 by b. binaohan
The Queer Caribbean Speaks Interviews with Writers, Artists, and Activists by Kofi Omoniyi Sylvanus Campbell
Firelight of a Different Colour: The Life and Times of Leslie Cheung Kwok-wing by Nigel Collett
Hold Tight Gently: Michael Callen, Essex Hemphill, and the Battlefield of AIDS by Martin Duberman
Underserved Women of Color, Voice, and Resistance Claiming a Seat at the Table edited by Sonja M. Brown Givens & Keisha Edwards Tassie
Black and Gay in the UK: An Anthology edited by John R. Gordon & Rikki Beadle-Blair
A View from the Bottom: Asian American Masculinity and Sexual Representation by Nguyen Tan Hoang
Black Queer Identity Matrix: Towards An Integrated Queer of Color Framework by Sheena C. Howard
Queer & Trans Artists of Color: Stories of Some of Our Lives by Nia King
Island Bodies: Transgressive Sexualities in the Caribbean Imagination by Rosamond S. King
Namibiaās Rainbow Project: Gay Rights in an African Nation by Robert Lorway
Queen for a Day: Transformistas, Beauty Queens, and the Performance of Femininity in Venezuela by Marcia Ochoa
Unbought and Unbossed: Transgressive Black Women, Sexuality, and Representation by Trimika Melancon
Queer BeirutĀ by Sofian Merabet
In the Life and In the Spirit: Homoerotic Spirituality in African American Literature by Marlon Rachquel Moore
Sensational Flesh: Race, Power, and Masochism by Amber Jamilla Musser
Imperial Blues: Geographies of Race and Sex in Jazz Age New York by Fiona I. B. NgƓ
Sexual Futures, Queer Gestures, and Other Latina Longings by Juana MarĆa RodrĆguez
The Avowal of Difference:Ā Queer Latino American Narratives byĀ Ben. Sifuentes-Jauregui
Black Gay Genius: Answering Joseph Beamās Call edited by Charles Stephens & Steven G. Fullwood
Queer Masculinities in Latin American Cinema: Male Bodies and Narrative Representations by Gustavo Subero
The Queerness of Native American Literature by Lisa Tatonetti
Delectable Negro: Human Consumption and Homoeroticism within US Slave Culture by Vincent Woodard
Young Adult
The Voices in Between by Charlene Challenger
The Bane Chronicles by Cassandra Clare, Sarah Rees Brennan & Maureen Johnson
The Sowing by Steven Dos Santos
Otherbound by Corinne Duyvis
Moon at Nine by Deborah Ellis
Tell Me Again How a Crush Should Feel by Sara Farizan
Climbing the Date Palm by Shira Glassman
Always Leaving by Gene Grant
Pukawiss the Outcast by Jay Jordan Hawke
Guardian by Alex London
Gabi, A Girl in Pieces by Isabel Quintero
Lies We Tell Ourselves by Robin Talley
Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson
Childrenās Lit
Tell Your Story, Tell A Dream Birthday Cake by Angela Bermudez & Flor Bermudez
Comics/Graphic Novels
Massive: Gay Erotic Manga and the Men Who Make It by Anne Ishii, Chip Kidd & Graham Kolbeins
100 Crushes by Elisha Lim
More and More of You by Takeshi Matsu
Cruising Diaries by Brontez Purnell & Janelle Hessig
Snackies by Nick Sumida
Fishermans Lodge by Gengoroh Tagame
USA:Ā LGBTQ Activists Block Road Outside Trans Detention CenterĀ Full story here:Ā http://www.notonemoredeportation.com/2015/05/28/lgbtqshutdown/
In a time where trans characters are more visible in pop culture than ever before, but Black trans women are still, without a doubt, being murdered in the streets, CeCeās story is more relevant than ever.
Remember Trans Power! Fight for Trans Lives! Order this poster in honor of Trans Day of Remembrance. Proceeds go to the Audre Lorde Project, a community organizing center for and by queer and trans people of color. Purchase here.Ā
for folks with class & education privilege: on the importance of supporting social movements with our pocketbooks as well as our words
Trans | Seattle, Washington - 2015Ā
support masc presenting trans girls with a great force. cis girls get to be as a masc as they want and not have their identities questioned.. dont you dare limit the expression of trans girls
Gender Critical Feminism (GCF) is a euphemism for Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminism (TERF). There is no ideological difference between the TERF and āGender Critical Feministā (GCF) movement; theyā¦
Everythingās gonna be super duper.
On the days like today when Iām struggling under dysphoria and anxiety and a whole range of things that are tied to those words by tight red strings, itās hard to remember that I am a person who deserves to take care of their wonderful self. Here are some self-care regiments that work for me. They might work for you, too, or you might have your own. I recommend making a list you can tape to your mirror or the inside of your favorite book so you donāt forget in the worst moments. Here are 25 things that might get you started.
And here are 10 more!
So you think that the gender you were told to have your entire life is not, in fact, who you are. Now what? This is a huge moment in your life, and it can be hard to start navigating this world designed for cis people as someone whoās trans or questioning your a/gender identity. Here are some t
This is a pretty amazing article and resourceĀ yaāll for all of us members of the trans community!
Hope this helps!
General Resources:
looking for a bathroom?
Trans Student Equality Resources
Trans Housing Network
All Our Worlds (Queer Book Database)
Our #Tags:
art
articles
books
videosĀ
visibility
Questioning?
5 Common Insecurities The Donāt Mean Anything About Your Transgender Identity
8 Signs and Symptoms of Indirect Dysphoria (summary by Transgender Teen Survival Guide, article by Zinnia Jones)
Ask a Gender Therapist: Am I Transgender? (youtube video)
I think I might be transgender, now what do I do? (an article by AdvocatesForYouth.org)
Need help finding pronouns? / Hereās where to try them out
What Am I? (an article by Transgender Teen Survival Guide)
Coming Out
Coming Out (article by Trans Youth Family Allies)
Coming Out: The Plan (by Neutrois.me)
Coming Out Tips (by Transgender Teen Survival Guide)
Coming Out to Partners: Transgender and Nonbinary People (article by J. Lee Phelan)
Coming out stories:
On Coming Out as Genderqueer; or, My Life as a Bearded Lady (by Dustin L)
So Your Child is Non-binary: A Guide For Parents
Resources for Friends and Family
Understanding:
American Psychological Association: Answers to Your Questions About Transgender People, Gender Identity, And Gender Expression
So Your Child is Non-binary: A Guide For Parents
Everything You Need to Know About Nonbinary Identities (an article by Everyday Feminism)
in-depth interview with a nonbinary person about their identity (article from Zengerās Newsmagazine)
Explaining Genderqueer to Those Who Are Not (an article by neutrois.me)
āforcing kids to stick to gender roles can actually be harmful to their healthā (article by Tara Culp-Ressler)
Middle Sexes: Redefining He and She (an HBO documentary on gender variance available on Youtube)
Think Your Child Might be Transgender? (an article by GenderSpectrum.org)
What It Feels Like to be Transgender (article by Sophia Gubb)
8 Signs and Symptoms of Indirect Dysphoria (summary by Transgender Teen Survival Guide, article by Zinnia Jones)
Supporting:
A Support Guide for Parents, Families and Friends of Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming people (by PFLAG.org)
Thereās No Such Thing as a āSex Changeā (video from TheGuardian.com about how to talk about transgender people)
find support groups for parents of transgender children and trans youth (USA)
Trans*Forming Family (a blog by the mother of a genderqueer child)
Transgender Parenting (articles from Egale Canada)
TransYouth Family Allies
Singular They
Merriam and Webster: Ask The Editor
Oxford English Dictionary
Wikipedia: Singular They
The Economist: Singular They
Legal
WPATH Standards of Care, version 7 (pdf) (The World Professional Organization for Transgender Health)
Transgender Law Center (USA)
Change your Name for Free - Civil Indigent Status (USA) (Tumblr post)
Transgender Surgeons in the U.S. (USA)
DMAB Resources
Presentation:
Womenās Clothing Terminology
Tucking How-to Guide
The Breast Form Store
Mastectomy Bras with Built In Flap for Breast Forms
How to Contour and Highlight Using Makeup | How to Apply Eyeliner with a Spoon | How to Apply Foundation | How to Apply Blush | How to Apply Eyeshadow
Eva Voice Training App
Transition:
Find a gender therapist
AMAB Hormone Guide (uses āMTFā wording)
AMAB Surgery Guide (uses āMTFā wording)
DMAB master post
DFAB Resources
Presentation:
The FTMās Complete Illustrated Guide to Looking Like a Hot Dude
Underworks Binders | GC2B Binders
Mr. Limpy Soft Packers | The Real EZP (the only STP that actually works)
Transition:
Find a gender therapist
AFAB Hormone Guide (uses FTM wording)
AFAB Surgery Guide (uses FTM wording)
FTMSexTalk.tumblr.com (everything to do with sex as it relates to gender and transition - FTM-focussed but they also answer a lot of questions from AFAB non-binary people)
Hudsonās FTM Guide (tons of information about binding, HRT, and masculinization)
Janitor Queer (a blog by a genderqueer person on low-dose testosterone)
Neutrois Nonsense (for information about nonbinary-specific transition)
YouTubers:
OutOfThisBinary (collab channel)
welkin gender
Micah R
thecharliecharmander
queerascat
queerbb
benderqueer
Qubit Cuties (collab channel)
Damn this is a comprehensive list.
Daaang. Awesome.
(Because said comprehensive list is so long we havenāt inspected all the links: let us know if a link is broken/ unhelpful/ rickrolls you.)
Insurances that cover hormones/gender reassignment surgery
Just a quick guide for all you guys and girls having trouble finding the right insurance. Itās incredibly difficult to find insurance that covers sex reassignment surgery, and even when then do, thereās a chance youāll be denied.Ā
Make sure you guys are informed so you can make the right healthcare decisions!
Aetna: [x] [x] Amerigroup: [x] AHCCCS: Covers T/Estrogen only Blue Cross Anthem: [x] Blue Cross of Massachusetts: [x] Blue Cross Michigan: [x] Blue Cross North Carolina: [x]Ā Blue Cross North Dakota: [x] Blue Cross Rhode Island: [x] Blue Cross Tennessee: [x] Blue Cross Vermont: [x] Blue Shield CA: [x] Care First: [x] Cigna: [x] Emblem Health: [x] Excellus Blue Cross (NY): [x] Group Health Cooperative: [x] Harvard Pilgrim Health Care: [x] Health Net:[x] Health Partners: [x] HighMark: [x] Independence Blue Cross: [x] Medicare: [x] Obamacare: [x] United Healthcare: [x] Wellmark BCBS: [x] Wellpoint/Unicare: [x]
If you have any more, please add them to the list!
Kaiser Permanente!!!
Maryland has come up trumps as 18th state to ban discrimination on transgender. Congrats! Letās make this worldwide!
Hereās something shitty and vague in case anyone needs help
here is a noncomprehensive list of webcomics w sweet queer characters
NEATO
finished comics
tj & amalĀ (nsfw, m/m)
princess-princessĀ (kid-friendly, w/w)
works in progress
gunnerkrigg courtĀ (mostly kid-friendly, w/w,Ā ? m/mĀ ?)
demon streetĀ (kid-friendly, a girl/girl crush situation and an nb character aka my love)
prague raceĀ (nsfw, im actually not? sure? if any characters are actually explicitly queer but im still holdin out, the night is still young)
hotbloodcomic (nsfw, m/m)
cucumber quest (kid-friendly, a girl/girl crush situation and a trans woman character :ā) )
questionable content (nsfw, lots of queer romo + trans woman character, plus lbrh hanners is probably ace)
o human star (nsfw, m/m, a trans girl character, robots!!!)
witchyĀ (mostly kid-friendly, trans girl character)
omgcheckplease (not really kid-friendly but not nsfw either, m/m w various flavors of neat queer characters)
helvetica (same as check please- not kid-friendly but not nsfw andĀ ???? MAYBE?? M/M???? POSSIBLY IM NOTāā ACTUALLY SUREā, the night, as i said, is still young)
alterity (vaguely nsfw, main character seems to be afab but their gender is [loud truck passes, honking loudly])
anyway yeah thatās all i can think of off the top of my head but pls feel free 2 reblog this and add more
i hunger ever more greatly for queer webcomics