Mmmm Porkened Beans

im 23. welcome to the circus

[slutweed]

Crash!

[grimelords]

I love trying to look up the lyrics for a song and instead having the Genius website make my phone hot while it loads five ads and autoplays a video of Oop Slurp explaining the meaning behind his song She Fuck Me Like I’m Dr Phil

[memorycycle]

you ever wish you could grow centaur legs and then ungrow them rrsly fast so like the person in the elevator is like did i really just see that

[cupoftapeworms7278]

if gender criticals are supposed to be helpful why do they make me want to bash my brains in for not ‘doing it right’

I already tried being a gender non-conforming woman. I already combed through every possible underlying cause to me being a tranny and didn’t find anything. I’m just like this.

What do you want me to do now

[homosexuhauls]

Just responding because this is tagged, if you’re only wanting to vent apologies for the intrusion.

I can’t speak for all radfems, but usually we are less concerned with how individual trans adults manage their dysphoria than we are about the broader social and legal ramifications of gender identity as a construct we must all buy into, particularly at the expense of women and girl’s sex-based rights and protections.

Obviously, lots of us do believe that there are alternatives to transition for addressing dysphoria, and that the causes of dysphoria are most likely not innate. But we are not the ones living in your shoes, and only you can decide what is ultimately best for your wellbeing. There is no overarching radical feminist goal to see people suffering for the sake of ideological purity.

Finally, and I hesitate saying this because I know it’s probably unwelcome, you don’t have to try to be a woman, gender non-conforming or otherwise. You just are one. There are no rules or guidelines, if you are human and female and an adult, everything you do and are is “womanhood”. It’s not some nebulous quality you have to work for, and you’re not “doing it wrong” however you decide to lead your life. There are all sorts of women with all sorts of personalities and bodies, including transitioned women.

(Also as someone who also hate-reads a lot of content I vehemently disagree with or find offensive/harmful, I have to say- if you always equate disagreement with hatred or condemnation, you’ll walk through life thinking you have a lot more enemies than you do.)

[old-school-butch]

Get a wristwatch. Wear it. Contemplate on the fact that it was considered too feminine and only women wore it, until WW1 when soldiers realized it was convenient and needed accurate time-keeping to coordinate troop movements with creeping artillery.

Cigarettes were for women too, more delicate than cigars but I don’t recommend taking up smoking.

Gender is bullshit. A very long history of bullshit and we’ve all fallen for bits and pieces of it. Let it go and commit to being fully female and fully human.

[gncdyke-deactivated20230329]

[ca-dmv-bot]

Customer: MOST EVIL. DMV: HOSTILE? Verdict: ACCEPTED

[nlmglass]

Late Bloomer, Jan Kransberger

Kiln cast lead crystal, sterling silver wire, 17″ x 5.5″ x 3.5″, 2010

[sorairoknife]

Petting them

[self-loving-vampire]

[sorairoknife]

[greelin]

“you could kill this monstrous being” yeah and also we could make tender, sweet love for hours. what’s your point here. what choice do you think i’m going to make. Realistically. let’s be honest with ourselves here

[feuillesmortes]

Lifestyle feminism ushered in the notion that there could be as many versions of feminism as there were women. Suddenly the politics was being slowly removed from feminism. And the assumption prevailed that no matter what a woman’s politics, be she conservative or liberal, she too could fit feminism into her existing lifestyle. Obviously this way of thinking has made feminism more acceptable because its underlying assumption is that women can be feminists without fundamentally challenging and changing themselves or the culture.

— bell hooks, Feminism Is for Everybody: Passionate Politics

[beardedmrbean]

[official-boob-posts]

official

nay i shant say

[cedar-glade]

Clintonia umbellulata Limited to Appalachian mountains, Allegheny Plateau, and the Ilp in mixed mesophytic forests

  pretty sure when these bloom I feel like forest spirits are near by, get chills every time.

[polaroidbowie-deactivated202109]

Cary Grant and Marlene Dietrich in Blonde Venus (1932) dir. Josef von Sternberg

[athingcalledbliss]

 Song Jia by Leslie Zhang for T Magazine China June 2019

[cyberglittter]

anok yai @ fifteen percent pledge

[twistedpictures1-deactivated202]

hey you should ask your doctor about MAOIs. my SSRIs weren’t working so we tried those (i’m on nardil) and it did wonders for my mental health. just saying as a suggestion because based on the fact that you put the fucking onceler on my dashboard in 2022 the meds you take right now don’t work

WHAT

[giltspark]

[imeverywoman420]