So, yeah

ftm/female seperatism blog ran by an adult ftm

[snappysnarlystarryfrenzy]

I tried to hold out hope for people to at least look at the other viewpoints that people have. At least be somewhat curious as to what and why does these people believe what they do.

My chronic curiosity has led to me peaking, which I'm not sure is a blessing or curse at this point.

Regardless, sometimes you try to enlighten others with different viewpoints, and they shove their heads so deep down the sand that they're looking at the Earth's core.

I showed a trans masculine friend of mine a few of my posts on this blog, and, it's sincerely frustrating how people refuse to take off their veils to at least try to understand where the other side is coming from.

How can you deal with transandrophobia, ie hatred from TIMs, and sincerely not think that sex based oppression exists? Hell, how can you be fucking groomed and not believe that sex based oppression exist? How can you say that you agree with a lot of what radical feminists say, but hate them from the core of your heart?

You don't owe anyone your allegiance because of your dysphoria. Seriously, what the ever loving fuck are you doing?

[capitulism]

The largest mass shooting in American history was a hate crime against gay people. Don’t ever forget that.

[exmellivorinae]

June 12, 2016. Putting a date on this for when it gets reblogged months from now by people who think the post is about something from 30, 40 years ago.

[butch-reidentified]

I am a survivor of the Pulse nightclub shooting, having grown up in Orlando and just turned 20 a month prior. If you didn’t know, there were several families who refused to claim the bodies of their relatives due to their sexuality. One family even had their relative’s name removed from the memorial. Murdered by the same hate with which their families reject them in both life and death.

Many, many people celebrated Pulse. We were told we deserved it. That it was God’s punishment for our sin of loving the same sex. We are sent messages like these I received in 2018:

We in the community often call the victim count 49+ to include the survivors who couldn’t live with the pain.

The event was never officially declared a hate crime or targeted homophobic attack and is rarely listed as one in databases.

At our vigils for those slaughtered, Extremist Christian groups showed up to protest, holding signs like this:

ID: Me kissing a woman I was casually seeing in front of an angry looking man with a “Sodomy is Sin” sign.

Please understand how much more than just a mass shooting this was. We are still to this day harassed and told we deserved it by some.

This year was the sixth anniversary. The first couple years I received dozens of messages checking in on me on 6/12. Year 5 got enough news coverage for people to think to reach out to me. This year it was my therapist, the woman I kissed in that photo, and a couple of other gun violence survivor friends. People are forgetting already.

[butch-reidentified]

With the 7 year anniversary <2 weeks away, I figured I’d reblog this

[butch-reidentified]

I never asked for this post to get picked up with my addition. I never wanted that. But if you think you’re fucking PROGRESSIVE for silencing a female homosexual Pulse survivor, if you think you’re doing something GOOD by removing my addition which has NOTHING to do with gender/trans people (who, NO, I do not fucking hate you goddamn insufferable dumbass)…

how do you not understand that you ARE intentionally erasing history? the things I discuss in my reblog are things very few people know about this attack. you would prefer to bury those things - perhaps alongside your conscience and critical thinking skills? - than to allow a woman to speak freely? just bc said woman doesn’t believe in the existence of gender, but still believes in personal freedom and that trans people deserve safety, protection, and equal rights to all others?

I’m not the problem here babes

[butch-reidentified]

the TRA response to this post was so, so fucking revealing. dozens if not hundreds blocked me. some refused to reblog but instead would STEAL MY STORY OF SURVIVING PULSE. many lied about me & my views, BLAMED me for Pulse, or claimed I blamed trans people for Pulse. I got a massive influx of anon hate & violent threats.

These people are NO different than the person who sent me those messages in the screenshots, NO different than the WBC protestors, and NO different than the conservatives online who said we deserved it for being a threat to family values or whatever. TRAs showed their asses more in the responses to this post than anywhere else I’ve seen.

[butch-reidentified]

rereading this and realizing my initial addition literally said, “We are still to this day harassed and told we deserved it by some,” and the TRAs on here really read that and decided “that could be ME!”

[goldensunset]

my thing i haven’t made is so good 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[mlpoutofcontext]

[mlarayoukai-archive]

[girljeremystrong]

ever since i was a little girl i've been mad as hell

[c4zer]

oh ok

[special-agent-dale-gooper]

[wrenchinator-central]

[bibianmeowiw]

I sometimes forget when I'm in a mostly tra filled space online and that I can't call a TIM he just like that without people swarming in to lecture me over it LOL

[proteafem]

so glad i’m on radblr. i can say something like ‘pedophiles suck’ and it won’t become discourse of the month because duhhh tf 😭😭

[quinntheestallion]

PEAK thread- people who peaked recently within the last two years- can you share your experience and what sent you over the edge. I’m curious

[iamabat-ama]

When I couldn't find a single transfem out of all the people I followed, even mutuals, who was willing to speak out or even just stay silent about i-suggest-forcefem. Even if they didn't call him out by name, they reblogged a bunch of weepy posts about how every transfem who gets termed is like a beautiful little star whose light goes out and on and on and on. Not ONE, not a SINGLE ONE valued kids over kid touchers as long as the kid toucher was transfem.

But I did see transmascs call it out. And it happened at the same time as a wave of anti transmasc posts and trans pride posts that went out of their way to exclude transmascs. No way to obscure the pattern any more, trans men were women and trans women were men. Each group was following the social patterns of the sex they started off as. Nobody was treating trans men like men or trans women like women either. All it did was give people "a good reason" to keep quiet when they see a man sexually abusing people.

[female-uncle]

Mine was a series of things, a lot of it amounting to terrible behavior from transwomen on and offline. I kept half-peaking, but because I was trans identified and medically transitioned, the truth was too painful and I kept trying to push it down.

My 'peak' came from the ISFF drama (as seems to be the case with many others), and lingering rage over the TME/TMA shit. I was searching one day for receipts on Tara Knight/bundleofstyx, and stumbled across a forum where others were talking about this stuff. I lingered for a while, talked to some women; the anonymity made me feel safe for the first time ever to talk freely about my feelings and experiences. I guiltily scrolled radblr for a while, and eventually after speaking with other women about the health and mental ramifications of being on T, I decided to just pull the trigger and say "fuck it, I can't do this shit anymore".

That was three months ago. I have been reading radical feminist lit and connecting with other women including detrans women. It's been scary and have lost quite a few irl friends just for daring to detransition (and I'm pretty crypto too lol). But I will take that any day over having to spend one more minute bending over backwards to serve men who do not respect me and who parade around in women's clothing acting like they know a single damn thing about what experiencing misogyny is like.

[aroseinthecrypt]

I'll join in on the others saying that it was the ISFF shit happening and it being defended while the Epstein files were still coming out that eventually did it for me. But if I'm being honest, it was a slow boil over the course of several years. (TW for sexual assault.)

screenshotting what I wrote so it won't be too easily searchable. it's actually so crazy that I endured all of this shit for so long because the "it's not the group, it's just this individual that's a creep and making everyone look bad! cis women do some vile things all the time too!" was such a load-bearing excuse within this ideology that was drilled into me over the years.

[grandiose-saturation]

I think the ISFF situation + just so many people lying to defend him and others like him made me leave. I peaked March 2nd, so this is all very fresh for me. Someone else made a post about desisted/detrans women who considered themselves transfeminist, and I was going to send an anon, but didn't end up sending it. I'll send screenshots of what I wrote, because I think a lot of it is relevant to me peaking:

[hiveswap]

Heartbreaking: the worst type of person you know made an excellent point

[yb-cringe]

[capricorn-season]

[anelimvix]

WTF ?🤯

[g1rluninterruptedd]

speaking of drag again, i don’t get why ppl aren’t allowed to be upset by trixie mattel’s old anne frank bit.

“everyone could laugh at fucked up stuff because life was fucked up”. i feel like some of you look through such a narrow, rose colored lens of “marginalized males can do anything they want without criticism, they are never wrong” and it’s unfortunately very prevalent in this community. life being fucked up does not give you the right to laugh at a bit of a real life young girl who was murdered in a genocide. this is disgusting, i don’t care if drag is meant to be weird and different, there is a line and this most definitely crosses it. it’s not “conservative” to say that you shouldn’t make a mockery of a child.

[nukeyyy]

he also dressed up as gypsy rose blanchard once for halloween and performed on stage like this btw.

[g1rluninterruptedd]

i knew there was something else, thank you. honestly at what point does one draw the line and stop excusing mockeries of people as “art”? i have opinions on drag and i don’t necessarily like it but im generally fine when it’s just makeup and a dress. but once this kind of shit starts, it just seems like the point is to be offensive but don’t worry it’s “cunty!” 😒

[cerceos-deactivated20160308]

Calvin and Hobbes - It’s July Already

[cheaphalloweencostume]

what is biblical skincare can anyone tell me

[enba-and-luka]

[lateleviathan]

THIS IS NOT THE END OF STOPKILLINGGAMES

THERE'S A WAY TO BYPASS THE COMMISSION AND PEOPLE ARE ALREADY WORKING ON IT

[roguesynapses]

Tldw; there is majority support in the European Parliament for a bill that would cover most of SKG's issues, and if passed this would bypass the decision of the Commission. There are also ongoing lawsuits in France and other places that would likely lead to some legislation. There is also a bill being worked on in California that wouldn't stop current games from being killed, but would stop future games from being killed