uhhhh

they/them | lurker | nb transfem | 21 (mdni)

[spiteyote-resurrected]

the muzzle stays on

links🔗

[pawtheticpuppyboy]

I think when a sub says "you can do whatever you want to me" what they're actually wanting is to not make decisions anymore, and they think by saying this they can foist the decision making off on the dom without having to do any of the work beforehand. But unfortunately to get to the Not Making Choices part of kink you do in fact have to make a Lot Of Choices beforehand and communicate those choices to your partner. This is an essential part of the process and skipping it is both unsafe and unfair for whoever you're playing with.

Not Making Choices is the reward for communicating clearly, not the default

[pavizi]

saw the tadc finale. it was really good. everyone on the internet is clinically fucking insane. i am never engaging in the discussion of media by/for transfems that is not in a space primarily populated by transfems. i think over the past two days i have blocked legitimately like 100+ people for being incapable of extending basic empathy or using their ears and eyeballs

[kayla-denker]

Hey, you, cis girl that's very (correctly) vocal about women being allowed to talk about their periods, do you include trans women in that?

I ask because every single time I've tried to talk about it to anyone that isn't a trans woman they get fucking angry. Which has caused me to have to just suffer in silence every single month. So I really relate to cis women when they talk about literally the exact same thing; being shamed by everyone around them their whole lives for talking about their periods, so they just suffer in silence every month as it negatively impacts their work and social lives. But I don't even feel like I can voice that I am literally dealing with the same exact thing because most of y'all react like you want to throw me in front of a bus for saying it, even those of you who act like your such big great transfem allies.

[kayla-denker]

I guess I'll take this opportunity to talk about trans women periods. The first thing any tme person thinks when they hear this is always "how can trans women have periods? They don't have uteruses!"

The answer is: the uterus isn't what causes your period, it is effected by your period. What causes your period and what causes trans women's periods is the same thing: the endocrine system.

HRT changes the sex of your endocrine system. Feminizing HRT makes it a female endocrine system, giving us a 28-day hormone cycle just like cis women. At the end of that cycle, the hypothalamus floods the body with prostaglandins. Those are what cause all but one of the period symptoms, because they make muscles inflame and contract. They are what make the uterus shed its lining, they are what cause intestinal cramps, they are what cause body aches, they are what cause headaches and migraines. The only period symptom not causes by the release of prostaglandins throughout the body is depression, and that is caused by your endocrine system simply not processing as much estrogen and from simply feeling like shit.

So, the only symptoms trans women don't get every 28 days is menstrual cramps, because yes we do not menstruate since we don't have uteruses. But migraines, depression, body aches, intestinal cramps, and the infamous "period shits" don't exactly add up to us having any better of a time. Except we have to pretend that we're fine and nothing is different because no one believes that we get periods, not even cis women.

"But you can't call it a period then because that refers to MENSTRUATION!" is another one I hear all the time. This is incorrect. You use the word "period" instead of just "menstruation" because it doesn't just refer to menstruation. It refers to a period at the end of the hormone cycle where we experience a host of symptoms. And not all cis women experience all of the symptoms that encompass the period. Not all cis women get migraines, or body aches, or have severe depression. If a cis woman gets a hysterectomy she doesn't menstruate either! In that instance she experiences an identical period to what trans women experience. Yet, I doubt you'd insist that cis women who've had hysterectomies don't have periods.

[kayla-denker]

Oh, another thing that I personally discovered after bottom surgery: vaginal odor changes for trans women during our periods too. I was not expecting that because I always thought it was just from menstruation. But nope, the ph levels of a trans woman's vagina are the same of as a cis woman's vagina, and it changes during our periods just the same.

[girlstinkgood]

The lesbian pervert tattoo artist will do your piece for free if you let her huff some armpit or bulge, but she will pitch a tent every time you whimper or groan from the needle

[max-if-they-were-horny]

She can fuck me afterwards if she wants,

[interestingmistakes]

Reblogging this manually. Op doesn't want credit for fear of being terminated.

[left-lateral-incisor]

[ID: A picture of the progress pride flag. The chevron with the stripes for trans people and people of color, as well as the intersex flag, have been replaced with the Tumblr "This content has been removed for violating Tumblr's Community Guidelines." /End ID]

[wirelessmousegirl]

There inventing a new kind of sadness and its called "the look in a trans woman's eye when she looks at a public swimming pool"

[hockeydiva]

my collection

[b0tster]

rave time 🚨💃🚨

[ifitbleedsbiteharder]

"my son turned ou-" shut the fuck up cunt thats my daughter not yours

[pleasecometomybonfire]

Orhoq after eating a seal

[b0tster]

out n about 🪄✨️🔆

[loveridden1999]

top 3 hobbies for young adults:

1. borrowing misery from future

2. carrying grief of the past

3. agonizing over the present

[maidthings]

we can play a fun game where you pick some trait you think is your immutable self, and I can carve it out of you and leave it sitting uselessly in a surgical tray. Its all just meat, nothing more, nothing less

[drowsy-corpsegirl]

Mom who runs a porn blog where she posts nudes and videos of herself getting fucked. Shes mutuals with her daughter but has no idea it's her own daughter's blog.

Pervy daughter who knows full well shes following her Mom's nasty porn blog. She sends Momma anons and DMs her videos of her jerking off to all her Mom's posts and they horny chat but the entire time Mom just thinks its some random internet tgirl and not her own daughter.

[girldixieflatline]

pov i got hard at the sleepover

[it/its] follow my backup @loserlewd

[boringkate]

Boots Riley making a porno: So it's gonna seem like it's a scene about a girl getting gangbanged by mechanics at an auto repair shop, but when you skip forward to the anal you find out the mechanics are aliens and most of the work they do is on space ships that were intentionally designed to be unrepairable to keep aliens buying new models of ships and so they're getting hurt trying to work on those things. By the time we get to the blowbang at the end she'll have gotten the workers to unionize and go on strike. There's also gonna be some stuff in there about food deserts. Because the guys aren't eating well and their cum could taste better. Also minotaurs.