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Elliot | NB | Preferred: they/them | 23 I'm just trying my best.

[isuggestforcemasc]

I will continue posting in favour of there being fewer people like that

[godfrey-the-chaos-duck]

god my heart is fucking breaking for all these people THERE IS STILL TIME DO YOU HEAR ME

IT ISN'T TOO LATE AS LONG AS YOU'RE ALIVE

[boyslit]

hi everybody i started HRT at 35 so like don't even despair

being in ur twenties makes u feel like 30 is a brick wall u either fly over or crash into but i promise u it's a door and it opens up into the rest of ur life like getting past the prologue of an open world game

[boyslit]

very important addition from @thatsladyfaggottoyou ty <3

[postilionstruckbylightning]

“#dum spiro spero”.

One of my favourite Latin sayings. While I breathe, I hope.

[nattousan]

*doom music starts to play* I actually kindof like scheduling these kinds of appointments now...

but seriously Fellas, don't forget to schedule a pap smear every couple of years just in case. If you still have a cervix you can still get cervical cancer. ilu

this has been a psa

[nattousan]

i've had this as an idea since 2017 btw

[nattousan]

damn, tumblr says my art is ass and trans people is eye strain so no blaze for me :\

it'd be a shame if this...

blazed the old fashion way...

[unknought]

A few years ago a roommate abruptly decided to move out to live with her boyfriend, and I ended up spending half a year sharing an apartment with someone I had never met before: an Egyptian girl with very limited English.

She was confused by my appearance and asked me “boy or girl?” It took me a while to understand what she was saying, but eventually she got the point across, and I told her that I was a girl. She seemed unsatisfied, and I explained that I was transgender. Unsurprisingly, she didn’t know the word.

We ended communicating by typing our respective sentences into Google Translate. Unfortunately, whatever the Arabic word for “transgender” is, it wasn’t a word she knew either. Eventually I ended up typing in “I used to be a boy but it made me unhappy so I decided to be a girl.” She stared at it for a moment then asked “You are happy now?” I said yes, and she smiled and looked thoughtful.

A couple hours later she came up to me and said “You and me, we are sisters,” and gave me a hug. “You say you are girl, you are girl.”

[birdblogwhichisforbirds-deactiv]

Can I share this in non-tumblr spaces?

[little-bloodied-angel]

Each story like this warms my heart a little more

[willgrahamscock]

[scramratz]

[raspberryfries]

two days until the biggest crossover event of the year, easter sunday and trans day of visibility (sincerely, a catholic transmasc)

[antlerlad]

happy tdov my loves. don't let anyone else define your transness for you.

help trans women evacuate gaza

[scramratz]

[dragoncarrion]

Anytime i see a bunch of pride flags i have to restrain myself from saying "where mexico" bc i doubt anyone will know I'm referencing this

[tortol]

picture i got at pride last week; here mexico

[ellie-insertsurnamehere]

This is very dumb but hey

[azulcrescent]

I do a little silly

[cephalopod-celabrator]

J. K. Rowling and Neil Gaiman are such a funny contrast to me, like Rowling: Oh, and by the way, I put gay characters in my books. People: Is there anything... showing that? Rowling: No. Also trans women don't deserve respect People: wtf Gaiman: Here are some immortals that transcend all human concepts of gender and attraction who use a variety of pronouns, and also some clearly canon human queers. People: Are the immortals queer? Gaiman: That is an entirely valid way to view them. Other people: Ugh, pushing a modern woke agenda. It used to be- Gaiman: Fuck you

[etherealspacejelly]

this is your gentle reminder to stop fighting against your adhd and instead structure your life around it

buy a pack of chapsticks and put one in the pocket of all of your coats and jackets because you always forget to bring one and chapped lips is sensory hell

leave important things where you can see them. if they go in a box or a drawer you will forget they exist

put any appointments or deadlines in your phone calendar As Soon As you get them. set a reminder for a week before, a day before, an hour before, as many as you need as often as you need them.

when that little voice in your head says "i dont need to write that down, ill remember it" that is the devil talking!!! write it down anyway!!

plan for down time. have a few hours at the end of every day to just do fun stuff like engage in your hyperfixations. even if you didnt get all of your work done that day, have the rest anyway. you probably spent the whole day beating yourself up for not doing what you Should be doing, so you still need the break.

if you never eat vegetables because its too much effort to chop and cook them, get the frozen or canned shit. it doesnt go off for ages and you just have to microwave it. theres no point buying fresh vegetables if they just keep going off and being left to rot in the bottom of your fridge

if you struggle to decide what to have for dinner every day, take the decision out of it. choose a set of meals and eat those on rotation until you get sick of them, then choose some new ones and do it again.

its not stupid if it works! our brains literally have a chemical deficiency. you are allowed to accommodate yourself. go forth and stop making your life more difficult than it has to be because "this shouldn't be this hard". it is hard, so make it easier.

[memewhore]

[triplefoul24-deactivated2022112]

Wig

[loyle-trash]

pokemon

[stvlti]

[bonersniper]

The legendaries for the next pokemon game look interesting

[enbycrip]

EDITED TO ADD: Sources from the OP in the comments

[nyxisart]

You know what? I'm gonna art dump all my old comics here.

[grymoria]

To any Transmascs questioning if they're even Transmasc because of how "feminine" you present yourself, let me remind you

💄Men from various cultures have worn makeup for centuries

🩷Pink was once considered a masculine color

👠Heels were originally made for men

👗Men centuries ago use to wear tights, skirts, wigs, and dresses

Just because you're not fitting society's standards of what is considered masculine nowadays doesn't mean you're less masculine or not masculine at all.

[b-elizabeth-not-brassica]

I wear a skirt every single day and I consider myself a transmasc non-binary lesbian.

I think I confuse people (which is fun) because I look feminine and I like to crochet and do other feminine activities but it’s not actually feminine to me. That’s just what I like.

lol my ‘tism prefers skirts over any other article of clothing for the bottom half. Also, skirts are cute, as long as they have pockets.

I primarily wear @mayakern and @freshhotflavors skirts and they’re size inclusive and have enormous pockets and so so many cool designs!

So yeah, do whatever the fuck you want.

It literally doesn’t matter if it’s masculine or feminine.

All that matters is if it makes you happy.

[mayakern]

aw i’m so happy to hear my skirts are a staple for you!

i feel like if an article of clothing is comfortable and makes you feel good, then that’s all that matters. gender is nuanced and highly personal and so gender expression should be the same. i always get a special joy hearing about any gender euphoria my clothing helps to cough engender.